Public service announcement: When you were a tank top this is what every non-homoman thinks of you.
(m.youtube.com)https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=cNsEvSyUd74Seriously. Don't be gay. Cover those pits. No one except a homo wants to see them.
Don't embarrass yourself.
No one will tell you except me.
You're a man. You aren't meant to "feel free" and loose and "letting it all hang out".
Stoicism, steadiness, understated strength, decorum. These are the traits of a man.
Flamboyant dress. Revealing dress. Flippant clothing. These are for women.