https://medium.com/illumination/why-do-some-middle-class-people-act-arrogantly-ec5b35336a99If you have ever been on the receiving end of an arrogant remark from someone who is middle class, you are not alone.
There are people I know who would look at me from head to toe. It was a previous batchmate who took further studies in law.
The guy had an ego issue — so, meeting him after several years — I was not surprised that he is the very person with a high ego.
Some in our neighborhood act as if they bought you already.
Simply looking at their faces — tempts me to say unloving words to them. Good thing that I can still hold on to my lever if I do not watch out for my behavior — they eventually get into my skin.
Whenever I fall into the trap, I slap myself to shift my attention to other things.
It is a phenomenon studied by sociologists and psychologists alike, and there are a few theories as to why it still happens today.
Read on to learn more about why some middle-class people act arrogantly.
Theory #1: They’re trying to distance themselves from the working class.
The Middle-class upbringing was significantly different from their working-class counterparts.
They had parents who were professionals, opportunities to travel — and learn new things — and a general feeling of security in their future.
Working-class people often grew up in poorer neighborhoods, with parents who worked multiple jobs to make ends meet.
As a result, middle-class people may view themselves as “better than” the working class. If you meet these people, acknowledge them — and let them be. Watch them curiously as they play your script.
Theory #2: They feel like they have to prove something.
Many middle-class people also feel to prove their worth to the upper class.
After all, they did not grow up with the same advantages those in the upper class did. As a result, they may act arrogantly to try and fit in or impress those who are upper class.
I know people who try to buy stuff that the upper class has. They are willing to go all out and take a loan to satisfy others around them.
Good thing that I did not fall for the same trap.
Theory #3: They are insecure.
It is also worth noting that many middle-class people act arrogantly because they are insecure.
Remember, they didn’t grow up with the same advantages as those in the upper class, so they may feel like they’re always playing catch-up.
It can lead to feelings of insecurity, which may manifest in arrogant behavior.
Key takeaways
There is no question — arrogance is a turn-off, regardless of what social class someone belongs to
However, it is vital to understand that there may be underlying reasons why some middle-class people act arrogantly.
Whether they are trying to distance themselves from the working class or because they feel like they have something to prove, there is usually more going on than meets the eye.
