"You've been wanting" "You've been having"
(whatever) So, you've been wanting
NO. I HAVE NOT BEEN WANTING.
I WANT. OR I HAVE WANTED.
Why the fuck are people talking like this?
So, you've been having xyz?
NO.
"So you have xyz?"
You've been trying?
"You've tried!"
This type of speaking just comes off as mega soy to me. Even if women do it. Maybe this is some american beat around the bush bullshit that clashes with my upbringing, kind of like the dance of asking strangers you don't know how they're doing and expecting the answer of good while simultaneously giving no shit about how they're doing. But I do know that I don't like it. It is indirect and wishy washy.
Is there a name for this type of soyspeak? Does this annoy anyone else or am I just being weird?