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If - rudyard kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

I’m really sorry. How old are you? Do you have a steady job or are you in school?

Yeah because drinking is really going to help you resolve your issues.

Dude.

You should have stayed out of your mom's business until you had saved up money and left.

You are using thinking about her as an excuse not to get a job and get on your own feet.

You can get a job in one day at a million places for $15 an hour now. McDonald's and everybody else is paying 15 bucks an hour and they're all looking for people. You should get a job tomorrow. They'll start you that day and they'll even start paying you that day. A lot of places now pay you the first day and pay you daily. Go to the thrift shop and buy yourself a bunch of comforters and start sleeping in the backseat of your car. Join planet fitness or some other gym for access to a shower.

Go get yourself a storage unit somewhere that you can put your stuff in and maybe it'll have an electric plug that you can use during the day. Go into one of those environmentally controlled ones so it's not too hot or too cold. You can just sit in the chair in there and turn the light on use their plug and do whatever you need to do during the day when you're not working.

It's time to stop worrying about your mother and start getting your own act together. Now if you don't go get a job tomorrow then you're just wasting everybody's time here.

I'm telling you every place pays $15 an hour to start now minimum. Go to the thrift shop if you don't have any decent looking clothes and get some and go get yourself a job tomorrow. Start working the next day. Start getting the money that night. Buy some comforters and sleep in your car. It's just trouble to go back to your mom's house.

If you have any friends at all or any relatives if you can't sleep on your couch but sleep in your car. If you're in a cold environment drive South with whatever money you have so you can sleep in your car where it's warmer.

Get a job anywhere in one day now. Everybody's looking for people. There's no excuses. If you look weird and you have strange hair and all that weird stuff and cut it clean your act up so you can get a job.

Have a couple beers but don't get shitfaced. I deleted my whole "break all contact with her" reply on the other post, but it's obviously the only move. Avoid doing anything stupid while you're still there. (and after)

Sorry buddy.
My son knocked up a piece of shit woman. Now my son and grandson live with me and my wife. I've spent a whole lot of time holding my grandson while he cried because he didn't have a mother.

If your dad has any brothers get in touch with them.
If I was in your position I would go to an uncle. Dad's brother would be my first pick. Have a real serious talk with him. You might be surprised. They might be hoping that you get away from her.
You never know until you try.

I recommend mending bridges enough to prepare a clean separation.

Everyone has their vice. You have alcohol, SSRIs, and mooching off your mother. Maybe they should lock up everyone who drinks before they commit a dui, or everyone on SSRIs before they commit a school shooting.

If you can, try to apply for 0% cards like citi etc. You can run those cards up for a while, so you can get on your feet. And also I had a buddy do that and got em up to $80k and niggered out and declared bankruptcy.

The bankruptcy only stays on your credit I think he said 5 years. So if you're not planning on buying a house in 5 years, might be a worthwhile endeavor to rip the card kikes a new one.

LMMFAO @ the Z cuck
Any way you could possibly eat a bullet tonight instead of wasting alcohol?
Your mom sold pics of you too

Try to give all these burdens to Jesus.

Psalm 55:22 Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.

Attempt to reconcile with the extended family - and dox / name and shame your mother for continuing to have a 'relationship' with a convicted pedophile after you move out of State.

Find out her passwords, find out how to cash her cheques etc, then stuff her in the deep freeze.

It is what it is. She chose her side.