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[UPDATE]: I'm The Anon Who Found Out About My Mom Being In a Relationsip With a Guy Who Was Convicted of Possession of CP

submitted by anon to AnonTalk 1 monthMar 11, 2024 19:16:15 ago (+12/-1)     (AnonTalk)

Yesterday I made a long post about discovering that my narcissistic psychotic mom is in a relationship with a piece of shit asshole who was charged with 8 counts of CP & still talks to him a few times a week when he calls her from prison.

https://www.voat.xyz/viewpost?postid=65ed8e690a49f


Well, I confronted her about it and she lost her shit and called the cops on me and had me kicked out. I'm currently staying at a shitty motel for the night.

The cops were actually really nice and sympathetic to me about this issue, and told me that since I've already established residency at her home, that she needs to properly evict me since it's a civil matter.

I'm gonna continue to stay until I save up enough money to buy a conversion van & move out of state. I'm cutting all ties with her and will not speak to her unless it's absolutely necessary.

I can't believe I have a such a piece of shit for a mother. I have no other immediate family as I'm the only child and my dad passed away when I was a baby.
I have aunts, uncles and cousins but they're all estranged towards me due to my mother being a piece of shit, so they automatically think I am too.

I'm mentally exhausted and 100% heartbroken and my spirits are at the lowest. I'm trying so hard not to drink but I already opened a beer and sitting here typing this all out before I decide whether or not I wanna get shitfaced tonight.



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[ - ] anon 3613474 4 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 20:49:56 ago (+4/-0)

Sorry buddy.
My son knocked up a piece of shit woman. Now my son and grandson live with me and my wife. I've spent a whole lot of time holding my grandson while he cried because he didn't have a mother.

If your dad has any brothers get in touch with them.
If I was in your position I would go to an uncle. Dad's brother would be my first pick. Have a real serious talk with him. You might be surprised. They might be hoping that you get away from her.
You never know until you try.

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 1 point 1 monthMar 12, 2024 04:17:09 ago (+1/-0)

My father killed himself.
Do you have any other suggestions for me?

[ - ] anon 1271312 3 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 19:27:01 ago (+3/-0)

If - rudyard kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

[ - ] anon 2882836 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 23:44:48 ago (+1/-1)*

Kipling is gigachad.
Great response to this whinge-fest.

[ - ] anon 2915176 0 points 1 monthMar 13, 2024 15:26:57 ago (+0/-0)

Find out her passwords, find out how to cash her cheques etc, then stuff her in the deep freeze.

It is what it is. She chose her side.

[ - ] Sector2 2 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 20:22:35 ago (+2/-0)

Have a couple beers but don't get shitfaced. I deleted my whole "break all contact with her" reply on the other post, but it's obviously the only move. Avoid doing anything stupid while you're still there. (and after)

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 1 point 1 monthMar 11, 2024 20:40:08 ago (+1/-0)

Thanks. I only have a 12 pack of beast. This is gonna be my dinner too.

[ - ] bobdole9 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 21:28:01 ago (+0/-0)

Should be sufficient to start your way up in the morning.

[ - ] anon 3098236 2 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 20:09:48 ago (+3/-1)

You can get a job in one day at a million places for $15 an hour now. McDonald's and everybody else is paying 15 bucks an hour and they're all looking for people. You should get a job tomorrow. They'll start you that day and they'll even start paying you that day. A lot of places now pay you the first day and pay you daily. Go to the thrift shop and buy yourself a bunch of comforters and start sleeping in the backseat of your car. Join planet fitness or some other gym for access to a shower.

Go get yourself a storage unit somewhere that you can put your stuff in and maybe it'll have an electric plug that you can use during the day. Go into one of those environmentally controlled ones so it's not too hot or too cold. You can just sit in the chair in there and turn the light on use their plug and do whatever you need to do during the day when you're not working.

It's time to stop worrying about your mother and start getting your own act together. Now if you don't go get a job tomorrow then you're just wasting everybody's time here.

I'm telling you every place pays $15 an hour to start now minimum. Go to the thrift shop if you don't have any decent looking clothes and get some and go get yourself a job tomorrow. Start working the next day. Start getting the money that night. Buy some comforters and sleep in your car. It's just trouble to go back to your mom's house.

If you have any friends at all or any relatives if you can't sleep on your couch but sleep in your car. If you're in a cold environment drive South with whatever money you have so you can sleep in your car where it's warmer.

Get a job anywhere in one day now. Everybody's looking for people. There's no excuses. If you look weird and you have strange hair and all that weird stuff and cut it clean your act up so you can get a job.

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 20:20:04 ago (+0/-0)*

I don't have a car. If I did I wouldn't be living with her in the first place.
I have 3 real friends and only one lives nearby. The other 2 live a few hours away.

[ - ] anon 5751649 0 points 1 monthMar 12, 2024 02:31:21 ago (+0/-0)

Attempt to reconcile with the extended family - and dox / name and shame your mother for continuing to have a 'relationship' with a convicted pedophile after you move out of State.

[ - ] anon 1722288 0 points 1 monthMar 12, 2024 01:42:20 ago (+0/-0)

Try to give all these burdens to Jesus.

Psalm 55:22 Cast your burden on the LORD, and he will sustain you; he will never permit the righteous to be moved.

[ - ] anon 2421755 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 21:33:13 ago (+0/-0)

If you can, try to apply for 0% cards like citi etc. You can run those cards up for a while, so you can get on your feet. And also I had a buddy do that and got em up to $80k and niggered out and declared bankruptcy.

The bankruptcy only stays on your credit I think he said 5 years. So if you're not planning on buying a house in 5 years, might be a worthwhile endeavor to rip the card kikes a new one.

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 22:02:55 ago (+0/-0)*

Sounds like a good idea but I have about a 600 credit score. Is that good or bad in this shitty economy since there's over 1 trillion in credit card debt in the US.

[ - ] anon 2421755 0 points 1 monthMar 12, 2024 16:52:16 ago (+0/-0)

Depends, just apply for cards and keep em for a rainy day. Also, by having the cards, you build your credit. Just make sure they have no annual fees. I have about $450k in available credit and by credit score is 740-750

[ - ] anon 3351028 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 21:30:21 ago (+0/-0)

Everyone has their vice. You have alcohol, SSRIs, and mooching off your mother. Maybe they should lock up everyone who drinks before they commit a dui, or everyone on SSRIs before they commit a school shooting.

[ - ] anon 1866071 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 21:26:18 ago (+0/-0)

I recommend mending bridges enough to prepare a clean separation.

[ - ] anon 3098236 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 20:05:49 ago (+0/-0)

Yeah because drinking is really going to help you resolve your issues.

Dude.

You should have stayed out of your mom's business until you had saved up money and left.

You are using thinking about her as an excuse not to get a job and get on your own feet.

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 20:31:27 ago (+0/-0)*

I know drinking isn't doing me any good but I need something to take the edge off.

I'm on SSDI and work a part-time job Thurs-Sat at a liquor store owned by a middle east Indian family. They're nice to me (except for their douchebag zoomer son) but I don't want to bother them with my problems because they're always arguing amongst each other about family stuff.
My mom's business is my business because she's the only immediate family I have. She doesn't need to be in a relationship with a pedo. But if she chooses to be then that's on her and I'll give her an ultimatum for her to cut all ties with him otherwise I'm cutting all ties with her. If she chooses him over me then I know for sure that she never loved me and she would rather be in a relationship with a pedo then have a good bond with her own flesh and blood.

[ - ] anon 1866950 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 19:55:23 ago (+0/-0)

I’m really sorry. How old are you? Do you have a steady job or are you in school?

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 1 point 1 monthMar 11, 2024 20:35:01 ago (+1/-0)

I'm in my 40s & on disability for bipolar, anxiety & major depression & possibly a personality disorder. I'm not in school but I currently work part-time a family owned liquor store run by middle eastern Indian Buddists.

[ - ] anon 3925952 -1 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 21:42:13 ago (+1/-2)

LMMFAO @ the Z cuck
Any way you could possibly eat a bullet tonight instead of wasting alcohol?
Your mom sold pics of you too

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 22:00:30 ago (+0/-0)

STFU faggot. You have no idea how this feels you keyboard cowboy.

[ - ] anon 1933939 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 23:42:56 ago (+0/-0)

Are you new here, dont reply to obvious retard bait

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 0 points 1 monthMar 12, 2024 00:28:20 ago (+0/-0)

No. I've been a legit goat before 2020.

[ - ] anon 3925952 -1 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 23:01:55 ago (+0/-1)

Just like the trans faggotts.
It's a fuckin mental disorder.
Weak emotional delusions simular to suicide.
I know more than you think.
Weakness must be culled one way or another.
Simple truth

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 0 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 23:21:38 ago (+0/-0)

You mean a tranny faggot like yourself? You brought it up.

[ - ] anon 3925952 -1 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 23:31:52 ago (+0/-1)

Your daddy teach you to punk out like that.
Pathetic

[ - ] anon 4275403 [op] 1 point 1 monthMar 12, 2024 00:25:01 ago (+1/-0)

Explain your problems in ENGLISH you dipshit

[ - ] anon 3925952 -1 points 1 monthMar 11, 2024 23:35:35 ago (+0/-1)

"Feels"
Emotional
Mental Disorder clown shoes.
You post looking for answers and the problem is YOU.
Now you gonna hate and attempt to blame something besides YOURSELF.
FUCKING MENTAL CASE FOR SURE.