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Fatherhood

Community for : 10 months

Share your experiences of the joys and challenges of fatherhood.

Ask dads of Voat for advice or perspective on raising children and leading a family.

Offer fellow goats the benefit of your experience as a father or how someone in your life taught you valuable lessons.

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Nobody respects a fat dad.     (files.catbox.moe)
submitted by bobdole9 to Fatherhood 6 days ago (+51/-0)
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Eat the shit sandwich fast...     (files.catbox.moe)
submitted by shitface9000 to Fatherhood 2 months ago (+49/-1)
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Where are all the men?     (Fatherhood)
submitted by MaryXmas to Fatherhood 2 months ago (+10/-2)
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What is going on? Everywhere I look people are so incredibly feminised. The church, the schools, the public, public and private corporations... women, women, niggers, and women. Where are the strong men.. on the shop floors, with their local nigger bitch giving them orders.

I think my local gun range is the ONLY place I can find actual men.
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Mrs. Her0ns envious jealousy     (Fatherhood)
submitted by Her0n to Fatherhood 4 months ago (+6/-0)
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My oldest son just past the two year mark last month. He's begun to excitedly shout "Daddy!" As he comes running to greet me with a hug every morning.

The best response his mother receives is an emphatic "Mama!" acompanied by a hug when he wants food.

I've tried telling her it's great that way because the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but she's not buying it.

Have any of you gentlemen faced this and how did you handle it? I'd like to help ease her mind because this boy clearly loves us both dearly.

She still feels rejected even though he hugs her with great passion daily as well.

Editorial thanks:

This was all helpful, everyone's input has been what I needed to make sure she's shown that she's doing an amazing job, even if she thinks otherwise. Thank you all
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Indiana baby is released from hospital after being bitten by RATS 50 times, with infant losing so much blood he almost died     (www.dailymail.co.uk)
submitted by paul_neri to Fatherhood 6 months ago (+2/-3)
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Sundays are my favorite day     (Fatherhood)
submitted by Her0n to Fatherhood 6 months ago (+18/-0)
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This is how I worship life, what do you guys do to enjoy being a father?

I got to spend my morning meditating on the past week. Make plans for this week to be better than the last.

I fried up some pig bacon, deer sausages, chicken eggs, waffles from scratch, and freshly squeezed orange/apple juice.

My oldest woke up and started asking for his breakfast which I happily obliged. He ate way more than I expected but that gave him the energy to get to work chicken chasing.

Mrs. Her0n is taking a much needed nap after she was puked on three times last night by our youngest boy. I want her to be ready for my dinner plans for her tonight. I'm going to take her to a mom and pop restaurant down the street from us that operates their business directly from their personal home. It's like spending dinner at the neighbors without any drama/expectations (other than paying) and the food is simply amazing! (I like my wife's cooking better still though)

I love what I've carved from life for myself. Taking care of my family is the best thing I've ever done with myself.

My favorite part of this day so far was when my wife said she wants to make our third child once the second starts walking.
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If-     (Fatherhood)
submitted by MaryXmas to Fatherhood 7 months ago (+3/-0)
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If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or, being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise;

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with wornout tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on”;

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings—nor lose the common touch;
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run—
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!
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Who is the best male role model you can think of?      (Fatherhood)
submitted by MaryXmas to Fatherhood 8 months ago (+14/-0)
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I really can't think of many. Andrew Jackson? Hemingway?
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What do young men in our society need from other men?     (Fatherhood)
submitted by MaryXmas to Fatherhood 8 months ago (+18/-0)
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So from the other poll, around 50% of goats have seriously considered or attempted suicide. This is unacceptable and I feel like we are failing the men and boys in our lives. What is the solution or what should we be thinking about as men?

Scouts? Clubs? Bowling leagues? I know even having a father in the household is a huge step forward.
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New fathers can suffer from postnatal depression too     (www.dailymail.co.uk)
submitted by paul_neri to Fatherhood 8 months ago (+1/-6)
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@Ragar; @Fascinus...look away! - in South Korea, “no-kids zones” have become remarkably popular in recent years.     (edition.cnn.com)
submitted by paul_neri to Fatherhood 9 months ago (+0/-2)
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Huzzah for what father's day is REALLY all about      (files.catbox.moe)
submitted by big_fat_dangus to Fatherhood 9 months ago (+19/-3)
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Dads need to be a threat to anyone who would hurt their children     (twitter.com)
submitted by AugustineOfHippo2 to Fatherhood 9 months ago (+32/-1)
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This Be The Verse BY PHILIP LARKIN     (www.poetryfoundation.org)
submitted by paul_neri to Fatherhood 9 months ago (+2/-0)
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My wife just delivered our second boy     (Fatherhood)
submitted by Her0n to Fatherhood 9 months ago (+99/-0)
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She delivered him au natural, on all fours like an animal!

From labor to birth in less than three hours. Veiled birth again.

Baby boy is almost 8 pounds, 20 inches, healthy and happy. Mom is doing fantastic and I've never been more impressed by her. I'm so full of joy and excitement, I left the car running outside the midwives house! He husband helped me out with the car. I was a bit distracted at that moment.

Yet another White supremacist has been born!
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A reminder to all Goats. original content     (Fatherhood)
submitted by gaperglory to Fatherhood 9 months ago (+56/-1)
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I just wanted to send a message out there to all you niggers. The events of the last 6 months have been very eye opening for me and I just wanted to share something.
Life will be hard. And it will only get harder. The (((obstacles))) we are all dealing with beat us down endlessly and tend to blackpill us.
Don't wait to start a family. Don't wait for that perfect woman with the perfect past and incredible looks. Just make sure she's white and you can trust her, then get to making babies.

I always thought having a wife and kids would be great because it would be fulfilling. I've recently come to learn that this Disney faggot fantasy has nothing to do with family.

Having children and a wife is important because when your time comes, it comes. And nothing can stop it. The choice you DO have is between a nigger nurse named dashiki who pockets your pain pills and laughs at your suffering with her nigger kin, or the family you DID decide to have when you had the chance who will do everything they can to make sure you're as comfortable as drugs and familial support can make you.
I don't mean to sound corny, but it never occurred to me how important a man's children will be to them at the end.

Don't let your desires for an Aryan 10 stop you from approaching the more trustworthy Aryan 7 with a way better personality and a nurturing disposition.
Make white babies, not just for 1488, but for yourself. They may just come in handy at the end of this shitshow we call life.

Nigger Nigger White Power
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Do you regret having kids?      (Fatherhood)
submitted by paul_neri to Fatherhood 9 months ago (+3/-8)
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bobdole12 is here     (Fatherhood)
submitted by bobdole9 to Fatherhood 10 months ago (+24/-0)
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Third White male of the family; he was three weeks early and an emergency cesarean required, but we're here.

Only time I have not been present for the birth...those 50s cartoons of the dad pacing and burning a pack of cigarettes from stress is no joke.
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Thoughts on child discipline     (Fatherhood)
submitted by MaryXmas to Fatherhood 10 months ago (+17/-0)
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I have a 2 year old boy and I am generally responsible for discipline for misbehavior.
For something like touching the stove, I certainly warn, don't touch the stove but I would let my boy touch the stove to learn the lesson.
Don't smack the dog or don't kick the chickens is a lesson of empathy, and clean up your toys might be better identified as a lesson in morals.
How do you set guardrails for discipline? Is discipline the same as punishment?

I work to be authoritative but not authoritarian.

I have a weak father that was largely absent in discipline when I was growing up.
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My 2 year old learned about emotions at pre-school today.      (Fatherhood)
submitted by MaryXmas to Fatherhood 10 months ago (+6/-0)
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He was screaming "daddy angry! Daddy angry" as I tried to get him ready for bed. I had to leave the room for a moment before I taught him "daddy enraged".