It's genetical. Throughout history, the gene that made women take up a sword to defend her home against the "Rapist"/"Pillager" from the other tribe was "killed", so to speak, because these women obviously did not survive when taking up arms in defense. So the only gene that survived was the subverting one, the sneaky one, the liar and emotional manipulator. This is not to insult all women, but to say - they had to do it, to survive. We kinda have to talk about this in society to be honest.
