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Your kids must want to be near you

submitted by Razzoriel to Family 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 06:55:44 ago (+33/-1)     (Family)

If you are a just and loving father, your kids will love your mother too, but always want to be with you. Especially sons. When they become teens, their relationship with their father will base all their relationships forward. You being their safe harbor will mean they will always come to you when things get ugly.

Be there for your children. It means the world to them. And if they are not, dont despair; being just AND loving is better than being only one.


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[ - ] HeyJames 6 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 08:45:58 ago (+6/-0)

I'm bringing my dad a bunch of brisket today

[ - ] Belfuro 2 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 15:02:22 ago (+2/-0)

Parents in general have terrible relationship with kids.

This is because they outsourced parenting to strangers.
Kindy, school, babysitters, camps.

When parents become elderly karma strikes as adult offspring outsource elderly care to rest homes and abandonment.

Want to instead have a lifetime relationship with your kids?
Fucking raise them yourself you lazy selfish cunts.

Homeschool, take them to work. Take them on trips.
Be inseparable

[ - ] HeyJames 3 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 15:56:44 ago (+3/-0)

This is because they outsourced parenting to strangers.
Kindy, school, babysitters, camps

That's an upper middle class problem. We were too poor for all that. I spent plenty of quality time with my father growing up.

[ - ] Gowithit 2 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 17:00:06 ago (+2/-0)

The poor now get sent to camps, kinder,daycares. As an added bonus the parents can get extra money (pebt) since they send them.

[ - ] Razzoriel [op] 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 15:38:54 ago (+0/-0)

Bless you both.

[ - ] Peleg 3 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 09:08:36 ago (+3/-0)

My dad was one of the great ones. Mom was one of the great ones also. I had a grandmother that was a drug addiction, and she was great to her grandchildren.
When I had children of my own I tried very hard to raise them the way I was raised. They hate me and want nothing but distance from me now. I just can't understand it. I did everything the way my parents and grandparents did. Wasted on an ungrateful and foolish generation. They believe themselves to be perfect in every way. They just Know for a fact that everyone else is stupid and they are the only one that ever knew anything. Retardos all. They will really regret their stupidity one day, as they are starving to death while their own children are being sacrificed to moloch.

[ - ] DoughGoy 3 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 09:45:13 ago (+3/-0)

What is their age range? My oldest is nearly a teenager and he is starting to get kind of distant.

[ - ] Peleg 1 point 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 10:31:47 ago (+1/-0)

Teens "rebelling" against their parents is the norm these days. It's bullshit jew brainwashing, I know, but it happens. I figured they would grow out of it, but they didn't. They are in their 20's and 30's. Maybe they will come around when they get into their 40's.

[ - ] Razzoriel [op] 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 15:41:05 ago (+0/-0)

It was ALWAYS like this. Romans used to say bad spirits inhabited teenagers, but eventually left.

[ - ] Gowithit 2 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 10:03:06 ago (+2/-0)

Upvoting for the honesty.

Retardos all

yep.


as they are starving to death while their own children are being sacrificed to moloch

I've tried to prevent with nieces and nephews to no avail. They take and go about their merry ways.

[ - ] Sector2 2 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 12:56:09 ago (+2/-0)

The difference from the way your parents and grandparents did is probably that you raised them IN modern society. It's toxic for anyone without some kind of protective shell, which is most people.

[ - ] Peleg 3 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 15:22:53 ago (+3/-0)

Yeah. That's about the way I figure it. It doesn't make it any easier to deal with.

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 16:36:39 ago (+0/-0)

Except I have heard even the ones raised by parents in church and homeschooled, turn to be raging degenerates the moment they are of age and leave home

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 16:43:28 ago (+0/-0)

There are plenty of retarded people who go to church and homeschool. By retarded, I just mean too stupid to understand how to relate to others, including their children.

Except in cases of disease or damage, kids largely become the result of their parenting.

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 16:53:01 ago (+0/-0)

Sure, but if the man has done everything right and raised his kids with God and homeschooled them with no internet on phones, but the kids grow up and become degenerate faggots, what can we say he has done wrong? How can we blame him when he has done everything we promote?

[ - ] Sector2 1 point 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 17:08:59 ago (+1/-0)

If the man has "done everything right", then by definition he's done nothing wrong.

However, there are plenty of people who have little skill at effective parenting. When the kids experience the parent being a dumbass, a hypocrite, or an asshole, they're unlikely to take their beliefs very seriously.

[ - ] Razzoriel [op] 1 point 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 15:40:24 ago (+1/-0)

Always be there for them, so when they realize that you were a good father they will tell their story to your grandkids.

[ - ] Looneyskiproony 2 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 10:28:57 ago (+2/-0)

Unfortunately my son is a shithead.

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 20:24:01 ago (+0/-0)

Oh, hey dad. Didn't know you were on here.

[ - ] Leveraction 2 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 09:00:28 ago (+2/-0)

Fathers have far more to offer than the wamen.
My father was THE the greatest!

[ - ] beece 2 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 07:47:18 ago (+2/-0)

Fuck yeah.

[ - ] PhantomXLII 1 point 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 20:21:30 ago (+1/-0)

Yeah... Not the case with my father and I. If I'm talking to someone, 9/10 times it's my mother. We operate on the same wavelength. Dad's a more... Simple man. Almost crude, at times. Some of the stuff he does or says just makes Mom and I raise an eyebrow. 😂

That and he was pretty damn violent if you pissed him off. Now he's slowing down a bit, and finally taking his blood pressure meds, so that's good. He can still be a total dick at times.

Idk. I'm just more like my mother. We can just look at each other sometimes and say a paragraph's worth of words. Dad used to work at a prison so that's prooooobably part of it.

So yeah... Idk. There's still good memories here and there.

I don't know what kind of father I'd be. Granted, I won't know, but I'm not sure I'd be a good one.

[ - ] CoronaHoax 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 08:51:36 ago (+0/-0)

Must is a very liberaly take

[ - ] nibnab -2 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 13:07:02 ago (+0/-2)*

I have some hot takes for you plebes. Parenting doesn't matter all as much as parents like to believe. Especially Mothers. Read Evopsych, twin studies, David Buss. And before you faggots say it's a psyop understand they don't want this knowledge out in the wild. It goes against their wamyn good NWO. Genes are number one and transmit character and nature far more then parenting can. This is why wise unkle AH implemented Lebensborn. It's also why rabbi's switched kykish descent to matralinial several hundred years ago. That way you can separate the race from the harmful parenting of the mothers. It concentrates psycopathic (feminine) traits along the mitochondrial DNA line. Psychopathy is the primary trait of the ruling elite. So they are becoming the master race, and whites, who worship their mothers (mother of god catholicsm and jesus fag kykstianity) are becoming the slave race.

The take away is have as many white kids as possible and don't worry to much nature will take care of them.

[ - ] Ragnar 3 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 16:35:16 ago (+3/-0)

Thanks for regurgitating Stephen pinker and nasir taleb.
You must be late for your baby blood sucking

[ - ] prominent_proboscis -4 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 07:54:56 ago (+1/-5)*

love my boomer parents, but never had that safe harbor relationship with them. i had my head constantly bitten off growing up whenever speaking my mind. like a typical teenager, i just knew my parents were wrong about this and that. growing older, you are supposed to shed your teenage rebellious nature and appreciate why your parents are the way they are, except with me, it was more, holy shit these fucking boomers are fucking wrong about absolutely everything, are hellbent on sabotaging this planet before they leave, and mother fucker i am carrying their retarded genetic material.

my girl talks to her parents almost every day. i talk to mine maybe every other week, and have to pop a few back before doing so.

edit - oof triggered some boomers lmao

[ - ] PurpleDrank 5 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 08:59:10 ago (+5/-0)

Just call them your parents, no need to add "boomer" like some reddit insult. Otherwise why not call them your straight, white, boomer parents and hit all the buzz words?

[ - ] con77 4 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 08:38:32 ago (+4/-0)

The planet is not being sabotaged stupid propaganda slurping cunt

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 20:26:41 ago (+0/-0)

Alrighty conservacuck, allow me to introduce you to the jewish problem...

[ - ] con77 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 21:10:32 ago (+0/-0)

I thought you meant climate

[ - ] Razzoriel [op] 1 point 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 08:02:31 ago (+1/-0)

Only under very grave situations one must fully detach itself from their parents.

Ill make a post today about generational curses.

[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 16:49:35 ago (+1/-0)

I have such circumstance of my mother being a psychopath. I have been trying to detach for years. Recently achieved a higher separation but I have guilt. But I am not exaggerating in the very least, that woman has done me multiple wrongs and NEVER felt remorse or sadness. She’s the most selfish self absorbed narcissistic person to ever exist. My poor father has suffered for ages. And the worst part is he’s going to die before her and I won’t be able to see him

[ - ] Leveraction 1 point 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 09:03:15 ago (+1/-0)

How about this ....
Grow the fuck up and act your gd age not your dick size.
Appreciate your parents, the day will come son when they are no longer around!

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 3 monthsJan 29, 2024 20:27:39 ago (+0/-0)

The 30-30 has spoken.

Loudly, as usual.