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how do I deal with a narcissist sociopath? I tried the shutting up method and next thing you know they start yelling why I'm not talking to them and calling me a mute

submitted by anon to askanon 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 06:04:44 ago (+10/-1)     (askanon)



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[ - ] Her0n 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 5, 2023 00:06:02 ago (+0/-0)

No contact is the only method that works.

[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 19:35:52 ago (+1/-0)

You can start by not calling your mom “they”

[ - ] anon 1783417 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 13:19:32 ago (+1/-0)

Two Options:

A) Kill them

B) Leave

Option A is actually best for everybody, but risky for a lot of reasons.

Option B, you'll likely end up back here again with the same 2 options.

[ - ] anon 3780930 2 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 12:32:59 ago (+2/-0)

OP has finally started talking to women.

[ - ] anon 2846496 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 12:32:54 ago (+0/-0)

guise, wyt womens bad! I converted to islam and now she hate me. I sent our last $400 to my cult leader.

[ - ] anon 4094443 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 12:29:34 ago (+1/-0)

Be 100% direct and state you see their manipulation tactics and refuse to participate. You then have a few options:

Point out their tactics to others, and make sure they witness it and are present, to negate their ability to end-run you and get a mob after you. Demand reparations for any harm already done for you. Walk away and state you are done with them. Stay and "fight" by enforcing whatever boundaries you have and making them back off.

Whatever you do, make sure you discuss it with others in your life and explain your situation. If you don't, the narcissist will try to manipulate others against you.

[ - ] anon 3880981 2 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 11:53:17 ago (+2/-0)

At least you are dealing with an overt typical narricist. A covert will try to drive you crazy with there gas lighting and insanity they project on the world!

Go to quora there is a ton of info about narcs there and it is a dark dark rabbit hole they are soulless demons most of the time and that's the nicest thing I can say.

Don't engage and ignore is your best bet

[ - ] anon 1144757 [op] 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 13:09:59 ago (+1/-0)

I think I experienced that too. Also I'm considering killing myself.

[ - ] anon 3880981 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 18:18:04 ago (+0/-0)

Some narc demons actively try to get the ones they are with to kill themselves. I think a lot of men fall this way married to psycho covert narrcist

[ - ] PhantomXLII 2 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 10:29:27 ago (+2/-0)

Violence solves a lot.

[ - ] anon 1144757 [op] 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 15, 2023 18:51:37 ago (+0/-0)

I'm not going to jail over these people

[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 09:17:40 ago (+0/-0)

'they/them'????

[ - ] anon 4149771 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 07:19:49 ago (+1/-0)

What a load of jewish psychobabble. Turning people into screwballs who diagnose everyone instead of acting like an adult.

Use your manners and be polite and then go away. That's how you deal with a selfish person. It's how you deal with a vain person. It's how you deal with everyone you're not in a close personal relationship with. If your mommy wommy is a selfish loudmouth, she's still your mommy wommy. Be polite and then go home after the visit.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 13:50:08 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] anon 1144757 [op] 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 15:32:10 ago (+0/-0)

I have considered killing myself. I have no one who I can reach out to I'm alone

[ - ] deleted 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 17:57:11 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] anon 4149771 0 points 1.6 yearsOct 6, 2023 03:47:09 ago (+0/-0)

Narcissist was a nymph who fell so in love with his own reflection in a pool that he fell in and drowned. N obody needs more than that. It is the entire instruction in dealing with shitty vain people. All else is jewish word bullshit and why their sick cult gets kicked out of country after country

[ - ] deleted 9 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 06:09:44 ago (+9/-0)

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[ - ] anon 3507631 2 points 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 06:30:09 ago (+2/-0)

Nice advice.

[ - ] anon 1144757 [op] 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 09:31:14 ago (+1/-0)

Thanks I got a lot of anxiety and feel sick to my stomach after dealing with the and I'm not sure how to deal with the physical pain

[ - ] deleted 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 09:46:25 ago (+1/-0)

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[ - ] anon 5087604 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 11:56:23 ago (+1/-0)

Great stuff - also learn what the karpman drama triangle is

[ - ] anon 3880981 1 point 1.6 yearsOct 4, 2023 11:57:03 ago (+1/-0)

Dude that was spot on! You have obviously dealt with and done the research I took screen shots of your entire thread! Perfect