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What do young men in our society need from other men?

submitted by MaryXmas to Fatherhood 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 10:11:41 ago (+18/-0)     (Fatherhood)

So from the other poll, around 50% of goats have seriously considered or attempted suicide. This is unacceptable and I feel like we are failing the men and boys in our lives. What is the solution or what should we be thinking about as men?

Scouts? Clubs? Bowling leagues? I know even having a father in the household is a huge step forward.


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[ - ] RedBarchetta 7 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 10:51:51 ago (+7/-0)

1. Fathers. 2. Get the fuck outside and work. Hard work, the type that makes you sweat and get blisters on your hands. The results are: Utter satisfaction at the end of the day because you can see the results of your labor.

3. Take the satisfaction, reward what have you and go find a fucking mountain. Climb it. Sleep under stars. Do it with others so you have a shared experience.

Repeat.

[ - ] TheNoticing 2 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 12:43:41 ago (+2/-0)

Are there cows at ranches, so when you successfully milk them you can have 'udder' satisfaction? 😂

[ - ] Ozark 7 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 10:29:25 ago (+8/-1)

Subjugation of their lunatic mothers.

[ - ] IAmTheOptimizer 4 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 12:05:50 ago (+4/-0)

Young men need to see other men clinging to their beliefs and standards and refusing to give them up no matter the cost.

[ - ] mannerbund 4 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 10:53:49 ago (+4/-0)

I actively do not participate in polls, and would consider the results potentially skewed here.

They need Männerbund, the competitive and fierce spirit that aligns men in interests, that drives them to pursue a better self, that manifests a strong and just community, and that binds them together to achieve greater feats than the individual ever could.

Right now, they need inspiration so that it may be raised back from the halls of antiquity, so it may flourish once more.

[ - ] Razzoriel 3 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 11:35:10 ago (+3/-0)

There is no uniting element that survived so many centuries than a fireside chat. Competition is only a uniting role once everyone is aligned in the same cause. Sports are tainted these times but can be a good spark.

If people could make fires in their yards, even if inside a metal barrel, and discuss things while drinking, and staring at a flickering fire that warms them while they practice the long forgotten art of staring at a orb, we'd get it through. I also have this website bookmarked.

https://www.touchstonemag.com/archives/article.php?id=18-07-021-f

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 17:08:29 ago (+0/-0)

Not a bad idea. I'm gonna start a society. I'm going to call it the Fraternal Order of the Flame. You guys can come over, drink beers, eat food, and discuss what we should do about clown world. Join me brothers, the finest steel is made from the hottest flame.

[ - ] StealthNinjaTaliban 2 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 11:31:48 ago (+2/-0)

Nazi bodybuilding

[ - ] goatfugee12 5 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 11:50:34 ago (+5/-0)

body building is a huge time and resource sink and often time very homoerotic, complimenting men on their "gains" and "definition" and the hormone imbalances from the HGH and steroids they dump into their body can fag them up even more... Just be fit and not a fag.

[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 20:18:51 ago (+1/-0)

Nobody stated the obvious: friendship / mentoring.

Most issues seem to arise from a lack of a masculine presence in a boy's life. Family can only go so far; after adolescence guys need to find ways to make friends. Forced shared experiences (high school / college / military) will only offer a certain window to build adult friendships.

When you're in your 20s, it beneficial if you're able to make adult friends a decade or so older than you so you can see how their life is working and if you want to implement pieces into your life. It's harder when you're in your 30s and 40s to help the young adults, but your time is likely preoccupied with your own kids.

[ - ] SirNiggsalot 1 point 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 15:00:38 ago (+1/-0)

I had an Uncle who was the black sheep of the family.
In and out of jail for stupid shit, substance abuse etc. HOWEVER,he spoke the truth to me when I was a kid. He warned to never relax around blacks and didn't try to bullshit me or hold back saying the truth just because I was a kid. He was a little abusive but I really believe it was to toughen me up.

I think every boy needs an uncle like that along with a good Father

[ - ] Razzoriel 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 20:00:31 ago (+0/-0)

There is no need for abuse to make kids get tough. But it works best in this way than no way at all.

[ - ] Pasty 1 point 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 13:04:20 ago (+2/-1)

Considering suicide is just an option to consider. It's not an indication of wanting to kill yourself just part of understanding life and death.

[ - ] yesiknow 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 16:17:42 ago (+0/-0)

At that point your brain is working like a progressive who makes words too important. There's no reason to allow those thought words to exist. Replace them with your own slogan everytime a thought like that comes to mind.

[ - ] Pasty 0 points 9 monthsJul 25, 2023 00:11:28 ago (+0/-0)

That's a retarded way to live. Words are important because they have defined meanings. If anything disregarding meaning is the expression of postmodernism as you call progressive.

When you make your own definitions of words you isolate yourself immediately because they can only be known to yourself. When you can't use those words to describe then they lose the power as words are the expression of your own ideas. It's like making your own tools that don't work for any job.

[ - ] yesiknow 0 points 9 monthsJul 25, 2023 01:38:50 ago (+0/-0)*

Words have definitions. Progressives can't define the ones they chant,

What does "oppressed" mean?

Diversity is our strength. What does diversity mean.

Prohibition doesn't work. Why say that? It isn't true.

Destigmatize drugs is enable drug use. Define the difference between enabling and encouraging. Sneering at Marijuana is a gateway drug doesn't make it untrue.

If you confuse intellectual with smart you've got a serious problem. Your testimony in court has no value. Your intellect can tell you it would be better to lie and that's because you thought that since you only reside in the word processing section of your brain, that makes you smart enough to make that decision. You're untrustworthy in any word oriented situation.

Fat people aren't psychologically this or that. They have the words "I'm hungry" in their heads after they eat and obey those words even though they're only words and they're not hungry. They also say all day long "I hardly eat anything" because the words lie. Like your words lie to you.

You thought you were very smart and obviously didn't have the plasticity of mind to comprehend the "meaning" of my words. That usually goes with people who can't pick up subtleties because they're limited by words, and that's a handicap.

[ - ] TheNoticing 1 point 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 12:36:34 ago (+1/-0)

The "father" might be there physically, but is emotionally absent. I know because that's how mine was. Nurtured nothing, taught nothing, but when it came to "discipline," he was an animal that those to hit and not explain the error of your ways. I literally was never taught anything about "bad words," just that I'd be hot/have soap put in my mouth for saying 'shit' and the like.

[ - ] deleted 1 point 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 12:02:12 ago (+1/-0)

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[ - ] Sector7 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 13:58:41 ago (+0/-0)

Look around out there and that is most people.

[ - ] NaturalSelectionistWorker 1 point 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 11:11:07 ago (+1/-0)

Ultimately we need an economy and society that are not controlled by kikes, but getting there won't be easy.

We need jobs that get us doing manly shit, building and making and growing and lifting things. It helps if those jobs are at small businesses not owned by kikes.

We need men's clubs that get men together to do manly things. Proud Boys was a good start but national leadership did not keep up with the shifting overton window, Active Club is starting to look like a better alternative that's not kiked yet. Another nice thong about those groups is a lot of those guys own or work for small businesses that do manly shit and aren't owned by kikes, so you can find opportunities that way.

[ - ] KyleIsThisTall 0 points 9 monthsJul 25, 2023 10:46:24 ago (+0/-0)

Brojobs

[ - ] Name 0 points 9 monthsJul 25, 2023 06:38:24 ago (+0/-0)

Building an environment that allows fraternal-correction to occur.

And the memes of 2015 were all correct;
“The Alt-Right is recruiting disenfranchised young men by convincing them they care.”

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 9 monthsJul 25, 2023 04:28:32 ago (+0/-0)

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 9 monthsJul 25, 2023 04:08:32 ago (+0/-0)*

The male is a bonding animal, unlike the female which is so preoccupied with itself it doesn't need other people. I think young men need to feel part of a social structure where they have friendship and support. The problem is that there's a pecking order in all societies and indeed an elite so some young men don't fit in or are rejected and fall by the wayside which naturally leads to a sense of alienation. I have no answers because I don't think there are any. Human beings will be what they've always been and there'll always be the fast crowd and fringe-dwellers. Life can be quite brutal, even at the best of times, and I think the truly decent thing a compassionate, humane, potential parent could do is...not become one.

[ - ] jigganiggaboo 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 21:48:37 ago (+0/-0)

Im going to say log splitting or chainsawing logs.

[ - ] parrygrin 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 21:36:21 ago (+0/-0)

The complete destruction of the state of Israel?

[ - ] Trope 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 21:35:21 ago (+0/-0)

I too did not like that poll. Was shocked at the number of us that have been disenfranchised in our youth.

[ - ] MuricaPersonified 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 15:23:07 ago (+0/-0)

Youth programs like you mentioned are great, but we'd have to found our own because most of the existing ones are kiked. For adults, militias and assorted outdoor events.

I voted yes in the other thread but didn't chime in with my sob story because everyone has one. I stay alive out of pure spite for those who want me and my entire race dead, even though life is mostly miserable. Overall I try looking at the bright side and take each day one step at a time.

[ - ] Sector7 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 16:16:20 ago (+0/-0)

What's your bright side?

[ - ] MuricaPersonified 1 point 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 17:08:26 ago (+1/-0)

I'm independent with decent income, and have a solid group of friends, and I get to do basically whatever I want.

The downside is I work a lot; probably more than most goats.

[ - ] s23erdctfvyg 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 14:30:43 ago (+0/-0)

How about useful, groups? Outdoorsman groups, hunting clubs specifically. Shooting groups. Etc.

There was a guy on here that was already offering to join groups like that, I still need to contact them.

[ - ] yesiknow 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 16:21:29 ago (+0/-0)

Money is going to be a consideration for some men who are despairing. The problem is when they have money drugs are easy. "Someone" disseminated the phrase recreational drug use, and it stuck in some heads.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 14:08:02 ago (+0/-0)

Shaming and bullying need to come back in a big way, for boys AND girls. 50 years ago when I was a kid, there were no fats, faggots, or lezzies in school. They would have been mercilessly taunted. Niggers and shitskins kept to themselves. We all loved America.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 13:43:15 ago (+0/-0)

Stop fucking each others women. Theres only enough women for each man to have one. Do not marry a divorced woman withanother mans kids. Marry someone close to your age because wealthier older men are creating a scarcity of available brides for young men by marrying down in age after theve despoiled scores of single women during their 20s and 30s. This is why monogamous societies work and are naturally egalitarian with low wealth disparity. Young women are meant for young men, to marry. This is perhaps the biggest single fucking problem we face. It completely alters incentives within an economy. Its hard to overstate how important this one thing is. Western civilization is built on monogamy.

[ - ] CHIRO 1 point 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 15:13:17 ago (+1/-0)

Honestly, I think the answer is violence. In a society that's permitted everyone's experience to enter such a simulated territory (when things are safe and abundant, we tend to drift as a civilization into more and more detached abstracta), you need the occasional upset to bring everyone back down to earth. I thought that a few years of pointing out to women how societies absolutely depend on men to do a bunch of grimy jobs (most other people absolutely don't want to do) would bring some reality back into the picture. But this hasn't happened.

The internet has made this positively hopeless. The simulation is now 'full on'. Men and women, meaning the categories, are becoming characters people play, and we have the most mythologically heightened forms being paraded around online. Total drivel. Total fancy. Andrew Tate is the most influential man on the planet currently. Give that a few minutes of consideration.

We're at the point of playing house.

I think it's going to take something incredibly threatening. Actual war. Actual depravity. Until women are actually existentially threatened (which they just can't be with things as they currently stand), they won't appreciate men. We gave that up, and once you give it up, there's only one way to earn it back. And until women can depend upon men again, men aren't going to be driven to be the sorts of beings society needs them to be. I think we need some serious violence to enter life again.

If it doesn't, that is, if we're on the road to some existence in abstract, digital space where everyone can get by just enough to be able to tickle their brains to full capacity in simulated territories, then it's actually going to be natural for women to ascend above men. They just will. The internet is already proving this concept. The Great Mother is already coming back to life.

Just for the sake of imagining it, picture some transhumanist outcome where we are all 'digital selves', having no bodies, no wars, or anything of the grimy sort. Maleness actually does become defunct in an important sense. When there is plenty, the female ascends. She needs to feel the hurt. And men have to feel the hurt. Things right now are just too good, frankly. That sounds odd to say since everyone is fucking miserable, but I think you'll get what I'm saying.

[ - ] Stonkmar 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 11:05:47 ago (+0/-0)

Presence

[ - ] JewNitedStates -2 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 12:36:46 ago (+0/-2)

Young men need legal steroids.

We're exposed to so much shit that lowers out T levels, we need to balance it back out.

[ - ] MaryXmas [op] 0 points 9 monthsJul 24, 2023 12:59:09 ago (+0/-0)

Fenugreek. 2k mg. Works wonders.