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A reminder to all Goats.

submitted by gaperglory to Fatherhood 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 00:55:05 ago (+56/-1)     (Fatherhood)

I just wanted to send a message out there to all you niggers. The events of the last 6 months have been very eye opening for me and I just wanted to share something.
Life will be hard. And it will only get harder. The (((obstacles))) we are all dealing with beat us down endlessly and tend to blackpill us.
Don't wait to start a family. Don't wait for that perfect woman with the perfect past and incredible looks. Just make sure she's white and you can trust her, then get to making babies.

I always thought having a wife and kids would be great because it would be fulfilling. I've recently come to learn that this Disney faggot fantasy has nothing to do with family.

Having children and a wife is important because when your time comes, it comes. And nothing can stop it. The choice you DO have is between a nigger nurse named dashiki who pockets your pain pills and laughs at your suffering with her nigger kin, or the family you DID decide to have when you had the chance who will do everything they can to make sure you're as comfortable as drugs and familial support can make you.
I don't mean to sound corny, but it never occurred to me how important a man's children will be to them at the end.

Don't let your desires for an Aryan 10 stop you from approaching the more trustworthy Aryan 7 with a way better personality and a nurturing disposition.
Make white babies, not just for 1488, but for yourself. They may just come in handy at the end of this shitshow we call life.

Nigger Nigger White Power


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[ - ] Fascinus 18 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:05:21 ago (+18/-0)

We moved our elders in with us when they were ready to retire.

Our children benefit from their grandparents being involved in their life.

They live a life where they are valued and respected.

In their later years, we will care for them if/as required.

I never understood why we throw our old people away.

[ - ] Her0n 12 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:19:55 ago (+12/-0)

I'm trying my best to lead my fucked up family (sister and parents) towards the light. My mother and sister resist so much the daunting task seems unachievable most days.

I keep trying though. My father understands and tries to help me show the women they aren't infallible, but all they care about is diet mt dew and social grandstanding.

It's been a difficult journey, but I'm not giving up. I'm setting an example for my kids, I just hope my family survives their terrible life choices long enough to see my children reach age ten.

[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 15:30:22 ago (+3/-0)

We used to (pre-christian times) have women watch each other for this shit. Now they encourage each other to destruction. Then they blame men.

[ - ] Her0n 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 17:40:27 ago (+3/-0)

Then they blame men.

The path of least resistance.

[ - ] gaperglory [op] 3 points 10 monthsJun 5, 2023 08:00:54 ago (+3/-0)

Don't give up brother. They're worth every ounce of energy.

[ - ] NukeAmerica -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 03:27:59 ago (+1/-2)

all they care about is diet mt dew and social grandstanding.

😂

[ - ] Her0n 9 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 03:45:52 ago (+9/-0)

Yeah it's nice to see the nigger (((nukeamerica))) laughing at a White man trying to save his family from the poisons of Das juden.

[ - ] NukeAmerica -6 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 04:09:44 ago (+1/-7)

You won't be saving anyone, faggot.

[ - ] Her0n 9 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 04:13:37 ago (+9/-0)

Your demoralization tactics won't work on me jew.

Shrink back into the asshole from which you emerged.

[ - ] NukeAmerica -7 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 04:15:20 ago (+1/-8)

MEDS. NOW.

[ - ] Her0n 9 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 04:19:49 ago (+9/-0)

Its sad that saying stupid shit like this is all you have to offer. It's my fault for expecting an equal intellectual sparring partner when conversing with kikes.

Is that what's it like to have a nigger-tier IQ? Do you run around on auto-pilot all day until a happy White man makes you snap? The little switch in your brain flips on to power your mouth before any real thoughts occur?

I think death would be a more peaceful status for you, don't you agree?

[ - ] Treefart 1 point 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:40:49 ago (+1/-0)

He needs meds, now.

[ - ] Her0n 2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 17:39:43 ago (+2/-0)

Yeah, pedocilin

[ - ] NukeAmerica -7 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 04:28:24 ago (+1/-8)

Go back to reddit, faggot.

[ - ] Her0n 10 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 04:30:47 ago (+10/-0)

In every aspect a person could be strong, you are weak.

You have a child's mind.

[ - ] Whatthefuck 0 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 10:39:25 ago (+1/-1)

The fact you're even here trying to demoralize people is the proof that you know you've already lost. Try as you may, your efforts are futile. It's nice to know you'll one day die by your own hand when the full realization dawns on you.

[ - ] NukeAmerica -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 15:34:49 ago (+0/-1)

ok neckbeard

[ - ] RMGoetbbels 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:05:25 ago (+4/-0)

I know right! They're a little rusty but you can squeeze some work out of them.

"Hey ma! how about you bake one of them pies old lady?" "Dad, you think you can take a spin on the lawn tractor and cut the grass? There's a sixer in it for ya when you're done and I won't tell mom?" Built in babysitters. Dog walkers. Hell, start a home based business and mail packages. Those old farts can box and tape 8 hours a day. See if you can capture a few more, because old folks congregate together, and make an army!

Work the shit out of them! This is how I am going to take over the world.

[ - ] bobdole9 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 12:19:49 ago (+4/-0)

This is how I am going to take over the world.

I look forward to Octogenarian Summer.

[ - ] Trollasaurus 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 18:45:23 ago (+4/-0)

The first assisted living home officially licensed in the US opened in 1988. It was the boomers who were the first generation to throw their parents away into old folks homes and say "fuck you mom and dad, I don't want to take care of you."
It's already coming back around though. Costs of these homes are far too high for most families to afford and cost of housing is too high for the youth to leave their parents' homes. The USA will return to the same standard it had before of 3-4 generations living under one roof, just like they do in every other nation.
Don't believe the boomer bullshit that 20-30 year olds living with their parents is bad. It only worked in the USA for a couple of generations and only because the world had been blown to absolute shit after WW2 which allowed for the US to have a massive economic boom.

Besides, what comes around, goes around. The boomers were the first to throw their parents away and they're already suffering from having to be the ones thrown away. They kicked their kids out and now their kids largely don't care about them anymore either.

It's really pick your poison. Put up with your kids into their 30s and 40s so that they will put up with you into your 70s and 80s, or don't.

[ - ] Laputois 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 08:29:25 ago (+3/-0)*

The Waltons. It was the way it used to be.

[ - ] TheNoticing 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 10:23:43 ago (+3/-0)

I never understood why we throw our old people away.

jew debauchery, and narcissist parents. Would you take care of your primary abuser through their old age and second childhood? I sure wouldn't.

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:55:59 ago (+0/-1)

Narcissism seems to be a common trait among parents.They are so wrapped up in themselves they have no time/effort left over for the kids they brought into the world. I used to be so envious of my mate's school lunch. Nicely cut sandwiches filled with all manner of goodies whereas I had a bone-hard white roll made by me (Mum was still in bed after a late night socialising at the theatre) with globs of butter in it which had not melted as it was so cold and smears of vegemite. Yuk!

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:12:14 ago (+2/-3)

Tell me you're from a functional,loving, closeknit family without telling me you're from a functional, loving, closeknit family.

[ - ] Fascinus 9 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:18:39 ago (+9/-0)

I've shared my past with you before, old cobber. You know it ain't so.

Life is what you make of it.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 06:56:31 ago (+5/-1)

Tell me you will rope today

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 07:00:11 ago (+2/-3)

Hurtful, damn hurtful!

[ - ] JudyStroyer 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:39:51 ago (+3/-0)

Do it, it'll only hurt for a moment.

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:50:40 ago (+0/-1)

Not what I heard.You can dangle in pain for some time.

[ - ] JudyStroyer 1 point 10 monthsJun 5, 2023 13:50:46 ago (+1/-0)

Only way to find out, neri. I'll buy you the rope, and even help with the knot because something tells me you'd fuck that part up. Wouldn't want you to slump on the ground after a sharp tug on the line. That'd be embarassing.

[ - ] UncleDoug 9 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:37:56 ago (+9/-0)

Don't wait for that perfect woman

An average White woman thats loyal, and doesn’t have a double digit body count is about all any of us are looking for.

[ - ] PhantomXLII -5 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 02:08:47 ago (+2/-7)

Because you're a godless heathen (truly you're a jewish subversive, but I'll pretend your larp is real) you don't mind an adulterous slut.

"doesn't have a double digit body count"

Zero. Fucking zero is what it should be unless she was married before.

[ - ] gaperglory [op] 9 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 02:17:52 ago (+10/-1)

Dude what world do you live in?

[ - ] PhantomXLII -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 02:21:09 ago (+4/-5)

One where the Reich lost. Welcome.

[ - ] SirNiggsalot 6 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 06:52:31 ago (+6/-0)

Well said comrade !
Make and raise proud White children !

\o

[ - ] Peleg 5 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 08:40:54 ago (+5/-0)

Alright goats, here's my advice.
Never marry a beautiful woman. Marry a ugly woman.
A beautiful woman might run away with someone else.
Of course an ugly woman might run away with someone else to but, who cares! LOL.

On a serious note. @gaperglory is right on this. Stop looking for 9's and 10's.
I'm in my late 50's. There were quite a few very beautiful girls in school with me. When I see them now I can't even recognize most of them. My wife of 30 years is hotter today than most of those 9's I longed for way back when! She is that way because she loves me and tries to keep herself looking good for me. She works hard at pleasing me. Those beautiful girls never had to work hard at anything. Age catches up with Everyone!
When you are young and dumb and full of cum you get hard at the crack of dawn. You can get off with just about any woman. A 6 or 7 works as well as a 9. But when you are older it you need those years of love and work to help you get there. Like I said, those 9's never had to work. They don't just magically learn how. It's something they have to do all along the way.

[ - ] TheNoticing 1 point 10 monthsJun 5, 2023 18:51:17 ago (+1/-0)

Doesn't matter if she's ugly or beautiful, she'll monkey branch to a higher-status man. More money, better job, bigger house, nicer car, more money in the bank, rental income properties.

[ - ] gaperglory [op] 0 points 10 monthsJun 6, 2023 07:56:17 ago (+0/-0)

I came from a family where my parents trusted each other implicitly. It IS possible. But? To be fair? Highly.unlikely. Like the lottery With slightly better odds, can't win if you don't play.
Don't get too jaded on women. They're stupid and are what society has made them. Get one u can train and make her trust you. The perfect woman doesn't exist, but a good wife and great mother is one smart goat away from being a reality. I'm a smart goat. How bout mah'niga?

[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 10 monthsJun 6, 2023 17:21:44 ago (+0/-0)

I'm mostly dumb and have no interest in having a family.

[ - ] The_Reunto 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:10:32 ago (+4/-0)

"As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate." - Psa 127:4-5

[ - ] big_fat_dangus 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 03:33:26 ago (+7/-3)

The grey pill here is all women are whores, if you decide you're willing to put up with one there's no sense in going on some elaborate chase for the "right one', there is no right one.

[ - ] NukeAmerica -4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 05:14:33 ago (+0/-4)

Watch it now, Her0n will call you a demoralizing jew.

[ - ] deleted 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 11:28:08 ago (+3/-0)

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[ - ] con77 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:25:24 ago (+3/-0)

WPWW

[ - ] xmasskull 2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 15:02:31 ago (+2/-0)

(((obstacles))) Nice!

[ - ] gaperglory [op] 2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 08:32:35 ago (+3/-1)

Just to remind everyone who's lost in comments, I didn't say a word about body count. Personally I'm more concerned about if they've burned coal than body count, but Body count does matter. Just don't get hung up on it too bad. I'll put it this way, when you're 80 years old watching your grandkids play on the lawn you built for them, would you honestly be thinking about body count? If u want a Virgin, join the club. AINT HAPPENING NIGGER... My whole point is do what you can when u can and don't get hung up on impossible standards that are just excuses to shield you from facing your own shoetcomings and your own female ineptitude to start with.

[ - ] PhantomXLII -3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 12:19:35 ago (+0/-3)

Don't wait for that perfect woman with the perfect past

Just make sure she's white and you can trust her,

Don't let your desires for an Aryan 10 stop you from approaching the more trustworthy Aryan 7 with a way better personality and a nurturing disposition

You sure as shit implied it's about body count though. Especially that first quote I pulled. I can wave away the others.

Personally I'm more concerned about if they've burned coal than body count

Congratulations, you've lost any sort of standards and any authority on the matter. You may as well mate with a fucking stripper even if you're married now.

If u want a Virgin, join the club. AINT HAPPENING NIGGER

But it should be able to. The fact that it isn't possible, partly because of whoremongers with no standards and partly because of whores themselves, is indicative of the state of the world and how fucking pathetic it truly is.

don't get hung up on impossible standards that are just excuses to shield you from facing your own shoetcomings and your own female ineptitude to start with.

If you're going to talk shit, at least have the basic decency to tag me, adulterous bastard. What I said is clearly bothering you, and now you're practically defending adultery. Why are you a whoremonger, degenerate? Why are you a fucking subhuman? Why should anyone believe you have White children you're supposedly raising with good morals when you can't even hold yourself to basic fucking morals?

Let's see.

[ - ] gaperglory [op] 0 points 10 monthsJun 6, 2023 07:38:52 ago (+1/-1)*

A lot of work there to sound like a retard and draw illogical conclusions. Enjoy dying alone, smelling ripe with decay and the stench that comes with lacking compromise.
Those of us that live in the real world have to make compromises to be happy. Hence your misery. The first girlfriend I had at 16 had already been with 1 guy. It always bothered me, but I was already in love when I found out. She did turn out to be a cheating whore, to your point.
. But my point is, the only virgin you'll find in this world is in the mirror or on tlc weighing 500 lbs. Wake up and smell the jew ridden world your stuck in. Either fight now (which you won't because your a lurker nigger coward retard) or make some white babies that can fight the good fight for you when it's time. The day will come. But even if the world was perfect I imagine you'd still find something to be miserable about. And I never said I had children. Your lurker ass isn't worth tagging. You've probably had it tagged by 5 guys today anyway

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 10 monthsJun 6, 2023 11:35:20 ago (+0/-0)

compromise

Yes. Compromise all your morals and standards away for nothing. The whores are great, niggers are based, and trannies are harmless, right? Fucking cuckservative. You've compromised the future away, made yourself a traitor to all that which is right and good, and will fucking die for your sins.

or make some white babies that can fight the good fight for you when it's time

Yup. Just keep passing that buck down the line. It's not your problem, nonono, you want to compromise!

You've probably had it tagged by 5 guys today anyway

Defense of and fantasizing about homosexuality.

The penalty is death. Just fucking kill yourself.

And I never said I had children.

What a surprise, with all the whoremongering you love to do.

[ - ] deleted 2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 08:18:41 ago (+2/-0)

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[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 06:55:38 ago (+4/-2)

A woman you can trust, lol + kek

[ - ] Hoobeejoo 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 08:22:09 ago (+3/-0)

I thought that was rather humorous as well.

[ - ] Inward 1 point 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 07:58:07 ago (+2/-1)*

You get it.

Edit: Reading the comments and the shills are all doubling down. Anyone with a lick of sense will write all their names down and ignore anything they comment henceforth.

[ - ] herbert_west 0 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 16:02:32 ago (+0/-0)

I've seen plenty of normal looking families with lovely parents that get thrown into an elderly house... if you live a healthy life, you can be independent well until 80-85. At that point you make an exit-bag and enjoy your last dream.

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 02:16:02 ago (+2/-2)

You know, I almost agreed but this whole "don't mind the body count" thing makes me want to create a different kind of body count in the couple million range to vent my frustration at your bullshit.

Getting with an adulterous slut (See: Literally any sex outside of marriage) is beneath me. I could see if I had fucked around as well, but I didn't and won't.

So here we are. Any good man with any self worth will wait for the debt free virgin without tattoos.

But as it happens, they are more rare than the finest gems, and most have already been found.

Oh fucking well.

[ - ] Inward 2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 08:02:37 ago (+3/-1)

So, just end your lineage. Better yet, end yourself in a meaningful way.

[ - ] PhantomXLII -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 12:21:56 ago (+0/-1)

You get to end yours too, champ.

[ - ] Inward 1 point 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:17:46 ago (+1/-0)

No, loser shill, I have children.

[ - ] PhantomXLII -2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:57:13 ago (+0/-2)

MUH SHILL MUH SHILL

Fucking qultist.

[ - ] Inward 0 points 10 monthsJun 5, 2023 08:31:45 ago (+1/-1)

Definitely a shill.

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 10 monthsJun 6, 2023 11:37:08 ago (+0/-0)

Die for your sins, degenerate. You don't have the privilege of talking shit.

[ - ] Inward 0 points 10 monthsJun 6, 2023 16:04:26 ago (+0/-0)

Just go away, you complete loser shill. You just sound retarded.

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 10 monthsJun 6, 2023 19:07:54 ago (+0/-0)

Listen newfag, you don't get to come in here and call me a shill when all I'm doing is being right. As usual.

[ - ] Inward 0 points 10 monthsJun 6, 2023 22:14:00 ago (+0/-0)

Newfag. LOL. You have no clue. You're a fucking shill.

[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens -2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:45:12 ago (+1/-3)

It’s too late for me. I’m not wealthy, so at this advanced age, I likely cannot get a woman young enough to spawn my demons. The only thing left for me is rancid, old whores like Helena with rotten ovaries and stretched beef curtains. I wish I could send a tube of my man milk over to some Eastern European woman to just have my kid over there so I don’t have to deal with her capricious nonsense. For the most part, only nigger pimps have the patience to talk to young women. They’re fucking annoying. The nigger can beat them because she only knows his street name and he has her strung out on dope. If I ever do any behavior modification, I’m going to jail and losing half my shit. Passport Bro is the way to go.

[ - ] NukeAmerica 0 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 05:13:01 ago (+1/-1)

No one wants your nigger DNA.

[ - ] paul_neri -3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:00:14 ago (+4/-7)*

"how important a man's children will be to them at the end".

it ain't necessarily so:

Inheritance impatience;
Kids have their own difficulties;
Kids live a long way from you;
Kids don't really like you.

[ - ] Fascinus 13 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:07:09 ago (+14/-1)

Spoken like the childless tosser you are.

Tell me you're from a dysfunctional family without telling me you're from a dysfunctional family.

[ - ] beece 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:25:12 ago (+4/-0)*

Fascinus good stuff, LOL. For fellow yanks.....

"COBBER" = loosely: old buddy.

"TOSSER" = "A chiefly British derogatory term, literally meaning "one who masturbates," but properly used to describe anyone who is either incompetent, supercilious, or otherwise generally unpleasant. Tosser is a British synonym to the primarily American derogatory term, jerkoff, which is also used in the same manner as wanker and tosser."

"POOFTER" = An anti-homosexual slur, it is also often aimed at males who do not conform to normative ideals of masculinity in other ways.

[ - ] paul_neri -2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:09:54 ago (+2/-4)

My lips are sealed.

[ - ] Fascinus 15 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:11:06 ago (+15/-0)

...around a cock.

[ - ] KeepPoal4fags 12 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:11:44 ago (+12/-0)

Lmao

[ - ] paul_neri -2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:12:37 ago (+1/-3)

Don't encourage him!

[ - ] Her0n 9 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:15:15 ago (+9/-0)

How's this for encouragement:

Kill yourself with a glass of bleach.

[ - ] paul_neri -3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:20:03 ago (+1/-4)

Is that possible? I bet it's painful. My doctors refuse to help me get ready for death so it looks like a wrist slitting exercise out in the bush in the shade of a coolabah tree. How do you plan to go?

[ - ] Fascinus 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:37:42 ago (+4/-0)

in the shade of a coolabah tree

Like the proverbial swag man. Very Aussie.

I can dig it.

[ - ] JudyStroyer 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:47:09 ago (+3/-0)

A nigger's cock

[ - ] paul_neri -2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:25:21 ago (+2/-4)

My mother was the weak link. The rot in the family structure.A reluctant mother who wanted to pursue her own interests in the Arts and her kids got in the way. She was never there when we needed her unlike the ol' man.We'd break down in our cars many miles from home and he'd come and rescue us. No such thing as roadside assist in those days.

[ - ] Fascinus 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:36:47 ago (+3/-0)

Glad you had a good father, mate.

To whatever degree your persona here is genuine, there is something noteworthy to your character.

That's what made me think you were worth reaching out to in the first place.

Likewise, to whatever degree you manifest in this life not as a complete poofter and rather as a gift to this world, we presumably have your father to thank.

What, do you suppose, would it have been like to offer another that which was given you by such an honorable man?

[ - ] paul_neri -3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:58:31 ago (+1/-4)

"What, do you suppose, would it have been like to offer another that which was given you by such an honorable man?"

There's something you and all the other potential daddies in the world need to think about and it is that creating need (a child) just so you can respond to that need in a caring way doesn't stack up. There is no "need" until you create it. An analogy is a fireman lighting a fire and wanting a pat on the back for putting it out i.e. the situation is artificial. We do not need children and therefore we do not need honourable men and women devoting their lives to them. I'm labouring my point but you can say: "Yes I was a good father" and I will say "So what? You didn't need to be a father at all!".

[ - ] Fascinus 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 02:11:28 ago (+4/-0)

That's an odd take and, I say this respectfully, I can appreciate that it comes from the point of view of one without first-hand experience.

I can only speak from the point of view of a man who grew up with an absentee father (I suspect my boys are more adequately prepared than I was) and the degree to which fatherhood opens one's heart to the world cannot be anticipated by one who is not already at least tangentially familiar with the terrain.

I permit the possibility that, somewhere out there, within the broad spectrum of human experience, that there could be an individual who manifests a type of dysfunction that is similar to what you have described (people can be weird, after all) and actual fatherhood as experienced by a non-sociopathic man will be a markedly different experience.

The primary axis being entirely inverse of that which you put forth; "I earned this accolade and can therefore pat myself on the back". A healthy experience of fatherhood will manifest as the polar opposite; "I experienced the joy of being of service to others".

[ - ] paul_neri -3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 04:09:08 ago (+1/-4)

Ok so the reason/one reason for you breeding is you derive joy from being of service to your kids. A similar analogy would be a person who enjoys lawn mowing so he plants a water-hungry lawn; a less similar analogy would be a mountaineer who changes the signs on walking tracks so folks get lost and he gets a buzz rescuing them.

Do we as a Society need to carry your kids because you get joy out of looking after them? Your joy costs the planet you know? Can we justify it? Children consume resources.Ever thought of buying a guinea-pig instead of having another child? In my town we have a yearly "big rubbish collection" and every year the rubbish is dominated by the same items - gas BBQs and kiddie toys (broken tricycles etc). All headed for land fill.

[ - ] The_Reunto 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:19:27 ago (+4/-0)

need to carry your kids because you get joy out of looking after them?

Children are a benefit to society, not just parental nature

Can we justify it?

Yes

[ - ] JudyStroyer 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:36:37 ago (+3/-0)

It really warms my heart to know that you will never ever experience what it is like to have children. You truly deserve to never know that joy. It also pleases me to know when you get old there will literally be no one to give a single fuck about you. A feeling and emotion that you will have earned. You're a good faggot, nigger.

[ - ] paul_neri 1 point 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:49:22 ago (+1/-0)*

"when you get old there will literally be no one to give a single fuck about you"

"When"[you get old]! JS I am old (67) and you're quite right there is no one who gives a f..k about me, 'cept the missus I guess who needs me to do shopping and yard work. You'd be surprised how many people there are, and not all are old, that get beached in life. But the other thing is...having children is no insurance against being left high and dry in old age. Unless children really cherish their parents, which will not be the case with your kids, they grow tired of their parents and their demands. Old people can become extremely difficult. So JS, if you make it to old age and you're laid up in bed because you've injured yourself and one of your kids approaches you, smiling, and plumping a pillow...take a very deep breath!

[ - ] JudyStroyer 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 23:15:10 ago (+3/-0)

No one paul. That's who is there when you leave this place. No one.

[ - ] Fascinus 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 16:09:51 ago (+3/-0)

Still not even close.

Perhaps I should try to address the "dysfunctional need" thing head-on: I didn't want to be a father in the first place.

When I told her as much, Mrs. (then Ms.) Fascinus told me that she wanted a family and that was a deal-breaker for her. She was (and remains) a deal that could not be broken. I therefore decided to trust her enough that we would make it work.

In a similar manner to how the love of a good woman will open a man's heart, the love of a child will likewise do more so.

The personal growth that sprung from that particular well was not something I had any cause to anticipate.

The point of all this is to try to help you see that there was no end-result I had envisioned, other than potentially introducing discord into an ideal relationship.

I entered into fatherhood somewhat reluctantly, though hopefully optimistic. Over time, my position on the matter moved from "don't want any" to "Kids are awesome! How many can we have?".

Because I wifed her young, the answer turned out to be "a lot".

As to the whole burden thing, you're also missing the mark. Society requires hard-working people to carry on. In this manner, we are net contributors.

costs the planet

A lot less than you might imagine. We've still got a ways to go in our journey toward self-sufficiency and a substantial portion of what we don't grow, or otherwise produce, on our own is procured locally.

What about the benefits of joy to humanity? There is a saying, "The rising tide lifts all boats" that some apply toward the state of our collective unconscious. Even if you put no stock into this notion personally, surely you can permit the possibility of folks coming into contact with kind people making their day better in some way.

Maybe there is some little cutie that makes your Soy latte just the way you like it with an air of sunshine about her?

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:23:41 ago (+1/-1)*

"Mrs. (then Ms.) Fascinus told me that she wanted a family"

"there was no end-result I had envisioned, other than potentially introducing discord into an ideal relationship."

Sad. And that's how it's been since Eve teased Adam with her apples.Like most married men you were dragooned into parenthood - used - exploited. The wily female plays on men's vanity: "I want to have YOUR children" i.e. no-one else's. Feel special. But really it would breed with any male that ticked her boxes. Put simply, first and foremost females want the security of a nest and then they want to fill it with chickens and the male is just the provider; a mere facilitator in the female's eternal quest for happiness.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:27:59 ago (+1/-1)

"Society requires hard-working people to carry on."

Yes but not all the people produced are hard-working and even if they are we can get a surfeit of hard-working people i.e. too many people. People need houses and houses eat up land (undeveloped land and indeed farm land) and people pollute.

[ - ] Fascinus 2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:33:39 ago (+2/-0)

The world is being overrun with subhumans and somehow my White children are a problem?

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:35:32 ago (+0/-1)

"that makes your Soy latte"

An ad hominem remark that I will not dignify with a response! I drink "long blacks".That doesn't sound very nice on this site. I drink "long black coffee".

[ - ] KeepPoal4fags 10 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:11:14 ago (+10/-0)

Your IRL people hate you too? Color me shocked.

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:17:28 ago (+3/-4)

Well put it this way...no-one likes me as my sweet wife keeps reminding me. I put this unfortunate situation down to being someone who is a misanthrope with little tolerance for his fellow man unless she's attractive with nice boobs and not a bitch.Yes I'm rather shallow.

[ - ] Her0n 7 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:21:24 ago (+7/-0)

jews lack the intelligence to ascertain the abstract.

[ - ] boekanier 5 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:31:01 ago (+5/-0)

send us a pic of your...face

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 10 monthsJun 8, 2023 18:51:17 ago (+0/-0)

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 02:04:37 ago (+1/-2)

Ok but it will be a few days as it's on another PC at the shack. I'm in the Capital of Australia for a few days.

[ - ] gaperglory [op] 8 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:10:51 ago (+8/-0)

Raise your kids right, and they'll move mountains to treat you right. A great song lyric:
I believe that my life's going to see the love I give return to me.

[ - ] Cantaloupe 4 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 01:05:34 ago (+4/-0)

It's partly luck. Parents though can be the their best for thrir kids.

[ - ] Laputois 1 point 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 13:14:56 ago (+1/-0)

says more about you, then them.

[ - ] paul_neri -8 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 02:06:06 ago (+0/-8)

If you White Supremacists weren't so vain you'd adopt kids.Black kids, brown kids, yellow kids and then you really would be value-adding to the world.

[ - ] beece 3 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 09:36:24 ago (+3/-0)

Interestingly enough Paul, my wife and I thought the same thing. We looked into it, and then we found out that the price was way too much, indicating there was much less need than we perceived. Black American kids were only available if they were drug babies or out of control behavioral issues/criminals. Later, one of our neighbors did it for the full meal deal overseas import. 2 kids from India: $60,000 US, each, to get them.

[ - ] boekanier 2 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 10:26:54 ago (+2/-0)

buy a little dog

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:38:38 ago (+0/-1)

from the Pound.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 10 monthsJun 4, 2023 20:41:43 ago (+1/-1)

A damn noble thought of you and your missus, bro. I wouldn't want any child, adopted or not. I once looked after a kid for a day (the Missus did it as a favour to a bloke at work) and it was the longest day of my life. Little c..t pulled some curtains down!