Unless you have the 3 A's (abuse, addiction, affairs) they're is zero reason you can't work it out! It is your son's life you are responsible for. DON'T fall for the divorce bullshit. Remember, the demons out there want no in tact families. Jealousy is a powerful emotion used by satan.
I think that is why the majority of people are with their spouses after year 15.
Even affairs arent worth the hassle of leaving, a person would risk not having the kids at all times and have no control over who gets put in their lives.
Where would your line be?
In your real life are you surrounded by separated couples or people that are still together?
I don't know what IQ you have, but it seems like I am as smart as you, because I am doing the same. My kids growing up, only with their mother, would be a shitshow.
Sorry for your situation, but I don't know the cause. Unless your wife cheated on you, or is a junkie, at the end common sense always prevails. Sometimes married couples get to fight because of stress, but normal couples never divorce. Divorce is caused by serious mental problems.
[ - ] letsgetit 1 point 12 monthsMay 22, 2023 11:42:47 ago (+1/-0)
It's a tough road to travel. The kid will be way better off because of your choice. For all your know your total life satisfaction could be better off even though there are downsides
High investment parenting is the only reason to stay with a woman these days. I love my Wife, but if she hadn't given me two sons I would have moved on by now. You don't have to stay with her till death, just till the boy turns 18. That way she can't clean you out and take everything. Think of this as time to plan and prepare. Assets can be hidden or protected from her lawyer. Physical and mental self improvements can be developed to keep you desirable as you age. I know a rich prick that does this like every 10 years or less. He spoils the woman till she's rotten and ruined. Then when she leaves, he pays her off, and finds a new twenty-something gold digger. Wash, rinse, repeat. He's on his 4th cycle of this in his mid 50's, just picked up a new one that's barely old enough to drink.
Sometimes words have two meanings. The cigarette is really 18+ years of his life spent in a loveless marriage to raise a son. Does your boy get the T from that, Jack?
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All humans have a predisposition to those things
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Even affairs arent worth the hassle of leaving, a person would risk not having the kids at all times and have no control over who gets put in their lives.
Where would your line be?
In your real life are you surrounded by separated couples or people that are still together?
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You don't have to stay with her till death, just till the boy turns 18. That way she can't clean you out and take everything.
Think of this as time to plan and prepare. Assets can be hidden or protected from her lawyer. Physical and mental self improvements can be developed to keep you desirable as you age.
I know a rich prick that does this like every 10 years or less. He spoils the woman till she's rotten and ruined. Then when she leaves, he pays her off, and finds a new twenty-something gold digger. Wash, rinse, repeat. He's on his 4th cycle of this in his mid 50's, just picked up a new one that's barely old enough to drink.
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You are teaching your son.
"Aw he won't see me with that cigarette." lol
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The cigarette is really 18+ years of his life spent in a loveless marriage to raise a son.
Does your boy get the T from that, Jack?
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What point is there to marry when all a woman has to do is say "I'm not happy?"
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