I had an experience similar to this. My brothers girlfriend of 9 years was dying from stage 4 non Hodgkin's lymphoma. Her and I were always friends, and probably compatible, but I never tried exploring that for obvious reasons. In the last couple years of her life/their relationship my brother had become emotionally distant and even verbally abusive to her. About a week before she died I was there visiting with her, my brother was working. Long story short, she asked me to have sex with her. It was her dying wish. I didn't do it, I couldn't I never saw her that way and she was my brothers fucking girlfriend at the end of the day. It was a really sad thing to experience. The day before I had sat with her for eight hours while she received chemo, and about a week later while celebrating my birthday she passed out and passed away. I had to watch as EMT used a defibrillator unsuccessfully. Really a sad situation all around.
I'd like to say I wish it was bullshit. At the time it was one of the most traumatic things I've been through. Looking back back, I wouldn't be where I am and who I am today without that catalyst. It was shortly after that, I tried to kill myself with opiates and benzos. Couldn't even do that right I guess, so I decided to keep going. It's eleven years later and I'm happily married and clean from hard drugs. I don't really care if you believe me. Call bullshit if you want. I know exactly how that terrible experience set my life on a path that allowed me the opportunity to be better.
Let her go fuck the nigger but don't let her come back home. He can take care of her in her dying days, but we all know the nigger won't. Don't mourn for this whore who was only with you for financial security.
[ - ] MaryXmas 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 20:11:56 ago (+1/-0)
Nah. Play the long game. Play it cool. Push it out a few weeks, ask to think about it. Say yes but maybe in the summer. Then change your mind and say no. Say yes again, but in a few more weeks... She will keep getting weaker and weaker. It might not ever happen unless she actually cheats. It doesn't really matter at that point, the love will be gone and the death will be an easy one. The guy just better make sure he is the beneficiary on all the insurance docs.
[ - ] Prairie 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 3, 2022 00:11:51 ago (+1/-0)
Sure, but I'm going to totally vacate your life that same day.
Seriously, if this is how she is, the great relationship with her was just dependency and an illusion. Better to shatter it now than be under its spell for the rest of your life.
Redditards are so fucking down syndrome professionally retarded. People think that just because they post from another name, that their significant other won't recognize the story and know their partner posted whatever it is they're bitching about.
He should most definitely say yes and let this other dude care for her bedridden ass in the final months of her life while he gets an early fresh start.
I’d put a pillow over her face. I can relate, my ex is like this one and has told me multiple times over the past 15 years that nobody else came close. And she was a slut afterward too.
[ + ] PeckerwoodPerry
[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 8 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 18:20:12 ago (+8/-0)
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[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 4 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 18:25:57 ago (+4/-0)
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[ + ] diggernicks
[ - ] diggernicks 4 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 19:30:10 ago (+4/-0)
It MUST be true
[ + ] xmasskull
[ - ] xmasskull 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 19:33:04 ago (+0/-0)
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[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 2 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 20:20:52 ago (+2/-0)
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[ + ] GeneralDisarray
[ - ] GeneralDisarray 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 22:29:33 ago (+1/-0)
They don't want sex. They want to emotionally fuck over people that care about them.
That's what they are doing.
They want narcissistic supply rather than sex.
[ + ] Not_a_redfugee
[ - ] Not_a_redfugee 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 3, 2022 00:07:04 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] TheYiddler
[ - ] TheYiddler 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 3, 2022 01:00:14 ago (+0/-0)
I wouldn't hold it against her. It is up to a strong society to keep them in line. Like what you did by turning her down.
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[ - ] germ22 10 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 19:01:51 ago (+10/-0)
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[ + ] Morbo
[ - ] Morbo 7 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 18:11:17 ago (+8/-1)
She wants the BBC again.
Let her go fuck the nigger but don't let her come back home. He can take care of her in her dying days, but we all know the nigger won't. Don't mourn for this whore who was only with you for financial security.
[ + ] Shotinthedark
[ - ] Shotinthedark 5 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 18:28:34 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] MaryXmas
[ - ] MaryXmas 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 20:11:56 ago (+1/-0)
She will keep getting weaker and weaker. It might not ever happen unless she actually cheats.
It doesn't really matter at that point, the love will be gone and the death will be an easy one. The guy just better make sure he is the beneficiary on all the insurance docs.
[ + ] Shotinthedark
[ - ] Shotinthedark 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 23:54:10 ago (+0/-0)
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[ - ] MaryXmas 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 3, 2022 19:51:54 ago (+1/-0)
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[ - ] GoldenAgeWhen 3 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 21:49:14 ago (+3/-0)
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[ + ] Prairie
[ - ] Prairie 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 3, 2022 00:11:51 ago (+1/-0)
Seriously, if this is how she is, the great relationship with her was just dependency and an illusion. Better to shatter it now than be under its spell for the rest of your life.
[ + ] UncleDoug
[ - ] UncleDoug 1 point 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 23:56:06 ago (+1/-0)
11/10 cunt of a woman deserves misery in her last moments on earth.
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[ + ] SteppingRazor
[ - ] SteppingRazor 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 19:26:11 ago (+0/-0)
I can relate, my ex is like this one and has told me multiple times over the past 15 years that nobody else came close. And she was a slut afterward too.
[ + ] Psychicrussiaspy
[ - ] Psychicrussiaspy 0 points 3.2 yearsFeb 2, 2022 18:38:36 ago (+0/-0)