I saw you said you are still a virgin. Sex is overrated IMO, don't put any pressure on yourself or think less of yourself for being a virgin. I was 21 when I first had sex. I tried to wait for the right girl, but people don't show their true colors at first.
It was tough for me when I was that age, and it is even tougher now with these hookup apps. I wouldn't go looking for a prostitute either just to say you had sex. Also condoms suck and you can barely feel anything - but no way I would have sex with a hooker without one - and I wouldn't have sex with a hooker.
Ideally (if I were you) I would look for a woman you could eventually see getting married and having children with, then if you had sex without protection it would be less of a worry. But I also don't think marriage is a great idea for men with the way the laws are and modern women are. Just a sad state!
Have you looked into MGTOW? You can learn a lot about the nature of women from that group. How they shapeshift depending on who they were around. I never had a girlfriend where I enjoyed snow skiing with despite them saying that they skied!
Never cohabitate either. I let a girlfriend move in with me for a few months, I was happiest when I came home from work and she wasn't there!
When I found out what my first girlfriend was really like I should have broken up with her, but I felt obligated to stay with her because we lost our virginity to each other. I also have a bad habit of forgetting bad things and looking at the past with rose-colored glasses. She crumbled under pressure, once she flipped out when we were hiking cause she thought we were lost. Couldn't even have a fun day sledding together, can't remember what her deal was that day. Basically the only things we could do together without her having some problem was eat, watch a movie, and have sex. She ruined so many times that could have been good. She also put a hole in my bedroom door (at my parents house) and put her hands on me in anger.
Sounds like you got your head on straight - wish you the best of luck navigating clown world.
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Ideally (if I were you) I would look for a woman you could eventually see getting married and having children with, then if you had sex without protection it would be less of a worry. But I also don't think marriage is a great idea for men with the way the laws are and modern women are. Just a sad state!
Have you looked into MGTOW? You can learn a lot about the nature of women from that group. How they shapeshift depending on who they were around. I never had a girlfriend where I enjoyed snow skiing with despite them saying that they skied!
Never cohabitate either. I let a girlfriend move in with me for a few months, I was happiest when I came home from work and she wasn't there!
When I found out what my first girlfriend was really like I should have broken up with her, but I felt obligated to stay with her because we lost our virginity to each other. I also have a bad habit of forgetting bad things and looking at the past with rose-colored glasses. She crumbled under pressure, once she flipped out when we were hiking cause she thought we were lost. Couldn't even have a fun day sledding together, can't remember what her deal was that day. Basically the only things we could do together without her having some problem was eat, watch a movie, and have sex. She ruined so many times that could have been good. She also put a hole in my bedroom door (at my parents house) and put her hands on me in anger.
Sounds like you got your head on straight - wish you the best of luck navigating clown world.
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