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Aposematic Signs to Avoid for Coupling

In evolutionary biology, aposematic signals, such as vivid colors or distinct markings, warn predators of an organism’s toxicity or danger (Poulton, 1890). In human mate selection, certain self-harming behaviors in women may serve as analogous warning signs. These behaviors indicate psychological instability, impulsivity, or incompatibility.

These traits, rooted in physical or emotional damage, elevate the risk of relationship dysfunction or divorce. This article identifies eleven aposematic signs, ordered by severity of self-harm. They evoke disgust in the neurologically typical human brain, an evolved response to cues of instability or unfitness in a potential partner (Buss, 1989). Each sign is supported by psychiatric, psychological, or medical evidence.

Promiscuous Loss of Virginity

Promiscuous loss of virginity inflicts emotional and physical self-harm. It erodes intimacy, increasing risks of infidelity and betrayal. These are linked to insecure attachment or histrionic traits (American Psychiatric Association, 2013; Schmitt, 2005).

It also raises the likelihood of STDs (e.g., HPV, hepatitis B/C), impairing health and causing congenital abnormalities in offspring (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2021). The typical brain finds this repulsive, perceiving threats to trust, health, and reproductive success (Buss & Shackelford, 1997).

Single Motherhood

Choosing single motherhood, often from impulsive or failed relationships, imposes chronic stress. This raises risks of anxiety and depression (American Psychiatric Association, 2013).

Children from another man, carrying “foreign sperm,” evoke disgust due to evolved concerns about paternal certainty (Buss, 1989). This self-harming decision, potentially tied to borderline personality traits (Linehan, 1993), is repulsive. It signals relational instability and reduced partner reliability (Geary, 2000).

Plastic Surgery

Cosmetic surgery (e.g., rhinoplasty, breast augmentation) is invasive self-mutilation. It is often driven by body dysmorphic disorder (DSM-5; Phillips, 2005).

It risks death or permanent disability from complications (e.g., anesthesia failure, severe infection) and causes scarring or psychological distress (Sarwer et al., 2004).

The typical brain finds this repulsive, reacting to unnatural alteration45 and mental instability (Thornhill & Gangestad, 1999).

Piercing

A single piercing (e.g., nose, lip) entails deliberate injury, risking infection and tissue damage. Such behaviors correlate with impulsivity and sensation-seeking.

These traits are associated with Cluster B personality disorders (DSM-5; Cyders & Smith, 2008). The typical brain perceives piercing as repulsive, reacting to self-inflicted harm as a marker of psychological risk (Rozin & Fallon, 1987).

Tattoo

A single tattoo scars the skin, a self-harming act risking deadly infections (e.g., hepatitis B/C, MRSA) (Mayo Clinic, 2022). It is linked to impulsivity and identity instability (Swami et al., 2016).

The typical brain finds tattoos repulsive, associating them with defacement, health risks, and poor decision-making (Buss, 1989).

Dyed Hair

Chemically dyeing hair damages follicles, causing breakage and scalp irritation. Toxins (e.g., ammonia) pose health risks (Nohynek et al., 2004).

This self-harming act, sometimes tied to histrionic traits (DSM-5), signals a willingness to sacrifice health for attention. The typical brain perceives dyed hair as repulsive, reacting to unnatural alterations (Rozin et al., 1993).

Long Hair Without a Haircut

Uniformly long hair without front trimming (a basic haircut) is self-harming neglect. Unmaintained hair becomes brittle and unhygienic.

This may indicate depressive or avoidant tendencies (American Psychological Association, 2019). The typical brain finds this repulsive, signaling mental illness or lack of self-awareness (Gangestad & Scheyd, 2005).

Long Nails

Excessively long nails weaken nail beds, risking infection and fungal growth. This is a self-harming act of vanity.

Such behaviors may align with obsessive-compulsive or narcissistic traits (DSM-5; Pincus & Lukowitsky, 2010). The typical brain perceives long nails as repulsive, prioritizing aesthetics over health (Rozin & Fallon, 1987).

Painted Nails

Nail polish, containing chemicals (e.g., toluene), weakens nails, causing brittleness (Schoon, 2010). This self-harming practice is linked to compulsive grooming (Rappoport, 2015).

It reflects an unhealthy focus on appearance. The typical brain finds painted nails repulsive, associating chemical damage with instability (Buss & Shackelford, 1997).

Heavy Makeup

Heavy makeup damages skin via clogged pores and chemical irritation (e.g., parabens) (Darbre & Harvey, 2008). It is often tied to body dysmorphic disorder (DSM-5).

This self-harming behavior masks natural features. The typical brain perceives it as repulsive, detecting inauthenticity and health risks (Thornhill & Gangestad, 1999).

Revealing Clothing

Highly revealing clothing, signaling attention-seeking and potential promiscuity, is a self-harming act. It is often associated with histrionic personality disorder (DSM-5; Bornstein, 1998).

It undermines relational trust. The typical brain finds such attire repulsive, evoking disgust at cues of infidelity (Tybur et al., 2009).

Conclusion

These self-harming behaviors act as aposematic signals, warning of psychological or physical instability. Such instability may destabilize relationships.

Psychiatric and medical research links these traits to disorders (e.g., body dysmorphia, histrionic personality) or health risks (e.g., infections, toxins). These impair relational functioning (American Psychiatric Association, 2013; Mayo Clinic, 2022).

The neurologically typical brain, shaped by evolutionary pressures, perceives these traits as repulsive. It prioritizes partners who exhibit health, stability, and fidelity (Buss, 1989). Men evaluating potential spouses may consider these signs to reduce risks of relationship failure.

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Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2021). Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs): Health consequences. Retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov/std/health-consequences.htm

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Darbre, P. D., & Harvey, P. W. (2008). Paraben esters: Review of recent studies of endocrine toxicity. Journal of Applied Toxicology, 28(5), 561–578.

Gangestad, S. W., & Scheyd, G. J. (2005). The evolution of human physical attractiveness. Annual Review of Anthropology, 34, 523–548.

Geary, D. C. (2000). Evolution and proximate expression of human paternal investment. Psychological Bulletin, 126(1), 55–77.

Linehan, M. M. (1993). Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder. New York: Guilford Press.

Mayo Clinic. (2022). Tattoos: Understand risks and precautions. Retrieved from https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/tattoo-risks

Nohynek, G. J., et al. (2004). Safety assessment of personal care products/cosmetics and their ingredients. Toxicology and Applied Pharmacology, 243(2), 239–259.

Phillips, K. A. (2005). The Broken Mirror: Understanding and Treating Body Dysmorphic Disorder. Oxford: Oxford University Press.

Pincus, A. L., & Lukowitsky, M. R. (2010). Pathological narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder. Annual Review of Clinical Psychology, 6, 421–446.

Poulton, E. B. (1890). The Colours of Animals: Their Meaning and Use. London: Kegan Paul.

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Rozin, P., et al. (1993). The nature and acquisition of a preference for natural foods. Appetite, 20(3), 189–208.

Sarwer, D. B., et al. (2004). Psychological aspects of cosmetic surgery: A review. Clinical Psychology Review, 24(7), 777–797.

Schoon, D. D. (2010). Nail Structure and Product Chemistry. New York: Milady.

Schmitt, D. P. (2005). Sociosexuality from Argentina to Zimbabwe: A 48-nation study of sex, culture, and strategies of human mating. Behavioral and Brain Sciences, 28(2), 247–311.

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How to Stop and Reverse Depression

Depression is often mistaken for a simple bad mood, but the two are vastly different. A bad mood is temporary and doesn't stop someone from functioning; people can still work, socialize, and care for themselves. Depression, however, is a serious mental health condition that can be dangerous if untreated. It robs individuals of motivation, energy, and the ability to engage with life.

What is Depression?

Unlike a bad mood, depression can be triggered by external psychological factors, like a breakup or loss, or stem from internal psychiatric causes, such as brain damage or chemical imbalances. External causes trap the brain in a cycle of sadness and apathy, often tied to life events.

Internal causes involve physical brain issues requiring medical intervention. People with depression lose interest in their surroundings and neglect personal care and their environment.

Common symptoms include:

Stopping basic hygiene (not bathing, changing clothes, or washing underwear)

Neglecting grooming (not cutting hair or shaving)

Failing to clean their home (leaving dirty dishes, food scraps, or trash)

Withdrawing from social connections and activities

These behaviors aren't laziness; they're signs of a mind overwhelmed by depression. For singles, the condition is particularly dangerous because they may live alone, with no one to notice their decline.

The Dangers of Depression

Neglecting hygiene and home cleanliness creates serious health risks:
Infections and illness: Unwashed bodies and clothes harbor bacteria and fungi, increasing the risk of skin infections or other diseases.

Environmental hazards: Piles of dirty dishes, food waste, and uncollected trash attract pests and mold, further endangering health.

Mental spiral: Isolation and a deteriorating environment worsen feelings of hopelessness, deepening the depressive cycle.

How to Defeat Depression

To overcome depression, take action based on its cause. External psychological depression, triggered by life events, responds to behavioral changes and therapy. Internal psychiatric depression, caused by brain damage or chemical imbalances, requires medical evaluation.

Here are concise steps to start:

Identify the Cause: Determine if your depression stems from external events (e.g., loss, stress) or internal issues (e.g., persistent symptoms despite no clear trigger).

Take Small Steps: Do one small task daily, like showering or washing a dish, to build momentum.

Connect with Others: Reach out to a friend, family member, or support group to break isolation.

Seek Appropriate Help: For external depression, consult a psychologist for therapy (e.g., cognitive-behavioral therapy). For internal depression, seek a psychiatrist for medical evaluation and treatment.

Build Routine: Create a simple daily schedule for tasks like eating or grooming to combat apathy.

Reconnect Emotionally: Listen to and watch your favorite, meaningful music and movies to reconnect with your true self and lift your mood.

Stop and Reverse Depression: Take Action

For external psychological depression, these practical steps can break the cycle and renew your energy:

Quit Alcohol and Drugs: Avoid alcohol and drugs to restore mental clarity.

Shower: Clean your body to feel refreshed and invigorated.

Put on New Clothes: Wear clean clothes to boost your sense of renewal.

Cut Hair Short: A fresh haircut can lift your mood and signal a new start.

Clean Kitchen and Room: Tidy your space to create a calm, organized environment.

Fix or Replace Items: Fix broken things or replace them when needed.

Avoid Antidepressants: Don't use antidepressants, as they may add euphoria to depression, worsening the condition. If you need relief, take aspirin to reduce inflammation and ease physical tension, promoting a calmer state.

These actions spark physical and mental benefits. Showering and clean clothes make you feel fresh. Physical tasks like cleaning or fixing things release adrenaline, energizing your body. Seeing a clean, organized, or newly fixed space triggers dopamine, boosting feelings of accomplishment and joy.

Final Note

Depression is not a weakness; it's a medical condition that can be treated. For singles, the risk is higher because no one may notice the warning signs. If you or someone you know is struggling, act quickly. Reach out to a psychologist for external, psychological depression or a psychiatrist for internal, psychiatric causes like brain damage. Recovery is possible with the right steps and support. You are not alone, and you can reclaim your life.

P.S. If you still need help, contact a local crisis hotline or visit a mental health professional.

Symptoms of Unconscious Psyche and Abnormal Intellect

Mental Fatigue: Concentration difficulty, mental fog, numbness, memory lapses.

Mental Slowness: Slow thinking, confusing cause and effect, impaired judgment.

Schizophrenia: Confusion, alienation, twisted emotions, thoughts, memories, behavior.

Autism: Isolation, fixation, hypersensitivity, preoccupation, detachment, dysfluency.

Madness: Lost senses, instincts, reflexes, emotions, logic, memory, motor skills.

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Abstract

Alcohol and cannabis typically induce relaxation and sociability in healthy individuals but may trigger aggression, violence, disinhibition, and addiction in those with mental illnesses. This article explores how these substances elicit divergent behavioral responses, potentially revealing psychiatric vulnerability across disorders like schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and others, supported by empirical evidence and neurobiological mechanisms.

Introduction

Alcohol and cannabis are widely used for their relaxing and socializing effects. In healthy individuals, these substances enhance mood without altering personality. However, in those with mental illnesses—ranging from schizophrenia to bipolar disorder, personality disorders, and beyond—they often provoke negative behaviors, such as aggression, promiscuity, or addiction.

Mental illness may be natural-born, driven by genetic factors, or acquired, such as through childhood abuse, which can disrupt neurodevelopment and increase psychiatric vulnerability (Teicher & Samson, 2016).

This article examines these contrasting effects, emphasizing mental illness broadly while highlighting schizophrenia as a well-studied case, to evaluate how substance use may reveal psychiatric conditions using facts, evidence, and logical arguments.

Effects in Healthy Individuals

In healthy people, alcohol and cannabis promote positive mood and sociability. Alcohol, a GABA agonist, enhances inhibitory neurotransmission, reducing anxiety and fostering relaxation (Valenzuela, 1997). Cannabis activates CB1 receptors, modulating dopamine and GABA to produce calmness and humor (Mechoulam & Parker, 2013). Studies show low-to-moderate alcohol doses increase social engagement (de Wit et al., 2000), while cannabis users report enhanced sociability (Green et al., 2003). These effects preserve personality, aligning with the substances’ pharmacological profiles.

Effects in Individuals with Mental Illness

In contrast, individuals with mental illnesses often exhibit severe negative reactions. Schizophrenia, a well-studied example, involves dysregulated dopamine and prefrontal cortex function, amplifying substance effects (Krystal et al., 2005). Alcohol can increase aggression in 30–50% of schizophrenic patients (Fazel et al., 2009), with cases documenting physical assaults on spouses, such as punching or choking, or verbal abuse of children, causing emotional trauma (Drake & Wallach, 2000). Cannabis, a psychosis risk factor, heightens violence, such as a schizophrenic patient attacking their child with an object during a delusion (Soyka, 2000).

Other mental illnesses show similar patterns. In bipolar disorder, alcohol can trigger manic episodes, leading to violent outbursts, like smashing household items in front of family, or hypersexual behavior with strangers (Goodwin & Jamison, 2007). Borderline personality disorder patients may exhibit cannabis-induced impulsivity, such as public verbal assaults or inappropriate sexual advances (Trull et al., 2018). Major depressive disorder can worsen with alcohol, prompting suicidal or aggressive acts, while substance-induced psychosis may mimic schizophrenic violence, complicating diagnosis (Salloum & Thase, 2000; Moore et al., 2007).

Both substances reduce inhibitions, leading to risky behaviors. In schizophrenia, alcohol-induced disinhibition causes promiscuous sex, like unprotected encounters with strangers (Coid et al., 2003). Cannabis can prompt perverted behavior, such as exhibitionism (D’Souza et al., 2009). Bipolar mania may drive compulsive sexual encounters, while personality disorders can lead to public sexual misconduct (Goodwin & Jamison, 2007; Trull et al., 2018).

Individuals with mental illnesses are also prone to addiction, not only to alcohol and cannabis but also to behaviors like gambling or compulsive sex. This stems from impaired reward processing, common across schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and personality disorders (Chambers & Potenza, 2003). For example, schizophrenic patients may develop gambling addictions, while bipolar individuals pursue addictive sexual behaviors during mania, exacerbating their condition.

Neurobiological Mechanisms

Healthy brains process alcohol and cannabis via controlled GABA and dopamine modulation, yielding positive effects. In mental illnesses, vulnerabilities amplify adverse responses. Schizophrenia features dopamine hyperactivity and prefrontal deficits, driving psychosis (Krystal et al., 2005). Bipolar disorder involves dopamine surges during mania, while personality disorders show heightened amygdala reactivity, increasing impulsivity (Swann, 2010; Trull et al., 2018).

Depression alters serotonin and dopamine, amplifying negative reactions, and substance-induced psychosis mimics schizophrenic neurochemistry (Salloum & Thase, 2000; Moore et al., 2007). Alcohol’s GABA enhancement causes disinhibition, and cannabis’s CB1 activation triggers dopamine surges, exacerbating pathological behaviors across these conditions (D’Souza et al., 2009).

Implications for Detection

The divergent responses to alcohol and cannabis may reveal mental illness. Aggression, disinhibition, or addiction post-use could prompt clinical evaluation, complementing diagnostic tools. Schizophrenia is a key example, but patterns in bipolar disorder, personality disorders, and other conditions suggest broader applicability. Substance-induced behaviors may overlap with other disorders, requiring careful interpretation.

Conclusion

Alcohol and cannabis elicit relaxation in healthy individuals but aggression, disinhibition, and addiction in those with mental illnesses, reflecting diverse neurobiological vulnerabilities. Schizophrenia is a prominent example, but bipolar disorder, personality disorders, depression, and substance-induced psychosis also show similar patterns, including harm to loved ones, promiscuous or perverted behaviors, and addictive tendencies. These responses highlight substance use as a behavioral probe for revealing mental illness broadly, though further research is needed.

References

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Soyka, M. (2000). Substance misuse, psychiatric disorder and violent crime. British Journal of Psychiatry, 176, 345–350.

Swann, A. C. (2010). Mechanisms of impulsivity in bipolar disorder and related illness. Epidemiologia e Psichiatria Sociale, 19(2), 120–130.

Teicher, M. H., & Samson, J. A. (2016). Annual research review: Enduring neurobiological effects of childhood abuse and neglect. Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 57(3), 241–266.

Trull, T. J., et al. (2018). Borderline personality disorder and substance use disorders: An updated review. Borderline Personality Disorder and Emotion Dysregulation, 5, 15.

Valenzuela, C. F. (1997). Alcohol and neurotransmitter interactions. Alcohol Health and Research World, 21(2), 144–148.

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