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Accidentally burned a bridge yesterday.

submitted by PeckerwoodPerry to tellupgoat_based_edition 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 05:21:53 ago (+25/-1)     (tellupgoat_based_edition)

Not literally of course, there's very few wooden bridges these days. I was pissed at the owner of the place I worked at, and I accidentally sent a text I shouldn't have.

Let me unpack this a bit. So I got a text with this week's schedule. She's been starving me out there for a couple weeks and I only had two days. I accidentally told her to shove those two days up her ass. That's how I really felt, but I didn't mean to send that text. I'm a little neurotic, so sometimes I'll write out a text with what I want to say but then think better of it and delete it. Maybe I shouldn't do that, or maybe I should just say what I want. I dunno. I have another job, so it's fine sort of. It was good money though, and it was off the books.

I'm feeling pretty angry about the whole situation though, and I couldn't sleep last night. Kinda need every dollar I can make right now. It is what it is.


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[ - ] ProudRebel 17 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:44:11 ago (+17/-0)

That's how employers force people to quit. Give them low hours. They want you out. Best to move on. You're a smart guy. Get your hustle on and hire yourself. Also, it's your patriotic duty to pay as little taxes as possible. Good luck!

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 8 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:47:53 ago (+8/-0)

Thanks bro, you're right.

[ - ] yesiknow 11 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 05:38:35 ago (+11/-0)

So now you have two more days to check out other things. She was probably going to stop using you entirely anyway, and without the nuts to say so, she was stalling you off and would continue to do so with one day next week and one day in two weeks.

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 5 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 06:25:51 ago (+5/-0)

Nah she would have kept stringing me along until I put a stop to it. I told her in no uncertain terms that I knew the difference between being used and being utilized. She was just using me, and it's better that I don't abide.

[ - ] bonghits4jeebus 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 13:23:42 ago (+1/-0)

Based.

People will ask and ask and ask, if you can do anything useful. Saying no is as important as saying yes. I usually say no. Simply put, the majority of efforts are by definition not worth my time since the best jobs pay more.

Similarly, when I hire people (to do stuff; I'm no one's boss), I want to be in their 10% best customers. Then they come and do a good job. Short of someone literally being my employee, that's what I can do.

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 7 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 07:22:35 ago (+7/-0)

I stopped giving a fuck entirely about a few years ago. I have never felt so free. I tell people exactly what is on my mind now, no censoring myself.

You would think this would cause me problems, but the opposite is true. No matter how rude or foul my language, everyone seems to find me endearing.
I guess people just respect those they know won’t put up with their shit.

[ - ] drstrangergov 5 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 10:17:18 ago (+5/-0)

isnt that amazing? a hippie called me "lovable" the other day. i've made it pretty clear i think he's full of shit. i guess he agrees.

[ - ] RMGoetbbels 3 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 12:14:55 ago (+3/-0)

///This is My People right here.

[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 6 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 11:48:04 ago (+6/-0)

You know what ya goytta do now. Send her the dick pic.

[ - ] SumerBreeze 7 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 05:56:36 ago (+7/-0)

You can always work somewhere else. Guess you should probably cross her off your reference list, though.

You can always follow up that text with “Jesus was right about the jews” for good measure. 👍

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 5 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 06:08:36 ago (+5/-0)

Always with the good advice. Maybe she should wake up to that this morning.

[ - ] TheSimulacra 3 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 14:02:22 ago (+3/-0)

10 minutes later you can add "...and so was Hitler."

[ - ] letsgetit 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 15:26:59 ago (+0/-0)

If you add in your disdain for DEI hires you're sure to land the next gig

[ - ] UncleDoug 7 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 05:39:28 ago (+8/-1)

I'm a little neurotic, so sometimes I'll write out a text with what I want to say but then think better of it and delete it.

It's cathartic, I used to do that with work emails.

It is what it is.

Something better will come along, it always does.

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 7 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 06:07:28 ago (+7/-0)

You're right. I'm still pissed. I'm not sure what I'm pissed about, probably myself even though I might have done myself a favor. I have strong work ethic so I'm sure it'll be fine. Just gotta tighten the belt for a few days.

[ - ] UncleDoug 13 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 06:10:04 ago (+13/-0)

Without doubt, every time it has happened to me, I have walked into not just something different, but something better.

Treat it as an opportunity to find a new experience, one that wouldn't have existed if you were still toiling away for fuckwits.

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 6 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 06:28:19 ago (+6/-0)

Good advice, Doug. Appreciate it, man. Really.

[ - ] Dindu 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 10:51:48 ago (+1/-0)

It took me a while yesterday to say "I guess I'm embarrassed what I said and how I said it".

It was really a revelation at this old age that I was ashamed and could just admit it.

[ - ] fnbs 3 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 09:56:57 ago (+3/-0)

"Something better will come along, it always does."

That may have been true a decade ago but if you're a White male in your 50's+ you have a very slim chance of landing a good job these days... you are the one demographic who's value hits the wall as you get older... sure theres a slim chance you might find somethin "better" but the odds are not in your favor

[ - ] MasklessTheGreat 4 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:33:15 ago (+5/-1)

Next time don’t allow a woman to be over you. That’s the main issue you had here.

[ - ] Sector2 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 12:02:08 ago (+1/-0)

Beasts of burden need a controller to direct their behaviors, but unless he's literally low IQ or retarded, he shouldn't be looking for anyone to be over him.

[ - ] TheNoticing 2 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 11:46:16 ago (+2/-0)

Sometimes the money isn't worth it, you need to protect your mental health. It's something that too few men think about.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus 2 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 09:30:35 ago (+2/-0)

Lol what a spastic. You should keep a diary instead. All sorts of trackers and spyware are reading your texts, even if you don't send them.

[ - ] drstrangergov 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 10:15:04 ago (+1/-0)

nobody understands how predictive text works.....

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 15:28:53 ago (+0/-0)

Dear diary, Today Dangus called me a spastic and my cat called me a mow. I am depress.

[ - ] Master_Foo 2 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 07:44:17 ago (+2/-0)

ProTip: If you are going to burn a bridge, at least say "Nigger" in the process of doing it.

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:46:22 ago (+0/-0)

Yeah, missed opportunity.

[ - ] con77 2 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 07:04:39 ago (+2/-0)

I had a guy doing that. I was barback at the sportsbar across the street from Tropicana Field. I ghosted him on a game day.fuck em.

[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:15:57 ago (+1/-0)

Fuck me? No, fuck you!

[ - ] GrayDragon 2 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 07:00:42 ago (+4/-2)

... "unpack" ...

Done reading. Fucking reddit faggot nigger.

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 3 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:52:47 ago (+3/-0)

Nigger, you just mad I didn't like that bitch made version of copperhead road you posted.

[ - ] GreatSatan 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:46:57 ago (+1/-0)

Hurtful, damned hurtful!

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 12:12:08 ago (+0/-0)

My diachronic!

[ - ] TomMacdonald 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 14:05:55 ago (+1/-0)

Hah. Me too.

[ - ] TheSimulacra 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 14:00:36 ago (+1/-0)

Text messages could really benefit from a
ARE YOU SURE? request before sending.

[ - ] Cantaloupe 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 10:45:20 ago (+1/-0)*

You're probably better off for it.

That's probably one of those accidentally on purpose things where subconsciously you know what you should do. Start looking for better paid opportunities. Maybe something with direct customer billing.

You could apologize, because you were really upset about the days, not the person; but find something else. For whatever reason they don't have the job you're looking for.

[ - ] drstrangergov 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 10:12:47 ago (+1/-0)

always send first and think later, you silly motherfucker. woops.

[ - ] shitface9000 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 09:55:19 ago (+1/-0)

I would send an apology but don’t expect anything

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 16:31:09 ago (+0/-0)

I'm not sorry though. I refuse to apologize for something I'm not sorry for. I mean, it's gonna suck for a couple weeks. I'm regretful of that, but I'm really not sorry about what I said.

[ - ] GreatSatan 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:45:26 ago (+1/-0)

You dumb peckawood!

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:47:11 ago (+0/-0)

I ain't smert.

[ - ] boekanier 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:40:22 ago (+1/-0)

bridges bring peoples closer together; something positive. If you start burning bridges, where do we go?

[ - ] GlowNiggerDick 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 07:39:34 ago (+1/-0)

You could say your sorry. It's not like you did it front other people. Explain you need the hours,it's probably not her fault she doesn't have a lot of work.

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:51:54 ago (+0/-0)

It's really a complicated work environment, and I'm really not sorry. There's no accountability there, so people that do the bare minimum and/or show up drunk basically get rewarded for bad behavior. Meanwhile, the people that work their sobor ass off get the fuckin shaft.

I have another job making cabinets, but fuck man with the price of groceries, gas, and rent going through the fuckin roof it's not enough. I'll figure it out.

[ - ] Sector2 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 12:09:28 ago (+1/-0)

There are a million types of businesses you could start. If you can be self-directed, your options are wide open.

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry [op] 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 15:35:40 ago (+1/-0)

I have plans and I'm applying for grants, but without start-up capital I can't do shit.

[ - ] rzr97 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:10:48 ago (+0/-0)

Was easy to recover from. Should have just sent her a bunch of laughing emojis and said, "I'd give anything to see your face right now!" Then say, "joking of course."

[ - ] con77 1 point 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 08:18:45 ago (+1/-0)

Only a bitch would do that

[ - ] rzr97 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 23:44:41 ago (+0/-0)

I mean he is in here crying about it.

[ - ] rzr97 0 points 3 weeksMay 20, 2024 23:44:55 ago (+0/-0)

I mean he is in here crying about it.