She doesn't need to be submissive, she just needs to agree that I'm always right most of the time.
* well, except for floor tile choices, paint, curtains, carpet vs. hardwood, the color of shirt I wear, how I address her sister and not call her a fucking bitchfaced cunt to her face, healthy vs. good food(they aren't the same, who knew?) and maybe one or two other things but that's definitely it.
[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 27 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:39:31 ago (+1/-0)
I'm really just trying to understand what was said that is offensive.
Greeted at the door is nonsense. Figure out how to offload shit tasks from each other doesn't seem awful. Let her do her thing, and I do my thing when it comes to packing for travel is something we already do. She knows I pack the vehicle, she says which bag needs to be easily accessable or not.
What do you find confusing? That women might object to being forced to submit to someone else’s will as much as you? Or that I object to an article that tries to pretend submission is something other than it is?
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 2 hoursJun 9, 2025 20:01:03 ago (+1/-0)
Life is better when someone gets Saturday to sleep in, then the other gets Sunday to sleep in.
Doesn't matter if it's the weekend, young kids will always be up. Middle likes to be up by 5:30.
[ + ] Trope
[ - ] Trope 0 points 1 hourJun 9, 2025 20:30:54 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 50 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:16:51 ago (+1/-0)
Whoever is up is the designated caretaker. Breakfast, play, generally easy mornings happen when only one parent is present.
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 46 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:20:48 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] RMGoetbbels
[ - ] RMGoetbbels 1 point 3 hoursJun 9, 2025 18:40:27 ago (+1/-0)
* well, except for floor tile choices, paint, curtains, carpet vs. hardwood, the color of shirt I wear, how I address her sister and not call her a fucking bitchfaced cunt to her face, healthy vs. good food(they aren't the same, who knew?) and maybe one or two other things but that's definitely it.
[ + ] registereduser
[ - ] registereduser 4 points 2 hoursJun 9, 2025 19:11:22 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 2 hoursJun 9, 2025 19:15:46 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] registereduser
[ - ] registereduser 0 points 2 hoursJun 9, 2025 19:58:46 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena -2 points 3 hoursJun 9, 2025 18:50:14 ago (+0/-2)
Its exactly what I think it is. Downvoted for trying to spread mental illness.
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 2 hoursJun 9, 2025 19:14:52 ago (+2/-1)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena -2 points 2 hoursJun 9, 2025 19:43:56 ago (+0/-2)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 2 hoursJun 9, 2025 20:04:59 ago (+1/-0)
You have a big project - would "how could I help?" not be useful?
My wife and I have our days on the weekend where one sleeps in and the other deals with the feral progeny however early they wake up.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1 hourJun 9, 2025 20:07:24 ago (+2/-2)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 45 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:21:58 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 19 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:47:41 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 0 points 49 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:17:45 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit -1 points 45 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:21:39 ago (+0/-1)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 27 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:39:31 ago (+1/-0)
Greeted at the door is nonsense. Figure out how to offload shit tasks from each other doesn't seem awful. Let her do her thing, and I do my thing when it comes to packing for travel is something we already do. She knows I pack the vehicle, she says which bag needs to be easily accessable or not.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena -1 points 14 minutesJun 9, 2025 21:53:11 ago (+0/-1)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 0 points 5 minutesJun 9, 2025 22:01:49 ago (+0/-0)
Funny, since getting married, we've lived in six states. Had I stayed single, I would have stayed in my home state.