I believe that White children growing up these days have a profound confidence problem. Especially White boys. White kids are beaten down by media, teachers, textbooks, and movies. It’s constant. If you’re old enough to remember when things were different, it helps but we have to remember that our children are bombarded with shame daily.
I want to make a conscious effort to instill pride and confidence in my beautiful White children. I want them to feel pride in their ancestors. I’d love to hear from other parents here about how you build confidence in your kids on an age appropriate level. Here’s a few things I’ve thought of or done:
My kids have Nordic ancestry on my husband’s side so I’ve bought them books about Vikings, made Norwegian recipes, played that music, etc. Recently I told one of my kids that when they think something is too difficult to remember they have Viking blood and they are strong and can do anything.
When traveling, I pointed out amazing architecture and told them that their ancestors built those beautiful buildings long ago and they should be proud.
I share stories of the sacrifices our ancestors made to make a better life for us and how they were tough and disciplined through enormous adversity.
My 3 daughters at home have no tv channels and no cellphones.
What they watch is through my media server called kodi. I provide the content post screening. I watch everything they watch, if its judeo-nigger shit it gets deleted and i tell them why its judeo-nigger shit
My wife works with kids, she has seen a 100% correlation with obsession of that show and autism. Our older son watched one episode and immediately had extreme behavior issues. Just say no to paw patrol
My oldest son is an extreme introvert. He's 18 and just lives inside videogames. Trying my best to fix it. My 14 year old son is on 3 soccer teams. The football team and on the track team. Has a pretty girlfriend. I didnt parent either one any differently. They are just completely different people.
Mind-body connection is important. Like bobdole9 said, weightlifting (plus a proper diet) is something that can address that.
If he likes shooter games, taking him out to try archery can be a winning segue.
Solo sports are a good starting point if he doesn't have a good chance at immediate success at team sports. You start with honing the skill, then solo competition, and then team competition. Sometimes it just stays as a hobby, but a hobby that builds mind-body connection is still important.
Give up. You fucked him over when you drugged him to the gills with video games and now he is an addict for the forseable future.
Do better in your next go around.
Ps to those who may think i am harsh. Actions and inactions have consequences. Fucking own them especially when they destroy our kids. Its not hard to control kids access to electronics nor forsee why unlimited access is bad.
Leaving it to chance if they get harmed or not? Fucking retarded
Spoken like a true glue eater. Weak minded parents bawwwww over video games while never being able to describe or define why it chaps their ass so much.
"Lil Timmy didn't hug me today, it must be those damn video games!" Pathetic.
Before the advent of voice comms on online games, if you wanted to play games with friends, it had to be something multiplayer like Mario games on N64, or others that had that capability, which many did. If a kid was technologically savvy, they could do a LAN party with various games. Lots of social activity and bonding with that.
No video - movies, phones, or TV. No candy, orange juice, no shit food.
Train kids to be smarter, stronger, better and moral.
Get them 9k books a week, both fiction and non-fiction. Pre-read the books. Have complex conversations, use a large and sophisticated vocabulary with them.
Teach them yourself especially math, to an Asian level
Train them on all kinds of weapons, improvised weapons and martial arts styles.
I agree with your observation of White boys being beaten down, I just don't have a solution.
White boys are constantly told they are worthless and are subjected to underhanded dirty tricks.
It's when you finally find meaningful work and realize how corrupt parts of society are that you can properly build confidence.
White men are shamed for wanting a livelihood / meaningful work, shamed for wanting a family, shamed for their ancestral identity. Shamed for their Christian heritage. It takes a long time to get to the point of realizing your enemies hate you and have been pretending to be your friend from the start. And you only start to build momentum if someone gives you a chance and you take it on. Some get lucky. Many others don't.
Fight in the shade, you were made to take on the challenge of overbearing adversaries. You need the fighting spirit. Be an instrument of good in life.
Teach them how to tie knots for different purposes, like how the vikings used to on their ships. Buy some rope and show them how to tie a noose, a double dragon knot, a few different hitches for different purposes, etc
tellin them that they once were important is kinda meaningless - you gotta have them actively exploring and learning and improving.
tellin them that they once were important is kinda meaningless - you gotta have them actively exploring and learning and improving.
It's like saying "our family used to be low-end nobility 500 years ago." It means nothing; nobility as a class is gone, hopefully forever (though "judges" sure love to believe they're current day nobility, that's at least my opinion and I'm sticking to it). Or like saying you're related to Copernicus or another famous but old figure.
But anyway, you’ve got the right idea. We’re not just “White”. Everyone of us has a rich and beautiful heritage full of thousands of years of struggle and conquest. Connect with your history. Many cities still have festivals. For example, Chicago has a huge Polish population with festivals.
Krakow along the southern boarder of Poland was destroyed by the savage faggot Mongolians and every day, a horn is still played to remember that day 800 years ago.
Krakow along the southern boarder of Poland was destroyed by the savage faggot Mongolians and every day, a horn is still played to remember that day 800 years ago.
"It is played hourly in four directions from the church tower and commemorates a Mongol invasion in 1241 when, according to legend, an arrow cut short the trumpeter’s alarm signal to close the city gates."
Get them working with their hands. Some sort of physical creation will build confidence through mastering skills. Building useful stuff or just arts and crafts, learning new skills, and getting outside.
Maybe have the boys make their own wooden swords/shields and they can play with them. Or build a chicken coop. Or a dog house, bicycle, gocart, tree fort, whatever, just so long as they can do something and see it built and come to fruition.
And keep at it. The more they make, the more they master the skills needed, the more they figure out how to solve real physical problems, the more confidence they will naturally grow.
[ - ] Master_B 1 point 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 10:09:12 ago (+1/-0)
Your kids are raised by other kids (+people, school, media, etc) half of the time. Put them up for something like boyscouts or something that will help them be creative, social and responsible. I did fine without soda. Try to explain/educate about people/government/media scaremongering to gain upperhand about them. Important redpill imho.
All good advice. I'd lean heavy into the history. At my age (late 30s), arguing with family, uncles, aunts, etc. history is what settles debates on the topic of race.
The kids took to it and learned what our people built, accomplished, and persevered through and have a firm foundation to stand on and be proud of for the rest of their lives.
Each kid is different though, and I found the boys were much harder to wrangle around. The eldest took real world experiences with niggers to start to really believe in the differences. The girl caught on early and day dreams about finding a White racist husband who can share her views.
My kid has nooo problem whatsoever with confidence. She will argue me blue in the face that the ants in the kitchen are NOT there because she left food out. The razzing she gives the other kids on Fortnite is actually unreal.
When my kids had a cultural heritage day at their school (they were at a Catholic school that was heavily Korean) I had them dress up as Roman warriors. Everyone loved their costumes and they were proud of their heritage.
I also put a lot of effort into cooking traditional cuisine well, and playing up how good it is. Even when they don't act like it, kids will naturally prefer what you prefer. Also good to move them into versions of their favorite activities that are white. Ballet or Irish dancing instead of Hip Hop or Jazz if they like dance; horseback riding; cross country skiing (if you want to go Nordic, train for a biathlon and they will get to learn how to shoot an open sight rifle too)
when they think something is too difficult to remember they have Viking blood and they are strong and can do anything.
No, nurture them. That's some "pick yourself up by your bootstraps" boomer shit. Teach them how to do things. My parents never taught me a single fucking thing, and the internet was still new when I was growing up in the late 90's and early 2000's. I still suffer because of it. You need to lead by example. Research whatever it is with them, show them how to do it. Learning by trial and error with certain things can lead to temporary or permanent injury. If they want to try welding, don't you think they would think sunglasses would be okay instead of the full face shield? Kids are incredibly stupid when they're growing up and have zero sense of self-preservation.
I have been enjoying this comment section. My son has a shite dad who disappoints him regularly and doesn’t provide for him financially, while himself earning in the 300’s as a corporate executive. I do the best I can with what I have, and my dad is a chad, but I worry about my son’s confidence often.
If it's a boy get him a dirt bike. Simple, yet, effective. Learns mechanical knowledge, systems of a machine, self-improvement, overcoming fears, etc.. Also, 95% or more of dirt bike people are white and anti-govt by nature. Also, women flock to competent dirt bike riders. Every good rider has a hot girlfriend, from the local races to the TV pros.
Tbh I don't think just telling kids, that they are superior because of their race, is what an actual superior race would do. Pretend you are second best and fighting to the death for first place. Then you might actually have a shot at being best.
Accept that within yourself first, if you want you kids to follow in an in best race way.
This world is asymmetrical and there are a LOT of parents of ALL races and country origins that are kicking some SERIOUS ASS with their kid's accomplishments etc.
Fight to the tooth for actually being superior and look to your neighborhood and community for support and supporting them as well.
No one who is idealistic enough to spend time here handing out advice to strangers is actually arguing that telling kids they're 'superior because I say so' is enough.
You are supposed to explain to them who awesome white people are and literally everything that is great about modern civilization (and some not so great aspects) were pioneered by white people for white people.
Then you tell them how everything was corrupted and it's up to them to make it right again.
You don't have to lie you don't have to embellish. You just tell then what your ancestors did: the truth. Tell them how Africans are better at Basketball or how Asians dominate at table tennis. Tell how feared some colonial troops were or how the Vikings pussied out of Greenland while the Inuit persisted.
But be sure to tell them it was white men that went to every corner of the earth until there was nothing left to discover but the stars in the sky so white men conquered the fucking sky.
I go my route: saying how the purpose of your life is to maximize the reproductive success of genes identical to the ones in your DNA. That everything else about you or your existence is the way it is to service that end.
I'd go further that the purpose of life in general is the infinite approachment of an ultimate lifeforms that can achieve the greatest reproductive success for their genetic code, and evolution serves the purpose of producing this via competition that continually eliminates the worst performers from the running.
And then I'd ask them whether they want their bloodline to be the one that this ultimate lifeforms is descended from.
Additionally, I'd tell them that there's no such thing as morality, and that all there is is subjective feelings and perceptions, and any ethical or moral ideology is all just everyone's personal opinions.
Then I'd throw in my characteristic twist on moral relativism, that since they only have direct access to their own minds, that they understand their opinions better than others, and are obligated to try and make others at least pretend to abide by their morals, to impose their ideas upon others by any means.
I'd say that opinions are memes in the dawkinsian sense, and they they each compete to outlast their alternatives, thus everyone is obligated to impress their opinions upon the minds of others. To optimize the reproductive success of their memetics.
[ + ] Belfuro
[ - ] Belfuro 15 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 00:00:41 ago (+15/-0)
What they watch is through my media server called kodi. I provide the content post screening. I watch everything they watch, if its judeo-nigger shit it gets deleted and i tell them why its judeo-nigger shit
[ + ] namefagsrgay
[ - ] namefagsrgay 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 12:42:12 ago (+0/-0)
Wouldn't you know it....KIKES
[ + ] Mr_
[ - ] Mr_ 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 15:15:42 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Rowdybme
[ - ] Rowdybme 7 points 2 weeksApr 14, 2025 23:29:06 ago (+7/-0)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 4 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 06:50:56 ago (+4/-0)
Weightlifting can help build confidence. Or, he may have been burned a few times by "modern" girls.
[ + ] Cantaloupe
[ - ] Cantaloupe 3 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 01:46:53 ago (+3/-0)
Ask him if he is socializing in video games and point out it's not good to only live in games.
Get him to join clubs maybe like photography, something woman also do. Tell him to get a girlfriend
[ + ] Reunto
[ - ] Reunto 0 points 1 weekApr 17, 2025 07:57:30 ago (+0/-0)
If he likes shooter games, taking him out to try archery can be a winning segue.
Solo sports are a good starting point if he doesn't have a good chance at immediate success at team sports. You start with honing the skill, then solo competition, and then team competition. Sometimes it just stays as a hobby, but a hobby that builds mind-body connection is still important.
[ + ] Belfuro
[ - ] Belfuro -4 points 2 weeksApr 14, 2025 23:54:47 ago (+0/-4)
Do better in your next go around.
Ps to those who may think i am harsh. Actions and inactions have consequences.
Fucking own them especially when they destroy our kids.
Its not hard to control kids access to electronics nor forsee why unlimited access is bad.
Leaving it to chance if they get harmed or not? Fucking retarded
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus 3 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 02:52:34 ago (+4/-1)
"Lil Timmy didn't hug me today, it must be those damn video games!" Pathetic.
[ + ] Belfuro
[ - ] Belfuro 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 15:40:56 ago (+0/-0)
But white men know that video games are the alcohol of millennials and genz.
They offer escape from reality from whence they never learn coping skills, social skills, arts, knowledge, physical activity, relationships.
But do go on judeo-nigger, lecture me more on parenting.
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 15:48:04 ago (+0/-0)
This is a 30 year old argument that has never had any basis in reality. If anyone is having trouble with coping skills, it's you, right now.
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 17:52:42 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 17:51:01 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 17:59:23 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Reunto
[ - ] Reunto -1 points 1 weekApr 17, 2025 07:49:39 ago (+0/-1)
[ + ] Cantaloupe
[ - ] Cantaloupe 6 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 00:25:03 ago (+6/-0)*
Train kids to be smarter, stronger, better and moral.
Get them 9k books a week, both fiction and non-fiction. Pre-read the books. Have complex conversations, use a large and sophisticated vocabulary with them.
Teach them yourself especially math, to an Asian level
Train them on all kinds of weapons, improvised weapons and martial arts styles.
This kid does okay
https://files.catbox.moe/f9mmmr.mp4
Use the loseit app to ensure they have proper protein
Teach them to recognize propaganda, thought leadership, Gnostic-Marxist thought control.
In this way they are more powerful than those that encounter, they are not undermined and lied to. They have traditional heroes from books.
Let them know that some teachers are stupid but more experienced and can win debate with them but still be wrong.
Tell them they will be lied to and disparaged, as there are evil people that want them destroyed.
If there is an issue, move.
Also use intrinsic motivation; you cannot be there all the time so you cannot teach by threats - instead have integrity and honesty.
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 2 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 01:33:10 ago (+2/-0)
my oldest can do the change thing when someone gives you extra to make it even
pretty damn near Asian level if I do say so myself. pats own back
[ + ] Reunto
[ - ] Reunto 0 points 1 weekApr 17, 2025 07:43:23 ago (+0/-0)
White boys are constantly told they are worthless and are subjected to underhanded dirty tricks.
It's when you finally find meaningful work and realize how corrupt parts of society are that you can properly build confidence.
White men are shamed for wanting a livelihood / meaningful work, shamed for wanting a family, shamed for their ancestral identity. Shamed for their Christian heritage. It takes a long time to get to the point of realizing your enemies hate you and have been pretending to be your friend from the start. And you only start to build momentum if someone gives you a chance and you take it on. Some get lucky. Many others don't.
Fight in the shade, you were made to take on the challenge of overbearing adversaries. You need the fighting spirit. Be an instrument of good in life.
[ + ] SumerBreeze
[ - ] SumerBreeze 3 points 2 weeksApr 14, 2025 23:26:03 ago (+3/-0)
tellin them that they once were important is kinda meaningless - you gotta have them actively exploring and learning and improving.
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 17:57:02 ago (+0/-0)
It's like saying "our family used to be low-end nobility 500 years ago." It means nothing; nobility as a class is gone, hopefully forever (though "judges" sure love to believe they're current day nobility, that's at least my opinion and I'm sticking to it). Or like saying you're related to Copernicus or another famous but old figure.
[ + ] DoughGoy
[ - ] DoughGoy 2 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 08:38:12 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] WNwoman
[ - ] WNwoman [op] 1 point 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 08:51:25 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] zongongo
[ - ] zongongo 1 point 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 13:54:20 ago (+1/-0)
Get those Supremacist juices flowing.
[ + ] Trope
[ - ] Trope 2 points 2 weeksApr 14, 2025 23:02:47 ago (+2/-0)
https://youtu.be/ZuLBK6lSL3c?si=tsCj_4mzKi4nw3yD
This was so gay it had me dying laughing.
But anyway, you’ve got the right idea. We’re not just “White”. Everyone of us has a rich and beautiful heritage full of thousands of years of struggle and conquest. Connect with your history. Many cities still have festivals. For example, Chicago has a huge Polish population with festivals.
Krakow along the southern boarder of Poland was destroyed by the savage faggot Mongolians and every day, a horn is still played to remember that day 800 years ago.
[ + ] Panic
[ - ] Panic 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 10:33:59 ago (+0/-0)
"It is played hourly in four directions from the church tower and commemorates a Mongol invasion in 1241 when, according to legend, an arrow cut short the trumpeter’s alarm signal to close the city gates."
And the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xoxlmx1OfuQ
[ + ] PotatoWhisperer2
[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 1 point 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 10:44:24 ago (+1/-0)
Maybe have the boys make their own wooden swords/shields and they can play with them. Or build a chicken coop. Or a dog house, bicycle, gocart, tree fort, whatever, just so long as they can do something and see it built and come to fruition.
And keep at it. The more they make, the more they master the skills needed, the more they figure out how to solve real physical problems, the more confidence they will naturally grow.
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 18:02:26 ago (+0/-0)
I don't know about building stuff your life depends on if you don't know how to weld.
[ + ] PotatoWhisperer2
[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 0 points 2 weeksApr 16, 2025 02:05:26 ago (+0/-0)
Or do what I did as a kid and build them out of spare parts from other broken ones. Learned a lot about mechanical bits from that.
[ + ] Master_B
[ - ] Master_B 1 point 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 10:09:12 ago (+1/-0)
Put them up for something like boyscouts or something that will help them be creative, social and responsible.
I did fine without soda.
Try to explain/educate about people/government/media scaremongering to gain upperhand about them. Important redpill imho.
[ + ] mannerbund
[ - ] mannerbund 1 point 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 09:57:02 ago (+1/-0)
The kids took to it and learned what our people built, accomplished, and persevered through and have a firm foundation to stand on and be proud of for the rest of their lives.
Each kid is different though, and I found the boys were much harder to wrangle around. The eldest took real world experiences with niggers to start to really believe in the differences. The girl caught on early and day dreams about finding a White racist husband who can share her views.
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus 1 point 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 03:01:47 ago (+1/-0)
😬💖
[ + ] Storefront
[ - ] Storefront 0 points 2 weeksApr 16, 2025 01:09:47 ago (+0/-0)
I also put a lot of effort into cooking traditional cuisine well, and playing up how good it is. Even when they don't act like it, kids will naturally prefer what you prefer. Also good to move them into versions of their favorite activities that are white. Ballet or Irish dancing instead of Hip Hop or Jazz if they like dance; horseback riding; cross country skiing (if you want to go Nordic, train for a biathlon and they will get to learn how to shoot an open sight rifle too)
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 15:34:43 ago (+0/-0)
No, nurture them. That's some "pick yourself up by your bootstraps" boomer shit. Teach them how to do things. My parents never taught me a single fucking thing, and the internet was still new when I was growing up in the late 90's and early 2000's. I still suffer because of it. You need to lead by example. Research whatever it is with them, show them how to do it. Learning by trial and error with certain things can lead to temporary or permanent injury. If they want to try welding, don't you think they would think sunglasses would be okay instead of the full face shield? Kids are incredibly stupid when they're growing up and have zero sense of self-preservation.
[ + ] dingbat
[ - ] dingbat 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 13:48:21 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] registered_bot
[ - ] registered_bot 0 points 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 13:32:17 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] observation1
[ - ] observation1 0 points 2 weeksApr 14, 2025 23:29:15 ago (+0/-0)
I found this to be a good article
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www.cnbc.com/2022/06/01/parents-who-raise-confident-smart-and-empathetic-children-do-things-when-their-kids-misbehave.html
[ + ] CoronaHoax
[ - ] CoronaHoax -1 points 2 weeksApr 14, 2025 22:55:38 ago (+1/-2)
Accept that within yourself first, if you want you kids to follow in an in best race way.
This world is asymmetrical and there are a LOT of parents of ALL races and country origins that are kicking some SERIOUS ASS with their kid's accomplishments etc.
Fight to the tooth for actually being superior and look to your neighborhood and community for support and supporting them as well.
[ + ] jerkofalltrades
[ - ] jerkofalltrades 1 point 2 weeksApr 15, 2025 03:55:46 ago (+1/-0)
You are supposed to explain to them who awesome white people are and literally everything that is great about modern civilization (and some not so great aspects) were pioneered by white people for white people.
Then you tell them how everything was corrupted and it's up to them to make it right again.
You don't have to lie you don't have to embellish. You just tell then what your ancestors did: the truth. Tell them how Africans are better at Basketball or how Asians dominate at table tennis. Tell how feared some colonial troops were or how the Vikings pussied out of Greenland while the Inuit persisted.
But be sure to tell them it was white men that went to every corner of the earth until there was nothing left to discover but the stars in the sky so white men conquered the fucking sky.
[ + ] AntiPostmodernist
[ - ] AntiPostmodernist 0 points 1 weekApr 16, 2025 23:28:21 ago (+0/-0)
I'd go further that the purpose of life in general is the infinite approachment of an ultimate lifeforms that can achieve the greatest reproductive success for their genetic code, and evolution serves the purpose of producing this via competition that continually eliminates the worst performers from the running.
And then I'd ask them whether they want their bloodline to be the one that this ultimate lifeforms is descended from.
Additionally, I'd tell them that there's no such thing as morality, and that all there is is subjective feelings and perceptions, and any ethical or moral ideology is all just everyone's personal opinions.
Then I'd throw in my characteristic twist on moral relativism, that since they only have direct access to their own minds, that they understand their opinions better than others, and are obligated to try and make others at least pretend to abide by their morals, to impose their ideas upon others by any means.
I'd say that opinions are memes in the dawkinsian sense, and they they each compete to outlast their alternatives, thus everyone is obligated to impress their opinions upon the minds of others. To optimize the reproductive success of their memetics.