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Help me find a man

submitted by Storefront to whatever 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 14:46:38 ago (+43/-3)     (whatever)

I simply can't take it anymore. I've been looking around for ages. Goats, help me find a man.

I am a decent looking Italian/Irish white woman. My husband died ten years ago and I've raised our kids well. They are white - he was Greek. They've been in Christian schools when I could afford it and conservative public schools when I couldn't. I work and have a very good education. I'm seeking a decent man, divorced, kids, fune - I'd love to be a great mother figure to more kids, and I love kids. I am an excellent cook and housekeeper in addition to my work outside the house. Someone already in Socal would be great as I help take care of my father, who is a disabled Navy veteran and lives here.

I take good care of myself, physically, financially, etc. And I'm genuinely looking for love.


227 comments block


[ - ] observation1 22 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:23:42 ago (+22/-0)

Think about what is your man doing right now. Is he at church? Is he working on his bike? Is he 4-wheelin with the boys? Is he hiking on a trail? Is he in a library studying?

Pick something you like, that he likes. Keep doing that. Then you will meet him.

You won't meet a man on a computer, unless you use an app- but guess what? Then you are meeting a man who uses an app. Better to take up a social hobby if you dont already have one.

[ - ] GhostCow 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:47:37 ago (+5/-0)

Not entirely true. I met my girlfriend on 4chan of all places. Dating for over a year now and getting married next year

[ - ] Empire_of_the_Mind 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:48:02 ago (+5/-0)

"girl"friend

[ - ] Clubberlang 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:34:52 ago (+4/-0)

^This

[ - ] Belfuro 4 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 01:49:57 ago (+4/-0)

Came to say that im pretty sure that this post has the most comments in voat history.

[ - ] boekanier 4 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 03:51:05 ago (+4/-0)

and I will add another to it!

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:00:11 ago (+0/-0)

Women have pulling power.

[ - ] lord_nougat 21 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:27:03 ago (+21/-0)

This guy seems pretty cool.

[ - ] con77 11 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 16:36:38 ago (+11/-0)

he can see 2 miles because his eyes point in two different directions

[ - ] ProudRebel 9 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:32:23 ago (+9/-0)

Can I have your meme collection when you die?

[ - ] lord_nougat 11 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:43:01 ago (+11/-0)

I'm crayoning you into my will now!

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:37:31 ago (+2/-2)

An insensitive comment but one we'd expect from you.

[ - ] lord_nougat 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:22:59 ago (+5/-0)

Thanks!

[ - ] paul_neri 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:23:59 ago (+2/-1)

Oh!

[ - ] Clubberlang 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:36:00 ago (+4/-0)

Did your boyfriend just slip you the tip?

NM don't want to know.

[ - ] paul_neri 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:37:22 ago (+2/-1)

You have a nasty little mind!

[ - ] fritz_maurentod 20 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 16:40:59 ago (+20/-0)

@BigGuyFromQueens is willing to relocate if you take care of his mother.

[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 6 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:11:16 ago (+6/-0)

yeah but she'd be subject to all his "muh dick" jokes.

[ - ] Clubberlang 6 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:39:50 ago (+6/-0)

🤣

[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 2 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:59:36 ago (+2/-0)

Bwahahahaha!

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:52:02 ago (+1/-1)

7/10

[ - ] mahavishnunj 19 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:05:23 ago (+19/-0)

Do you like 50 year old guitar players who look 85? I'm willing to relocate.

[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 6 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:08:20 ago (+6/-0)

kek

"but I have yuge wiener...however, it won't get hard on its own --I mean, have you ever tried to shoot pool with a rope? Oh I will require X amount of cocaine per week and a keg of beer"

[ - ] Scyber 14 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:57:00 ago (+14/-0)

GLOWIE ALERT - OP'S ACCOUNT IS 2 MONTHS OLD - BEWARE

[ - ] o0shad0o 7 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:22:12 ago (+7/-0)

Nothing worse than a glowie catfishing lol.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 22:52:47 ago (+5/-1)

Im a little worried about this.OP has not been around very long.

[ - ] dingbat 9 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:21:59 ago (+9/-0)

Yep. I definitely feel glownigger vibes from this user, tbh.

[ - ] Ragnar 3 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:10:47 ago (+3/-0)

Yepp

[ - ] recon_johnny 9 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:25:35 ago (+9/-0)

She was talking meetup a couple weeks back

[ - ] PostWallHelena 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:37:00 ago (+4/-1)

I remember

[ - ] Storefront [op] 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 13:31:43 ago (+2/-2)

I'm not a glownigga! I've been lurking on voat since old voat. Any way, I'm real, I'm just weird.

[ - ] recon_johnny 2 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 19:38:47 ago (+2/-0)

Sure, that’ll pull all the guys.

But there are no women on the internet. You know this.

[ - ] paul_neri 1 point 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:03:26 ago (+1/-0)

an OGL...phwoar!

[ - ] jfroybees 1 point 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 05:15:02 ago (+1/-0)

You are horny, remember?

[ - ] Ragnar 3 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:10:19 ago (+3/-0)

And he/she recently asked for this exact advice
https://www.upgoat.net/viewpost?postid=67bcc0ff5cf0a

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:07:04 ago (+0/-0)

deleted

[ - ] Cunty 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:17:00 ago (+0/-0)

In your case Queeri it's probably the start of dementia setting in, given your age and all that!.

[ - ] Storefront [op] -1 points 1 monthApr 19, 2025 16:48:45 ago (+0/-1)

No, I didn't ask for the exact same thing. Once I asked for the advice; then realizing I don't want "advice" just a man, I reposted.

[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 13 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:06:16 ago (+13/-0)

Do you have one of those Italian woman mustaches that you have to wax? Asking for a fren.

[ - ] Clubberlang 7 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:44:26 ago (+7/-0)

🤣

[ - ] Storefront [op] 0 points 1 monthApr 19, 2025 16:49:27 ago (+0/-0)

Yes! But I waxed it so much it now does not regrow. AMA.

[ - ] WNwoman 12 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 16:46:00 ago (+12/-0)

Didn’t you recently get baptized? Are there not any men at church? Or people at church that know a single man?

[ - ] paul_neri 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:40:38 ago (+6/-1)

Religious types are a sore point with me at the moment as the local Jehovah's Witnesses have resumed banging on my door after a long truce. I've enlarged my "piss off" sign; re-installed a security camera; and I'm going to get some posters of naked men/naked women and affix them to the wall near the front door.

[ - ] bobdole9 9 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:05:28 ago (+9/-0)

Settle down, Paul.

Images of alcohol should be enough to keep them away. No need for the porn.

[ - ] Clubberlang 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:38:42 ago (+3/-0)

as the local Jehovah's Witnesses have resumed banging on my ^back door after a long truce...

Fixt.

[ - ] o0shad0o 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:21:04 ago (+3/-0)

Do what I do. Keep a (fake) skull (I got one for Halloween) in the window next to the door. It'll weird 'em out.

[ - ] Ragnar 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:31:25 ago (+3/-0)

Any excuse to get pictures of naked men with you

[ - ] Sector2 3 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 12:04:48 ago (+3/-0)

People have reported that answering the door naked gets your address on some sort of JW blacklist.

[ - ] paul_neri 2 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 03:55:22 ago (+2/-0)

Bro, bro...when you have a body like a Greek god...my worry is it will have the opposite effect!

[ - ] lord_nougat 2 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 14:44:00 ago (+2/-0)

They seem pretty harmless.

For some reason, my brother utterly detests them as well. I tolerate t hem because at least they're not kikes or niggers.

[ - ] paul_neri 3 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:16:29 ago (+3/-0)

They are far from harmless. They are a fanatical cult imo.

[ - ] lord_nougat 1 point 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:55:54 ago (+1/-0)

Pretty sure that is literally what he said.

Holy fuck, bro! I didn't realize this was your username all along!

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 14, 2025 04:22:02 ago (+0/-0)

?

[ - ] jfroybees 2 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 05:20:48 ago (+2/-0)

Go ahead. Just tell them you're fine, thank you, but they don't need to visit anymore. Go ahead, tell them no and see what happens.

[ - ] lord_nougat 2 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 09:14:08 ago (+2/-0)

They leave?

Or do you have fancy ones that juggle and dance for you there?

[ - ] jfroybees 1 point 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 20:50:31 ago (+1/-0)

They leave and come back with reinforcements and park all over your space. They stay for hours because it's safe there, with shady spots. They bring snacks or a meal to prolong the presence of their cult army. Wish they did do something spectacular besides come TWICE a week doing their cult message and earning extra wings or even salvation by knocking on doors and insisting on leaving their apocalypse mag. Why can't they get back on the main road and travel half a mile and start getting into the neighborhoods that will get them mighty big angel wings spreading their beliefs there?

[ - ] lord_nougat 1 point 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 21:33:11 ago (+1/-0)

Oh, that would hardly be noticed since it's just constantly like that here.

[ - ] FreeinTX 12 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:25:18 ago (+12/-0)

You will never be a woman.

[ - ] ruck_feddit 10 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 16:23:14 ago (+10/-0)

You left out all the important details like your age, age of kids, vague line of work you are in, etc. I get it, just be vague or in general or whatever.

For example: if you're 40, your kids are 10 and 11, and you're a nurse or flight attendant or lawyer, that sucks.

[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:11:29 ago (+1/-0)

[ - ] UncleDoug 9 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:35:41 ago (+10/-1)

The clear and vast majority of men are not going to entertain the prospect of raising someone else’s children.

[ - ] paul_neri 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:47:00 ago (+4/-1)

Yes, quite true.The single mum next door to me seems to have 5-6 kids (4 boys!) She's youngish 30's, reasonably attractive.Her selling point is her big boobs but bloody heck it must be depressing to think she'll never hook up again.

[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens 2 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 06:01:32 ago (+2/-0)

SHE NEED A REAL NIGGUH LIKE ME

ILL TELL THEM BOYS THEY CANT COME BACK TO THE HOUSE UNTIL THEY STEAL $500 OF SHIT FROM TARGET OR BRING ME BOTTLES OF HENNY

U GOTTA EARN UR STAY IN MY CASTLE U HEARD

[ - ] bobdole9 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:07:35 ago (+2/-0)

She's stated before a "Brady Bunch" scenario would be best. Everyone has kids already and they blend.

Bachelor male would not likely pursue an older woman with kids.

[ - ] UncleDoug 6 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:43:32 ago (+6/-0)

Fantasy scenario.

[ - ] Gowithit 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:50:01 ago (+4/-0)

I had a woman swear to me she wouldnt get rid of her new husband's kids because thats the stepmoms go to.

Turned out she did end up getting rid of the new guys kids because that's always the stepmoms go to.

[ - ] bobdole9 6 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:54:07 ago (+6/-0)

So the moral of the story is "don't remarry until the kids have left the house"?

[ - ] Gowithit 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:55:01 ago (+4/-0)

Yes.

[ - ] bobdole9 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:58:58 ago (+3/-0)

Do you still need to stay within "half plus seven" rules or not so much?

If I had ten years of nothing, then the kids were finally grown, I would like to find someone nice.

[ - ] Gowithit 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 20:04:35 ago (+2/-0)

at least 10 years older than your kids in my opinion.

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:37:15 ago (+0/-0)

Who’s making these rules?

[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:38:07 ago (+1/-0)

Me.

[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:36:17 ago (+1/-0)

Nope, you don’t have to follow any retarded rules. Date a 22 year old if you can

[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:38:27 ago (+1/-0)

Nope, you don’t have to follow any retarded rules

How we got here

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:58:16 ago (+0/-0)

Nah mate, we got here because of following rules. A retarded rule of Dating within your age group, for instance, is why our fertility rate has catered.

If a man is, say, 56 and has his wealth, why must he date a 35 year old with bleak reproductive prospects. He can date a 26 year old and have multiple kids.

Yes, old father is not ideal and yes, he’ll be robbing a young guy of his potential mate but we have a fertility crisis rn. We need to up our numbers. So if a guy is resourceful and can leave a good life for the children, go for it.
Plus, men never expire sexually so the 30 year old he “robbed”!can still reproduce with a 22 year old well in his forties

[ - ] UncleDoug 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 20:35:54 ago (+4/-0)

I’ll tell you straight up. 99% of guys are repulsed by a woman with kids. The only way it’s entertained is if she is still fertile, has big boobs, has had less than two kids and isn’t completely blown out and the man interested in her isn’t financially secure yet, also those kids have to go.
Any other guy accepting step daddy role would most likely dry up you vagina quicker than midday sun on the Sahara. They don’t have boundaries, self respect, confidence, authority or a life plan.

[ - ] Gowithit 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 20:45:37 ago (+3/-0)

They don’t have boundaries, self respect, confidence, authority or a life plan.


That's why they are so malleable and can be convinced to drop their own blood like hot rocks.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 3 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:23:02 ago (+3/-0)

I mean, lots of men sign up to help raise step kids, especially white men. A guy down the street from me is raising a couple of niglets that look like purebloods. It ain’t 99%.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:28:32 ago (+0/-0)

divorced with kids men or single no kids?

[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:33:09 ago (+1/-0)

Both. Certainly single no kids guys. Lots of lonely desparate guys. Also some of these moms are good looking ya know?

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 12:13:57 ago (+0/-0)

down the street from me... a couple of niglets that look like purebloods

Time to move.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 14:34:03 ago (+0/-0)

To where? West Virginia? Every streat has some kind of nigger or shitskin on it.

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 15:08:24 ago (+0/-0)

https://www.arcgis.com/apps/mapviewer/index.html?webmap=30d2e10d4d694b3eb4dc4d2e58dbb5a5

Racial dot map. Zoom in to 1 dot = 1 person. Nice map tools.


https://maps.geo.census.gov/ddmv/map.html

This one is just racial percentages, one race at a time. Quick way to see concentrations of interest. Click "Race Alone, Not...", then White or black. Zoom in on your area.

[ - ] Storefront [op] 0 points 1 monthApr 19, 2025 16:52:33 ago (+0/-0)

I'm not asking for that, but a good male role model for my kids would be wonderful. Despite your bitterness toward women apparently, I did raise my kids well. They are respectful and good in school, lots of friends and Christian. I like men with kids because people without kids tend to be alien to me. They just don't understand a lot of things that parents understand.

[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens 2 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 06:02:48 ago (+2/-0)

That’s probably because they were already too big to drown in a tub.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 06:03:14 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 9 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:24:40 ago (+9/-0)

It’s a numbers game. This may sound crass, but you need to talk to as many men as possible. You don’t need to be getting physical with anyone, just keep talking to different guys until one sparks your interest, then try and get a date. Go to places where a quality guy might hang out. Smile. Be open to conversation. Don’t judge too harsh.

[ - ] bobdole9 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:33:07 ago (+5/-0)

What you described is why I went with the paid app route. Handful of first dates and eventually my wife found me.

[ - ] paul_neri 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:42:15 ago (+2/-1)

Did she like you?

[ - ] bobdole9 10 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:58:16 ago (+10/-0)

She initiated conversation on the app; stated that my profile description was honest (I'm a smart-ass teddy bear.)

Our first date lasted so long, the restaurant was closing down and we were asked to head to the bar. We didn't notice five hours passed.

Now we have three kids and about to have a family business.

[ - ] dingbat 6 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 20:11:59 ago (+6/-0)

Awww 🥰

[ - ] Ragnar 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:33:17 ago (+5/-0)

That’s really sweet. Good job

[ - ] Reawakened 9 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:15:47 ago (+9/-0)

Check your standards. Chances are there's somebody that you already know that you honestly enjoy, but you've got them in the friend zone. All the White knights already have princesses.

[ - ] paul_neri 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:50:44 ago (+4/-2)

Yes I'm a happily married man albeit my princess is an atrocious human-being.

[ - ] bobdole9 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:59:46 ago (+5/-0)

Taming of the Shrew

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:28:01 ago (+0/-0)

Shrew?

https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2018/jun/15/can-scotland-save-its-wildcats-from-extinction#img-1

The Scottish wildcat is a European wildcat (Felis silvestris silvestris) population in Scotland. It was once widely distributed across Great Britain.

[ - ] bobdole9 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 08:34:55 ago (+0/-0)

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 10:03:56 ago (+0/-0)

How do you not know Shakespeare?
Fucking illiterate darkie

[ - ] goat777 9 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:07:37 ago (+10/-1)

You definitely don't want the guys here, or anyone they'd recommend. They're either old smokers with beards containing crumbs of food, or younger guys that don't work out and play video games.

Go meet a good guy organically at the shooting range or Cabela's or grocery stores or martial arts schools or idk anywhere an interesting man might wander. If you look for an internet guy though all you'll get is an internet guy.

[ - ] Trope 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:44:01 ago (+0/-0)

Hey, I’m a younger guy that works out, doesn’t play video games, and just bought a nice pistol from Cabela’s. Married though.


And been itching to develop a computer game in my free time.

[ - ] goat777 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 08:41:03 ago (+0/-0)

"Itching to develop a computer game"

Nope. No coders, they have no real hobbies and don't have an adventurous bone in their bodies. Peloton, bodyweight exercises, and jogging don't count as a workout. If my biceps are bigger than yours, which they likely are, whatever you're doing doesn't count as a workout.

[ - ] Trope 0 points 1 monthApr 21, 2025 21:36:51 ago (+0/-0)

I completely agree with your sentiment. I’m in a unique scenario where I learned to use the software as a kid and have wanted to play around with it. I’m not a coder.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 1 monthApr 19, 2025 16:57:29 ago (+0/-0)

Adorable. If you left out the married and computer game you'd have a line of grandmas at your door with a plate of food and a picture of their granddaughter.

[ - ] con77 8 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 16:38:27 ago (+8/-0)

I have a black belt in cunnilingus.

[ - ] Zyklonbeekeeper 10 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:26:03 ago (+10/-0)

I can tell a joke in 5 languages, I'm a "cunning linguist"

[ - ] Clubberlang 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:43:49 ago (+4/-0)

Queeri gets excited.

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:53:12 ago (+2/-3)

Cynabuns speaking: "Reported".

[ - ] Sleazy 6 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:35:41 ago (+6/-0)

There are men literally everywhere

[ - ] paul_neri 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:51:24 ago (+3/-1)

You'd know.

[ - ] Clubberlang 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:42:28 ago (+3/-1)

Says the faggot

[ - ] ItsOk2bArian 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:54:30 ago (+5/-0)

Have you met our head of the bachelor department @Big_Fat_Dingus?
He needs a hug too

[ - ] paul_neri 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:05:09 ago (+4/-1)

Yes...from an Anaconda!

[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens 2 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 06:06:38 ago (+2/-0)

chuckle<

[ - ] rzr97 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:49:09 ago (+5/-0)

A lot of guys just need friends. Maybe you could start there. Just make friends. Nothing more. You could sort out the good from the bad that way and take more time to vet them.

[ - ] Sector2 5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:26:36 ago (+5/-0)

I am an excellent cook and housekeeper

Good try, but I learned my lesson the first time.

@goat777 has good advice. Look in real life.

[ - ] Gowithit 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:30:34 ago (+5/-1)

Remember that one user who said she could iron and make a cake?

I miss her.

[ - ] Sector2 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:50:46 ago (+2/-0)

Hmmm, what did I miss? Who was she?

To be honest though, the single thing I've wanted ironed in the past 5 or 10 years is my Wagner Group PMC flag. And I don't eat cake. @Storefront is in the lead, although I'm easily outdistancing both of them.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:56:15 ago (+1/-1)

Mist it with some water and throw it in the dryer for a bit.

I looked for the user but couldn't find the comment.she used to come into the chat and would have the most outlandish rants.

[ - ] Storefront [op] 2 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 13:29:05 ago (+2/-0)

I did not expect so much feedback, and will read through it - I just anticipated getting roasted. Thanks you lunatics!

[ - ] Merlynn 3 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 02:21:26 ago (+3/-0)

Most women in the "second time around" dating pool are often obsessed with finding a man to "take care of them". They want men with money who will do the house work and won't ask them for sex. Essentially,they want a new dad.

So now that you know what your competition is like,you should have some idea of how easy it is to out perform them. Consider what you want your man to be like and go to places he'd be at to do those things. Talk to people,just casual conversation and see what people are like. Being open and friendly will do a lot for you. Just keep an open mind and see where it takes you.

[ - ] Master_Foo 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:37:58 ago (+7/-3)

Post tits or GTFO

90% of your resume is red flags.
You better be ready for a man who is 90% red flags too.

[ - ] MCDLXXXVIII 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:46:02 ago (+3/-0)

Post tits or GTFO

How very jewish of you.

red flags.

100% of what you say or post are red flags.

Glow harder kike.

[ - ] Master_Foo 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:09:50 ago (+2/-2)

100% of what you say or post are red flags.
Like what?
Specifically?

Is it when I declare White Blood and White Soil my highest power?

Or is it when I advocate for the crucifixion of Jews and their supporters?

What exactly do you disagree with?

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:12:40 ago (+1/-1)

More honest than anything.

An odd choice to come running out the gate asking for company. It's been three times 4 actually in less than a six week span.

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:00:57 ago (+0/-0)

Good point. Something is off here

[ - ] namefagsrgay 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 22:35:42 ago (+0/-0)

He has a point. Looks are important. If this person wants to dox or whatever they're actually doing they should be upfront about what they look like. Or at least post some AI tits

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:36:35 ago (+0/-0)

upfront! She's Storefront. How more upfront can she be ffs!

[ - ] Joe_McCarthy -2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:48:16 ago (+3/-5)

Actually, a solo video would probably help her here more than anything.

I see no reason to bullshit here.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:13:30 ago (+1/-1)

The ai relies on you being fooled so easily.

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:59:03 ago (+1/-2)

It didn't take long for someone to turn this poor woman's plea into an exercise in salaciousness! Shame on you!

[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:01:58 ago (+1/-0)

Mate, all the simping in the world ain’t gonna het dick wet

[ - ] TheNoticing 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 16:31:42 ago (+4/-0)

Increasing numbers of men are abstaining from relationships.

[ - ] hylo 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 20:22:11 ago (+3/-0)

This must be a troll post.

[ - ] jsac 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:58:02 ago (+3/-0)

mmm the ol playing another mans saved game situation.....

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 12:19:08 ago (+0/-0)

Where your saved checkpoint is immediately before you die.

[ - ] letsgetit 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:44:28 ago (+3/-0)

It's going to be tough finding a decent guy willing to help raise 2 kids. Don't give me the "I'm not looking for a man to raise my 2 kids bullshit". He's attached to it one way or another.

There's men everywhere. I'm assuming you have standards in your head you'll accept. Most guys on apps are just going to smash and have fun for a few months and move on. It's your job to filter these fuckbois. Especially if you are a single mom. Meeting someone in real life might be your best chance, but you'd have to bring extra to the table compared a 23 year old with no kids.

[ - ] Sunman_Omega 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:57:54 ago (+2/-0)

It's too bad that Paul Neri is taken, I hear he's a great... oh wait, you said "man." Sorry.

[ - ] dingbat 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:59:51 ago (+2/-0)

You have to be willing to “put yourself out there”. If you are just hanging out at home with the kids it’s going to be hard to happen. I’m hoping your kids are older. If that’s the case, try online dating, but a site that is more serious (Eharmony or Match) There’s lots of guys out there who had bitchy wives they got divorced from and want to commit. If their kids are older and your kids are older (meaning above 15!!!!!!!!) you’re good to go. If your kids are younger, sorry sister, you gotta raise them and wait till they’re an appropriate age.

[ - ] UncleDoug 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 20:27:14 ago (+1/-0)

Online dating is why 60-70% of all men these days aren’t even interested in dating anymore.

[ - ] dingbat 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:19:40 ago (+1/-0)

I met the guy who J-Pilled and sent me here online—he was a womanizer and an alcoholic, unfortunately.

[ - ] lord_nougat 1 point 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 14:49:02 ago (+1/-0)

I raise my glass to him.

[ - ] dingbat 2 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 16:28:16 ago (+2/-0)

I do, too. He did some important work and changed my life before he died. I loved him deeply.

[ - ] WillisJaxson 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:45:05 ago (+2/-0)

A traditional matchmaking service if there's a good one in your area. Costs money, but that's a barrier to the unserious.

[ - ] Cantaloupe 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:29:52 ago (+2/-0)*

When the weather is bad, online, MMOs, via social connections, via clubs.

When the weather is nice, outdoor activities maybe biking.

That's super hard with young kids. Unless someone can watch them for you. People might assume you are married, or that you would not want to be bothered if you are with your kids.

Can you imagine some guy approaching you near a playground - he might get arrested.

[ - ] Not_a_redfugee 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 14:58:29 ago (+2/-0)

How old are your kids?

[ - ] Nosferatjew 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 22:54:57 ago (+1/-0)

They are white - he was Greek

Eh, close enough.

[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:30:02 ago (+1/-0)

Is it just me or does anyone else remember reading this post a few months ago?

I think you made this post before.
Anyway, since you haven’t met anyone at work so far, ask your friends to introduce you to someone good. Your friends know you and you probably trust them.
Otherwise, online is your only bet. Go on widowed specific sites or Christian matches. Just avoid hook up apps.
Or go visit Ireland

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:30:50 ago (+0/-0)

Not just you. I left a similar comment on this cluster fuck of replies.

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 22:24:34 ago (+0/-0)

Link me to your comment

[ - ] CoronaHoax 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:28:37 ago (+2/-1)

Move to an actual place where people are alive and actually bumping in to other in their daily lives. Philadelphia, NYC, San Fran. Or move out of the country to some of the other cities in the world where it's built for walking and everyone does so instead of owning a car.

Every time I go out to the suburbs it's like wow, no wonder you all are complaining.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:56:56 ago (+1/-1)

You didn't mention Canberra!

[ - ] CoronaHoax 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 20:26:16 ago (+1/-0)

I never thought of Australia having a capital =)

[ - ] Clubberlang 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:46:12 ago (+0/-0)

No one mentions Canberra.

Although it was designed by an American.

You're welcome.

[ - ] paul_neri 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:28:33 ago (+2/-1)

Found!

[ - ] Trope 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:04:57 ago (+1/-0)

Yea, hook up with Neri, OP.

I believe he’s eastern Australia along the jungly shores.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 04:41:39 ago (+0/-0)

Nah. New Dames are nothing but hard work and trouble. Better the enemy you know!

[ - ] jfroybees 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:08:42 ago (+2/-1)

You didn't capitalize the "w" in White.

[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:19:11 ago (+1/-0)

It’s a numbers game. This may sound crass, but you need to talk to as many men as possible. You don’t need to be getting physical with anyone, just keep talking to different guys until one sparks your interest, then try and get a date. Go to places where a quality guy might hang out. Smile. Be open to conversation. Don’t judge too harsh.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 02:23:44 ago (+0/-0)

Some good advice there: "need to talk to as many men as possible". It's all about selling ourselves and being exposed to customers. As the dame in the film "Chaotic Ana" says: "We flirt and then we choose".

[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 14:52:03 ago (+4/-3)

Come to Florida, we will have a blast REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

(I live by the Gulf of Florida).

[ - ] Gowithit 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:18:41 ago (+3/-1)

Horrible.

[ - ] bobdole9 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:34:13 ago (+0/-0)

Your ass is gonna need to go west.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:03:12 ago (+0/-0)

I'm impressed! Do you live near a bayou?

[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 05:57:00 ago (+0/-0)

AYO MA IM A REAL NIGGUH I GOT U

WE CAN SMOKE WEED N DRINK HENNY UNTIL OUR WIC RUN OUT U HEARD

HOLLA BACK

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 02:20:14 ago (+0/-0)

We are all looking for love, hunnybunny, but most of us will never find it.

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:09:07 ago (+0/-0)*

Proof you just recently asked this same question, dude

https://www.upgoat.net/viewpost?postid=67bcc0ff5cf0a

You are glowing

[ - ] dosvydanya_freedomz 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:57:22 ago (+0/-0)

[ - ] i_scream_trucks 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:37:52 ago (+0/-0)

THERE ARE NO GIRLS ON THEBL INTERNET

[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:34:19 ago (+0/-0)

It’s a numbers game. This may sound crass, but you need to talk to as many men as possible. You don’t need to be getting physical with anyone, just keep talking to different guys until one sparks your interest, then try and get a date. Go to places where a quality guy might hang out. Smile. Be open to conversation. Don’t judge too harsh.

[ - ] bobdole9 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:56:26 ago (+0/-0)

Meant to post this comment three times?

[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 0 points 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 09:10:53 ago (+0/-0)

Nope. Not sure how that happened….

[ - ] DoughGoy 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:26:39 ago (+0/-0)

Id give it a shot myself, but I can't leave Louisiana.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:25:56 ago (+0/-0)

I too am of Italian/Irish heritage. Us mongrels need to stick together!

[ - ] namefagsrgay 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 22:29:26 ago (+1/-0)

I also am European nigger.

[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:12:53 ago (+0/-0)

Eww

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:47:55 ago (+1/-1)

Ok we've read your resume but you left off an essential piece of information - how would you describe your boobs?

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:35:57 ago (+1/-1)*

I have found the new love of your life - a dude called @GrayDragon . He is 50'ish; likes cooking; clean and tidy; doesn't do hard drugs; has a job and a sense of humour and lives in Philadelphia (which is in America somewhere).His only bad points are that he is antisemite and racist.

Edit: Oh and dangus said he's a good-looker.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:30:37 ago (+1/-1)

"Fune" has multiple meanings. In Italian, it translates to "rope", "line", "cord", or "cable". In the context of sake brewing, it refers to a large, rectangular box used for pressing sake mash. Additionally, "fune" can also refer to Fune Local Government Area in Yobe State, Nigeria. In Ghost of Tsushima, it's a character name. It also appears in the title of an album by Takuya Ishida called "Fune".
FUNE | translate Italian to English - Cambridge Dictionary [Library Service]


[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 00:14:29 ago (+0/-0)

Why don’t you fune yourself

[ - ] goatfugee12 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:40:37 ago (+2/-2)

soCal, white? lmfao learn to speak spanish bitch.

[ - ] RMGoetbbels 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:33:36 ago (+0/-0)

^^^ Not hairy enough for you. ^^^^

[ - ] NaturalSelectionistWorker 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:30:58 ago (+2/-2)

I need a woman young enough to have kids with me, preferably not a jew worshiper, sorry. Good luck finding a single dad who'd take someone else's kids in order to have a babysitter for his.

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy -2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 14:50:15 ago (+5/-7)

You won't find any here. This place is filled with nigger loving effeminate faggots.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 14:52:46 ago (+6/-2)

I'm not like the other guys tho

[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:12:33 ago (+1/-1)

annnnd the big brown stain in his tighty whities says that is a lie

[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 06:58:10 ago (+1/-1)

they came like that from Goodwill

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:12:49 ago (+0/-1)

Correct.You have a strange fixation.

[ - ] Anus_Expander -1 points 2 monthsApr 12, 2025 06:57:47 ago (+0/-1)

STFU

[ - ] Kozel 4 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:35:18 ago (+5/-1)

you're here, and you don't know anyone else here personally, so presumably this is a self projection applied at site level

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy -3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:39:58 ago (+0/-3)

and you don't know anyone else here personally

Oh I don't? Esl kike seething like a bitch. Hilarious how you pretend to know everything about me.

[ - ] Kozel 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:00:23 ago (+1/-1)

By your own admission the person you know personally is, as you have very clearly defined, a "nigger loving effeminate faggot", as well as yourself.

Must be hard to exist with double digit IQ. Setting yourself up for Ls and throwing around bans to compensate for a lack of intellect.

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy -2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:05:42 ago (+0/-2)

Did I say every person here is an effeminate nigger loving faggot? I said the place is filled with them. Must be hard to exist with a double digit iq. Setting yourself up for Ls and throwing around bans to compensate for a lack of intellect.

[ - ] Kozel 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:14:12 ago (+2/-1)

if you weren't a nigger loving effeminate faggot you wouldn't get into a semantical debate regarding your level of nigger loving effeminate faggotness, simple as

you also wouldn't ban when your feelings were hurt, effeminate bitch boy

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy -2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:18:14 ago (+0/-2)

Pure projection, you're the one who started this "debate" you retarded esl nigger.

[ - ] Kozel 3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:29:18 ago (+3/-0)

You initiated a claim in a public forum and got emotional when challenged, effeminatepeeoboy.

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy -2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:33:35 ago (+0/-2)

I just corrected you, nigger tier dumbass. You're the one who's emotional lol

[ - ] Kozel 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:39:22 ago (+2/-0)

lol

literally a response to emotion

dirtywhiteboy.jpg = https://files.catbox.moe/7helii.jpg

[ - ] Clubberlang -1 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:49:43 ago (+0/-1)

Just fuck already faggots and send greensaint the video.

[ - ] Joe_McCarthy -3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:49:45 ago (+2/-5)

You're a FBI account. And the worst poster currently active here.

All anyone needs to know.

[ - ] NaturalSelectionistWorker 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:26:03 ago (+2/-1)

I'd start a poll asking the site which of you is worse, but I'm worried dangus would win.

[ - ] Joe_McCarthy -3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:32:36 ago (+1/-4)

Yeah, but you're a retard. Polls can be manipulated and anyone that seriously entertains the idea I'm dumber than DWB is probably almost as idiotic as he pretends to be.

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:57:40 ago (+1/-1)

That's just some delusion you made up in your head because I (accurately btw) called you a pedophile and it hurt your pansy ass feelings.

[ - ] Joe_McCarthy 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:33:48 ago (+2/-2)

Well, it definitely comes from my head. But then you know that already, fed.

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy -1 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:47:19 ago (+0/-1)

You truly are one dumb nigger. I don't know why it's so hard for you to believe that a lot people just actually hate you this much.

[ - ] Joe_McCarthy -1 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:50:38 ago (+2/-3)

Because I know it's bullshit, fedboi. That's why.

Yours here, as usual, is pure target isolation and triangulation. At least you avoided the usual nonsense of claiming 'everyone' hates me though.

I'm smarter - usually a lot smarter - than most of my detractors. I'm also not afraid to express my opinions. That definitely bruises male egos. Then there is the Jew stuff. You kwaps double down on stuff like that to marginalize terror targets. It's not rocket science.

[ - ] dirtywhiteboy 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:53:48 ago (+1/-1)

You don't know shit. You're retarded.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 18:02:30 ago (+1/-1)

That's giving way too much credit.

[ - ] TheodoreKent -5 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 15:55:38 ago (+1/-6)

Italian/Irish

There are blacks less niggerish than that combo

[ - ] watts2db 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 17:38:45 ago (+2/-0)

that is how you know this is newvoat lol

[ - ] namefagsrgay 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 22:38:50 ago (+2/-0)

I was actually going to comment how few people on old voat would consider an Italian or Greek white. And I say that as an Italian/Irish with other European mixed in. The purity spiral on old goat was wild.

[ - ] Love240 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 23:04:40 ago (+1/-0)

It's the same here. Some simply think anyone is a nigger lover who doesn't bitch and moan about niggers all the time.

[ - ] TheodoreKent 1 point 2 monthsApr 13, 2025 09:40:16 ago (+1/-0)

I was absurdly racist on Old Voat, too

[ - ] paul_neri 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:01:04 ago (+2/-0)

The dame is relatively new to Voat and doesn't realise there's an inherent anti-(Southern)- Italian prejudice.

[ - ] SumerBreeze 1 point 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 19:41:49 ago (+1/-0)

Romanized celtic is niggerized? You must be a salty kike.

[ - ] dosvydanya_freedomz 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 21:11:23 ago (+2/-0)

the italians are descendants of the Lombardians.....

Etruscans – One of the earliest civilizations in Italy, predating the Romans.

Romans – The dominant force that shaped Italian culture and language.

Greeks – Particularly in Southern Italy and Sicily, where Greek colonies thrived.

Celts – Found mainly in Northern Italy, influencing local culture.

Germans – Including groups like the Ostrogoths and Visigoths.

Slavs – Present in northeastern regions near modern Slovenia.

Normans – Who ruled parts of Southern Italy during the medieval period.

Arabs – Influencing Sicily during their rule in the Middle Ages.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 22:55:47 ago (+2/-0)

A lot of middle eastern immigration to Rome area during the empire.

[ - ] Joe_McCarthy -3 points 2 monthsApr 11, 2025 16:11:00 ago (+1/-4)*

Reminder that the center of the Philly anti-Catholic riots in 1844 was Kensington...

The Irish have a come a long way though... and the knocks on them come from a very bourgeois normie perspective that upholds stability and materialism.

Thomas Sowell said the Irish have had the worst relationship with blacks of any group in American history. That is what we call unintentional praise.

As for the Italian... would kinda depend on where it's from. But southern and northern Germans have greater genetic distance than southern and northern Italians. Obviously we received a lot of Sicilians. They come in all kinds phenotypically. The Normans were there. But they have high Near Eastern affinities genetically.