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I mean, i already know what's gonna happen and what i have to do, but im still trying to give labels to the behavior. I've always held that anyone who has to tell you they have a certain quality, is guaranteed to NOT have that quality. I dont have to convince people i have integrity, people just know off how i interact and behave. The intervention went like so.

The mom will make an absurd claim. She'll then use that combativeness or rebuttal as proof that I'm being hostile/argumentative/etc. And then when she's pressed into the corner, she screams that she just doens't know better, or that she was trying to help. It's a push pull of saying absurd shit, and immediately back tracking against those same statements. However when she re tells the story, she removes half the context, keeps your reaction but negates to mention why the reaction was created in the first place. It's like punching someone and claiming they're violent for fighting back. And no one can ever hold her to account, because she never wants to talk about it and/or buries the topic.

This was done a few times, and it led to catastrophic results. Instead of taking any ownership over how her decisions could have influenced others, she blames the other person for being an idiot. She's like a weasel or a rat who evades at every turn. It's always mired in excuses, half assed non apologies, nonsensical psycho babble, complete non sequiturs, strawmans. Any shitty behavior is brushed off under the auspice of protection, security, etc. Fuck someone over, invade their privacy, erode their boundaries? Well think of the children you fuck, it's your fault for making me suspicious (yes, that was an actual argument used by the mom ... i was to blame for her being paranoid). It's like dealing with a fucking jew on steroids.

At this point, im gonna keep increasing the questions and accountability until they get rid of me. I know its gonna make for very uncomfortable situation but it needs to be done. I know my time is limited, so may as well go all out on exposing the mom as the piece of shit she is. Im sure this is gonna end horribly on my part. Im sure someone here will tell me this is a terrible idea, but my quest for truth knows no bounds.