It's a numbers game. Get used to a lot of rejection and realize it don't matter. You see one you like, ask her to dinner. Don't be nervous. If you turn them upside down, they all look the same.
The only women worth investing in are ones that take their faith in God seriously. All others will be filled to the brim with feminist poison and will eventually do everything they can to control and destroy you. Go to church and ask God to show you the way. It's not about you, but about bringing yourself and your future family closer to God.
Agreed. Hell has done a great job perverting the natural order, and only through great suffering will man regain some semblance of God's natural order. I fear that suffering will soon be upon us.
This but only if your version of God(s) doesn't come from that jew book where abraham cheats on his wife and jacob marries his two cousins and all that.
It's certainly not monogamy. If you consider marriage to be between one man and one woman, then any married man who has sex with another woman is cheating. It's only not cheating if they don't believe in monogamy, which is kinda my point about the supposed founders of abrahamic religion.
If you're being serious, Many modern women are like wild horses... You need to be tougher than them! Today's Africanized Women (See the video link below) will not submit to a man they deem to be weaker than them! So essentially, be the Captain of your own ship. Lead! Don't beg, don't be soft, give good eye-contact, work on yourself, set your goals, never give them priority over your time, don't be too available to them, make the time that you do spend with them count.
(Think about the African bees experiment, where they took moderately calm bees, and genetically bred them for super aggressiveness and anger.)
Exactly. Women intuitively and subconsciously seek a man to lead, provide and protect. Be a man that can do those things and women will make themselves available to you.
I'll tell you what has worked well for me: having a personality and looking for personalities.
I enjoy a good laugh and, since I started working out, I am comfortable with my body.
I've never targeted women based on their looks, but based on their intelligence or charisma. This disconnects their age and physical appearance from my attraction to them, so I am not limited by what I see - except in the case of fatties, which I am uninterested in because I can see how they treat their body.
I've hung out with women 10 years younger and 20 years older. I guess I'm more after maturity than I am after a specific age-group.
So where do I find them? Mostly online communities that have the possibility of meetups, friends of friends. I like to get to know someone before trying for a relationship, so I don't ask random women out on dates.
And regarding "dates", I prefer telling her that I'm going to do x and y productive things this Saturday, and ask if she wants to come with. Never movies or eating at a restaurant, but I'm going to repair x or go for a long walk y to visit this place that interests me.
The key is to make yourself (1) worth being around and (2) visible.
Go do some volunteer work for your local community, not some national NGO that only wants to enrich the leaders at the top. Talk to people, get to know your neighbors.
For me, finding someone worth my time takes time, and I'm fine being by myself. I keep busy.
First there must be many women, and they must feel free to talk with you. It's best if the place has comfortable warm sunny weather and is not overly expensive.
Be absolutely shameless and polite. Ask a woman out, she says no, ask out her friend sitting next to her.
You don't have to think of everything, she can think of things too
High foot traffic areas and repeated social context.
Beauty and the beast, that's what they want, alpha in love. They don't want obsequiousness they want someone they respect
Have a bias towards action.
You can work to get fit but don't consider that makes it easier as you go, but work with what you have now.
Hug plan - go to a crowded area, pick and attractive woman walk over and say your friend bet you the number of hugs you could get - point to some random person. Count the hugs.
[ + ] Reawakened
[ - ] Reawakened 6 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:22:38 ago (+6/-0)
[ + ] SilentByAssociation
[ - ] SilentByAssociation 5 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 21:53:46 ago (+5/-0)
Sigma Gigachads. Get it right, nerd.
[ + ] AugustineOfHippo2
[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 4 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:10:34 ago (+6/-2)
[ + ] iSnark
[ - ] iSnark 1 point 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:29:21 ago (+2/-1)
[ + ] AugustineOfHippo2
[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 1 point 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:49:28 ago (+1/-0)
Agreed. Hell has done a great job perverting the natural order, and only through great suffering will man regain some semblance of God's natural order. I fear that suffering will soon be upon us.
[ + ] NaturalSelectionistWorker
[ - ] NaturalSelectionistWorker 1 point 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 23:07:28 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Master_Foo
[ - ] Master_Foo 2 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 00:08:48 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Theo
[ - ] Theo 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 01:14:21 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] NaturalSelectionistWorker
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[ + ] Theo
[ - ] Theo 0 points 5 monthsJan 1, 2025 11:17:58 ago (+0/-0)
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[ + ] Theo
[ - ] Theo 0 points 5 monthsJan 1, 2025 21:42:36 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Master_Foo
[ - ] Master_Foo 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 00:07:47 ago (+0/-0)
But, replace "God" with "White Blood and White Soil".
[ + ] AugustineOfHippo2
[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 09:25:00 ago (+0/-0)
Do you cut your finger and rub it in dirt?
[ + ] iSnark
[ - ] iSnark 4 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 21:53:18 ago (+4/-0)*
(Think about the African bees experiment, where they took moderately calm bees, and genetically bred them for super aggressiveness and anger.)
VIDEO* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-iJclOaKOQ
[ + ] AugustineOfHippo2
[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 3 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:52:30 ago (+3/-0)
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[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 3 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 21:43:43 ago (+3/-0)
why a first? Are women disposable? I think you've been mislead.
[ + ] 2Drunk
[ - ] 2Drunk 4 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:05:18 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Master_Foo
[ - ] Master_Foo 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 00:11:25 ago (+0/-0)
Don't blame me, blame the women who look like they belong in a Dollar General.
[ + ] MuricaPersonified
[ - ] MuricaPersonified 2 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:19:13 ago (+2/-0)
Post school? You're not literally fucked.
[ + ] Master_Foo
[ - ] Master_Foo 1 point 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 00:02:59 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] PeckerwoodPerry
[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 3 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 00:07:30 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] 2Drunk
[ - ] 2Drunk 1 point 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:04:07 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] HelenHighwater
[ - ] HelenHighwater 1 point 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 21:52:21 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Stonkmar
[ - ] Stonkmar 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 04:58:34 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] JustALover
[ - ] JustALover 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 03:32:42 ago (+0/-0)
I enjoy a good laugh and, since I started working out, I am comfortable with my body.
I've never targeted women based on their looks, but based on their intelligence or charisma. This disconnects their age and physical appearance from my attraction to them, so I am not limited by what I see - except in the case of fatties, which I am uninterested in because I can see how they treat their body.
I've hung out with women 10 years younger and 20 years older. I guess I'm more after maturity than I am after a specific age-group.
So where do I find them? Mostly online communities that have the possibility of meetups, friends of friends. I like to get to know someone before trying for a relationship, so I don't ask random women out on dates.
And regarding "dates", I prefer telling her that I'm going to do x and y productive things this Saturday, and ask if she wants to come with. Never movies or eating at a restaurant, but I'm going to repair x or go for a long walk y to visit this place that interests me.
The key is to make yourself (1) worth being around and (2) visible.
Go do some volunteer work for your local community, not some national NGO that only wants to enrich the leaders at the top. Talk to people, get to know your neighbors.
For me, finding someone worth my time takes time, and I'm fine being by myself. I keep busy.
[ + ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic
[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 00:09:51 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] duke_cannon
[ - ] duke_cannon 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 00:06:17 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Cantaloupe
[ - ] Cantaloupe 0 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 23:24:55 ago (+0/-0)*
Be absolutely shameless and polite. Ask a woman out, she says no, ask out her friend sitting next to her.
You don't have to think of everything, she can think of things too
High foot traffic areas and repeated social context.
Beauty and the beast, that's what they want, alpha in love. They don't want obsequiousness they want someone they respect
Have a bias towards action.
You can work to get fit but don't consider that makes it easier as you go, but work with what you have now.
Hug plan - go to a crowded area, pick and attractive woman walk over and say your friend bet you the number of hugs you could get - point to some random person. Count the hugs.
[ + ] Ducktalesooo000ooo
[ - ] Ducktalesooo000ooo 0 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 21:56:34 ago (+1/-1)
[ + ] Nosferatjew
[ - ] Nosferatjew -1 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 22:29:12 ago (+1/-2)
[ + ] MasklessTheGreat
[ - ] MasklessTheGreat -1 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 21:45:52 ago (+1/-2)
[ + ] JustALover
[ - ] JustALover 0 points 5 monthsDec 31, 2024 03:36:02 ago (+0/-0)
Just asking for help is a sign that the person is mature and modest.
[ + ] DitchPig
[ - ] DitchPig -2 points 5 monthsDec 30, 2024 21:47:45 ago (+1/-3)
That should take your weight.