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You love your children and your children will love their children. That's how biology works.

submitted by albatrosv15 to whatever 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 11:59:11 ago (+24/-0)     (whatever)

Somehow some parents expect the same kind of love from the children towards their parents, which is retarded, because that's not how species survive.
For example, i don't expect my children to love me after they have grown up, but i will expect that they will love their children.


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[ - ] Trope 5 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 19:36:07 ago (+5/-0)

What the fuck? I love my parents. RIP both of them.

[ - ] Stonkmar 3 points 5 monthsDec 28, 2024 07:33:51 ago (+3/-0)

Raise your children, spoil your grandchildren
or
Spoil your children, raise your grandchildren

[ - ] ProudRebel 4 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 14:50:53 ago (+4/-0)

Relationships are hard. My family are not biological. It's old friends etc. However I would do all I can for my kids and even my ex. Just how I am I guess. I don't need or even want them to reciprocate. I do love and respect some of you people tho. Somehow I trust, respect and love you lunatics. I can talk with goats about things I would never discuss with someone else. Relationships are hard.

[ - ] TheNoticing 3 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 20:32:16 ago (+3/-0)

Not all "parents" love their children.

[ - ] deleted 2 points 5 monthsDec 28, 2024 07:41:49 ago (+2/-0)

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[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 5 monthsDec 29, 2024 15:41:13 ago (+0/-0)

Life imprisonment without the possibility of parole, holy fucking shit. What was she like during the trial? I don't remember hearing about it. Did she not show any remorse? British nobility hates that no matter what it relates to.

[ - ] Shitcreek 4 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 12:05:59 ago (+4/-0)

My parents don't really give a shit about me and my sister. I've literally been on my own since I was 16.

[ - ] JudyStroyer 6 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 12:24:55 ago (+6/-0)

And that’s ok, man. Let that experience give you strength, and know when the time comes to love someone, do it with all your soul because you know from experience what the alternative does to a person. This doesn’t mean that there is no chance of getting hurt, but know you gave it your all.

[ - ] Shitcreek 4 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 12:27:15 ago (+4/-0)

I reconnected with my sister about ten years back and it was amazing. After I was kicked out of the house, my Mom eventually turned her anger on my sister.

[ - ] JudyStroyer 4 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 12:44:48 ago (+4/-0)

That’s great to hear about you and your sis, man.

[ - ] Shitcreek 3 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 12:51:58 ago (+3/-0)

Yeah, it's really interesting how we have bonded again through our shit parents.

[ - ] TheNoticing 3 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 14:27:25 ago (+3/-0)

Be careful about trauma bonding with her. That wouldn't be a good relationship to have. Sounds like your mother is a narcissist, and she should be left all alone to wallow in misery.

[ - ] Shitcreek 3 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 14:31:55 ago (+3/-0)

I haven't had contact with my Mother since 1999, my sister hasn't had contact with her since 2005.

[ - ] TheNoticing 2 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 18:13:09 ago (+2/-0)

Good for both of you.

[ - ] CoronaHoax 2 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 21:22:55 ago (+2/-0)

Once you have kids your parents and whatever they did won’t matter anymore.

And it’ll be your chance to do better.

[ - ] JustALover 2 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 14:11:43 ago (+2/-0)

You'd make a great parent.

How do I know this? Because you hate your parents, thus you will act in a way that your children will not hate you.

[ - ] Shitcreek 2 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 14:19:38 ago (+2/-0)

Thank you, I appreciate the support.

[ - ] MelGlibson 2 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 20:09:18 ago (+2/-0)

You should be careful of love to love with everything is to love madly. Children are called dependents because they depend on you for shelter food and education. Because of that they depend on you to show them how to live a good life.

[ - ] stillmostlyfriendly 2 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 19:25:27 ago (+2/-0)

Yep. My children owe me nothing and I expect nothing. Despite pouring the majority of my time, energy, and money into raising them ... they are their own people.

This is just a microcosm of a broader healthy and successful society.

[ - ] SirNiggsalot 2 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 14:31:24 ago (+2/-0)

Thanks. My woman is struggling with the fact that she loves her children way more than they love her.
I've tried unsuccessfully to explain that is how it is. Children are by necessity selfish, just because they are adults doesn't change the fact that they are still her CHILDREN.

That family dynamic doesn't change.

[ - ] Prairie 3 points 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 19:26:55 ago (+3/-0)

All she has to do is reflect on her feelings for her parents.

[ - ] CoronaHoax 1 point 5 monthsDec 27, 2024 21:19:56 ago (+1/-0)

Children make you love them. You want the same? Do the same.

[ - ] BannedEverwhere 0 points 5 monthsDec 28, 2024 03:32:41 ago (+1/-1)

Men today cant even get a woman to have kids with in the first palce.