I’ve had many guys try to attach themselves to me in my life because they perceive me as a good-looking ladies man. They either want to increase their chances with their ladies, fuck me, or get a ticket to a social circle. How do you handle these guys? My parents taught me to be nice to everybody but didn’t really prepare me for this dynamic. So I end up conceding ground to people who are jealous of me at some level and willing to betray me. At 30, I’m just coming to terms with it. These goddamned incels want to go to clubs with me because they think I’m a chick magnet. They will stab me in the back for a crumb of pussy. I'm way too forgiving of their faux-pas and I make too much space for them. I just want other Chad-white friends.
Dude. You are busy. You can’t. You’ve got family obligations. You are taking care of something right now. If they press you for more disclosure tell them they are being needy and it’s really uncomfortable.
Then tell them they are being low impulse control niggerkikes.
[ - ] alacrity167 [op] 1 point 7 monthsSep 24, 2024 02:34:13 ago (+1/-0)
to be brutally honest, its because guys on my level or above intimidate me. that's my first thought as to why. i notice that we intimidate each other, and feel more comfortable around malleable ethnics and losers. less threatened. like a girl with fat friends to make herself look better. I don't have to shape up if I'm around a retard.
I need to stop doing that and prepare to handle that dynamic. I'm starting to prefer the equality over the babysitting and parasitism. Somebody told me the other day that Confucius said not to keep friends unequal to yourself.
You say you're just coming to terms with it now, but I'm older and that made a lot of things make sense for me.
Just dont respond, total ghost mode, it get easier with practice. Luckily, despite not having your revelation, I managed to figure that solution out. You can control you, anything outside your control that you dont like, like this persons behaviors, you have to deny them access, to you and all the things they want from you.
There may be a tryhard period depending on their level of dependence. It will pass once they see it wont work and only then.
voat advice is always high IQ and on the money. i sometimes try to slow ghost people but i get lonely or forget how annoying they are. the only success i've had with getting rid of people is to be so mean to them that they don't want to ever talk to me again. as the other commenter said above, "Sometimes ya gotta just tell people right to their fuckin face the way shit is." You ever brutally insult somebody so much they left you alone?
[ + ] DieselForever
[ - ] DieselForever 1 point 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 17:51:22 ago (+1/-0)
or rub an old lamp and when the genie comes out wish for them to fuck off?
Stop inviting them to your sevensomes?
[ + ] SumerBreeze
[ - ] SumerBreeze 1 point 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 18:34:30 ago (+1/-0)*
Then tell them they are being low impulse control niggerkikes.
[ + ] VitaminSieg
[ - ] VitaminSieg 1 point 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 19:39:00 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] alacrity167
[ - ] alacrity167 [op] 0 points 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 19:48:32 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] BoozyB
[ - ] BoozyB 1 point 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 20:07:04 ago (+1/-0)
Why are you associating with males who are intellectually, physically, socially and ethnically inferior?
[ + ] alacrity167
[ - ] alacrity167 [op] 1 point 7 monthsSep 24, 2024 02:34:13 ago (+1/-0)
I need to stop doing that and prepare to handle that dynamic. I'm starting to prefer the equality over the babysitting and parasitism.
Somebody told me the other day that Confucius said not to keep friends unequal to yourself.
[ + ] puremadness
[ - ] puremadness 1 point 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 20:57:08 ago (+1/-0)
Just dont respond, total ghost mode, it get easier with practice.
Luckily, despite not having your revelation, I managed to figure that solution out.
You can control you, anything outside your control that you dont like, like this persons behaviors, you have to deny them access, to you and all the things they want from you.
There may be a tryhard period depending on their level of dependence. It will pass once they see it wont work and only then.
[ + ] alacrity167
[ - ] alacrity167 [op] 0 points 7 monthsSep 24, 2024 02:39:10 ago (+0/-0)
thank you sir.
[ + ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic
[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 3 points 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 19:12:53 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] bosunmoon
[ - ] bosunmoon 4 points 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 18:41:00 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] alacrity167
[ - ] alacrity167 [op] 0 points 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 19:48:06 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Her0n
[ - ] Her0n 5 points 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 17:05:33 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] alacrity167
[ - ] alacrity167 [op] 0 points 7 monthsSep 23, 2024 17:25:00 ago (+0/-0)