When did this become OK? I even told this story to a friend and he immediately responded with what he does to try and have sex with guys' wives. These guys were making jokes like how she's going to be in the middle of making a sandwich and she better make a sandwich with all that guys there. Holy frigging degenerate.
This woman was also trying to get every guy's attention, and even guys I could tell she wasn't attracted to she was trying to show equal attention to in order to do the thing where she smooths over everyone so she can have sex with someone there.
cue the fantastical solutions department and the degenerate comment brigade that is funny and shocking
I little bit of dialog helps when you encounter things like this. I have a female friend and she is engaged to someone, but to my wife her demeanor was seen as flirting.
I never seen it as such because just how she was, after that and we all spoke of it, didn't ever seem to be an issue.
People in general want to do the right thing in my experience, and they are always judged as to told these things.
this is some american fallacy i've seen trending for at least since 2017. people try to excuse unlimited binge smoking of marijuana because they think by telling you that everyone everywhere was always secretly smoking pot, and they just hid it from YOU, because the world conspired to hide it from you because you would...............? disapprove? you know, because one person has such power.
the same fallacy of "everyone was doing X everywhere all the time - you just didn't know about it" was pitched, yet again, to me yesterday by someone who was trying to excuse their binge smoking. this guy has regularly pitched this fallacy to me, hopes that i faux pas, but before I can say anything, he jumps the gun, deludes himself into thinking i have faux pas'd and that his fallacy has permeated every person's brain everywhere backwards and forwards through time, and then proceeds to smoke until he cannot think properly, and he just pisses off everyone around him.
I was wondering why men wore powdered wigs in the 1700's and maybe the nature of human friendship. Maybe hanging out at a buddy's house and having a few beers and watching an event leads to one having a child with his wife years later. Maybe there was a spark of something at that party/event/society social that they followed up on. Survival strategy of instinctual behavior, not conscious decision for outcome. That gregarious behavior is passed to their kid. Not trying to fuck your wife at all, just let's watch the sportball.
your comment is expected, and I will say that this behavior is pretty common. if you are socializing whatsoever you have to be seeing this behavior or it's a mere single social layer away from you. it's the status quo, so the "just sit in your house by yourself forever until you die" isn't a solution for anyone but autistic people collecting welfare checks.
“ So it's sorta social, demented and sad, but social.”—-Johnny Bender
The behavior is common because most people are ambulatory and sentient pieces of shit. A lot of people allow themselves to be deluded by a so-called education, the modest wealth accrued from high-paying jobs and their White middle-class etiquette to not honestly appraise themselves as the niggers they really are. Covid was actually an excellent display of the depravity and weakness of your fellow man/woman. I’d rather just have a dog.
This is complicated. Let me get the 'fair weather' fact out of the way first. Even when things are good, social situations are a kind of electrical environment that committed couples navigate with the understanding that, in spite of their commitments, male-female 'voltage' is a natural part of life and a natural stimulant (source of excitation). Even when the weather is fair (i.e., culture is as it should be, and your relationship is strong), both the man and the woman need to be able to navigate these situations with some poise and confidence - not becoming overly agitated by some marginal flirtatiousness. It's to be expected.
The crucial thing a man and a woman need to hammer out (and this is itself a complicated thing that starts from the moment you enter into a relationshp) are their boundaries. Determining boundaries is your first real metric for how compatible the two of you are going to be. Compatibility here means agreeing about what the boundaries of respect dictate. Here are some examples. Some marginal flirtation (laughing together and having a good time)? Sure. Physical contact? No. Losing the self-awareness to recognize that you are spending an inordinate amount of time with one person at the expense of socializing with other people? No.
Two people need to be able to trust each other to navigate these situations while (a) also having a good time and (b) not suffocating the other person. It takes some trust and confidence on both sides. Then, if boundaries are crossed, you've got both legs to stand on when you mention it to your partner: "Hey, I'd prefer if it next time you didn't do that. I didn't like it."
If at any point a woman crosses your boundaries and doesn't seem too concerned with not crossing them again, then she has lost respect for you, and you should move on. Now, take that with a grain of salt. Long-term relationships go through their seasons. I'm not telling you to ditch a woman you've been with for years because of one instance. Communicate. If the signs are there that her lack of respect for your boundaries is irremediable, then the relationship is over.
But to close out the 'fair weather' comments, you should recognize that, as a male, if you catch your woman flirting a little bit within bounds, and it still bothers you, your absolute best bet is to forget it and go do some flirting of your own. She'll respond infinitely more to your actions than to your words.
Now, on to the 'bad weather' analysis. For many reasons our culture has shifted so that setting up boundaries in relationships is getting harder and harder to do. Women are being encouraged to behave more like men, and increasingly, social groups are identifying any attempt by men to 'corral' their women as 'problematic controlling behavior'.
I've seen a lot more of what the OP discussed lately in my personal life, and not surprisingly, relationships are more short-lived. There isn't an easy solution for the problem of where our society is headed. The best you can do is (i) act at the individual level in a way you know is right, BOTH in terms of how you handle your own relationships AND those of your friends (don't feed into the bad behavior of other committed people if you think it is inappropriate) and (ii) stay out of situations rife with people who you know are bad influences on strong relationships.
Be up front and clear with women you are going to date that boundaries are important and you'll be gone if they aren't respected. Then, listen to what her own boundaries are. If you want yours respected, then respect hers. Either you can both navigate situations where people behave this way, or you can't, and in the latter event, you both agree to avoid those situations.
But, to some extent you have to, as they say, "Hold on loosely." I've seen men and women both choke the life out of their partner by freaking out about any and all flirtation in social settings. It's reality. Flirting energizes us.
There is a good chemical metaphor to apply here. Picture a strongly bonded molecule made up of two atoms. Social settings are like situations where your molecule gets thrown into a solution where you encounter other molecules, and their bond energy sort of 'tests' yours. The fun comes from stretching the bond just a little (corresponding with you both getting to flirt within bounds). But you can't go too far or get too close to the others or your bond will break. Two intelligent people who set boundaries can glide through these situations, having a good time, and come out the other side no worse for the wear. And if you both go home and fuck each other at the end of the night, you're better off than you were before.
Problems arise when people freak out about in-bounds flirting, which causes them to stiffen up and kill the mood, cutting off the upward trend toward fucking their partner later on. You waste the energy, and you both wind up frustrated. So, as long as its in-bounds, go and have your own good time socially. Stay away from people outside of your relationship who don't respect your internal boundaries. If somebody is disrespecting them, address it. If it doesn't stop, leave and don't return.
Hey pal. Stop with all the balanced and reasonable answers. Bitch even looks at another guy and she's gettin' a smackin!
I tell her all the time, if you can't look away from the guy in the drive-thru and get the food from the window at the same time then maybe you need to put down the McRibs bitch!
I mean, if we can't get a handle on these dick holsters soon, that may be what it comes to. They don't want Sharia. They better stop acting like they want Sharia.
Absolutely. Women aren't disposed to testing your violence direclty if they are mentally healthy; trashier women will absolutely try to test it directly by facilitating physical violence between men. A normal woman will test your independence. She wants to see that your state is not completely dependent on her. Again, that's if she is mentally healthy. The 'shadow' of every woman is the great mother, which wants to cause you to be dependent on her.
Men have to deal with women how we find them. You have to hit the ball where it lies. So much has to do with what she was exposed to in her own family life. But the answer is not to chase the best woman, it's to be the sort of person whose very being filters out the sort of women you can't tolerate.
Well what I meant is if you aren't capable of flirting and getting another girl yourself, and your girl is, then essentially you aren't able to keep her either.
If you flirt with other girls when she flirts with other guys, she'll see you could indeed "reobtain her". Kind of her low iq way of using other women validate your worth.
Essentially if you can't flirt with other girls, while with some types of girls, then your not "peaceful", you're "harmless".
Im tempted to say that this may have been harmless flirting although the sandwich joke does seem out of line. Was there alcohol/drugs involved?
Sometimes women are friendly to men that hit on them because it allows the man to save face. Everytime a guy flirts with me I don’t say “Fuck off buddy, not interested” I might make a friendly joke. Im not into crushing every guy that compliments me. Flirting is not always about fucking.
one guy also followed her to the bathroom and............. gave her instructions on how to use the bathroom.............. she has been to the house many times and knows where the bathroom is and hell yes she is potty trained. this guy was constantly trying to prime the pump before she came over saying how he's opposed to her coming over (i think this was a (retarded) way for him to try and excuse the behavior he knew he would do), then tried excusing his blatant flirting later for "you spoke to her first" - as if he's now allowed to flirt because someone else talking to her is necessarily flirting, and this somehow bypasses the fact that she's married. this guy has ALWAYS pursued any woman that is taken like a dog in heat. someone even made a comment at the table about how she and her husband "were trying", and i swear, as soon as he heard that another guy had ejaculated inside her he got even more amped up - this is female behavior where women pile on a guy with a girlfriend. there was another comment on the level of the sandwich comment but i can't recall it right now.
Was there alcohol/drugs involved?
everyone except me was under the influence of every substance available. i don't think the wife had anything either though, not even alcohol.
Everytime a guy flirts with me I don’t say “Fuck off buddy, not interested” I might make a friendly joke. Im not into crushing every guy that compliments me.
yeah, and that's fair, because it would be unreasonable to expect men not to do that (like when women act like they don't need men to approach them, as if they'll do it instead - which is BS because even in the age of stwong independent wammins, wammins aren't approaching men). but she was doing much more than flirting. she came with the skimpiest clothes she could find - tits hanging out, fresh make up, figure-flattering pants - she was trying to attract male attention hard. she was taking all sort of positions like bending over to show her butt, cleavage, etc. I am not mistaken about this.
\ sigh \ there was more told about this woman's degenerate past, and this was clearly her trying to continue it while in a marriage, and i'm not even going to repeat that crap.
and the thought of this woman coming over prompted some of the most degenerate shit about this guy, who proclaims to be not about this degenerate crap, and for reasons I cannot begin to grasp - started telling us about some degenerate sex story he read on facebook that had nothing to do with anything going on (and he thought it was important that is was about niggers, and we don't have any nigger friends), but he prefaced the story as if it was related, and he got really loud and obnoxious so as to drown out anyone else talking so we'd have to hear that stupid story.
So the one guy seems to be a real pervert ( if you are describing a single guy and not two different guys.) Is it possible that the pervert was leading the flirtatious, degenerate behaviors (inappropriate comments) and the other males were just joining in?
there was more told about this woman's degenerate past, and this was clearly her trying to continue it while in a marriage, and i'm not even going to repeat that crap.
I’ll take your word that she’s got a bad rep and was dressed like a slut. Old habits are hard to break I guess.
This is a good point. I think you could pinpiont higher female agreeability and the more holistic nature of their concerns (she may have more of an awareness of and place a higher priority on the overall vibe in a room). She might recognize that the guy in question is an important member of their circle, or at least means something to the people who are throwing the party (or whatever) and realize that, politically, embarrassing him would be a bad move. Of course, this is all making things seem like its happening at a fully conscious level, and I don't think that's often the case. She is just acting in a way that keeps things on a more even keel. Rather than embarrass a guy, she'll play along and hope she gets rescued from the situation she doesn't want to be in (or at least finds a politically correct way of getting herself out).
I think you definitely need stronger evidence than a woman laughing and playing along. If she is genuinely interested in him, she'll be placing herself close to him physically and probably readily initiaing or reciprocating physical touch.
Of course, this is all making things seem like its happening at a fully conscious level, and I don't think that's often the case
Agreed. Most wives dont want to alienate their husbands friends in this scenario. If she becomes serious and says, “ hey thats not funny” she gets labelled a bitch. But its possible that the inappropriateness of some of these comments might to register until the party has broken up and people are mulling over the events of the evening on their own. I sometimes feel like Im on autopilot in social situations and my autopilot is a shallow bullshit artist.
But what do I know. Im just here with the degenerate comment brigade.
She is just acting in a way that keeps things on a more even keel. Rather than embarrass a guy, she'll play along and hope she gets rescued from the situation she doesn't want to be in (or at least finds a politically correct way of getting herself out).
I don't think so. I recognized her shtick from past experiences and in each and every one of those cases the woman was trying to have sex with one of the guys. and in this case, she was originally starved for attention and this guy who just loves freshly-fucked women couldn't help himself and just acted like a conspicuous attention whore; a dog in heat.
what blew my mind further is when I was telling this story to another friend he immediately launched into talking about how he would try to have sex with any guys wife if she was attractive. i kind of figured this about this guy because he gets extremely jealous if a guy comes around with a girlfriend - he is just like a dog in heat, and can't collect his thoughts. i find it PATHETIC when men act like this around women. and these same men always tout themselves as a ladies' man and god's gift to women, yet they act like guys who just lost their virginity.
[ - ] CHIRO 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 21:23:46 ago (+1/-0)
Yeah man, guys who can't show any respect to other men are real pieces of shit. I know a few like this also. The thing is, these men are usually very alone, and if they aren't, they will wind up that way. There is no free lunch. You either have the respect of men or you don't. If you don't, then your sex life might consist of flings, and that is only viable for so long. Life demands you do things the right way, otherwise the cheating method might get you an excess of one thing (money or pussy or whatever), but you'll suffer from the Midas curse. Oh, you banged all your friends' wives? And now you can't understand why you have nobody?
Exactly. I know my buds would never do that. I had a buddy that came to me and asked if it would be OK to date her years later. All I said was sure but you'll see why she's an ex.
you do not live somewhere where people are not doing this. and you did not vet people you know for this behavior either.
what do you have to say about that? how do i know this about you without knowing who you are? why do you say things about these topics if my assertions are true.
your solution is unworkable and infeasible and fit only for autistic people collection welfare checks
[ + ] Anotherone
[ - ] Anotherone 0 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 11:55:36 ago (+0/-0)
I never seen it as such because just how she was, after that and we all spoke of it, didn't ever seem to be an issue.
People in general want to do the right thing in my experience, and they are always judged as to told these things.
[ + ] Thought_Criminal
[ - ] Thought_Criminal 0 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 12:49:11 ago (+0/-0)*
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:58:56 ago (+0/-0)
you say maybe, but mean that it in fact was, correct?
how do you expect i react to this information?
[ + ] Thought_Criminal
[ - ] Thought_Criminal 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 16:20:41 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 19:05:48 ago (+1/-0)
this is some american fallacy i've seen trending for at least since 2017. people try to excuse unlimited binge smoking of marijuana because they think by telling you that everyone everywhere was always secretly smoking pot, and they just hid it from YOU, because the world conspired to hide it from you because you would...............? disapprove? you know, because one person has such power.
the same fallacy of "everyone was doing X everywhere all the time - you just didn't know about it" was pitched, yet again, to me yesterday by someone who was trying to excuse their binge smoking. this guy has regularly pitched this fallacy to me, hopes that i faux pas, but before I can say anything, he jumps the gun, deludes himself into thinking i have faux pas'd and that his fallacy has permeated every person's brain everywhere backwards and forwards through time, and then proceeds to smoke until he cannot think properly, and he just pisses off everyone around him.
[ + ] Thought_Criminal
[ - ] Thought_Criminal 0 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 22:30:54 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:59:42 ago (+0/-0)
what could that mean?
[ + ] Clubberlang
[ - ] Clubberlang 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 12:35:10 ago (+2/-1)
Please for the sake of white mankind, read more beyond yiddish tiktok.
[ + ] Bonlio99
[ - ] Bonlio99 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 13:08:03 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] rabidR04CH
[ - ] rabidR04CH 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 15:15:03 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 18:29:09 ago (+1/-0)*
[ + ] Rob3122
[ - ] Rob3122 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 15:27:08 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] WhatColorIsYourTigerCage
[ - ] WhatColorIsYourTigerCage 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 10:48:43 ago (+3/-1)
Leviticus says that they should both be stoned.
[ + ] Sleazy
[ - ] Sleazy 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 17:08:08 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] TheBigGuyFromQueens
[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens 3 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 13:45:49 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:35:35 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] TheBigGuyFromQueens
[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 21:05:42 ago (+2/-0)
The behavior is common because most people are ambulatory and sentient pieces of shit. A lot of people allow themselves to be deluded by a so-called education, the modest wealth accrued from high-paying jobs and their White middle-class etiquette to not honestly appraise themselves as the niggers they really are. Covid was actually an excellent display of the depravity and weakness of your fellow man/woman. I’d rather just have a dog.
[ + ] con77
[ - ] con77 4 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 12:23:37 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] -1 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 18:30:14 ago (+0/-1)
[ + ] Cantaloupe
[ - ] Cantaloupe 4 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 12:27:44 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:59:16 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] CHIRO
[ - ] CHIRO 5 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 12:08:49 ago (+6/-1)*
The crucial thing a man and a woman need to hammer out (and this is itself a complicated thing that starts from the moment you enter into a relationshp) are their boundaries. Determining boundaries is your first real metric for how compatible the two of you are going to be. Compatibility here means agreeing about what the boundaries of respect dictate. Here are some examples. Some marginal flirtation (laughing together and having a good time)? Sure. Physical contact? No. Losing the self-awareness to recognize that you are spending an inordinate amount of time with one person at the expense of socializing with other people? No.
Two people need to be able to trust each other to navigate these situations while (a) also having a good time and (b) not suffocating the other person. It takes some trust and confidence on both sides. Then, if boundaries are crossed, you've got both legs to stand on when you mention it to your partner: "Hey, I'd prefer if it next time you didn't do that. I didn't like it."
If at any point a woman crosses your boundaries and doesn't seem too concerned with not crossing them again, then she has lost respect for you, and you should move on. Now, take that with a grain of salt. Long-term relationships go through their seasons. I'm not telling you to ditch a woman you've been with for years because of one instance. Communicate. If the signs are there that her lack of respect for your boundaries is irremediable, then the relationship is over.
But to close out the 'fair weather' comments, you should recognize that, as a male, if you catch your woman flirting a little bit within bounds, and it still bothers you, your absolute best bet is to forget it and go do some flirting of your own. She'll respond infinitely more to your actions than to your words.
Now, on to the 'bad weather' analysis. For many reasons our culture has shifted so that setting up boundaries in relationships is getting harder and harder to do. Women are being encouraged to behave more like men, and increasingly, social groups are identifying any attempt by men to 'corral' their women as 'problematic controlling behavior'.
I've seen a lot more of what the OP discussed lately in my personal life, and not surprisingly, relationships are more short-lived. There isn't an easy solution for the problem of where our society is headed. The best you can do is (i) act at the individual level in a way you know is right, BOTH in terms of how you handle your own relationships AND those of your friends (don't feed into the bad behavior of other committed people if you think it is inappropriate) and (ii) stay out of situations rife with people who you know are bad influences on strong relationships.
Be up front and clear with women you are going to date that boundaries are important and you'll be gone if they aren't respected. Then, listen to what her own boundaries are. If you want yours respected, then respect hers. Either you can both navigate situations where people behave this way, or you can't, and in the latter event, you both agree to avoid those situations.
But, to some extent you have to, as they say, "Hold on loosely." I've seen men and women both choke the life out of their partner by freaking out about any and all flirtation in social settings. It's reality. Flirting energizes us.
There is a good chemical metaphor to apply here. Picture a strongly bonded molecule made up of two atoms. Social settings are like situations where your molecule gets thrown into a solution where you encounter other molecules, and their bond energy sort of 'tests' yours. The fun comes from stretching the bond just a little (corresponding with you both getting to flirt within bounds). But you can't go too far or get too close to the others or your bond will break. Two intelligent people who set boundaries can glide through these situations, having a good time, and come out the other side no worse for the wear. And if you both go home and fuck each other at the end of the night, you're better off than you were before.
Problems arise when people freak out about in-bounds flirting, which causes them to stiffen up and kill the mood, cutting off the upward trend toward fucking their partner later on. You waste the energy, and you both wind up frustrated. So, as long as its in-bounds, go and have your own good time socially. Stay away from people outside of your relationship who don't respect your internal boundaries. If somebody is disrespecting them, address it. If it doesn't stop, leave and don't return.
[ + ] rzr97
[ - ] rzr97 4 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 13:37:49 ago (+4/-0)*
I tell her all the time, if you can't look away from the guy in the drive-thru and get the food from the window at the same time then maybe you need to put down the McRibs bitch!
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 3 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 13:42:11 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] rzr97
[ - ] rzr97 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 13:44:23 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 15:15:01 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] CHIRO
[ - ] CHIRO 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:00:12 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] rzr97
[ - ] rzr97 3 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:05:03 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] CoronaHoax
[ - ] CoronaHoax 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:01:57 ago (+2/-0)
Essentially a version of-
“If you’re not capable of violence you’re not peaceful, you’re harmless “.
[ + ] CHIRO
[ - ] CHIRO 0 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:17:54 ago (+0/-0)*
Men have to deal with women how we find them. You have to hit the ball where it lies. So much has to do with what she was exposed to in her own family life. But the answer is not to chase the best woman, it's to be the sort of person whose very being filters out the sort of women you can't tolerate.
[ + ] CoronaHoax
[ - ] CoronaHoax 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 19:53:44 ago (+2/-0)
If you flirt with other girls when she flirts with other guys, she'll see you could indeed "reobtain her". Kind of her low iq way of using other women validate your worth.
Essentially if you can't flirt with other girls, while with some types of girls, then your not "peaceful", you're "harmless".
[ + ] paul_neriworldsbiggestfaggot
[ - ] paul_neriworldsbiggestfaggot 8 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 10:38:00 ago (+8/-0)
[ + ] dass
[ - ] dass 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 16:24:20 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 8 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 13:34:41 ago (+8/-0)
Sometimes women are friendly to men that hit on them because it allows the man to save face. Everytime a guy flirts with me I don’t say “Fuck off buddy, not interested” I might make a friendly joke. Im not into crushing every guy that compliments me. Flirting is not always about fucking.
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:52:50 ago (+1/-0)*
one guy also followed her to the bathroom and............. gave her instructions on how to use the bathroom.............. she has been to the house many times and knows where the bathroom is and hell yes she is potty trained. this guy was constantly trying to prime the pump before she came over saying how he's opposed to her coming over (i think this was a (retarded) way for him to try and excuse the behavior he knew he would do), then tried excusing his blatant flirting later for "you spoke to her first" - as if he's now allowed to flirt because someone else talking to her is necessarily flirting, and this somehow bypasses the fact that she's married. this guy has ALWAYS pursued any woman that is taken like a dog in heat. someone even made a comment at the table about how she and her husband "were trying", and i swear, as soon as he heard that another guy had ejaculated inside her he got even more amped up - this is female behavior where women pile on a guy with a girlfriend. there was another comment on the level of the sandwich comment but i can't recall it right now.
everyone except me was under the influence of every substance available. i don't think the wife had anything either though, not even alcohol.
yeah, and that's fair, because it would be unreasonable to expect men not to do that (like when women act like they don't need men to approach them, as if they'll do it instead - which is BS because even in the age of stwong independent wammins, wammins aren't approaching men). but she was doing much more than flirting. she came with the skimpiest clothes she could find - tits hanging out, fresh make up, figure-flattering pants - she was trying to attract male attention hard. she was taking all sort of positions like bending over to show her butt, cleavage, etc. I am not mistaken about this.
\ sigh \ there was more told about this woman's degenerate past, and this was clearly her trying to continue it while in a marriage, and i'm not even going to repeat that crap.
and the thought of this woman coming over prompted some of the most degenerate shit about this guy, who proclaims to be not about this degenerate crap, and for reasons I cannot begin to grasp - started telling us about some degenerate sex story he read on facebook that had nothing to do with anything going on (and he thought it was important that is was about niggers, and we don't have any nigger friends), but he prefaced the story as if it was related, and he got really loud and obnoxious so as to drown out anyone else talking so we'd have to hear that stupid story.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 15:11:04 ago (+1/-0)
I’ll take your word that she’s got a bad rep and was dressed like a slut. Old habits are hard to break I guess.
[ + ] Sector2
[ - ] Sector2 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 15:27:15 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 18:43:40 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] CHIRO
[ - ] CHIRO 0 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:37:07 ago (+0/-0)
I think you definitely need stronger evidence than a woman laughing and playing along. If she is genuinely interested in him, she'll be placing herself close to him physically and probably readily initiaing or reciprocating physical touch.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 5 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 14:58:36 ago (+5/-0)
Agreed. Most wives dont want to alienate their husbands friends in this scenario. If she becomes serious and says, “ hey thats not funny” she gets labelled a bitch. But its possible that the inappropriateness of some of these comments might to register until the party has broken up and people are mulling over the events of the evening on their own. I sometimes feel like Im on autopilot in social situations and my autopilot is a shallow bullshit artist.
But what do I know. Im just here with the degenerate comment brigade.
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 18:52:59 ago (+2/-0)
I don't think so. I recognized her shtick from past experiences and in each and every one of those cases the woman was trying to have sex with one of the guys. and in this case, she was originally starved for attention and this guy who just loves freshly-fucked women couldn't help himself and just acted like a conspicuous attention whore; a dog in heat.
what blew my mind further is when I was telling this story to another friend he immediately launched into talking about how he would try to have sex with any guys wife if she was attractive. i kind of figured this about this guy because he gets extremely jealous if a guy comes around with a girlfriend - he is just like a dog in heat, and can't collect his thoughts. i find it PATHETIC when men act like this around women. and these same men always tout themselves as a ladies' man and god's gift to women, yet they act like guys who just lost their virginity.
[ + ] CHIRO
[ - ] CHIRO 1 point 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 21:23:46 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] DitchPig
[ - ] DitchPig 11 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 12:04:35 ago (+11/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 18:30:54 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] albatrosv15
[ - ] albatrosv15 15 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 11:04:46 ago (+15/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 4 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 13:19:28 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Crackinjokes
[ - ] Crackinjokes 31 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 11:27:03 ago (+31/-0)
[ + ] __47__
[ - ] __47__ 5 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 13:23:24 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 2 points 9 monthsAug 26, 2024 18:33:45 ago (+2/-0)
you do not live somewhere where people are not doing this. and you did not vet people you know for this behavior either.
what do you have to say about that? how do i know this about you without knowing who you are? why do you say things about these topics if my assertions are true.
your solution is unworkable and infeasible and fit only for autistic people collection welfare checks