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Fiancée freaked out on me because I wouldn’t let nigger massage me.

submitted by Wemustremainpure to whatever 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 09:17:49 ago (+51/-1)     (whatever)

Hurt my back doing yard work. My woman talked me into getting a deep tissue massage. I told her to make sure it’s a woman. She assured me it would be. Walked into my appointment and it was some gay looking nigger and I said fuck that I’d rather just hurt and walked out. She went off on me for being rude and I just said I have boundaries that I won’t do and letting some faggot nigger rub up on me is at the top of the list. She is super pissed.

Follow up: she has since apologized for getting upset and doesn’t blame me for standing my ground. She said she just assumed it would be a white woman doing it. She was more upset that I wasn’t very diplomatic in my unwillingness to having his banana peelers touching me. I literally just looked at him said “oh fuck that” and walked out. I really don’t think she’s been with a man who stands up for himself before and she’s not used to seeing it.


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[ - ] RabbiKinderschtupper 35 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 09:33:32 ago (+35/-0)

Sounds like a future ex fiancee.

[ - ] bobdole9 21 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:05:09 ago (+21/-0)

Wonder why fiancee can't offer a back rub...

[ - ] Sector2 3 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 14:39:03 ago (+3/-0)

This comprehensive program goes beyond traditional massage education by offering instruction in three modalities: Swedish, Shiatsu, and Deep Tissue, alongside Medical Massage.

We're lucky to have a bunch of massage schools in the area. A trained masseuse does way more for actual issues and injuries than you get with just a back rub. Although, it's suspicious that she's not at least doing a back rub. With the added anger, yikes!

[ - ] Hermes 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 16:09:39 ago (+2/-0)

massage can be therapy, if you don't go to the seedy asian ones that jerk you off a la the Kraft Special

[ - ] HoLeeFuk 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:21:17 ago (+5/-4)

Her hands are too busy giving the nig a massage when 'her man' is not around.

[ - ] canbot 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 13:56:01 ago (+1/-0)

She's not a jew.

[ - ] ProudRebel 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 17:33:24 ago (+1/-0)

Yep, dump that ho.

[ - ] WNwoman 22 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 09:23:45 ago (+23/-1)

Hold your frame. She might be acting pissed but inside she is giddy with excitement that you hold boundaries even under pressure.

[ - ] TheNoticing 21 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:16:59 ago (+21/-0)

Shit tests ought to be a fireable (break up) offense.

[ - ] Sector2 9 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:45:15 ago (+9/-0)

They are.

[ - ] Salacious_Salicylic 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 15:20:42 ago (+0/-0)

The fuck is wrong with you people?

[ - ] Sector2 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 15:54:56 ago (+2/-0)

Hey, what do you mean by "you people", you agent of keratolyticism.

[ - ] Salacious_Salicylic 4 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 16:54:38 ago (+5/-1)

I mean women.

This bitch probably shit tested her man by trying to get him a rub-n-tug by a literal niggerfaggot, and now is getting giny tingles from the argument she created by being a bitch.

That's fucked up and crazy. Women are fucked up and crazy.

[ - ] Sector2 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 17:06:59 ago (+1/-0)

Wasn't being entirely serious, but agreed.

[ - ] WNwoman 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 17:03:42 ago (+1/-1)

It’s biological. We literally cannot help it.

[ - ] Salacious_Salicylic 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 22:27:58 ago (+0/-0)

I cannot imagine. Being a woman must be deeply deeply exhausting.

[ - ] DivineLight2 17 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:05:50 ago (+17/-0)

How is she your fiance and not nigger/faggot/like aware? Up your game.

[ - ] pickingrinninspittin 13 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 10:34:55 ago (+13/-0)

I don't know about massage but when it comes to tradesmen I've learned that without exception if it's a nigger or a pajeet then I pass. Those fuckers lie and cheat and then maybe just maybe they might do the bare minimum to complete the job.

Most recently I was fooled by the white sounding name on the ad but when the guy showed up he was a nigger. 15 minutes and $75 later I was calling someone else.

It used to be that I'd call the first guy I found with an Italian name, and I was never disappointed. But sadly those guys have all aged out of the job market.

Anyhow. NIGGERS need not apply.

[ - ] letsgetit 3 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 12:09:08 ago (+3/-0)

Lying/Cheating in Indian and East Asian culture is not looked down on. Only if they get caught

[ - ] x0x7 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 14:35:24 ago (+1/-0)

The real key is to determine if there is anyway life can be at stake. It's worth noting just so you know how fast to run. If the safety officer on your job site is Indian just drive away. Don't even risk the extra seconds on the site to talk to the boss. Just drive away.

[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 3 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 12:52:17 ago (+3/-0)

I need some chimney work done. Walking the dog one day I see a White guy getting something from his truck, clearly working on the roof, turns out he's a chimney worker. Talked to him, he knows his shit, got his business card.

Point is, we might just have to ditch the phones and walk into the place and see the actual workers. Talk to them, ask them about your situation, see if their answers are quick, concise, and knowledgeable. And if they're not White, just walk out.

[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:18:02 ago (+0/-0)

What about spics?

Dunno about niggers, but I'll agree about pajeets lying about everything. I have never had a good interaction with one.

[ - ] Salacious_Salicylic 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 15:20:17 ago (+2/-0)

Spics will do the job honestly, but they're sloppy on details. It makes sense if you see how they live: the idea of precision or excellence in craft is alien to them. Their work is fractally reflective of their goblino breeding strategy.

[ - ] NeedleStack 12 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:19:20 ago (+12/-0)

She's relying on you to lead her. Firmly and repeatedly tell her what's up.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 9 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 10:06:30 ago (+9/-0)

This is hilarious. But you need to explain what is wrong with niggers to her. It won’t happen in a day. Use neutral language with normies.

[ - ] Sector2 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 14:26:43 ago (+1/-0)

She is super pissed.

This is the red flag part.

[ - ] Prairie 9 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 10:17:55 ago (+9/-0)

She needs to do some self-reflection and consider that it was a legitimate reaction and that she has some learning to do.

[ - ] ModernGuilt 6 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 10:09:26 ago (+8/-2)

It's a test. If you let it slide she'll fuck him next week

[ - ] Tallest_Skil 6 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:22:47 ago (+6/-0)

My woman talked me into getting a deep tissue massage.

But not by her? Hmm.

[ - ] Version6 5 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 09:29:31 ago (+5/-0)

Let her be pissed.

[ - ] Wemustremainpure [op] 11 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 09:55:05 ago (+11/-0)

I’d rather her be pissed than me laying there letting his greasy hands all over me. I’m gonna be sick if I think about it. Fucking gross.

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 14:31:43 ago (+0/-0)

Becoming angry at you over this seems like a major red flag. Is this the first time she's become irrationally angry at you?

[ - ] Scyber 4 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 10:16:27 ago (+5/-1)

Sounds like a coal burner. Dump her nigger loving ass.

[ - ] UncleDoug 4 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:54:36 ago (+4/-0)

Not an unreasonable reaction OP. You should take pictures of yourself, enjoying a nice dinner out at a restaurant without her as retribution.

[ - ] Not_C 4 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 14:33:43 ago (+4/-0)

I told her to make sure it’s a woman. She assured me it would be.

Want a woman to drop a subject, or stop acting pissed off about something?
Point out that they lied.

Women fear being called a liar more than anything else.

Don't pick a fight. Just calmly say that you're really disappointed that she lied.
If she tries to throw it back at you by saying you were rude, say that you were upset because you were lied to.

Make it clear that any talk about, or any pissy attitude towards, an event will result in you bringing up their lie - And they will never talk about or act pissy about that event ever again.

[ - ] Special_Prosecutor 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 16:41:45 ago (+0/-0)

This

[ - ] registereduser 3 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 09:37:09 ago (+3/-0)

Be a damn shame if they both mysteriously disappeared.

[ - ] albatrosv15 3 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 10:48:04 ago (+4/-1)

She wants to fuck that nigger.

[ - ] HoLeeFuk 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:20:29 ago (+2/-1)

... TBH, she already has been doing so is my guess. This was to shame him.

[ - ] NoRefunds 3 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 12:01:22 ago (+3/-0)

Haha you almost got raped and your wife is mad

[ - ] Special_Prosecutor 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 16:39:48 ago (+1/-0)

Haha you almost got raped and your wife is mad you didnt.

[ - ] con77 3 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 12:32:26 ago (+3/-0)

SOUNDS LIKE SHE WOULD ALLOW ANY FUTURE CHILDREN YOU HAVE TO BE INDOCTRINATED IN ORDER TO AVOID BEING RUDE

[ - ] paul_neriworldsbiggestfaggot 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 10:14:47 ago (+2/-0)

You need to grow a pair, just like my mentor.

[ - ] TheNoticing 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:15:49 ago (+4/-2)

You chose poorly. Stay single and keep everything you currently have instead of giving her half 7 years after you marry.

[ - ] Leveraction 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 11:53:35 ago (+2/-0)

That is exactly where my boundaries are. I will NOT allow ANY fag nigger get near me, period! End of conversation.
You better tell fiance this is where you draw the line, do NOT cross it, period!

[ - ] BulletStopper 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 13:53:24 ago (+2/-0)

The universe is shouting at you right now. You are lucky. Few Men get so blatant a message.

You drew a moral line in the sand and she doesn't like it. This will NOT change.

Ditch the bitch.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 15:05:51 ago (+2/-0)

Ok, confession time: I used to date this guy who said nigger all the time, in my twenties. I thought it was uncouth. When we were in the 7/11 he called the clerk a towel head or something to that effect. I was upset and embarrassed.

He called me out of the blue recently. I am now way more racist than him. He was trying to argue to me that it wasn’t so bad to hire spics or whatever, that I was overboard with the racism.

Point is, things change.

BTW I don’t always think the best persuasion is to draw a line in the sand. I think we should all make an effort to teach friends and family about racial reality, but it wont happen in an afternoon in a ham fisted manner.

[ - ] BulletStopper 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 16:11:10 ago (+0/-0)*

I see.

So what you're saying is that he should only ditch the bitch temporarily, until, in desperation, she has a sudden "change of heart", sometime in her 40's, calls him out of the blue, and wants him to take her back?

Ummm... How about no? She has established that she doesn't recognize his boundaries. And she LIED about it.
This will NOT be a "one time thing" I guarantee it.

Principles don't change. If they did then they wouldn't BE principles, would they?
If she's not down with the program now, then to hell with her. Plenty more girls on the girl tree.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 8 monthsAug 22, 2024 18:47:48 ago (+0/-0)

So what you're saying is that he should only ditch the bitch temporarily, until, in desperation, she has a sudden "change of heart", sometime in her 40's, calls him out of the blue, and wants him to take her back?


No Im suggesting that he consider multiple factors when he decides whether to stay with her, and that when you say “This will NOT change” you are WRONG.

She has established that she doesn't recognize his boundaries.

Nonsense. If I was this sensitive about shit Id never date men. There wouldnt be a single one that met the bar. Some of you fags are so mellowdramatic. If shit doesnt turn out the way you expect you say, no thanks thats not for me. Nobody stuck a knife in this guys back. We don’t even know if she knew who would show up. She called a massage therapist. Its not really a principles issue especially for normies.

There aren’t plenty more girls on the girl tree. The average guy can’t afford to throw away a chance with a decent white women because she did not perceive how objectionable a black male masseuse was. Its not a deal breaker. Youre retarded.

[ - ] BulletStopper 0 points 8 monthsAug 22, 2024 19:01:49 ago (+0/-0)

What part of the phrase: "Principles don't change." do you think you're having the most trouble understanding?

"We don’t even know if she knew who would show up."

"I told her to make sure it’s a woman. She assured me it would be. Walked into my appointment and it was some gay looking nigger... "


She flat-out, knowingly and willfully lied to his face, and then got upset at the fact that he wouldn't accept it.

There's a reason why testimony of a known liar is never accepted in any court.
Once you've perjured yourself once, YOU ARE DONE.


"There aren’t plenty more girls on the girl tree."

This is the obvious wishful thinking of a failed woman. They want to think that they are somehow this rare and precious jewel. They are not.


"Youre retarded."

It's "you're". And you're projecting, pumpkin. Again.

Could it be that you see some reflection of yourself in her experience with being caught out as a liar, getting shit-canned, and therefore identify with her because it matches your own experience?

[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 8 monthsAug 22, 2024 19:28:12 ago (+0/-0)

What part of the phrase: "Principles don't change." do you think you're having the most trouble understanding?

Well if racism is a principle then clearly they do. If you mean “Honesty is the best policy” or “White people are better than blacks” I would agree those are principles that don’t change. But if you are talking about people’s principles, the principles they hold, sure, those things change over a lifetime.

She assured me it would be.

Maybe they assured her it would be. Maybe she believed there were only women therapists at that service. You don’t have any idea if she lied or not.

Once you've perjured yourself once, YOU ARE DONE.

Everybody lies. You lie. I lie. Some lie more than others. If you claim you don’t lie, you are a liar. But there is still no proof that this woman lied.

This is the obvious wishful thinking of a failed woman.

Not really. Its the conclusion any reasonable person will come to after a week or so on this site. I am just listening to what men are saying. Are they all lying?

They want to think that they are somehow this rare and precious jewel. They are not.

And men keep waiting for that rare and precious jewel. And believing they deserve one. Its not coming. These guys should be realistic and not break up with women because they didn’t like the massage therapist they hired. “My jewel wouldn’t have done this!” Get real. You are not doing yourself or any of these guys favors. Are you even married?

It's "you're".

We both know how to spell you’re. I often don’t bother with the apostrophe in comments where its very clear what is meant. But Im sure you already knew that and are just resorting to jew criticisms out of desperation.

Could it be that you see some reflection of yourself in her experience with being caught out as a liar, getting shit-canned, and therefore identify with her because it matches your own experience?

On the contrary. In retrospect I have been too picky in the past about other people’s failure to appreciate my feelings. Ive never been shitcanned and Ive never been “caught out as a liar” that I can recall.

[ - ] Master_Foo 2 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 20:18:24 ago (+2/-0)

You narrowly escaped an unsolicited negro finger up the asshole.
Probably MonkeyPox too.

[ - ] con77 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 12:30:31 ago (+1/-0)

DUMP HER

[ - ] con77 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 12:33:49 ago (+1/-0)

if yardwork injures your back you need to start lifting francis

[ - ] fritz_maurentod 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 12:42:23 ago (+1/-0)

Why don't you let your fiancee massage you?

[ - ] RobertJHarsh 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 13:03:06 ago (+1/-0)

She completely ignored you, coming up to borderline betrayal. Bounce her.

[ - ] NaturalSelectionistWorker 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 13:31:34 ago (+1/-0)

Get back at her by going to an asian massage parlor and make her wonder if it came with a happy ending.

Don't actually get the happy ending because that's cheating, race mixing, and degenerate, but tell her at least it's not a nigger.

[ - ] Salacious_Salicylic 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 14:26:07 ago (+1/-0)

I'm gonna say don't make long term plans with that one bro.

[ - ] Dr_Mx 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 15:31:09 ago (+1/-0)

That's normal, women work on emotions, men work on logic. If we wanted to marry someone just like us we'd be faggots.

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 16:01:07 ago (+0/-0)

I'd suggest looking for one experiencing an emotional shortage of anger.

[ - ] breh2 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 20:32:45 ago (+1/-0)

Damn nibba, meeting the masseuse when you walk in is n00b-tier, most non-happy-ending professionals use massagebook.com, about 70-85% are on there, in every city/town/village in the US. You get to see their pic and bio, what they specialize in (muscle injury repair instead of feel-good-rubs), see online what place has which people at which days and times, etc. You don't need to sign up for anything, I just use it to pick a place, person, time, type and then call the business and set the appt. up.

[ - ] BlueEyedAngloMasterRaceGod 1 point 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 21:49:31 ago (+1/-0)

And she's on Reddit making a thread asking if you're cheating because you insist on getting massaged by a woman.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 13:25:31 ago (+0/-0)

You almost got a massage from this guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3-gh_ytSVI

[ - ] GodDoesNotExist 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 13:43:23 ago (+0/-0)

god put her in your path to massage you, you went against his plan.

[ - ] ZenoOfElea 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 13:59:27 ago (+0/-0)

I want to barf just thinking about those cotton grabbers deep rubbing nigger stank all over my body. Not to mention the risk of money pox, gay AIDS or/and whatever ever else those demons are caring.

[ - ] HeavyBrain 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 14:08:16 ago (+0/-0)

Make her even more pissed by letting a young asian masage you.

(dosent matter if you like it or not, she will be super pissed, for some reason espcially the non brain PC white women hate asians with a passion)

[ - ] Cantaloupe 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 14:35:03 ago (+0/-0)

Ghost her

[ - ] patchesohoulihan 0 points 8 monthsAug 21, 2024 16:01:21 ago (+0/-0)

Sounds like she shouldn't be your fiance, brother.

[ - ] carnold03 0 points 8 monthsAug 22, 2024 06:34:56 ago (+0/-0)

So, what's the plan now?

[ - ] x0x7 0 points 8 monthsAug 22, 2024 09:10:40 ago (+0/-0)

For real though you do want a male masseuse. It takes actual strength to do anything real. Just not a nigger faggot. A qualified straight white male masseuse is going to cost a lot though, because he actually will be the best. And he likely has a large client list of women he'd rather prioritize.

[ - ] Northern_Mechanic 0 points 8 monthsAug 22, 2024 09:49:33 ago (+0/-0)

These are standard Reddit tier responses, “break up with her!”. Sounds like you’re both working through the incident. Well done. It’s a full time job avoiding niggers and non-Whites and it’s marriage on hard mode getting the lady to come along with this lifestyle, but they will come along.