How desperate is she?? She wants "security" at your expense. Sorry to inform you, but that is not love, that is naraccistic, selfish behavior. You're young and have a great future, dodge this bullet,...STAT!
Sure I marry you in 9 months, if you get a job and prenup, yes cheatting will leave you with nothing, yes cheatting is flirting even on apps, no its not sexist same terms apply to me.
I am a feminist we stplit the work and bills 50/50.
[ - ] Merlynn 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 19:00:17 ago (+1/-0)
In a decent world where everyone was honest about who they are and what they want,3 months would be plenty of time to get to know someone. Especially if they were living together.
But we don't live in a decent world. We live in clown world. Where the richest women in the world got there by divorcing a rich man. Where every woman seems to be a complete whore and will gladly give it up for free to some rando but the guy who pays her rent has to "earn it". We live in a shitty world full of shitty people.
I have come to see the wisdom of purging the unclean.
After marriage she will demand babies, regardless if you have finished your education or not. She will then demand a new car, then a house. This pattern will continue until the day she says that she no longer loves you and fell in love with someone else and leaves you. Women are not capable of true love or satisfaction. I don't know what to tell you, besides maybe find an extremely based Christian girl who would rather die than give up on her values and morals as she sees heaven as the only true goal in life. Christianity is a scandalous racket, but women MUST be trained to be good people. They are evil by default and without some form of brainwashing to make them behave, they would each and everyone spend all day masturbating on webcams for attention as their minds are to simple to go beyond the most basic need of attention seeking validation.
Wtf, this guy says a year isn't enough time to know if he wants to spend the rest with someone? How long would she be expected to wait then? If she plans to have lots of kids before she's 30 and the eggs dry out, she has to find a man who is committed.
I get that 3 months might be pretty fast for tying the knot and it doesn't hurt to find out where you're headed. Ideally, you sort that stuff out before the situation evolves into something serious.
And she's just communicating that she is a marriage girl and will move on to find her husband if that's not what he's about. She could have said that at 1 month for all I care.
If marriage functioned like it should I would be ok with this. In a society that has actual real marriage, younger women seeking out marriage should be their priority. If a guy isn't interested she should move on.
But that's said if there is real marriage where women can't just bow out and take money. Trying to demand a guy sign up for a farce isn't right. Easy solution. Separate marriage and the state. The government can't demand anyone give money to anyone else over an arrangement the government is blind to as a concept. Marriage should be a purely religious institution.
What about the fact that she immediately turned down the prenup? My parents got married when they were that young. My dad was in medical school via the Army. The difference is that they started dating when he was sixteen. That's a big, glaring difference and dude is right to be suspicious.
I have a feeling there's more red flags than just what he brought up, but regardless if that's the case it's still too early. If her intentions were pure and lovely she'd have agreed to the prenup.
If she's really gold digging, that's kind of shitty.
If her intentions were pure and lovely she'd have agreed to the prenup.
Not necessarily. Relationships are built on trust and devices like that have a way of queering the deal. Right off the bat, instead of making plans for what they will build together, bro is making contingency plans.
Additionally, that assertion implies zero risk on her part, as if she were bringing nothing of value, or little value, to the table.
Is there a clause in that prenup where he has to give the pussy back if he doesn't treat her right?
Fair enough. I get that gold digging is a real thing and that could very well be what's going on here.
He's working toward a high-paying job and she sees money. Some women will marry a guy like this and then cheat on him because he didn't tick all the boxes, just the money.
Better yet, many will play the victim while doing so and divorce rape the guy.
Sad that society has decayed to the point where that is not only plausible but the default response.
What a hostile environment to start a family within, huh?
Thing is, some people still want to get started sooner rather than later. Hard to believe I know and they are out there.
And thats why guys wih real money will start going more and more towards surrogate, 100% business no way for a hoe to make bank of it (for now who knows what the gov will do when this is basically default)
His opening line was "i have a house". Then he gave me his address and his number. All i had to do was show up and not leave. Call me crazy but its been almost 22 years and I havent been murdered yet!
Man had some form of his shit together. OP post's guy is still in the "building" phase. Would you have been with him if the line was "I have an apartment"?
And surely there are some form of other redeeming qualities other than just being a provider?
lol he lied. I didnt know until later he was renting it. I did not know (young and stupid) you could rent a house i only thought you could rent apartments.. What was I going to do? leave? i had already slept with him. He may be retarded but he's not stupid. haha
[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 23:33:32 ago (+1/-0)
It was remarkable how much she didn't piss me off. Our first date also lasted past the restaurant's closing time without us noticing.
I also was the kind to not date until I had my life organized. If you're (insert reason or excuse), you shouldn't have a significant other; you're not ready.
3 months of dating is way too short. Anyone can behave for that long. Date for a year, then you will have a much better understanding of the person. Also, go on vacation with them at least once, to see how they act under pressure (traveling, being in a strange country, etc).
He can be married and still go to school. He's using that as an excuse when emotionally he's just not ready (whic is fine). And there's nothing wrong with her wanting to settle down and start having babies. They're clearly not a match and it's good they split up so they can both achieve their goals separately.
[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:24:31 ago (+2/-1)
im busy
then why drag her into his shit?and then complain about it? This guys is a woman and she dodged a bullet. honestly she's an idiot for trying to "convince" him. yay or nay and done.
You're right. This post alone sounds a little weird, but with further context, knowing that she's trying to get this guy to lay off of alcohol... it's pretty clear that she is a fucking winner. He must really like her if he's been "putting up with her" for 3 months by now. Why not agree to marry after a year, assuming all goes well during that year?
They're not children, they're grown adults. What she told him is right: "Don't waste my time". As men, we have the luxury of hitting our prime in our mid-30s. Hers is RIGHT NOW, and she wants to use it to have babies by the sound of all of this. This guy is going to regret letting her go one day.
No she doesn’t. The reason NW European countries were more successful was largely due to marriage patterns. Northwest of the Hajnal line, age difference between bride and groom is the smallest and monogamy is the highest. Thats because males dont need to frequent prostitutes while they save enough money to marry. That behavior reduces the number of available virgins. It also increases wealth disparity by incentivizing greedy and corrupt behaviors among males. Monogamy is the only system in which male countrymen are not incentivized to screw each other over. You will never achieve that when plutocratic older males are snatching up all the decent 20 year old virgins.
Once again, I have to point out that basic probability and fundamental economic concepts of supply and demand should inform you guys why large age disparity between married men and women will never work for the average male.
The best countries (germanic) historically had an age disparity of 2 years for a very long time. It would be hard to get better than that as an average. Southern and eastern Europe it was more like 6 or 8 years. It seems to get even worse in countries with significant polygyny and that is not by accident. Places like Afghanistan might have an average age disparity of more than 10 years. This has a direct result on productivity, crime and corruption, violence between males, rape, war, etc.. Large marriage age disparity makes shithole countries.
The most monogamous countries will always have the lowest age disparities and the lowest wealth disparities. It leads to the most egalitarian distribution of marriageable females among males. This reduces internecine competition between males within the society. It is the “whitest” solution, and by white I mean it favors group selection strategy in contrast to individual selection.
I can only offer an anecdotal account and, among our peers, Mrs. Fash and I have the greatest difference in age (within the 6-8 window you attribute to Southern/Eastern Europe).
We also have the most children and are the only ones who are still married.
That being said, context is often key and, sadly, we are not living in the traditional societies of our forefathers.
Im not saying an age disparity like yours can’t work. Its certainly not extreme for my experience. Im saying that when the average becomes 6 or 8 years, that means males are putting of marriage 6 or 8 years beyond sexual maturity. This means prostitutes. Prostutitutes lead to a reduction in marriageable females. So theres not enough women to go around. This leads to fraud and corruption as males will do anything to obtain wealth to obtain a wife (or wives). Concomitantly females are incentivized to become more hypergamous.
That being said, context is often key and, sadly, we are not living in the traditional societies of our forefathers.
But we can be. We can absolutely return to monogamy which is, more than anything else, the key to our success. Why can’t we? Because OP doesn’t want to commit when he’s in flight school? This is where we went wrong last century. We dont have to do everything like a 19th century peasant to observe what they did right.
25 year old men will not turn to relationships with 40 year old women. They will engage prostitutes or they will fuck little boys (see afghanistan) or they will conquer their neighbors to steal their women, which leads to race mixing. There needs to be an outlet when the wealthiest and oldest males hoard available 20 year old women and create a scarcity of females for 20 year old men. This is a scenario that selects for the most aggressive, competitive males— not in a good way. It destroys trust between males. They begin to cheat each other. The biggest cheaters reproduce the most.
Marrying young and being monogamous is the solution which brings about the most cooperation within a society. Its an evolutionary mechanism. Without it you see high disparity of reproductive success among males (as a function of economic disparity and sometimes violence)
[ - ] Fascinus 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 19:55:46 ago (+1/-0)
There needs to be an outlet when the wealthiest and oldest males hoard available 20 year old women and create a scarcity of females for 20 year old men.
We've had this discussion before. I happen to agree with you.
25 year old men will not turn to relationships with 40 year old women.
I wouldn't be so sure about that. With a large enough sample size, the number might amount to little more than a rounding error and, I assure you, 20-something year old me met plenty of older women who were attractive.
As to whether any of them would have been able to tolerate 20-something year old me long enough to even consider getting laid is another matter entirely :)
Concerning the matter of fucking hooers and little boys, I am aware that such practices exist and subhuman degenerates are going to do subhuman degenerate shit, no matter the situation.
Fast forward 20 years. She’s become an abusive insufferable c* with $20k in credit card debt and gets 75% of what you’ve produced when you attempt to escape. Bonus, the prenup is throw out by a kike judge and lawyer.
Bitch is looking for a 'first husband' and first divorce to further fund her feminist insanity. She got with the pilot in training who's also going to school. She's demanding children and marriage right off the bat, with no prenup, and 'don't waste my time' attitude.
100% greedy, entitled cunt trap. Guy should be grateful she revealed her true intentions early enough. If she's this demanding now, imagine how much responsibility will fall upon him if they were actually married and had a kid. She'd be riding the cock carousel while he raised the child.
He needs to get rid of the bitch, focus on finishing his studies, set himself up for a sustainable livelihood, THEN find someone who is deserving of the opportunities he can give her.
What a lot of cope, all over these comments. You faggots complain all the time about how women should want to get married young and start a family. This should be your dream girl. But you want the right to use her as a fuck toy for a while and then toss her aside after a couple of years. Then you whine about body counts. Can any of you faggots do math?
As I said before, you shit in the pool, and then complain about swimming in shit.
She told him to shit or get off the pot. She’s honest. She’s not trying to trap him with some baby. He wants boomer rules, he wants to fuck about on some sexual odyssey during his 20s instead of propagating the White Race.
“Some bumpkin on meth should have 6 kids. I have flight school, I need to fly planes for jews. I need to study my navel for ten years.”
Set himself up for a sustainable livelihood== jewing
Fucking priorities. You guys are hypocrites—when your “duty” presents itself, you kvetch.
You lack self awareness. You lack consistency and logic. We can never achieve a monogamous non-degenrate society again if our men and women put off marriage until 27. Men will not stay virgins for that long. They will despoil women if they do not marry young. There is exactly one female virgin for every male. How many women does this guy get to sully because he’s in flight school? Who has to settle for his sloppy seconds? Its all about your feelies, you fickle men. You seem unable to grasp simple probability. High IQ men need to reproduce early and often. They need to get married young. 20th century morals are broken, they failed. Everybody can’t behave like a fucking aristocrat, deflowering chambermaids until they marry a 16 year old at 40. The math doesnt work.
I actually agree with you. As I'm reading the post, considering the ages of the couple, I'm thinking- why not? If you really like her enough that you want to fuck her and be with her, become a partner to her, then why wouldn't you be willing to consider marriage after a yearlong relationship?
Maybe she was a little unreasonable not wanting a prenup, but she said "Don't waste my time." She has a limited number of eggs, and a limited number of "best years" being young and healthy. A sane man would kill for an opportunity like this, if the woman seems amazing after you've been with her for a full year.
Why are people just assuming the worst of the woman? She really likes this man and sees that he could be a great provider for her and their children. She's 21 years old, a grown adult, prime for having kids. Unless there are a ton of red flags while he's dating her over those 12 months (during which time he could decide to leave her at any point, if she turns out to be a bitch or something).
If it were me, I'd accept that offer, assuming I saw all the things I wanted in her and would have that year to grow with her and learn all about her. The fact that he's posting this makes me think he really liked her up until she made this demand.
Supposedly this is the same girl. She doesnt like booze either. Seems like a keeper.
If this were a woman’s post there would be reeeeing from every corner of upgoat that she was a dirty whore who wanted to ride the cock-go-round because she didnt want to marry at 22.
The advice to this guy over at reddit is predictable, but I really thought the goats here would not be so ridiculous. This guy is probably making a massive mistake. Bad values.
She's even trying to get him to lay off of booze? She isn't a "gold digger" setting a trap for this man, she really wants the best for him. She wants to take care of him, that's really sweet.
And everyone's ignoring the commitment that she's willing to make here, too- it's not a one-way arrangement. She's willing to devote herself to this dumbass for some reason, and he sees it as a bad thing.
If they were 15 years old, and she was talking like this, that's a red flag. But this is so reasonable, so beautiful, and this guy would be a fucking moron to let this slip through his fingers.
What a spergout, LOL. Talk about "a lot of cope" - look in a mirror, faggot.
That bitch doesn't care about the guy and she's not looking out for the future of the white race. She's looking for someone who will subsidize her lifestyle.
You have to be an ultra retard to come away from this thinking the girl is the reasonable one. Giving an ultimatum like that after 3 months is a telltale sign of a psychotic unstable parasitic whore.
Having kids will NEVER make life easier. It's a huge challenge, the greatest one an adult can take on. She wants to have kids to get on welfare.
Look at this other post from the same guy. The bitch is fucking crazy. Maybe you should PM the guy and ask him for her number, you nigger.
we work together and she tells everyone that I’m the one that hurts her and I’m the problem :/ now everyone at work thinks I’m a pos because she tells them I “chose alcohol over her”
100% greedy, entitled cunt trap. Guy should be grateful she revealed her true intentions early enough.
You were triggered by the first line of your response. Excuse me for disregarding the spergout accusation from the guy living in a glass spergout house.
That bitch doesn't care about the guy and she's not looking out for the future of the white race.
You don’t know anything about her motives, one way or the other. You just imputed a bunch of attributes on to her because you’re overly emotional and lack objectivity. She doesn’t want to be jerked around and turned into a whore because he doesn’t want to commit. He should stop wasting her time and her youth if he wants to keep his 1970’s values. But no, he has to whine on some forum because he doesn’t even have the integrity to accept the consequences of his single-and-ready-to-mingle lifestyle. Why is he even complaining?
If you are fucking someone, you should marry them.
She's looking for someone who will subsidize her lifestyle.
I think thats called a housewife. You either think women should be them or you don’t. You can’t come back and whine about “career women” later. You lose that right. You can’t have it both ways.
Giving an ultimatum like that after 3 months is a telltale sign of a psychotic unstable parasitic whore.
I’d say its a pretty standard waiting period throughout the history of White People until the sexual revolution. You don’t want to see how your standards are informed by the 60’s. Her behavior seems reasonable and desireable. Women who want to marry and start families are not parasites. We need more like her.
Gf wants to breakup because I won’t pour out my whiskey. AITAH
Lol Im liking this girl more and more! She’s a tee-totaler and she wants him to give up whiskey. He should marry this woman immediately.
"Hurr durr triggered." Just calling it like it is, retard.
Based on the guy's posts she's a crazy psycho bitch and control freak who wanted half of his inheritance. She tried pressuring him and it didn't work. She said no to the prenup and is now badmouthing him to their coworkers.
Yeah, she'd make a lovely wife! LOL. This dude should be counting his blessings that she showed her true colors before trapping him in a marriage.
If you are fucking someone, you should marry them.
Says the faggot getting mega TRIGGERED over some redditor not wanting to marry some gold digging control freak bitch and the rest of us agreeing with his precautions.
[ + ] Leveraction
[ - ] Leveraction 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:19:54 ago (+1/-1)
[ + ] Leveraction
[ - ] Leveraction 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:49:15 ago (+1/-1)
[ + ] Dingo
[ - ] Dingo 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:45:09 ago (+1/-1)
She cheated and is pregnant.
[ + ] Deleted
[ - ] deleted -1 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:50:07 ago (+0/-1)
[ + ] HeavyBrain
[ - ] HeavyBrain 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 17:57:09 ago (+0/-0)
(if its Canada they are already married by law, 3 months, you dont even have to live together, you are on the hook)
[ + ] HeavyBrain
[ - ] HeavyBrain 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 17:51:17 ago (+1/-1)
I am a feminist we stplit the work and bills 50/50.
3 kids min.
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 13:02:19 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 22:04:51 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Merlynn
[ - ] Merlynn 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 19:00:17 ago (+1/-0)
But we don't live in a decent world. We live in clown world. Where the richest women in the world got there by divorcing a rich man. Where every woman seems to be a complete whore and will gladly give it up for free to some rando but the guy who pays her rent has to "earn it". We live in a shitty world full of shitty people.
I have come to see the wisdom of purging the unclean.
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 21:51:25 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] con77
[ - ] con77 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 12:36:40 ago (+3/-1)
[ + ] Doglegwarrior
[ - ] Doglegwarrior 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 12:58:28 ago (+4/-2)
[ + ] Leveraction
[ - ] Leveraction -1 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:43:31 ago (+0/-1)
[ + ] Swej_Ehtsag
[ - ] Swej_Ehtsag 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:00:31 ago (+4/-2)
[ + ] Dr_Mx
[ - ] Dr_Mx 3 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 11:53:46 ago (+6/-3)
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 13:04:25 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 13:34:33 ago (+3/-1)
I get that 3 months might be pretty fast for tying the knot and it doesn't hurt to find out where you're headed. Ideally, you sort that stuff out before the situation evolves into something serious.
[ + ] Dr_Mx
[ - ] Dr_Mx 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 13:35:36 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] x0x7
[ - ] x0x7 0 points 8 monthsAug 19, 2024 08:31:00 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] NoRefunds
[ - ] NoRefunds 3 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 11:58:11 ago (+3/-0)
This is a larp and retarded
[ + ] x0x7
[ - ] x0x7 3 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 12:38:01 ago (+4/-1)
But that's said if there is real marriage where women can't just bow out and take money. Trying to demand a guy sign up for a farce isn't right. Easy solution. Separate marriage and the state. The government can't demand anyone give money to anyone else over an arrangement the government is blind to as a concept. Marriage should be a purely religious institution.
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 15:55:13 ago (+2/-0)
kikes weaponizing the family court system with no-fault divorces while encouraging female "emancipation" at the same time?
What could go wrong?
[ + ] x0x7
[ - ] x0x7 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:41:52 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:57:31 ago (+2/-0)
I find it odd that more people don't consider how ridiculous it is to have to include government in personal matters.
[ + ] Smedleys_Butler
[ - ] Smedleys_Butler 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 18:17:58 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 4 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 10:54:42 ago (+6/-2)
[ + ] PeckerwoodPerry
[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 6 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 11:32:50 ago (+6/-0)
I have a feeling there's more red flags than just what he brought up, but regardless if that's the case it's still too early. If her intentions were pure and lovely she'd have agreed to the prenup.
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 13:31:39 ago (+3/-1)
Not necessarily. Relationships are built on trust and devices like that have a way of queering the deal. Right off the bat, instead of making plans for what they will build together, bro is making contingency plans.
Additionally, that assertion implies zero risk on her part, as if she were bringing nothing of value, or little value, to the table.
Is there a clause in that prenup where he has to give the pussy back if he doesn't treat her right?
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 15:43:00 ago (+2/-1)
[ + ] HeavyBrain
[ - ] HeavyBrain 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 17:52:51 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 18:12:41 ago (+0/-0)
He's working toward a high-paying job and she sees money. Some women will marry a guy like this and then cheat on him because he didn't tick all the boxes, just the money.
Better yet, many will play the victim while doing so and divorce rape the guy.
Sad that society has decayed to the point where that is not only plausible but the default response.
What a hostile environment to start a family within, huh?
Thing is, some people still want to get started sooner rather than later. Hard to believe I know and they are out there.
[ + ] HeavyBrain
[ - ] HeavyBrain 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 18:44:14 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:17:04 ago (+4/-3)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 22:01:25 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:24:20 ago (+1/-0)
My wife and I figured it out relatively short...but there was no demanding attitude about it, we were just at the right point in our lives.
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:58:30 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 15:04:45 ago (+2/-0)
Man had some form of his shit together. OP post's guy is still in the "building" phase. Would you have been with him if the line was "I have an apartment"?
And surely there are some form of other redeeming qualities other than just being a provider?
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 3 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 15:12:20 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] Leveraction
[ - ] Leveraction 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:40:25 ago (+1/-1)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:26:07 ago (+2/-1)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:59:12 ago (+1/-1)
Married? At 22? Im not ready for all that. Muh flight school
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 18:27:41 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 20:21:01 ago (+0/-0)
sounds like you get it.
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 23:33:32 ago (+1/-0)
I also was the kind to not date until I had my life organized. If you're (insert reason or excuse), you shouldn't have a significant other; you're not ready.
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 22:00:26 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 8 monthsAug 19, 2024 08:38:07 ago (+0/-0)
what hah the fuck haha is that??
[ + ] NeedleStack
[ - ] NeedleStack 5 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:04:08 ago (+6/-1)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:24:31 ago (+2/-1)
then why drag her into his shit?and then complain about it? This guys is a woman and she dodged a bullet. honestly she's an idiot for trying to "convince" him. yay or nay and done.
[ + ] BloodyComet
[ - ] BloodyComet 0 points 8 monthsAug 19, 2024 11:37:58 ago (+0/-0)
They're not children, they're grown adults. What she told him is right: "Don't waste my time". As men, we have the luxury of hitting our prime in our mid-30s. Hers is RIGHT NOW, and she wants to use it to have babies by the sound of all of this. This guy is going to regret letting her go one day.
[ + ] observation1
[ - ] observation1 8 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 11:48:45 ago (+10/-2)
Nobody's fault just not a match.
I too would not marry at 21 but would think it through later in life. She needs an older guy.
Sounds like a nutcase though, throwing an ultimatum out there at 3 months.
leads to remorse.
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 4 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 13:22:23 ago (+4/-0)
This. Dude's not ready to settle down? Nothing wrong with that. Someone else out there is.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 15:01:08 ago (+3/-1)
Once again, I have to point out that basic probability and fundamental economic concepts of supply and demand should inform you guys why large age disparity between married men and women will never work for the average male.
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 15:51:01 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:54:15 ago (+3/-1)
The most monogamous countries will always have the lowest age disparities and the lowest wealth disparities. It leads to the most egalitarian distribution of marriageable females among males. This reduces internecine competition between males within the society. It is the “whitest” solution, and by white I mean it favors group selection strategy in contrast to individual selection.
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 17:04:56 ago (+2/-0)
I can only offer an anecdotal account and, among our peers, Mrs. Fash and I have the greatest difference in age (within the 6-8 window you attribute to Southern/Eastern Europe).
We also have the most children and are the only ones who are still married.
That being said, context is often key and, sadly, we are not living in the traditional societies of our forefathers.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 17:40:32 ago (+3/-1)
But we can be. We can absolutely return to monogamy which is, more than anything else, the key to our success. Why can’t we? Because OP doesn’t want to commit when he’s in flight school? This is where we went wrong last century. We dont have to do everything like a 19th century peasant to observe what they did right.
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 18:02:40 ago (+1/-0)
Not professing any expertise here and it is my understanding that such arrangements were not uncommon within Western society.
Your point remains well taken, however. Looking back at the women who have pursued me over the years, most were around 2 years younger.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 19:31:56 ago (+2/-0)
Marrying young and being monogamous is the solution which brings about the most cooperation within a society. Its an evolutionary mechanism. Without it you see high disparity of reproductive success among males (as a function of economic disparity and sometimes violence)
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 19:55:46 ago (+1/-0)
We've had this discussion before. I happen to agree with you.
I wouldn't be so sure about that. With a large enough sample size, the number might amount to little more than a rounding error and, I assure you, 20-something year old me met plenty of older women who were attractive.
As to whether any of them would have been able to tolerate 20-something year old me long enough to even consider getting laid is another matter entirely :)
Concerning the matter of fucking hooers and little boys, I am aware that such practices exist and subhuman degenerates are going to do subhuman degenerate shit, no matter the situation.
[ + ] Northern_Mechanic
[ - ] Northern_Mechanic 10 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 11:48:06 ago (+11/-1)
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 5 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 13:03:32 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] PotatoWhisperer2
[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 2 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 19:39:14 ago (+2/-0)
She's looking for a paycheck.
[ + ] PoundOfFlesh
[ - ] PoundOfFlesh 14 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 11:03:57 ago (+16/-2)
He needs to get rid of the bitch, focus on finishing his studies, set himself up for a sustainable livelihood, THEN find someone who is deserving of the opportunities he can give her.
Plus she sounds jewy.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 6 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 14:48:41 ago (+8/-2)
As I said before, you shit in the pool, and then complain about swimming in shit.
She told him to shit or get off the pot. She’s honest. She’s not trying to trap him with some baby. He wants boomer rules, he wants to fuck about on some sexual odyssey during his 20s instead of propagating the White Race.
Set himself up for a sustainable livelihood== jewing
Fucking priorities. You guys are hypocrites—when your “duty” presents itself, you kvetch.
You lack self awareness. You lack consistency and logic. We can never achieve a monogamous non-degenrate society again if our men and women put off marriage until 27. Men will not stay virgins for that long. They will despoil women if they do not marry young. There is exactly one female virgin for every male. How many women does this guy get to sully because he’s in flight school? Who has to settle for his sloppy seconds? Its all about your feelies, you fickle men. You seem unable to grasp simple probability. High IQ men need to reproduce early and often. They need to get married young. 20th century morals are broken, they failed. Everybody can’t behave like a fucking aristocrat, deflowering chambermaids until they marry a 16 year old at 40. The math doesnt work.
[ + ] BloodyComet
[ - ] BloodyComet 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 20:03:13 ago (+1/-0)
Maybe she was a little unreasonable not wanting a prenup, but she said "Don't waste my time." She has a limited number of eggs, and a limited number of "best years" being young and healthy. A sane man would kill for an opportunity like this, if the woman seems amazing after you've been with her for a full year.
Why are people just assuming the worst of the woman? She really likes this man and sees that he could be a great provider for her and their children. She's 21 years old, a grown adult, prime for having kids. Unless there are a ton of red flags while he's dating her over those 12 months (during which time he could decide to leave her at any point, if she turns out to be a bitch or something).
If it were me, I'd accept that offer, assuming I saw all the things I wanted in her and would have that year to grow with her and learn all about her. The fact that he's posting this makes me think he really liked her up until she made this demand.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 20:37:53 ago (+0/-0)
Because she’s a woman. Thats enough for alot of guys here.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1eu7gl2/gf_wants_to_breakup_because_i_wont_pour_out_my/
Supposedly this is the same girl. She doesnt like booze either. Seems like a keeper.
If this were a woman’s post there would be reeeeing from every corner of upgoat that she was a dirty whore who wanted to ride the cock-go-round because she didnt want to marry at 22.
The advice to this guy over at reddit is predictable, but I really thought the goats here would not be so ridiculous. This guy is probably making a massive mistake. Bad values.
[ + ] BloodyComet
[ - ] BloodyComet 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 21:06:06 ago (+1/-0)
And everyone's ignoring the commitment that she's willing to make here, too- it's not a one-way arrangement. She's willing to devote herself to this dumbass for some reason, and he sees it as a bad thing.
If they were 15 years old, and she was talking like this, that's a red flag. But this is so reasonable, so beautiful, and this guy would be a fucking moron to let this slip through his fingers.
[ + ] PoundOfFlesh
[ - ] PoundOfFlesh 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 15:07:12 ago (+2/-2)*
That bitch doesn't care about the guy and she's not looking out for the future of the white race. She's looking for someone who will subsidize her lifestyle.
You have to be an ultra retard to come away from this thinking the girl is the reasonable one. Giving an ultimatum like that after 3 months is a telltale sign of a psychotic unstable parasitic whore.
Having kids will NEVER make life easier. It's a huge challenge, the greatest one an adult can take on. She wants to have kids to get on welfare.
Look at this other post from the same guy. The bitch is fucking crazy. Maybe you should PM the guy and ask him for her number, you nigger.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1eu7gl2/gf_wants_to_breakup_because_i_wont_pour_out_my/
edit - another comment, the gf's mom is "ballistic"
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1eujmam/comment/likuda8/
and another - https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1eujmam/comment/likv759/
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1eujmam/comment/lilqavg/
She just wanted a fast track to that inheritance.
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1eujmam/comment/liptkoe/
Get it yet, you simp?
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 15:36:06 ago (+4/-3)
You were triggered by the first line of your response. Excuse me for disregarding the spergout accusation from the guy living in a glass spergout house.
You don’t know anything about her motives, one way or the other. You just imputed a bunch of attributes on to her because you’re overly emotional and lack objectivity. She doesn’t want to be jerked around and turned into a whore because he doesn’t want to commit. He should stop wasting her time and her youth if he wants to keep his 1970’s values. But no, he has to whine on some forum because he doesn’t even have the integrity to accept the consequences of his single-and-ready-to-mingle lifestyle. Why is he even complaining?
If you are fucking someone, you should marry them.
I think thats called a housewife. You either think women should be them or you don’t. You can’t come back and whine about “career women” later. You lose that right. You can’t have it both ways.
I’d say its a pretty standard waiting period throughout the history of White People until the sexual revolution. You don’t want to see how your standards are informed by the 60’s. Her behavior seems reasonable and desireable. Women who want to marry and start families are not parasites. We need more like her.
Lol Im liking this girl more and more! She’s a tee-totaler and she wants him to give up whiskey. He should marry this woman immediately.
[ + ] PoundOfFlesh
[ - ] PoundOfFlesh 1 point 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:17:55 ago (+2/-1)
Based on the guy's posts she's a crazy psycho bitch and control freak who wanted half of his inheritance. She tried pressuring him and it didn't work. She said no to the prenup and is now badmouthing him to their coworkers.
Yeah, she'd make a lovely wife! LOL. This dude should be counting his blessings that she showed her true colors before trapping him in a marriage.
Then why haven't you married your sister?
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena -3 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 16:36:59 ago (+0/-3)
Hurr durr spergout . Look in the mirror faggot.
Goats: Why won’t you marry us? Why don’t you want to be houswives
Also goats: Why do you want to marry us? You just don’t want a job!
Uh, cause Im not fucking her?
Lol. Sort out your feels, hon.
[ + ] PoundOfFlesh
[ - ] PoundOfFlesh 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 20:43:28 ago (+0/-0)
Stop copying me, niggerfaggotcunt.
Says the faggot getting mega TRIGGERED over some redditor not wanting to marry some gold digging control freak bitch and the rest of us agreeing with his precautions.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 20:48:10 ago (+0/-0)
I don’t know. You seem really upset to me.
[ + ] PoundOfFlesh
[ - ] PoundOfFlesh 0 points 8 monthsAug 18, 2024 20:55:07 ago (+0/-0)
I'm quite calm. I responded to your unhinged rants. You seem to be taking this crazy bitch's failure to trap the guy quite personally.