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My mother in law turned my wife into an ardent super feminist

submitted by SmallGuyFromBrooklyn to Rants 10 monthsAug 2, 2024 12:09:45 ago (+5/-3)     (Rants)

My mother in law is one of those nosy, arrogant assholes who constantly needs to be involved in everyone else's business. This cunt in law has done it all: lied, cheated, deflected, gaslighted, and used every emotionally manipulative jew tactic one can think of against me.

Most of it failed though. Instead, the mom decided it would be easier to emotionally manipulate the shit out of my wife instead. I guess it worked, since my wife no longer does any house chores, no real cooking, cleaning, or really anything. Heck, at this point my wife takes her mom's advice more seriously than my own, and telling her to fucking stop has netted no results. I suspect some kind of Stockholm syndrome, since my wife is now making excuses for her mom's behavior.

It almost seems like over the very short course of a year or so, my wife has been hyper radicalized by the mom to be some kind of liberal feminist asshole. And that's the thing, she used to be normal, caring and understanding but through the power of her mom's influence, she's become more useless than a nigger in a woodpile.


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[ - ] MrPancake 5 points 10 monthsAug 2, 2024 12:36:12 ago (+5/-0)

Your lack of leadership and influence is the cause.

[ - ] Sector2 4 points 10 monthsAug 2, 2024 13:12:31 ago (+4/-0)

👆 This is the reason. If you've let it go too far, there may be no recovery. You'll have to:

Become a legitimate husband.
Remove the MIL from the scene.
Retrain your ex into being a wife again.

*Don't have kids until you complete the above.

[ - ] SmallGuyFromBrooklyn [op] 2 points 10 monthsAug 2, 2024 13:40:20 ago (+2/-0)

Well I was listening to the MIL for some time who was telling me to live and let live, not talk bad about people, not criticize people for poor actions. Honestly looking back, MIL was just looking to remove any responsibility for their own actions. I let this go on for many years but now it feels like my inaction and trying to be understanding created a monster enmeshed dynamic.

Removing MIL from the scene will be impossible sadly, there is zero mechanism where this would work and not lead to massive long term issues. And retraining the wife into becoming normal again is not going to happen, since MIL relentlessly undermines all my efforts to invoke any kind of discipline or remediation.

[ - ] Sector2 1 point 10 monthsAug 2, 2024 14:13:11 ago (+1/-0)

Unless you're willing to live the rest of your life in an awful situation, you need to make some kind of changes, massive issues or not. Research 'asset protection' and get your finances under control. Get an assessment of your legal position and take measures to defend yourself.

If your wife is now your ex but has you trapped, escaping by giving up your high paying job (business?) to become a subsistence rice farmer in Viet Nam may be worth it. Or some radical cure, maybe not that extreme. Peace of mind and freedom are worth far more than $.

[ - ] Portmanure 4 points 10 monthsAug 2, 2024 12:14:50 ago (+4/-0)

Dude, you got to go the 180, grey rock her. Just act like you don’t care. Divorce is on your horizon. But you can walk that way with dignity. Act single. Take care of you not her. Separate your finances and stop paying her bills.

[ - ] JewsAintHonkies 2 points 10 monthsAug 2, 2024 15:55:18 ago (+2/-0)

You deserve it for being a racist cracker. I hope she slugs you for being a misogynistic prick, and I hope her foot doesn't miss your limp little needle dick.

[ - ] yesiknow 1 point 10 monthsAug 2, 2024 16:17:40 ago (+1/-0)

Your post was done last year and the year before and the year before that. It's a perpetual struggle post with no meaning to any but the poster as long as nobody buys into it.

[ - ] carnold03 1 point 10 monthsAug 3, 2024 06:37:31 ago (+1/-0)

[ - ] vol09877 0 points 10 monthsAug 3, 2024 00:40:29 ago (+0/-0)

just beat her regularly, if your wife doesnt fears you, you have failed as a man