The house got gutted today. We were helpful over the years and toward the end and her family recognized that so the family offered us last picking. I also took a small tv and some shovels. A lot of people these days are simultaneously anti-horder and pro-consumer. So they want to take nothing from the prior generation. The new philosophy when someone passes is toss everything. Don't even look at it. I think differently. I think there are at least a handful of virtues in doing the opposite. I think practical goods are practical goods and shouldn't be thrown out. Some of you may also know that I am a work and spend minimalist due to my objections to our monetary system. If it means I can avoid buying something in the future even if I have the money to buy it then that much less spend is to me its own good. Third I think it is good to have items in your practical every day use from which you can remember people.. even beyond just your own family. I even think it is better to be something you use then something thrown in a book somewhere to confuse the next generation when you die and they clean out your stuff. For example that tv that I may turn into my computer monitor, I'll use it every day and can just remember that she existed, that she had a life. I don't have the same memories of her that a family member would have but I think that is at least something.
Throw out useless stuff. Don't throw out useful stuff. Don't we want a world with an in-scarcity of useful things. A lot of these things if built right can last multiple lifetimes. Then these items have stories too.
Nice . I do the same. I pick up old Christmas stuff as well . Not because of Christ but because joy hopefully was had . I have strangers stuff hanging on my tree.Ghost ornaments. Just a weird quirk. I feel the same about old cars. I look at them wonder what happened in them , how many kids conceived in the back seat , what road trips etc etc
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My grandma has been giving away her stuff, I scored two beautiful coloured glass ashtrays a pink and a blue. I don't think they were ever used as ash trays though. One was used for coins and keys and that's what I'm using the bigger pink one for (it replaces a small cheap, plain clear glass kitchen bowl that previously had the job) and the blue one is taking the role of a temporary dumping ground for my jewellery when I just want to take it off at night and can't be bothered putting it in the jewellery box right away. I love them both. Nobody else wanted them apparently but they were my top picks. They are beautiful pieces of art and obviously quality made although they have no markings I bet they were expensive. Real coloured glass, not painted. There was a third bowl (not ash tray) clearly by a different maker and older with a chipped bottom, I kind of want it but it might be uranium glass so I have left it for now. Need to get a UV light to check.
My kid's also scored the "kings goblet" which is just a cup not a goblet but is covered in oval and round lumps painted different colours to look like jewels. It was always on a Hugh shelf but on close inspection it looks like it may have come from a dollar store. My kid's love using it - I was never allowed to probably because even with careful washing the paint is coming off. When it comes off all the way though I will find some glass paint and redo it.
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i mean its fine as decorative memento of sorts but if the clock works that would be an added bonus
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My kid's also scored the "kings goblet" which is just a cup not a goblet but is covered in oval and round lumps painted different colours to look like jewels. It was always on a Hugh shelf but on close inspection it looks like it may have come from a dollar store. My kid's love using it - I was never allowed to probably because even with careful washing the paint is coming off. When it comes off all the way though I will find some glass paint and redo it.
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