Are there any actual women on here? If so then why are you letting the internet influence EVERY THING YOU DO? I haven't had a girlfriend in over 12 years and I'm seriously going insane from a lack of intimacy - I'M READY TO KILL MYSELF OVER A LACK OF PUSSY IN MY PRIME YEARS. Something MUST GIVE otherwise I'm gonna be the next incel mass murderer and I'M NOT kidding.
Go to coffee shops at 8am on Saturday and Sunday. Any lone woman you encounter before 10am did not have a date the night before. Invite her to your table with your index finger (come here) and point to the empty chair on the other side of your table. I would sometimes strike out 15 times, but the next day I would score.
I'm sorry you're having a tough time. Lack of intimacy sucks. Honestly, even just being without hugs in a platonic way sucks, and I know men are less likely to hug compared to women.
I would suggest figuring out some sort of activity outside of the house that you can meet people at. What are your hobbies or interests? What have you always kinda wanted to pursue, but haven't yet? Then find groups in your area to join. Examples: hiking, mushroom walks, rock climbing, cooking class, painting, book club, church, learn an instrument, etc. Find something you might like to do, you inevitably will meet people, including women. Don't just go with the sole intention of getting a date- you can intend for a love connection, but you don't want to come across too desperate, and it may take a little while for you to get to know people.
Also- I am not sure if you are a "wanker" but try to ease off jerking it, it takes away some of the incentive to meet a real woman. Instead, turn that energy into going on a run around the block or push-ups or something that improves your body.
A pet is also a good idea. Not only does it give you a temporary being to share love with, but it can improve your life. Cats purrs have been proven to relieve stress (and cats are super low-maintenance), and dogs will force you to get out of the house at least 3 times a day (and can get female attention if they're sweet/cute).
Think about what kind of woman you want, keep positive, and I wish you the best!
-from a lady who has been with her husband since we were teenagers and we have multiple kids :)
You make yourself presentable or get a relationships coach if you have no social skills - maybe you smell, maybe you dress like an idiot, maybe you say stupid things. Who knows?
Don't worry about it, but try to be a bit polished
And then go meet people.
Imagine you're selling a product say sticks of gum - how many people do you have to talk with to sell one - probably a lot, and you can probably only do so at some times and places.
Imagine you are in the city, walking through a tunnel, and a guy jumps out and asks if you want to buy a pack of gum? Content matters, make a proper context.
Pretend to be rich or tell women you have a giant cock. There's 90 shallow whores that will fuck the ugliest bastards of men for the right amount of potential even if it's fake.
Women on tinder have 1000s thirsty simps DM them. They'll take the best looking. Naturally the best looking guys (chad) ain't hanging around, but now she thinks she can get the 8/10+ and therefore must be. 8/10 herself.
Yes, even the fat, whorish and old women have simps in their DMS.
Have some standards, try your luck irl and expect rejection.
It'll be harder if your a yank as thin women are rarer and nobody wants a fatty.
[ + ] v0atmage
[ - ] v0atmage 7 points 11 monthsJun 16, 2024 21:20:45 ago (+7/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 2455579 4 points 11 monthsJun 16, 2024 21:18:31 ago (+4/-0)*
Any lone woman you encounter before 10am did not have a date the night before.
Invite her to your table with your index finger (come here) and point to the empty chair on the other side of your table.
I would sometimes strike out 15 times, but the next day I would score.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3227261 4 points 11 monthsJun 16, 2024 22:45:41 ago (+4/-0)
I'm sorry you're having a tough time. Lack of intimacy sucks. Honestly, even just being without hugs in a platonic way sucks, and I know men are less likely to hug compared to women.
I would suggest figuring out some sort of activity outside of the house that you can meet people at. What are your hobbies or interests? What have you always kinda wanted to pursue, but haven't yet? Then find groups in your area to join. Examples: hiking, mushroom walks, rock climbing, cooking class, painting, book club, church, learn an instrument, etc. Find something you might like to do, you inevitably will meet people, including women. Don't just go with the sole intention of getting a date- you can intend for a love connection, but you don't want to come across too desperate, and it may take a little while for you to get to know people.
Also- I am not sure if you are a "wanker" but try to ease off jerking it, it takes away some of the incentive to meet a real woman. Instead, turn that energy into going on a run around the block or push-ups or something that improves your body.
A pet is also a good idea. Not only does it give you a temporary being to share love with, but it can improve your life. Cats purrs have been proven to relieve stress (and cats are super low-maintenance), and dogs will force you to get out of the house at least 3 times a day (and can get female attention if they're sweet/cute).
Think about what kind of woman you want, keep positive, and I wish you the best!
-from a lady who has been with her husband since we were teenagers and we have multiple kids :)
[ + ] FreeinTX
[ - ] FreeinTX 3 points 11 monthsJun 16, 2024 23:14:04 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 1279427 1 point 11 monthsJun 16, 2024 20:56:02 ago (+1/-0)*
You just need skills to find a women.
You have to use nature.
Women age 28 want a man.
So it is very possible, you have to think about how.
Instead of getting emotional about it, make a realistic plan.
Women are all different. There are different dating markets. Don't use dating apps, that is a waste of time.
Think about where and how and consider making a drastic change to achieve your goals .
A lot of women walk their dog in the morning on Saturday. Check out dog parks or scenic high walking traffic areas
Be efficient, if women are picky spend little time and resources with such ones.
Make a plan for next weekend about how you can talk with ten women, ask then all on a date. Find at least two during the week.
[ + ] 2Drunk
[ - ] 2Drunk 1 point 11 monthsJun 16, 2024 22:23:17 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 1279427 0 points 11 monthsJun 16, 2024 22:49:59 ago (+0/-0)*
https://youtu.be/_RjrvnJOhyU
How hard is it? Just ask.
It's easy
You make yourself presentable or get a relationships coach if you have no social skills - maybe you smell, maybe you dress like an idiot, maybe you say stupid things. Who knows?
Don't worry about it, but try to be a bit polished
And then go meet people.
Imagine you're selling a product say sticks of gum - how many people do you have to talk with to sell one - probably a lot, and you can probably only do so at some times and places.
Imagine you are in the city, walking through a tunnel, and a guy jumps out and asks if you want to buy a pack of gum? Content matters, make a proper context.
https://youtu.be/5dtIje0m94g
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[ + ] FreeinTX
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[ - ] anon 2339524 0 points 11 monthsJun 17, 2024 08:38:19 ago (+0/-0)
Yes, even the fat, whorish and old women have simps in their DMS.
Have some standards, try your luck irl and expect rejection.
It'll be harder if your a yank as thin women are rarer and nobody wants a fatty.