submitted by anon to askanon12 monthsMay 10, 2024 21:13:32 ago (+4/-1) (askanon)
Long story short, my current ex-gf kicked me out of her place - cops came this afternoon after a 2 day heated argument and said I had to leave because it's legally her place. Cheapest motels are about $65 and that's after taxes/fees/etc.
I've been working with a new band for the past month but I don't wanna ask them for help because I just joined a month ago. Rooming houses take a few days to get in because they need to do background checks. I'm clean with a few misdemeanors from at least over 5 years ago. Not working a regular job because I got laid off back in March. Been living off my savings. Caught my ex cheating on me and brought it up during a heated argument and now I'm homeless.
WTF. Thank God I never married. Women are fucking everything up and taking all they can from their men & that's why men have been dropping out of society like crazy the past 5+ years or so.
There's free library wifi parking spots wisely (think hospitals, museams and even country clubs after closing.)
If possible invest in a ten dollar a month gym pass from some place like planet fitness so you can shower every day and work out.
spas that are 24 hours and for 25 bucks on a coupon app you can get a 24 hour pass. Spa days break things up.
Hare Krishna temples give out all their food free once their restaurants close. The Seiks have free community meals also sometimes.
Cheap medical care you will need to hook up with a good social/case worker at a place that services the homeless but you may find resources that make things easier and thus faster to get out of that situation.
[ - ] dass 1 point 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 00:02:22 ago (+1/-0)
Don't forget hit up (mostly woke) churches/ salvation army/ city mission etc for food parcels and any relevant services on offer - i had to do that during covid vaccine mandates after an automatic 6 month stand down from govt welfare for 'losing my job due to non-compliance with vax requirements' - with two young boys, weekly rent and expenses and zero income (used what little savings i had, had to sell off most of my possessions, tools etc, working cash jobs virtually impossible at the time - virtually all retarded npcs wanted proof of vaccination even for small jobs. I'm still bitter and disgusted with normies.
[ - ] anon 1963660 [op] 1 point 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 17:49:08 ago (+1/-0)
Dad's dead & mom is unreliable cunt that I can't trust. I'm an only child too. Extended family doesn't like me because of my mom who helped contribute to my father's suicide. I don't wanna follow in his footsteps but if things keep getting bad for me like they have been the last 10 months, I may have to bite the bullet. No kids. No family. No job. No car. I don't have very much going for me.
You have internet access so use that to find places that are renting. Ask any friends,including your band mates,if they have any leads on places to stay. If they give you shit for that much help,they're going to be hell to tour with so best to find out now if they have your back. Go for the cheapo hotel if you have to. Getting money coming in is next. 3k is ok to start,but it's gonna go fast. That's pretty much the long and short of it.
I’m sorry. I like the idea of joining a gym for the shower. Start busting your ass looking for a job. Any job. The band should take a back seat till you are stable.
I can think you’re a good White person because you are reluctant to ask for help from the band. Best of luck to you.
Get a gym membership. A 24 hour one if you can. That will be a place you could store some basic stuff, you'd have a place to shower. And you could work out as well.
I watched a yootoob vidjeeyah where a guy that lived in his car would leave food and camping items at gyms across the country and retrieve them when he was in town.
Probably sounded way more interesting when I was watching it.
I know welfare isn't what you want to hear, but, you have to eat to keep yourself healthy enough to job hunt, and I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the job market is brutal right now. make sure you have your resume updated, The local Library is your friend when it comes to editing and printing your resume. Maybe contact your mobile provider, and explain your situation, maybe they can offer a temporary hardship rate. It would be easier to offer more suggestions to you if I knew what city you were in. Since this is an ANON post, no worries about doxxing yourself.
You FUCKING Asshole, There is a special place in HELL for jack-offs like YOU! Now IS NOT the time to kick a man, when he's down! I'm sure that thought probably already entered his mind! You are a real piece of SHIT!
You fucking CUNT! The fact that nobody is there for a man when he's down, MEANS, that we Men, of which you're not. ARE supposed to be there for him! HE'S one of us! Your right, It's on his shoulders to fix his own life, HOWEVER, Knowing that you are not alone, and that you have Bros surrounding you, is a difference maker! Wanna know how I know? I'm in a similar situation, though not as drastic! I lost everything! I'm starting over! Would you be such a DOUCHE BAG as to tell ME to KMS! You have a lot of growing up to do!
Fuck off! Trade places with the guy! It's always easy to dispense unwanted advise when YOU'RE not going through it! The dude needs to be told that there is a light at the end of the tunnel! What kind of FUCKHEAD tells someone to off themselves, when they're at a point in their life when they actually could! That's just stupid on your part! DON'T BE AN ASSHOLE!
You’re gay as fuck. Nobody was there for me. Mother fuckers turned against me at my lowest. I fixed my shit alone. Fuck you and OP if you can’t fix your shit on your own. Fuck you if an internet stranger is all it takes to convince you to KYS. Fuck you you pussy piece of shit. Be a fucking man and handle your shit.
Look, Just don't be an asshole! You never know when someone is at ropes end! We grew up during a different time, rugged individualism is what we did, and we did it well! The younger generation did not grow like we did! All that aside, there's nothing wrong with being a bro, when someone is down, and needs direction!
[ - ] dass 0 points 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 00:11:08 ago (+0/-0)
Lmao, You're a fcking clown if you don't realize the value in asking others for advice.
Just because no one gave a fck about you, and you lack the foresight to appreciate that others might have some helpful insight is just peak demoralization.
Did your parents and family hate and despise you too?. Ifd not , why not? - you sound like a loser.
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 21:42:46 ago (+2/-0)
Youth hostels. Stayed there too. Very strict rules but cheap.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 2091245 1 point 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 23:09:44 ago (+1/-0)*
There's plenty of people that do that.
Read about foraging
There's free library wifi
parking spots wisely (think hospitals, museams and even country clubs after closing.)
If possible invest in a ten dollar a month gym pass from some place like planet fitness so you can shower every day and work out.
spas that are 24 hours and for 25 bucks on a coupon app you can get a 24 hour pass. Spa days break things up.
Hare Krishna temples give out all their food free once their restaurants close. The Seiks have free community meals also sometimes.
Cheap medical care you will need to hook up with a good social/case worker at a place that services the homeless but you may find resources that make things easier and thus faster to get out of that situation.
https://www.wikihow.com/Live-in-Your-Car
Always have one dollar on you or ID so you cannot be arrested for being indigent
BLM can be camped on
[ + ] dass
[ - ] dass 1 point 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 00:02:22 ago (+1/-0)
I'm still bitter and disgusted with normies.
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 1599921 0 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 23:18:19 ago (+0/-0)
TIL those fingers cymbal banging faggots have restaurants.
Not the chop/Chaz kind the Bureau of Land Management kind.
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[ - ] anon 1963660 [op] -1 points 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 00:14:28 ago (+0/-1)
[ + ] FreeinTX
[ - ] FreeinTX 1 point 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 21:26:44 ago (+2/-1)
Find a weekly rent motel. Extended stay or sum shit. $3000 will last you long enough to get a few paychecks and start moving in the right direction.
The band may have up wait.
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[ - ] anon 2101363 1 point 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 21:17:37 ago (+1/-0)
The Salvation Army offers rooms, meals, and even other essentials for free or minimal costs.
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[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 04:43:30 ago (+0/-0)
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[ - ] anon 1963660 [op] 1 point 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 17:49:08 ago (+1/-0)
No kids. No family. No job. No car. I don't have very much going for me.
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[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 04:40:44 ago (+0/-0)
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[ - ] anon 1498411 0 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 23:32:03 ago (+0/-0)
Geesus, no wonder she kicked your ass out. Fuck the band gig. Everybodies a musician. Give it up and get a fucking job.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 1599921 0 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 23:14:46 ago (+0/-0)
Both are options for temporary shelter until your able to get on your feet again.
Both will teach you how to survive without codependency.
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[ - ] anon 1963660 [op] 0 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 23:19:22 ago (+0/-0)
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[ - ] anon 1181466 0 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 21:52:32 ago (+0/-0)
I can think you’re a good White person because you are reluctant to ask for help from the band. Best of luck to you.
[ + ] germ22
[ - ] germ22 0 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 21:47:18 ago (+0/-0)
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[ - ] anon 1599921 1 point 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 23:20:39 ago (+1/-0)
Probably sounded way more interesting when I was watching it.
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[ - ] anon 9913324 -2 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 21:57:02 ago (+0/-2)
Nobody gives a fuck about a man’s situation. Deal with it and fix your fucking life. Be a man.
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[ - ] anon 2702454 2 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 22:03:34 ago (+2/-0)
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[ - ] anon 9913324 -2 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 22:38:19 ago (+0/-2)
Also, my username is MasklessTheGreat. I don’t know how to display it on these anon forums. Fuck anon forums.
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[ + ] dass
[ - ] dass 0 points 12 monthsMay 11, 2024 00:11:08 ago (+0/-0)
Just because no one gave a fck about you, and you lack the foresight to appreciate that others might have some helpful insight is just peak demoralization.
Did your parents and family hate and despise you too?. Ifd not , why not? - you sound like a loser.
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 1599921 0 points 12 monthsMay 10, 2024 23:22:06 ago (+0/-0)