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I read No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. Do you agree with his arguments?

submitted by alacrity167 to whatever 2 weeksMay 4, 2024 11:56:31 ago (+1/-0)     (whatever)

(No More Mr. Nice Guy (Internet Archive)][https://archive.org/details/RobertGloverNoMoreMrNiceGuy/)

I know many here have read it, not believing cucked Boomer lies. I was recommended this book here on Voat after asking about girl problems. I was the one crying over a bitch who had an abortion then was gonna make me wait for sex until marriage. Multiple threads with shit tons of advice from you guys.

Here's a refresher on the book:

"By trying too hard to please others and neglecting their own needs, men can become unhappy and resentful and lash out at those they love. With the help of an eminent psychotherapist, these victims of the "Nice Guy Syndrome" can stop seeking approval and find happiness in their lives. Based on years of clinical group therapy with men and couples, this groundbreaking work includes information and tools to help passively pleasing men break free from the ineffective patterns of the Nice Guy Syndrome. They will discover ways to get their needs met, feel more powerful and confident, create the kind of intimate relationships they really want, express their feelings and emotions, have a fulfilling and exciting sex life, embrace their masculinity and connect with men, live up to their potential and become truly creative and productive, and above all, accept themselves as they really are."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hz-Uo4iMvn4&pp=ygUgbm5vIG1vcmUgbXIgbmljZSBndXkgb25lIHBlcmNlbnQ%3D

When you were growing up, you received messages from your family and the world around you that it was not safe, acceptable, or desirable for you to be who you were, just as you were.

This has resulted in Nice Guys who...

-Co-create poor relationships with women
-Try to hide their flaws and mistakes
-Put other people’s needs and wants before their own

And a whole laundry list of other things:

-Seek approval of others
-Sacrifice personal power and play the role of the victim
-Disassociate themselves from other men and masculine energy
-Create situations where you don’t have very much good sex
-Fail to live up to their full potential


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That’s what women are programmed to be attracted to.