(No More Mr. Nice Guy (Internet Archive)][
https://archive.org/details/RobertGloverNoMoreMrNiceGuy/)I know many here have read it, not believing cucked Boomer lies. I was recommended this book here on Voat after asking about girl problems. I was the one crying over a bitch who had an abortion then was gonna make me wait for sex until marriage. Multiple threads with shit tons of advice from you guys.
Here's a refresher on the book:
"By trying too hard to please others and neglecting their own needs, men can become unhappy and resentful and lash out at those they love. With the help of an eminent psychotherapist, these victims of the "Nice Guy Syndrome" can stop seeking approval and find happiness in their lives. Based on years of clinical group therapy with men and couples, this groundbreaking work includes information and tools to help passively pleasing men break free from the ineffective patterns of the Nice Guy Syndrome. They will discover ways to get their needs met, feel more powerful and confident, create the kind of intimate relationships they really want, express their feelings and emotions, have a fulfilling and exciting sex life, embrace their masculinity and connect with men, live up to their potential and become truly creative and productive, and above all, accept themselves as they really are."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hz-Uo4iMvn4&pp=ygUgbm5vIG1vcmUgbXIgbmljZSBndXkgb25lIHBlcmNlbnQ%3DWhen you were growing up, you received messages from your family and the world around you that it was not safe, acceptable, or desirable for you to be who you were, just as you were.
This has resulted in Nice Guys who...
-Co-create poor relationships with women
-Try to hide their flaws and mistakes
-Put other people’s needs and wants before their own
And a whole laundry list of other things:
-Seek approval of others
-Sacrifice personal power and play the role of the victim
-Disassociate themselves from other men and masculine energy
-Create situations where you don’t have very much good sex
-Fail to live up to their full potential
[ + ] MasklessTheGreat
[ - ] MasklessTheGreat 1 point 12 monthsMay 4, 2024 21:26:30 ago (+1/-0)*
I have noticed that after I have become more fit as well as being myself and not seeking approval, things that used to get me into a bind don’t do that anymore. You can make those “put your foot in your mouth” comments here and there and as long as you own it and don’t give a fuck then the women actually don’t care. They become more attracted because you are a man, you say your shit and you don’t give a fuck what people think. That’s what women are programmed to be attracted to.
[ + ] alacrity167
[ - ] alacrity167 [op] 0 points 12 monthsMay 5, 2024 00:51:57 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Sector2
[ - ] Sector2 1 point 12 monthsMay 4, 2024 14:18:15 ago (+1/-0)
I haven't read it, not believing cucked after-boomer cries. (Your sentence is crying out for an editor.)
"Nice Guy Syndrome"
People with software problems, caused by accepting modern jewish society programming. I skimmed a little past the 1st chapter. To an extent I do "hide who I really am for approval", because most people don't want to be told they and their belief sets need to be exterminated.
Am skeptical of that book being able to cure mental defects, but also didn't read enough to endorse or condemn.
[ + ] alacrity167
[ - ] alacrity167 [op] 1 point 12 monthsMay 4, 2024 14:28:37 ago (+1/-0)
Why don't they? Fear? I think that something that is a source of fear should examined and attacked as something to discover and learn from. It can lead to new realizations. The process of achieving independence is really the core of this. But hten again I wonder about the kike pushing of this term "codependency". Codependency = bad is something I am skeptical about.
And yeah i see how ambiguous my first sentence I wrote was.
[ + ] Sector2
[ - ] Sector2 1 point 12 monthsMay 4, 2024 14:47:59 ago (+1/-0)
A "nice guy" is probably too much like the normies in the Matrix movie who are too far gone to handle being extracted. Everything about human cognition and function is on a spectrum, so it's hard to draw specific lines. I'm thinking the best a nice guy should probably expect is to become more functional within the construct.