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"Feminism has left middle-aged women like me single, childless and depressed We were taught to prioritise our careers over marriage – and now we are paying for it"

submitted by dulcima to FeminismIsCancer 1 weekApr 26, 2024 04:12:14 ago (+50/-0)     (archive.is)

https://archive.is/ZE3yJ

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/columnists/2024/04/25/feminism-has-failed-women-career-no-family-thatcher/

Telling final paragraph: -

Feminism made the error of telling us to behave and think like men. This error was a grave one, and women like myself are paying for it, like gamblers in a casino that has been fixed. We are not men, and in living the single life, with its casual encounters, we play for much higher stakes and have more to lose. I wish I had not been taught to throw the dice so high. Even Shakespeare’s princes needed someone to look after them in their old age.

Marilyn Monroe had a better philosophy - “I don't mind living in a man's world, as long as I can be a woman in it.”


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[ - ] Crackinjokes 19 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 06:22:29 ago (+19/-0)

It also left men single and alone and childless.

Which was the fucking Jews goal that pushed this shit like Norman Lear and Gloria Steinmen.

[ - ] fnbs 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 14:42:13 ago (+2/-0)

Yeah but if men want a kid bad enough he can still do it well into his 50's and even 60's....women dont have much choice past 40/45

[ - ] DivineLight2 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 16:08:55 ago (+2/-0)

And even that requires medical intervention and has low odds. Doing it naturally at 45 with no prior kids and a lifetime of the pill? No chance.

[ - ] TheNoticing 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 20:24:35 ago (+2/-0)

With laws entirely against men, why should they marry and have kids?

[ - ] IsraelRespecter -3 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 10:00:06 ago (+0/-3)

You know who isn't single and alone? Black Kings. they are stealing and impregnating all of our white women and it's never been a better time for them! 🥵

[ - ] TheNoticing 1 point 1 weekApr 26, 2024 20:25:03 ago (+1/-0)

Total nigger death.

[ - ] we_kill_creativity 14 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 06:00:55 ago (+14/-0)

and now we are paying for it

Now? Honeys, wait until you realize you've been paying for it the entire time. You aren't just now starting to pay for it...you're just now starting to realize you're paying for it. Here's the even worse part...men have been paying for it too. That's why no one's coming to save you.

[ - ] bobdole9 11 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 06:49:18 ago (+11/-0)

blames Protestants

So close.

[ - ] Irelandlost 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 07:50:34 ago (+2/-0)

[ - ] xmasskull 11 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 04:25:49 ago (+11/-0)

Being a "femaNazi" is unattractive to males?

Who'd a thunk???

[ - ] rabidR04CH 8 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 07:54:05 ago (+8/-0)

To be fair, being single and childless will cause a man to be similarly depressed. Until I became a father, I saw no point to my life.

[ - ] DivineLight2 3 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 16:11:47 ago (+3/-0)

I agree, but men tend to do better alone that women. Likely due to our superior minds.

[ - ] goatfugee12 2 points 1 weekApr 27, 2024 05:40:21 ago (+2/-0)

you never heard of any fucking women quiting society and going live alone in the woods, there are 0 female hermits.

[ - ] VitaminSieg 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 10:53:34 ago (+2/-0)

Before I had children, I saw lots of points. Mostly disappoints.

[ - ] TheNoticing 1 point 1 weekApr 26, 2024 20:26:33 ago (+2/-1)

If you saw no point to life before having a kid, then you just simply had no point to life. You shouldn't need to add something to see a "point" to life. It's essentially something that's not work to keep you busy.

[ - ] BlueEyedAngloMasterRaceGod 0 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 21:31:58 ago (+1/-1)

unless you're a genius, nobody has any point to life except to be another rung, maybe a better rung than some but nonetheless a rung, and the best purpose of a rung is to create more rungs who might one day create a genius who actually advances the species.

[ - ] TheNoticing 1 point 1 weekApr 27, 2024 13:47:21 ago (+2/-1)

Good thing the Wright brothers were both single.

[ - ] BlueEyedAngloMasterRaceGod 7 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 05:52:48 ago (+9/-2)

Nearly all these women have several men who tell them the truth, but they discard it like they know better. Now due to the internet that several men has turned into millions saying it all over the place, women can't avoid hearing it, but still they think they know better. They can't play victim. They are greedy by nature.. the jew exploits this greed for their purposes, but without the jew, they are still innately evil and greedy and need to be controlled.

[ - ] CHIRO 5 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 09:30:36 ago (+5/-0)*

And people still have difficulty getting out of the pig pen. They still want to discuss these things in the abstract.

No, it's just meant to make the birth rate decline and increase the chances of racial miscegenation. That's it. It's a long game. It's numbers and statistics across decades. It's an attack by inches that over time gets them miles.

All the conceptual stuff that the European mind loves to dabble in, that is, in the abstract, is how they get us. Intellectual people love being intellectual, and it can be a weakness. On the whole, this entire strategy (which has been remarkably successful) has been to have us fight in the space of reasons, over abstract ideals, while our enemy is targeting very concrete outcomes.

We either get our heads out of the clouds or we die. The only way to defeat an ideology is to forget God and remember blood/soil.

[ - ] taoV 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 20:33:02 ago (+2/-0)

Man this is such a fantastic point. "Blood and soil" is such a concrete phrase, I wonder of Adolph and earlier thinkers recognized the same thing.

[ - ] 2017Fallout 2 points 1 weekApr 28, 2024 03:49:46 ago (+2/-0)

You are correct however our minds is what built the West and at this late stage we are really going to need those minds to dig ourselves out. We are outnumbered. Just watched the orginial Rambo on dvd and what reminds us is when they have numbers you need to use your skills and stealth. Our minds are our best weapon.

[ - ] JustALover 5 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 05:49:42 ago (+5/-0)

No refunds!

[ - ] BulletStopper 4 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 07:05:19 ago (+4/-0)

She forgot to say, "Thanks jews!"

[ - ] CoronaHoax 3 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 07:36:00 ago (+3/-0)

There are also a lot of feminist women who did have kid(s) who the kid(s) pay for it being neglected enough for mother’s career the kid might as well be being raised by a drug addict or “trailer trash”.

[ - ] NuckFiggers 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 11:31:31 ago (+2/-0)

I don't know an old woman that is happy. They are all miserable. Women's bodies and DNA shut down fast and they age fast as shit. In the past there were a lot of safeguards against that and a lot of help for them.

Then they willingly fought to get rid of all of them.

My favorite part of feminism is the chant 'We're not going back!' You're right old ladies, you're not. Now get back in the office and get to work. You've got to make a lot of money if you want a man to give you any attention.

[ - ] Hoobeejoo 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 10:43:55 ago (+2/-0)

I love how right off the bat she blames Protestants and doesn't mention jews.

[ - ] InYourFaceNancyGrace 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 09:16:26 ago (+2/-0)

The article presents two good perspectives of pre- and post-feminism, but the comments also contain a good perspective on peri-feminism.

I can understand some Petronella's article. The sociatal pressure on professional women back in the 80's to be successful and yes even to manage to have kids. Led many of us into the triple burden of juggling career marriage and children. If not left lonely like Petronella it certainly left many of us and I included myself here, burnt out and depressed by our middle age.

Pre-feminism: Women keeping a home, doing "demeaning" tasks to create a home for a family, get depressed because their skillset is underutilized. Terrible reasoning btw - ffs, get a hobby, or employ that skillset to bring added value to the family while the husband brings external income. But I digress...

Peri-feminism: Women join the workforce to fully employ their previously-underutilized skillset, but still raise a family (albeit doing a worse job, with less time to devote)... and get burned out and thus depressed into middle age. There is, at least, something to be said for when this group gets to retirement - like the accomplishment felt after having run a marathon.

Post-feminism: Women focus only on the workforce, neglect motherhood entirely, and feel used up and depressed by middle age for lack of meaningful relationships. Easily the worst of the three.

But taking all three scenarios in leads to the obvious question: Can women ever just be fucking happy?

[ - ] CasualObserver 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 07:31:29 ago (+2/-0)

She rites fancy.

[ - ] BloodyComet 2 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 15:01:24 ago (+2/-0)

I noticed that while reading, as well. These female "writers" all try to mimic great authors of the past in their dumb blog posts. She's trying to tap into fucking Shakespear, here, and it's kind of embarrassing to read.

It's also a bit of an absurd comparison for her to make: a prince in one of Shakespear's plays and a modern day feminist have zero in common. But look at how she stretches to make it so- she implies that all of Shakespear's princes needed a babysitter of sorts. She's projecting her needs onto fictional characters, something very common with women who become "writers".

She's like "Oh, I lament the tragedy of isolation, for I am withering in my bloom within this solitary gloom, woe is me." Listen, bitch, tragedies are things that you can't see coming. Based on the description of her behavior growing up, I'd bet money that everyone that knew her had her picked for "single forever".

Also, worth noting the Thatcher grooming. They sunk their claws fully into this woman when she was thirteen. And it sounds like the man in the household was a bitch (she makes some remark about him backing down and joining women in the drawing room, as if this was some emasculating moment for him).

[ - ] Leveraction 1 point 1 weekApr 26, 2024 14:03:29 ago (+1/-0)

I see a hell of a lot of old, lonely, childless women out there these days. They are the karens wanting to control everyone else and wanting everyone else to be as miserable as they are

[ - ] Laputois 1 point 1 weekApr 26, 2024 10:29:17 ago (+1/-0)

Do you have a husband and children dulcima?

[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 1 point 1 weekApr 26, 2024 08:58:30 ago (+1/-0)

Historically, of course, the feminist argument had valid points. In the old days, when members of my sex were bound first to their fathers and then to their husbands, they undoubtedly led disagreeable lives.

Being married with kids is a disagreeable life, but single and childless is also disagreeable. She recognizes the feminist way is poison, but refuses to let go of it. Typical schizo modern woman, no wonder nobody wanted to marry her.

[ - ] beanbagWizard 1 point 1 weekApr 26, 2024 08:22:16 ago (+1/-0)

Read title.
Clicked link.
Saw author.
LMAO
Read nothing.
Still had a good time.

[ - ] 2girls1cup 0 points 1 weekApr 26, 2024 11:44:34 ago (+1/-1)

Because there's nothing men want more then to be lectured about their Cis male chauvanism and lack of progressive concern for all the dregs in the world.