This girl told me that she had just acted as a therapist for this 37 year old girl for 2 hours because this girl had never been in a relationship. I said to her that she should set us up because I'm in the same situation (I'm 37 years old and have never been in a relationship) and this girl said to me quote "Shes not into creepy incels" and then left before I could say anything.
I literally cried for 4 hours, I'm not even kidding. Call me whatever you want, it is what it is. This is the most cruel fucking thing I have ever experienced. How can this girl be so compassionate for a girl in the exact same situation and then so psychotically evil and cruel to me 15 minutes later. I literally want to kill myself.
I don't have any friends to turn to, I'm totally alone in the world
Both women i attracted that i completely approve of, That was during periods that I was lifting. All of the other ones came during periods when I was not lifting. I cannot deny it
Your job as a male is to not seek to be led by women.
Your job as a male is to be decisive. Decide what you want to do with your life and limited time on this Earth and do it and then women will flock to you.
What will not work is asking them what you should do asking them for guidance or help or anything else.
You did it! You got a rejection! You need like 999 more and then you will be bulletproof. The second time will be easier. Go get those thots. This is a good lesson in ignoring what women say. Also, start to come up with some spicy burns for cunts like that who are mean.
Why didn't you laugh, incel? Welcome to the real world, where women are given everything and men are thrown into the trash. Btw, you can build stuff with trash. Just saying. P.S. 37 year old is not a "girl" though.
I don’t blame you for being single nowadays. What they have turned dating into is pure Hell. It caters to 5% of the world and guarantees that the other 95% will be lonely and miserable. Stay strong, my friend. I believe that God has a good plan for all of us and if I can find love with my many flaws, everyone can.
37 year old woman who is a virgin? If this was olden days (or she was two decades younger), great. But women can literally get almost any dick they want at any time. Women have sex encounters on fucking easy mode, it's literally a dick buffet for them right now and they mostly don't even need to put in any effort thanks to tinder and shit. At her now, pretty much non-child bearing age, that's way more of a red flag that shes totally fucking nutso. She's so far past the wall she can't afford to be picky, women's value usually decreases with age. She will probably will be alone forever, unless she has a complete psychotic break and fucks everything in sight.
This bitch is so delusional, that she thinks she's still able to pull the sparkly top-shelf men at THIRTY SEVEN, while never having any relationship experience. lmfao no. His ass will dip, no matter what, the dead fish routine in the bedroom she'll have will just make it happen faster. 'Muh first time' is cute when she's in her 20s. 'Muh first time' is not going to be cute at 40. That's a red flag so big, I'd be looking out the window for the actual Red Army to be marching by.
Men's value usually increases with age-- unless you're the most disgusting slob ever. Men can still pull 20 year old women well into their 50s (and 60s if you got the money).
You dodged a bullet here for real.
You do need to unfuck yourself though, as follows:
1) If this is the most cruel thing you've ever experienced from a woman, you haven't been living life man. Get out of your goddamn house and go socialize. I don't care what you do or don't like, get the fuck out of your house. Go to the bar-- I don't care if you don't like it, get a dog-- go walk at the park and talk to the other dog walkers-- no matter if you're interested in them or not, go do literally anything and just talk to people. You don't have to try to be friends with every goddamn person, just talk to everyone so you get comfortable with real social interactions. Women are probably picking up on your shitty interpersonal skills, this wouldn't be a problem if you were some roughneck dude, but given that you cried over mean words-- I don't think you fit that category.
2) Don't ever tell women that you've never had a relationship or sex or any of that shit. Any woman you tell that shit, will be instantly turned off, and even if some woman tries to helpfully 'wingman' you, all she's going to do is get you even more cockblocked, every single time. At best there's a 1% chance you become some woman's bored pity fuck. But then she'll dump you anyway and you'll kill yourself because you don't have any experience with #1. Just keep it to yourself. No, I don't care how you feel or whatever stupid morality compass you have that says 'I shan't tell a lie'. KEEP IT TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. Seriously. Spreading that kind of information around will just keep you blue-balled and alone forever. You don't need to be an open book, no one needs to know everything about you (usually boring anyway). Just don't fucking talk about it-- ever. Even if you eventually get married and have 16 kids, don't fucking tell your wife that shit. She doesn't need to know.
3) If you're that sensitive, do #1 above and work on being not so sensitive. But if you absolutely have to cry because you can't fucking stop yourself for some reason, do that shit in total privacy. Don't fucking talk about it either, same as #2. Go do your business in private, get it out of your system, then come back to the rest of your day. Don't cry in front of women (or a girlfiend, or wife, etc-- ever), they aren't your friends. You can cry around your dog or your goldfish or your Prius-- don't cry around women and don't fucking talk to them about it. If you're in a social situation and you feel yourself potentially choke up, immediately poker face-- fucking dip out of there and go for a drive and get it out. If you think this is bullshit, welcome to normal life as a man, just like the rest of us. We're all issued serial numbers like a bunch of fuckin robots, learn to live with it.
4) If you're not in-shape, get in shape. Seriously. I doubt you have that much going on in your free time, so spend at least 30 minutes a day and work out, once you get comfortable with that schedule, you can increase the amount of time if you like. Work on yourself physically, it'll help you 100% mentally.
5) Once you get #1-4 figured out, start hitting up women you're interested in for dates. You'll get rejected a lot, stop caring, just ask a different one, it's just a stupid numbers game for most men. Don't get ass blasted because your little heartsie strings "KNEW SHE WAS THE ONE", trust me, she wasn't, just move to a different fish. If you're a total sperg for some reason, you may try foreign girls, as your spergness will be less of a problem due to the stark cultural differences anyway-- it'll get washed out in the background.
Guys I'm back in action after this horrible event. All the comments helped a lot so thank you. I honestly feel like vegeta after krillin blasted him and dende healed him. I feel as though I came back stronger.
[ - ] Dindu 1 point 1 yearApr 19, 2024 05:06:46 ago (+1/-0)
I don't know your pain, but I do know that my pain feels somewhat the same because my expectations of myself were high
We are on different parts of the spectrum, I'm merely disgusted by my women choices, but we are both equally not on top of the world. It feels like a curse. Not having children, having a kid aborted etc. That's hell for me. My friends have jumped ship and I feel they don't even care enough to at least hate me. Thankfully I have my small team and if you don't have that, go out and start doing for people. Just give like a robot. I am thinking about doing it too. Why ever be idle when I can be helping some stranger for no reason
I have two rules that occur to me naturally One is that I should have children and the other is that suicide seems to be against the rules. They are both superstitious but they occur naturally
Having kids is a rule? Kind of a silly rule. Is it something you decided on after a lot of self reflection and observing the world and people around you, or are you following the life script the jews decided on for us?
I can't really relate because i've had more ass than a toilet seat. That being said, about the only thing I can offer is this: you are clearly surrounding yourself with the wrong people. Why would you intentionally hang around with a cunt like this? Take the advice of others; work on yourself (workout, get outside spend tie in nature, ponder this weird and wonderful place, and without trying too hard, try to locate like minded people to spend time with)
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
I stopped at a red light on my motorcycle earlier tonight, and suddenly this door opened up and like 50 or 60 women came pouring out the door out into the street.
The first 25 or so women saw me and all walked out into the road towards me all with this 'I'll do anything to please you', lost puppy dog, look on their face.
It was kind of pathetic, in a way.
But if I didn't have a smoking hot supermodel lookin girlfriend I would have been able to have a harem of women serving my every need right this moment
Fuck now that I type this out, I think I might have fucked up and done that!!!!
Instead of coming home to this super hot fuckibg cunt batch who enjoys complaining
But she gives me her body...
And I am a faithful man when I promise that
She's still a bitchy cunt
Even though she gorgeous
But fuck, dude!!!
Just go to a bar with some live music playing, and a decent size crowd. At least 80-100
Go up by the stage when the band is playing and Rick out, get into it.
Next thing you know, there will be women dancing around you
If they like you they'll rub up on you
Last time I went to a show I had four women rubbing up on me at once, and I was getting a little annoyed by it and wanted to get away from them. So I came up with a bright idea, I'll just tell them I want to fuck, all four of them.
You're not alone. But you need to do the basics: exercise every day and learn how to interact with others.
Once you start getting into shape you get confident and happy. Then people think you're charming and funny. But you have to exercise and make your body strong.
Real advice: sign up on ancestry. They use AI now and it finds your tree very quickly. Review hints and approve them. They aren't wrong. If there is a discrepancy they alert you to it. You will see how many people made you and how you are part of a larger thing.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3232922 11 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 03:28:51 ago (+12/-1)
cock blocking
doesnt want to be responsible or caught in the middle when shit goes south
is lesbian(poor molested thing) and crotch blocking?
editing to add
she's not being compassionate. Other 37 y.o. virgin woman makes her feel better about herself.
[ + ] ReturnOfTheGoats
[ - ] ReturnOfTheGoats 10 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 03:44:40 ago (+11/-1)
Also, that lady was intentionally a cunt. She could have politely declined.
[ + ] Dindu
[ - ] Dindu 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 05:13:51 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 1660380 -2 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 03:59:53 ago (+0/-2)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 1360673 8 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 04:24:31 ago (+8/-0)
Your job as a male is to be decisive. Decide what you want to do with your life and limited time on this Earth and do it and then women will flock to you.
What will not work is asking them what you should do asking them for guidance or help or anything else.
Thus endeth the lesson.
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 1475114 1 point 1 yearApr 19, 2024 06:53:50 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 2338190 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 13:15:17 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] jigganiggaboo
[ - ] jigganiggaboo 7 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 07:18:06 ago (+7/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3580377 7 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 03:41:23 ago (+7/-0)
paul-neri?
[ + ] paul_neri
[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 03:44:20 ago (+2/-2)
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 3580377 2 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 04:34:24 ago (+2/-0)
so it wasnt you at after all
[ + ] paul_neri
[ - ] paul_neri 2 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 06:26:36 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 9298224 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 06:30:35 ago (+0/-0)
FCK off neri !1
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 2347946 6 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 06:29:49 ago (+6/-0)
[ + ] con77
[ - ] con77 6 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 04:08:39 ago (+6/-0)
[ + ] GrayDragon
[ - ] GrayDragon 3 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 05:20:00 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] paul_neri
[ - ] paul_neri 6 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 03:23:13 ago (+7/-1)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 2270330 5 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 04:07:56 ago (+5/-0)
Welcome to the real world, where women are given everything and men are thrown into the trash.
Btw, you can build stuff with trash. Just saying.
P.S. 37 year old is not a "girl" though.
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 4 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 07:51:31 ago (+4/-0)
Officially post-wall?
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 4106816 4 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 07:28:47 ago (+5/-1)
[ + ] Xantha
[ - ] Xantha 4 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 07:11:51 ago (+4/-0)
This bitch is so delusional, that she thinks she's still able to pull the sparkly top-shelf men at THIRTY SEVEN, while never having any relationship experience. lmfao no. His ass will dip, no matter what, the dead fish routine in the bedroom she'll have will just make it happen faster. 'Muh first time' is cute when she's in her 20s. 'Muh first time' is not going to be cute at 40. That's a red flag so big, I'd be looking out the window for the actual Red Army to be marching by.
Men's value usually increases with age-- unless you're the most disgusting slob ever. Men can still pull 20 year old women well into their 50s (and 60s if you got the money).
You dodged a bullet here for real.
You do need to unfuck yourself though, as follows:
1) If this is the most cruel thing you've ever experienced from a woman, you haven't been living life man. Get out of your goddamn house and go socialize. I don't care what you do or don't like, get the fuck out of your house. Go to the bar-- I don't care if you don't like it, get a dog-- go walk at the park and talk to the other dog walkers-- no matter if you're interested in them or not, go do literally anything and just talk to people. You don't have to try to be friends with every goddamn person, just talk to everyone so you get comfortable with real social interactions. Women are probably picking up on your shitty interpersonal skills, this wouldn't be a problem if you were some roughneck dude, but given that you cried over mean words-- I don't think you fit that category.
2) Don't ever tell women that you've never had a relationship or sex or any of that shit. Any woman you tell that shit, will be instantly turned off, and even if some woman tries to helpfully 'wingman' you, all she's going to do is get you even more cockblocked, every single time. At best there's a 1% chance you become some woman's bored pity fuck. But then she'll dump you anyway and you'll kill yourself because you don't have any experience with #1. Just keep it to yourself. No, I don't care how you feel or whatever stupid morality compass you have that says 'I shan't tell a lie'. KEEP IT TO YOUR FUCKING SELF. Seriously. Spreading that kind of information around will just keep you blue-balled and alone forever. You don't need to be an open book, no one needs to know everything about you (usually boring anyway). Just don't fucking talk about it-- ever. Even if you eventually get married and have 16 kids, don't fucking tell your wife that shit. She doesn't need to know.
3) If you're that sensitive, do #1 above and work on being not so sensitive. But if you absolutely have to cry because you can't fucking stop yourself for some reason, do that shit in total privacy. Don't fucking talk about it either, same as #2. Go do your business in private, get it out of your system, then come back to the rest of your day. Don't cry in front of women (or a girlfiend, or wife, etc-- ever), they aren't your friends. You can cry around your dog or your goldfish or your Prius-- don't cry around women and don't fucking talk to them about it. If you're in a social situation and you feel yourself potentially choke up, immediately poker face-- fucking dip out of there and go for a drive and get it out. If you think this is bullshit, welcome to normal life as a man, just like the rest of us. We're all issued serial numbers like a bunch of fuckin robots, learn to live with it.
4) If you're not in-shape, get in shape. Seriously. I doubt you have that much going on in your free time, so spend at least 30 minutes a day and work out, once you get comfortable with that schedule, you can increase the amount of time if you like. Work on yourself physically, it'll help you 100% mentally.
5) Once you get #1-4 figured out, start hitting up women you're interested in for dates. You'll get rejected a lot, stop caring, just ask a different one, it's just a stupid numbers game for most men. Don't get ass blasted because your little heartsie strings "KNEW SHE WAS THE ONE", trust me, she wasn't, just move to a different fish. If you're a total sperg for some reason, you may try foreign girls, as your spergness will be less of a problem due to the stark cultural differences anyway-- it'll get washed out in the background.
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 2 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 07:58:54 ago (+2/-0)
Lifting for a month will make a world of difference. Tears should only come from body pain.
[ + ] germ22
[ - ] germ22 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 11:29:44 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Xantha
[ - ] Xantha 1 point 1 yearApr 19, 2024 12:49:10 ago (+1/-0)
thanks for the pedantry. but my skepticism remains high.
[ + ] germ22
[ - ] germ22 1 point 1 yearApr 19, 2024 13:28:15 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 2338190 2 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 13:14:26 ago (+2/-0)
Once you learn this and really understand how true it is then you will be able to deal with women appropriately
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 2714085 [op] 0 points 1 yearApr 21, 2024 02:11:57 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 2 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 07:50:28 ago (+2/-0)
Should have laughed in her face. She can't apparently "get a man" yet when someone wants to put forth interest, you're not good enough.
Shit on these people, make their spirits break. They're not worth your energy.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3966842 1 point 1 yearApr 19, 2024 09:09:59 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3788114 1 point 1 yearApr 19, 2024 06:30:08 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Dindu
[ - ] Dindu 1 point 1 yearApr 19, 2024 05:06:46 ago (+1/-0)
We are on different parts of the spectrum, I'm merely disgusted by my women choices, but we are both equally not on top of the world. It feels like a curse. Not having children, having a kid aborted etc. That's hell for me. My friends have jumped ship and I feel they don't even care enough to at least hate me. Thankfully I have my small team and if you don't have that, go out and start doing for people. Just give like a robot. I am thinking about doing it too. Why ever be idle when I can be helping some stranger for no reason
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 1347828 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 17:36:52 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Dindu
[ - ] Dindu 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 17:42:46 ago (+0/-0)
One is that I should have children and the other is that suicide seems to be against the rules. They are both superstitious but they occur naturally
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 1347828 0 points 1 yearApr 20, 2024 06:35:15 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Dindu
[ - ] Dindu 0 points 1 yearApr 20, 2024 08:07:11 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 1347828 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 16:52:50 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] mannerbund
[ - ] mannerbund 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 10:54:17 ago (+0/-0)
It's really not that complicated, but your natural instinct is not leading you the direction you need it to.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3838455 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 10:13:44 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 1791917 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 09:48:37 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 09:43:53 ago (+0/-0)
Found your problem m8.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3261502 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 08:29:43 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 2340912 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 08:22:19 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] paul_neri
[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 07:52:03 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3947499 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 07:11:26 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 7973568 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 06:56:47 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 1475114 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 06:54:58 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 9298224 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 06:30:16 ago (+0/-0)
Just Take her to white castle, faggot.
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 2340912 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 08:24:13 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] anon
[ - ] anon 9298224 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 17:30:38 ago (+0/-0)
But Dont forget to order a Wata ...
[ + ] GrayDragon
[ - ] GrayDragon 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 05:15:28 ago (+0/-0)
Sorry.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 3332423 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 04:41:38 ago (+1/-1)
The first 25 or so women saw me and all walked out into the road towards me all with this 'I'll do anything to please you', lost puppy dog, look on their face.
It was kind of pathetic, in a way.
But if I didn't have a smoking hot supermodel lookin girlfriend I would have been able to have a harem of women serving my every need right this moment
Fuck now that I type this out, I think I might have fucked up and done that!!!!
Instead of coming home to this super hot fuckibg cunt batch who enjoys complaining
But she gives me her body...
And I am a faithful man when I promise that
She's still a bitchy cunt
Even though she gorgeous
But fuck, dude!!!
Just go to a bar with some live music playing, and a decent size crowd. At least 80-100
Go up by the stage when the band is playing and Rick out, get into it.
Next thing you know, there will be women dancing around you
If they like you they'll rub up on you
Last time I went to a show I had four women rubbing up on me at once, and I was getting a little annoyed by it and wanted to get away from them. So I came up with a bright idea, I'll just tell them I want to fuck, all four of them.
They all said yes!
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 5213632 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 04:32:18 ago (+0/-0)
Once you start getting into shape you get confident and happy. Then people think you're charming and funny. But you have to exercise and make your body strong.
[ + ]anon
[ - ] anon 1170263 0 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 04:02:50 ago (+1/-1)
[ + ] Dindu
[ - ] Dindu -1 points 1 yearApr 19, 2024 05:42:02 ago (+0/-1)