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Any men here ever meet a girl, then text her asking her out, then realize within a minute of sending the message that you don't actually want to go out with her?

submitted by iThinkiShitYourself to AskUpgoat 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 01:29:01 ago (+0/-4)     (AskUpgoat)

I'm sitting at my desk now watching a video of a woman talking about a first date, she must be in her mid to late 30s and it reminded me of this woman I asked out once. I texted her asking her, and I guess this sounds shallow but I started thinking about how old she looked and how I couldn't really have a fulfilling future with her. The logistics of working out how I'd enter and exit the relationship would need to be worked out without her getting upset with me, and I was already looking for a way to back out of it. I don't really feel comfortable with ghosting people, but I probably would have had to do that here.

Thankfully she said no. Lmao I'm laughing about it now like I got out of something scott free. I thought I had just signed up for a boat load of emotional baggage I couldn't handle... omg and that was another aspect of it; with her being that old she probably had a ton of emotional baggage and i don't want to even hear one word of that crap. heh.... heh... heheheheheheheheh


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[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 5 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 01:33:29 ago (+6/-1)

Awe, you thought you had a friend and then, NOT!

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 01:38:21 ago (+1/-1)

fortunately yeah. god, i'm glad we stopped talking then too because I know she'd come back later to have a shot at me. Uck, that was like 4 years ago. She is probably looking pretty dusty by now. IDK wtf i was thinking. that near instant regret of sending that message... oh man. never asking out a 30+ again

[ - ] Fascinus 3 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 02:17:04 ago (+3/-0)

oh man. never asking out a 30+ again

Time marches on, bro.

Get settled in the near term or look back on your words later.

Pro tip: It goes by faster than you'd think. You want to talk about regret... try letting life pass you by.

Be the best version of you that you can be now. Strike while the iron is hot.

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 16:41:13 ago (+0/-0)

what are all these weird responses in this thread?

"time marches on"? i'm not upset about it

[ - ] Sector2 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 08:56:07 ago (+0/-0)

30s would be way too young.

[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 3 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 10:10:48 ago (+3/-0)

I'm too nice of a guy. Years ago this woman started chasing after me. She wasn't beautiful nor was she ugly. She had an okay body. She seemed nice enough so I spent some time with her, went on some dates and all that. Then she wanted to have sex and told me she was a virgin and wanted me to be her first but I couldn't do it. I didn't love her. I didn't even really like her. I was just bored. I told her it wouldn't be right for me to be the one to do it and that she should wait for someone who loved her and she him. She was hurt and I walked away.

[ - ] Zyklonbeekeeper 3 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 02:10:05 ago (+3/-0)

"TEXT"???...TRY MORSE CODE AND TELEGRAPH....HOMING PIGEON DURING POWER OUTAGES....times were so tuff back then that every pigeon that delivered a message ended up being dinner....for a while there I was even launching arrows with message wrapped around the shaft...80lb compound bow, everything was fine until a few people got in the way of the flight path....but I had my ass covered, and I had a diversion, the arrows were fletched with feathers exclusive to the teepee rats on the local rez....but what a fucking bitch some of those dames could be after getting nicked by a mechanical broadhead, I told them to grow a "spine".

[ - ] Cantaloupe 2 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 01:57:20 ago (+2/-0)

Knew somebody and did not want to date them; they approach and for some reason said they did not want to date, that they liked someone else.

Awkward...

Considered making the situation more awkward by claiming to want to date that person too.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 12:31:17 ago (+2/-0)

'Ummm...Brad, sorry, but I'm gettin back together with Chad'---'WTF?? He promised me I was next'

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 16:43:56 ago (+0/-0)

interesting. they just came up to you and said they're not interested in dating?

[ - ] Cantaloupe 1 point 4 monthsJan 1, 2024 15:09:30 ago (+1/-0)*

There were a lot of reasons it might have made sense to, theoretically. A similar peer group.

However they looked exactly like a close relative... just gross. Perhaps they were related.

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 3 monthsJan 2, 2024 01:20:50 ago (+0/-0)

probably one of those situations where they wanted to be the one doing the rejecting instead of getting rejected. that's what women are doing when they bitch about men. they pretend to have a problem in advance so they have an excuse for later in case someone starts talking about them having been rejected. so much for strong wammins. even in the age of strong wammins, they don't approach men

[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 07:48:31 ago (+1/-0)

Happened to me yesterday, she asked me out for drinks. 'I should hook up with her just for sex'. Looked again at her pic...'nah'.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 19:08:06 ago (+0/-0)

should hook up just for sex

Women in 2023 have money and you go for looks. You're doing it wrong.


[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 19:17:00 ago (+0/-0)

I will get the money after they fall in love with me, as usual

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 19:30:55 ago (+0/-0)

Have fun with your cat.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 20:39:26 ago (+1/-0)

She is my bess fren, so yes, I will

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 20:53:31 ago (+0/-0)

A real life bess fren?

Show off.

[ - ] Sleazy 1 point 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 02:46:18 ago (+1/-0)

projection

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 16:40:07 ago (+0/-0)

That's not potentially in play here

[ - ] Sleazy 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 18:02:15 ago (+0/-0)

You probably have a ton of emotional baggage

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 3 monthsJan 2, 2024 01:09:56 ago (+0/-0)

i. am. be. ing. epic. ly. troll. ed.

u. r. so. fun. knee.

ha. ha. ha.

seek validation elsewhere

[ - ] Sleazy 0 points 3 monthsJan 2, 2024 06:30:46 ago (+0/-0)

you are the one seeking validation

you are projecting again, and you were projecting the first time I told you as well

narcissist much?



[ - ] iSnark 1 point 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 01:43:28 ago (+1/-0)

[ - ] Portmanure 1 point 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 01:38:48 ago (+2/-1)

Dude, that’s all girls now. No woman should be dating in her 30s unless she is damaged goods. She road the carousel and now it’s time to settle down, don’t be her victim. Trust your mother unless she was a whore too. She will introduce you to an acceptable woman,

[ - ] Portmanure 2 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 01:41:41 ago (+2/-0)

(My mother was a whore so my advice doesn’t work for me, but I survived. I met a beautiful woman on my 2nd try.)

[ - ] SumerBreeze 1 point 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 05:11:06 ago (+2/-1)

Hopefully it wasn’t your abandoned sister.

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] -1 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 16:45:59 ago (+0/-1)

wow. another "funny comment". baby boomers are so funnay

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 16:45:16 ago (+0/-0)

my mom was a whore (literally), and even at a young age it was obvious her advice couldn't work. and thinking back, none of that would have ever worked at any moment in time

[ - ] AryanPrime 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 08:54:34 ago (+1/-1)

she sounds like a kike and so do you

"Sitting at my desk" technically your bosses desk you just work there, not yours.

"Watching a video of a woman talking about a first date" Not work, get back to work wage slave.

"Thinking about how to end relationship before it starts" entitled kike mentality, only an entitled kike or boomer would be worried about "ending something" before it began lmfao.

"I'm laughing about it now"
"I guess this sounds shallow"

"Watching video of a woman I asked out on a date but rejected me, but it's totally me who won out because I was rejected by a 30+ woman who I wanted to stick my dick in"

lmfao, kike faggots are just so easy to spot online these days, your inherent feminine mentality stinks up the place everywhere it is spouted

[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself [op] 0 points 4 monthsDec 31, 2023 16:39:18 ago (+0/-0)

You need to work on your literacy skills and seek mental help for whatever your mental disability is.