Women relish in attention. They love to manipulate your emotions in order to bring you to an unpredictable state just like them. It's a method of control and they're naturally adept at it without trying or even realizing.
This is why it is important to remain stoic. If a woman tries to get you to react, discourage the behavior by deflecting. This has always worked for me. Even when women try to "bring out the big guns" it is always a bluff. Women are never brave enough to do anything serious. They know that they are physically and mentally inferior.
They just want to fuck around and make you lose your shit. By keeping your presence of mind you show dominance and they will respect you. Rewarding a woman's bad behavior is like giving a milk bone to a dog after he shits on the carpet. Women don't understand that their behavior is bad, but they will understand that their behavior resulted in the desired outcome.
[ - ] HeyJames [op] 1 point 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 12:32:22 ago (+1/-0)
Pretty much. Especially when they cry the victim. When they start claiming to be a victim in a mutual argument I just laugh and end it right there. The way to win is to let them stew in their own inferiority. Admitting you're a victim is basically the biggest loser behavior there is
The first rule in arguing with a woman, is to never argue with a woman. And I don't mean just roll over and give in, just refuse to argue with them. Establish that in your relationship up front, and trust me, you'll have plenty of opportunities to, as one of the first things a woman does in a relationship is to test you on this.
I know that this changes and dating turns into a relationship and then marriage, but establishing this dynamic from the beginning will save you a lot of trouble down the line. Even when you are married, and you pretty much have to engage her in arguments, never respond to her emotionally. Learn to detect when she is trying to get you emotional, then manipulate your emotions, then just never let her do that. If you do that all the time, every time, she'll eventually learn those methods don't work on you and she'll stop trying, or at least stop trying as often.
[ + ] Sleazy
[ - ] Sleazy 0 points 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 22:54:04 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 22:08:17 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Trope
[ - ] Trope -2 points 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 21:42:32 ago (+0/-2)
Woman makes a reasonable request respectfully: Comply
Woman makes an unreasonable request respectfully: Firmly explain no.
Woman makes a reasonable request disrespectfully: Explain she will need to adjust her attitude before you’ll hear her request.
Woman makes an unreasonable request disrespectfully: Do not tolerate at all.
[ + ] Hand_Of_Node
[ - ] Hand_Of_Node 4 points 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 13:32:20 ago (+4/-0)
Not worth it. Might as well have a pet that needs to be trained and looked after.
If you're still a kid with excess energy that needs to be burned off, it might be worth a shot for the reproduction aspect.
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus 0 points 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 12:24:06 ago (+1/-1)
[ + ] HeyJames
[ - ] HeyJames [op] 1 point 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 12:32:22 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] we_kill_creativity
[ - ] we_kill_creativity 6 points 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 11:49:39 ago (+6/-0)
I know that this changes and dating turns into a relationship and then marriage, but establishing this dynamic from the beginning will save you a lot of trouble down the line. Even when you are married, and you pretty much have to engage her in arguments, never respond to her emotionally. Learn to detect when she is trying to get you emotional, then manipulate your emotions, then just never let her do that. If you do that all the time, every time, she'll eventually learn those methods don't work on you and she'll stop trying, or at least stop trying as often.
[ + ] TheNoticing
[ - ] TheNoticing 0 points 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 22:09:04 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Sleazy
[ - ] Sleazy 0 points 1.7 yearsSep 3, 2023 22:55:00 ago (+0/-0)