Don't offer choices. How many times have you asked a woman where she wants to go for food, and get "I don't care"? Then get, no not there, I don't like that place, we went there last time. Well, where do you want to go? I don't care.
"Would you rather go to X or Y?" works great when picking a dinner spot. They get to feel like you're taking care of planning while still including them. A choice between 2 things is an easy decision.
Sometimes they think about it for a minute but they always just happily pick one.
I didn't listen to the general advice of "wait three days before reaching out" after a date. Sent her a text a bit after...helps that the first date lasted several hours without either of us noticing.
Three days seems like a long time to chat without meeting up unless you're just real busy. It's not like anyone is ever the same as how you picture them from texting so why wait?
[ + ] dulcima
[ - ] dulcima 8 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 08:12:20 ago (+8/-0)
[ + ] PeckerwoodPerry
[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 7 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 09:04:45 ago (+7/-0)
[ + ] JudyStroyer
[ - ] JudyStroyer 2 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 09:53:25 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] gimpyoldman
[ - ] gimpyoldman 4 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:35:52 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Fascinus
[ - ] Fascinus 1 point 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 13:34:45 ago (+1/-0)
https://files.catbox.moe/knyu5h.jpg
https://pomf2.lain.la/f/5eckym.jpg
[ + ] gimpyoldman
[ - ] gimpyoldman 4 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:40:35 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] WanderingToast
[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 6 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:55:34 ago (+6/-0)
"Guess where I'm taking you?"
[ + ] PhantomXLII
[ - ] PhantomXLII 4 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 11:00:31 ago (+5/-1)
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 3 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:56:41 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 4 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:55:58 ago (+4/-0)
Sometimes they think about it for a minute but they always just happily pick one.
[ + ] VitaminSieg
[ - ] VitaminSieg 3 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 11:00:12 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 2 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 11:57:51 ago (+2/-0)
But if it's that fourth week...
[ + ] bobdole9
[ - ] bobdole9 2 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:35:18 ago (+2/-0)
Is the 7-10 days in case her Aunt is in town?
[ + ] WanderingToast
[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 3 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:50:27 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:01:25 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] WanderingToast
[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 3 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:23:14 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 1 point 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 11:30:40 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 11:39:05 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ]deleted
[ - ] deleted -1 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:35:40 ago (+2/-3)
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 7 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:57:37 ago (+7/-0)
[ + ] deleted
[ - ] deleted -2 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 11:00:51 ago (+3/-5)
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 2 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 11:27:28 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 2 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 15:14:08 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] PhantomXLII
[ - ] PhantomXLII -1 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:08:43 ago (+1/-2)
[ + ] WanderingToast
[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 6 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 10:23:52 ago (+6/-0)
[ + ] PhantomXLII
[ - ] PhantomXLII -3 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 11:01:24 ago (+2/-5)*
Let's bring it back down to earth, buddy. You and I both know I'm talking about today in this modern shithole.
Edit: I goofed on who is what and why because where due to a case of stupid.
[ + ] rhy
[ - ] rhy 2 points 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 13:10:12 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] PhantomXLII
[ - ] PhantomXLII 1 point 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 13:17:38 ago (+1/-0)*
-A godless faggot
Edit: Never fucking mind I'm a dumbass that gets shit mixed up.
[ + ] Belmont
[ - ] Belmont 1 point 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 17:46:24 ago (+1/-0)
“Now there stood by the cross of Jesus his mother, and his mother's sister, Mary the wife of Cleophas, and Mary Magdalene.”
King James Version (KJV)
Mark 16:9
“Now when Jesus was risen early the first day of the week, he appeared first to Mary Magdalene, out of whom he had cast seven devils.”
King James Version (KJV)
[ + ] PhantomXLII
[ - ] PhantomXLII 1 point 8 monthsAug 26, 2023 20:11:35 ago (+1/-0)