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I'm in a very weird situation. Is 15 years age difference too much.

submitted by deleted to whatever 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:16:42 ago (+13/-3)     (whatever)

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[ - ] FacelessOne 13 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:54:12 ago (+13/-0)

Fake and gay dear diary fantasy posting from flaryan again

[ - ] goatfugee12 2 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 08:03:34 ago (+2/-0)

yea in other words he wants to fuck his friends teenage daughter.

[ - ] OriginalGoat 13 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:21:51 ago (+13/-0)

Do it. Have more kids and make yourself worthy. The age gap is acceptable as long as everyone is legal.

Biggest issue is your lack of self-worth. Get your head together and go.

[ - ] Outlaw_Aryan 2 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:23:32 ago (+2/-0)

Nicely said!

[ - ] Ragnar 5 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:46:29 ago (+5/-0)

Lmao 28 is not a girl. It’s almost too late for her to have four babies.
Here I was thinking you were having qualms about corrupting some young 18 year old.

Bro, go for it she will be 30 soon and not that beautiful lol

[ - ] The_Reunto 5 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:40:11 ago (+5/-0)

Is it legal? Yes.
Is it socially acceptable? Could be.
Do you feel right about it? Mixed feeling.

So you're somewhere between 42-48 and she's somewhere between 27-33. She's looking for someone that is able to support having 4-5 kids. You probably have the maturity and resources for it, and realistically if she wants 4, now is kind of the time for her. I suspect she is 30+ and with a 6-8 year span she could have the 4 she is looking for before 40.

When it comes to sexual market value, you can get stuck in a mindset that a 10 is out of your league permanently. But because male value increases over time and female value decreases as they hit the wall, you may not even realize that your respective market values are the same and eventually swing to the favour of the man.

The question of religion inclinations come up. If you were married before and feel like it would be wrong to remarry, the answer is clear about how you should proceed.

Something else to consider is jab status. Did she get jabbed? Her reproductive organs may be shot, and that leads to misery.

Did she not get jabbed? And did you not get jabbed? You may be her only reasonable chance to have viable pregnancies. If so, maybe that by itself is a sign (maybe even the sign from God that you were looking for) that you should go for it on the basis of civic duty.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:05:59 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] NoRefunds 7 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:21:05 ago (+7/-0)

and I was ready to start traveling the world

Haha wow Instagram fag detected

[ - ] Weredawg 5 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:31:04 ago (+5/-0)

Leave him the fuck alone, he needs to spread his wings and find himself.

[ - ] RMGoetbbels 1 point 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:46:15 ago (+1/-0)

More like spread his legs! Manspreading cis male he is! Call the House Female up, she'll tell you all about his kind.

[ - ] NoRefunds 1 point 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:29:00 ago (+1/-0)

His ass cheek wings

[ - ] deleted 2 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:33:36 ago (+2/-0)*

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[ - ] NoRefunds 3 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:28:36 ago (+3/-0)

Northern lights a volcano and Alaska

So basically Alaska, but I'm pretty sure it's not just Alaska, you're an instathot

[ - ] con77 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:01:15 ago (+0/-0)

In that case yes.

[ - ] con77 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:02:20 ago (+0/-0)

Did all that plus the Arctic and 55' seas

[ - ] con77 1 point 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:52:56 ago (+1/-0)

Travel where? I've outgrown my wanderlust

[ - ] Bottled_Tears 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 03:49:20 ago (+0/-0)

My dad is 59 with 3 of us and just had a kid with his new wife who is 45.

It's not too odd but I think it was stupid of him to do it at such an old age. Thankfully he is aging so well that he actually looks like he is 45 too.

He says it's easier this time around but his wife is also very competent and successful. He doesn't have a whole lot of time for us but it's starting to come back as the baby is getting older.

[ - ] Reawakened 2 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:35:21 ago (+2/-0)

The age gap isn't an issue. You being 43 and having more kids could be a bit of an issue. I was 45 when my last one was born. Now he's about grown, and I find that I hate being so old with him being so young. If you stay fit and healthy, it's probably not an issue.

[ - ] BoozyB 1 point 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 07:45:56 ago (+1/-0)

My dad was 17 years older than my mom.
First marriage for both.
My ex is only four years younger than me. After we split, I was in a pretty serious relationship with a 20 y/o when I was 42.
My current is 8 yrs younger.
I think you should go for it. It keeps you young and active, you'll probably live longer.
Be happy that she considers you desirable.

[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 11:27:31 ago (+1/-0)

Be happy that she considers you desirable.

Underrated comment.

[ - ] beece 1 point 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:59:02 ago (+1/-0)

This is something which you must determine on your own. We have no knowledge of the many intricacies which must be looked at. Suggest an honest convo with the lady in question.

Best of luck!

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 02:00:52 ago (+0/-0)

Hell, talk to her dad.

[ - ] deleted 1 point 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:57:32 ago (+1/-0)

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[ - ] Feelslikeclownworld 1 point 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:34:08 ago (+1/-0)

In all honesty if you intend on being a good provider and she is at least 18 I'd say go for it. World needs more white babies. Just make sure she truly knows what to expect before getting intimate.

Will probably be hella awkward for your kids but that is something you need to discuss with them more then anything.

I'd also recommend going over it with her parents to feel out the situation. If they are staunchly against it they may inadvertently work against your relationship and increase the likelihood of it failing.

Also it probably goes without say but be a bit subtle before dropping a relationship request on her, as she might see you as a trusted parental figure and if you ruin that it would make things quite a bit weird for you both in the future.

[ - ] dingbat 1 point 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:23:40 ago (+1/-0)

My advice? Go and have more white babies with a good lady. We need more white kids being raised by based families. 15 year age gap doesn’t matter when she looks up to you in the way she does. Guide her and cherish her. I’m sad I didn’t have more. Go for it :)

[ - ] Hugh 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 18:07:19 ago (+0/-0)

Go for it ! Resources ???? Have a bunch of kids and collect money from the government. Look into it and do the calculations. With 4 kids you can probably both quit work, do nothing and get $50K a year in benefits.

[ - ] bobdole9 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 11:24:29 ago (+0/-0)

Does it pass "half plus seven"?

Gut says give it a shot. If you're concerned what your son thinks, ask him. For all you know he'd be excited that you'd have someone who'd make you happy.

[ - ] usedoilanalysis 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 09:53:15 ago (+0/-0)

Half your age + 7

[ - ] fritz_maurentod 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 08:21:50 ago (+0/-0)

If you take her, you have to give her children. Statistically, she'll live for another 20 years once you die and it would be pretty lonely otherwise.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 06:37:19 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 06:34:37 ago (+0/-0)

do it do it DO IT

[ - ] LiberalsAreMental 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 06:21:30 ago (+0/-0)

It was common through European history for older men (who lost their wives) to remarry and to get a teenager the second time.

[ - ] jigganiggaboo 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 06:17:08 ago (+0/-0)

Do it just to piss off the jews

[ - ] JudyStroyer 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 02:38:48 ago (+0/-0)

You’re always ready to have a kid, no matter how unprepared you think you are.

[ - ] AtomicForeskin 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:47:34 ago (+0/-0)

Are you gay?

[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:43:52 ago (+0/-0)

Aren’t you to busy wrecking Harley’s and losing guns? Don’t you think you might be more than she needs to deal with? Don’t fuck this girls life up. Let her go be with someone who has a grip on themselves. Sorry bro.

[ - ] AttilaHitler 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:22:53 ago (+0/-0)

It depends on which 15

[ - ] 3Whuurs 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:11:05 ago (+0/-0)*

No it’s not to big a gap. Might not be worth burning bridges with your families if you’re close and have a big problem with it though.
There’s no point in considering β€œis this god giving me an opportunity”. Not even for 1 second.
There’s no chance you come to sone total assurance of that fact before you just roll the dice. So the only way you answer that question for your self is by answering it for yourself and you know it.
Don’t waste time inventing validation and justification for your choices so you don’t have to feel responsible for them. That’s what women do.
You want her, then go make a ton of kids with her before someone else does.

[ - ] observation1 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:04:30 ago (+0/-0)

Live with her for a few months to see if it would work out. You have time to find out. 43 is young.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:46:03 ago (+0/-0)

So.. waste her time?

[ - ] observation1 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:55:31 ago (+0/-0)

Its not wasted time if its a lesson learned. 28 is plenty young for her.

Marriage is also about promising to stick around with eachother while the children grow up. If one learns it aint gonna work, better to know now then to find out after anchored. Or worse, if they split, leaving the child minus a parent. Children are top priority. Not whatever your cliche version of time is.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 02:05:56 ago (+0/-0)

Do you know what 28 is to a woman?

Hey, Imma move you in for a test run? Hows that sound baby?

Oh lord, you think moving a relationship to that level isn't a commitment. Him moving her in with his kid in the house wouldnt be just "testing it out" .

Testing it out.. nice.

Not whatever your cliche version of love is.

Obviously not your cliche new age free love version. For that I'm grateful.

[ - ] observation1 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 02:12:35 ago (+0/-0)

Spoken like an emotional mess. Yeah, thats called dating. Maybe youve heard of it?

The opposite, and what it sounds like youre advocating for is, pre planned marriage.

Real classy. If you wouldnt risk 2 months for your future children, then youre a part of the growing problem of fatherless families. Shotgun weddings are always easy for the moms to get behind, knowing theres zero risk in losing the child in divorce. The men have to be the strong ones and not lose their heads. Else they end up with a woman like you.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 02:35:48 ago (+0/-0)

Else they end up with a woman like you

You make that sound like a bad thing.

thats called dating.

Going by the new perverse definition I guess. Done wonders this new way I heard.

pre planned marriage

Its worked in the past. Your loosey goosey ways are what allowed it to become something disposable.

Adding I would think your way of thinking ,cutting out when it stops being fun, is more part of the growing problem of fatherless homes.










[ - ] observation1 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 02:56:35 ago (+0/-0)

Sounds like I struck a nerve on the broken family topic, so I wont pry.

But its clear you and I have different values. Children growing up in a strong family is cheif concern of mine.

For what its worth, my parents stuck around for me and siblibgs. They were 15 years apart, and my grandparents stuck around for them. Im married to my 1st and only wife. (Our first 2 children came long after she was 28, by the way, and more on way.) I was in 3 serious relationships before i met my wife. Cant imagine what would have happened if I married any of them instead. They werent right. Would have been a huge mistake. They are all happy I hear. None of the ex girlfriends turned into an old maid, if thats what youre thinking.

[ - ] parrygrin 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:58:09 ago (+0/-0)

I've had a number of age gap relationships. It's a thing, but it has pros and cons like anything else. I think go for it if it's a good idea. Just evaluate if it's gonna work while keeping an open mind for how it can work.

[ - ] con77 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:51:25 ago (+0/-0)

When she's hitting her prime you'll be on the down hill slide

[ - ] RMGoetbbels 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:42:32 ago (+0/-0)

Younger than 30? TOO MUCH. If she hasn't hit the Wall yet then there is still more cocks for her to swallow and she wants to swallow them no matter how nice of a girl she is.

Besides, you don't want your 10 year old son ogling her in a bikini, that's just a porn movie waiting to happen.

[ - ] Cantaloupe 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:31:34 ago (+0/-0)

Also consider, if you don't then she'll end up with someone else who may not be as good as you.

It sounds like she's 28, she wants to start having kids. At 28 she should have a good idea of what she wants.

Having a kid isn't that difficult. Just pay loads of attention to them when they're young

[ - ] Ifuckdolphinseverday 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:18:40 ago (+0/-0)

No.

Young girls are great. Takes confidence from both sides.

Men and older women are jealous. Who gives a fuck what they think.

[ - ] Doglegwarrior 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:12:02 ago (+1/-1)

DO IT IF YOU ARE BOTH WHITE!!!!!

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 0 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:43:54 ago (+0/-0)

Bro, fuck that.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:57:51 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:20:00 ago (+0/-0)

Theres an age gap between my husband and I. Does he get tired? Yes. But she is young enough to handle if you are able to provide security and peace of mind.

Does she know about this surgery you've mentioned and how you you feel about going through with it? Last I read you were going with the fuck everything route. May have missed an update or two but thats the last I read. Does the possibility of a new family change your mind?

[ - ] deleted 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 00:57:16 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 0 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 05:49:29 ago (+0/-0)

Then don't, I don't care. I know exactly what I'd do and I think we're the same age.

[ - ] PhantomXLII -1 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 02:02:30 ago (+0/-1)

If I want to fuck a whore I'll rent one.

You will not. You will work diligently to ensure whores are an extinct type of degenerate.

[ - ] 2Drunk 0 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:24:06 ago (+0/-0)

18 and over means you can stick your dick in it.

Should you?

[ - ] HeyJames 0 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:22:16 ago (+0/-0)

Just depends on what you're into but I can't imagine having to deal with all the BS of a 18-21 year old. That's literally generation tiktok.

[ - ] deleted 2 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:26:11 ago (+2/-0)

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[ - ] HeyJames 0 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:39:17 ago (+0/-0)

Okay that's not so bad. She's mature enough to not be a kid. You'll be alright

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:20:20 ago (+0/-0)

Whats the age between this girl and your kids? Thats going to be the main question.

[ - ] deleted 2 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:21:37 ago (+2/-0)

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[ - ] xmasskull 3 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:32:36 ago (+3/-0)

Jump in with both feet,hang on & enjoy the ride.You did something RIGHT to deserve her.

Best of Luck!!!!

[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:24:25 ago (+1/-0)

Not too bad then. I was just thinking about how the realtionship would work out. Kids~ you know how they can be.



[ - ] PhantomXLII -1 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 01:55:02 ago (+1/-2)*

As a man of 24 years of age...

WHAT THE FUCK YOU FREAKING PEDO. DIE MOTHERFUCKER DIE.

As an adult who knows you're probably a Hell of a lot older than me...

Meh. Go ahead. 50 and 35 isn't too crazy.

Personally, I'd cut myself off at 10-11 years difference. Morally, if you're old enough to be her dad then uh... Yeah... Kinda weird. It's why I had to be so damn careful subbing. Folks were watching me for any signs of pedo-ness, and I sure as shit wasn't about to get accused of it. It all worked out though, most all the kids liked me and half the staff knew me from when I was going to school in the same damn buildings. They know I'm not a pedo bitch, basically.

Still, I didn't want anyone even getting the idea I was/am a creep. I'm not, and that would've ruined my life.

Granted, now that I've said earlier I'd cut myself off at 10-11 years age difference, which would be like me and what is currently a 6th grader, let me stop real quick and just put the legal and moral disclaimer that I would never, will never, and have never considered anyone under 18 years of age to be of relationship material or anything other than a child that, as a White man, I am obligated to protect and assist however I can within reason.

Just saying that in case some idiot actually thinks I'd go for someone 11 years younger than me now. Nonono, I mean like when I'm 30. And uh... Not 11 years even then. If I'm 30, that girl had better be 20+. 30 and 19 just does not sound right at all.

But yeah in your case you may as well. Just remember she's probably already fucked around with a dozen guys and you're just the next plaything and you're good! Ain't modern women great? Just seek one out and pass her around and maybe she'll let you have a turn.

Degenerate bitches.... And that goes for the men who create and "enjoy" sluts too. Takes two to tango, and it takes one rifle round to put an end to the dance permanently.

[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 03:00:21 ago (+1/-0)

10- 11 years is a good place to set it. Enough for the woman to see a guy as not her equal.

But yeah in your case you may as well... and the next two lines after

lol but we dont know anything about her. She may not be that way at all.


[ - ] PhantomXLII -1 points 9 monthsAug 7, 2023 09:45:47 ago (+0/-1)

lol but we dont know anything about her.

πŸ˜‚

That's always the defense isn't it? Really because it's all you women have. "BUT YOU DON'T KNOOOOWWWWWW".

Perhaps not, but I am good at recognizing patterns and probability.

The average bitch has fucked around. Sure, they can lie. "I'm a virgin, I only gave a blowjob to a guy in high school! 😜"

It's all the same. Women are all the same. But sure, you can try to close ranks and act like the bitch is an infallible gift from God himself. Whatever makes you feel better, because that's what it's all about, right? Feeling good. All the time, in every way. To Hell with principles. Who needs those? You're women, right? You've got this! You're all queens! πŸ˜‚

[ - ] Joe_McCarthy -2 points 9 monthsAug 6, 2023 23:25:06 ago (+0/-2)