She is missing the point; she thinks she is helping things, but really, she is just promoting the same equivocation as underlied feminism to begin with. Stop with this comparing men and women directly. It's fucking retarded.
It's about division of labor and forms of life. If you look at any single domain for activity, you're going to find men who excel (who could be placed at the highest ranks for competence in that area). That's because men sell out to be really good at things. That's what they bring to the table. On an evolutionary view, there are incentives for men per se to shoulder the risk of going 'all in' on pursuing greatness in a narrow endeavor.
Women are generalists. I do think women tend to be better at balancing multiple things at one time. I find they excel at scheduling things, at organizing people, at list-making, at being aware of what a family's *overall needs are, what's not 'working', what 'is working', etc. If I have a kid with some life milestone approaching, for which it is traditional to have a celebration, there is a lot that goes into making that a special moment (that goes off without a hitch, that has all the right people there, with the right food and beverages, etc.). Out of all the things necessary to make that celebration happen, it isn't that I (as a man) couldn't do them. It's that I don't enjoy it. It's like pulling teeth. Whereas, I think women not only tend to do a better job with these things, they also gain greater fulfillment from it than I would. They tend to be incredibly sensitive to the effects of small social changes on their environment. They tend to be more sensitive to a person's emotional state and interior concerns than men are.
Wouldn't ya know it, all of those qualities make them excellent at managing a whole arena of domestic and family life.
That being said, you're going to see massive failures start to emerge when a society's divison of labor between men and women breaks down, and when they all begin to lose their fucking rootedness in the pattern. People start to go crazy. The meaning and purpose of a person's activities actually starts to become too salient of a question in their mind. The second you stop and start analyzing your form of life too much, you begin to resent it. And that, my friends, is all that culture has urged us to do now, for decades. Stop. Ask questions. Criticize. Quit moving and see how you'd actually like to be moving.
It's kind of like the influence of the serpent in the Garden of Eden. Stop. Question the rules. Eat the apple. It's really about revolution. Revolution begins in the heart. It starts when you question God.
"Ya know, is family really what I want? I'm remembering what my professor in college used to say. What could my life be like had I never been married? I wonder if I could have been a corporate CEO."
If you don't immediately have an authoritative answer for these kinds of 'small revolutions' (they occur in the mind first), they'll gain momentum.
"Ya know, is family really what I want? I'm remembering what my professor in college used to say. What could my life be like had I never been married? I wonder if I could have been a corporate CEO."
The problem is that they compare the actual with the imaginary, the ideal. The only choices are of the actual. Actually being a CEO would likely be unfulfilling (but like with communism the fulfilling part will always be just around the corner, just beyond the unfair barriers the men are putting up, etc.). There's an imagined possibility that is always just out of reach which drives them from something that would actually work if they stuck with it.
Social media turns that match flame into an inferno, too.
In general, feminism has presented the world of masculinity to women as if it were true that every man feels like Zeus each morning he wakes. We flex in the mirror and grab our cocks, congratulate ourselves, and then go run the world. When we go to work, we're heading for the gold-trimmed luxuries of Olympus, where we fraternize, and fuck, and make tons of money to lord over her when we get home.
The unbelievable irony is that, for every one of the male CEOs presented to them in their statistical summaries of corporate elite, there are 10 million men who will live and die working laborious jobs, and society will never know their names. The irony is that these men don't even appear on women's radar, for the most part. They aren't the lives which are prized. So, of course it looks unfair when women aren't seeing that the very mechanisms that give us the hyper-competent 1% also result in most men living really hard, ungratifying lives. But women don't want any of those outcomes. Heavens no. The coal mines? Wait, you mean coal has to be dug up?
I come from a blue collar background. I grew up around multiple generations of men, one after the other, whose knees, hips and elbows are blown out by age 55 from lives of labor. You never saw women vying for those lives.
Yeah exactly. Women want to be fighter pilots, but so do lots of men who will never be able to either.
A difference between men and women is that men are OK not being CEOs, just having a decent job and being productive. They also understand that being a CEO isn't a walk in the park.
Women do multiple things at once, each of them badly because they're not getting their full attention. Rather than sit the fuck down, focus and do one job well, women like to do several to give themselves the impression that they are accomplishing more when really someone has to go back and fix all their mistakes.
Can't even do that anymore. So many fat, plain, tattooed, basically ugly women around.
With the access to good food and exercise equipment, as well as the millions of options in makeup and clothes any woman can up her looks several points. Very few women couldn't be gorgeous with some work yet there are so many freakishly fat and ugly women around today.
They're better at singing soprano. But the larger point is that they should be at home raising children and helping provide healthy food for the family.
The thing is, we don't need foids to be the best at anything. We just need them to stfu and do what they're supposed to, which is precisely what you said above.
Her podcast regularly features men from the 'dating scene', and they are majority black. She dates black men. I noticed quite early on, in her rise to popularity, that looking at her and the guests in the room resembled the introduction to a cheap gangbang porno. It's definitely pushing and influencing the ongoing miscegenation trend. Not only that, Pearl comes from a rich liberal background, and she was experimenting with all kinds of strategies for 'going viral' online, by her own admission. It just turned out that the conservative angle did it, so she ran with it.
She grew up in a system designed to brainwash her that women are superior and men are the oppressors. Yet she has dug herself out, and come to some very humbling and even demeaning conclusions about herself and her fellow women.
[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 08:36:54 ago (+1/-0)
Poor thing. how is it that such a "baste" woman is still on the market?
Oh wait
Pearl- You have to maintain the family no matter what. NO matter what he does the woman must find a way to maintain the family and put the family above all else
Also Pearl- The man has every right to leave if he doesnt find you attractive anymore.
[ + ] CHIRO
[ - ] CHIRO 20 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:19:57 ago (+20/-0)*
It's about division of labor and forms of life. If you look at any single domain for activity, you're going to find men who excel (who could be placed at the highest ranks for competence in that area). That's because men sell out to be really good at things. That's what they bring to the table. On an evolutionary view, there are incentives for men per se to shoulder the risk of going 'all in' on pursuing greatness in a narrow endeavor.
Women are generalists. I do think women tend to be better at balancing multiple things at one time. I find they excel at scheduling things, at organizing people, at list-making, at being aware of what a family's *overall needs are, what's not 'working', what 'is working', etc. If I have a kid with some life milestone approaching, for which it is traditional to have a celebration, there is a lot that goes into making that a special moment (that goes off without a hitch, that has all the right people there, with the right food and beverages, etc.). Out of all the things necessary to make that celebration happen, it isn't that I (as a man) couldn't do them. It's that I don't enjoy it. It's like pulling teeth. Whereas, I think women not only tend to do a better job with these things, they also gain greater fulfillment from it than I would. They tend to be incredibly sensitive to the effects of small social changes on their environment. They tend to be more sensitive to a person's emotional state and interior concerns than men are.
Wouldn't ya know it, all of those qualities make them excellent at managing a whole arena of domestic and family life.
That being said, you're going to see massive failures start to emerge when a society's divison of labor between men and women breaks down, and when they all begin to lose their fucking rootedness in the pattern. People start to go crazy. The meaning and purpose of a person's activities actually starts to become too salient of a question in their mind. The second you stop and start analyzing your form of life too much, you begin to resent it. And that, my friends, is all that culture has urged us to do now, for decades. Stop. Ask questions. Criticize. Quit moving and see how you'd actually like to be moving.
It's kind of like the influence of the serpent in the Garden of Eden. Stop. Question the rules. Eat the apple. It's really about revolution. Revolution begins in the heart. It starts when you question God.
"Ya know, is family really what I want? I'm remembering what my professor in college used to say. What could my life be like had I never been married? I wonder if I could have been a corporate CEO."
If you don't immediately have an authoritative answer for these kinds of 'small revolutions' (they occur in the mind first), they'll gain momentum.
[ + ] letsgetit
[ - ] letsgetit 6 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 10:21:28 ago (+6/-0)
[ + ] Prairie
[ - ] Prairie 4 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:38:17 ago (+4/-0)
The problem is that they compare the actual with the imaginary, the ideal. The only choices are of the actual. Actually being a CEO would likely be unfulfilling (but like with communism the fulfilling part will always be just around the corner, just beyond the unfair barriers the men are putting up, etc.). There's an imagined possibility that is always just out of reach which drives them from something that would actually work if they stuck with it.
[ + ] CHIRO
[ - ] CHIRO 4 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:46:32 ago (+4/-0)*
Social media turns that match flame into an inferno, too.
In general, feminism has presented the world of masculinity to women as if it were true that every man feels like Zeus each morning he wakes. We flex in the mirror and grab our cocks, congratulate ourselves, and then go run the world. When we go to work, we're heading for the gold-trimmed luxuries of Olympus, where we fraternize, and fuck, and make tons of money to lord over her when we get home.
The unbelievable irony is that, for every one of the male CEOs presented to them in their statistical summaries of corporate elite, there are 10 million men who will live and die working laborious jobs, and society will never know their names. The irony is that these men don't even appear on women's radar, for the most part. They aren't the lives which are prized. So, of course it looks unfair when women aren't seeing that the very mechanisms that give us the hyper-competent 1% also result in most men living really hard, ungratifying lives. But women don't want any of those outcomes. Heavens no. The coal mines? Wait, you mean coal has to be dug up?
I come from a blue collar background. I grew up around multiple generations of men, one after the other, whose knees, hips and elbows are blown out by age 55 from lives of labor. You never saw women vying for those lives.
[ + ] Prairie
[ - ] Prairie 2 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 10:34:22 ago (+2/-0)
A difference between men and women is that men are OK not being CEOs, just having a decent job and being productive. They also understand that being a CEO isn't a walk in the park.
[ + ] Rowdybme
[ - ] Rowdybme 2 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:34:40 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] NuckFiggers
[ - ] NuckFiggers 1 point 10 monthsJul 14, 2023 00:37:02 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] gaperglory
[ - ] gaperglory 14 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 07:45:56 ago (+14/-0)
Having babies. That's it.
[ + ] Rowdybme
[ - ] Rowdybme 6 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 08:22:20 ago (+6/-0)
[ + ] BulletStopper
[ - ] BulletStopper 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:25:03 ago (+1/-0)
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[ + ] NuckFiggers
[ - ] NuckFiggers 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 18:58:52 ago (+1/-0)
With the access to good food and exercise equipment, as well as the millions of options in makeup and clothes any woman can up her looks several points. Very few women couldn't be gorgeous with some work yet there are so many freakishly fat and ugly women around today.
[ + ] pickingrinninspittin
[ - ] pickingrinninspittin 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 10:05:47 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] rhy
[ - ] rhy 7 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 08:02:43 ago (+7/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 7 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 08:12:19 ago (+8/-1)
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[ - ] deleted 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 16:40:01 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] BulletStopper
[ - ] BulletStopper 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:27:03 ago (+0/-0)*
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLjvfqnD0ws
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[ - ] deleted 6 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:11:43 ago (+6/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 5 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:18:27 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] 2Drunk
[ - ] 2Drunk 4 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 10:53:15 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] pickingrinninspittin
[ - ] pickingrinninspittin 4 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 10:03:19 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] x0x7
[ - ] x0x7 4 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:03:19 ago (+4/-0)
Women are better at socializing. But maybe that's a stereotype and she'd have numbers to disprove it.
[ + ] goatfugee12
[ - ] goatfugee12 4 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 08:53:28 ago (+4/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:19:08 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] CHIRO
[ - ] CHIRO 8 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:26:54 ago (+8/-0)
[ + ] Anus_Expander
[ - ] Anus_Expander 5 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:28:03 ago (+5/-0)
[ + ] goatfugee12
[ - ] goatfugee12 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:20:35 ago (+1/-0)
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[ - ] SaneGoatiSwear 1 point 10 monthsJul 14, 2023 03:44:48 ago (+1/-0)
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[ - ] Anus_Expander 0 points 10 monthsJul 14, 2023 06:47:39 ago (+0/-0)
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[ - ] VitaminSieg 3 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 12:05:09 ago (+3/-0)
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[ - ] 2Drunk 2 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 10:51:01 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] ilikeskittles
[ - ] ilikeskittles 2 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 10:12:26 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey
[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 2 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 10:04:53 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Aze
[ - ] Aze 2 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 09:28:25 ago (+2/-0)
She grew up in a system designed to brainwash her that women are superior and men are the oppressors. Yet she has dug herself out, and come to some very humbling and even demeaning conclusions about herself and her fellow women.
Good on her for being so honest with herself.
[ + ] UncleDoug
[ - ] UncleDoug 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 14:16:37 ago (+1/-0)
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[ - ] deleted 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 16:38:56 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 16:40:26 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] deleted
[ - ] deleted 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 16:41:30 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 2 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 16:58:20 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] deleted
[ - ] deleted 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 17:21:01 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 17:36:24 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] deleted
[ - ] deleted 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 20:29:56 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 20:35:26 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] deleted
[ - ] deleted 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 20:40:27 ago (+0/-0)*
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 22:13:55 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] BoraxTheFungarian
[ - ] BoraxTheFungarian 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 14:35:23 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Localuser
[ - ] Localuser 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 08:43:58 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 08:36:54 ago (+1/-0)
Oh wait
Pearl- You have to maintain the family no matter what. NO matter what he does the woman must find a way to maintain the family and put the family above all else
Also Pearl- The man has every right to leave if he doesnt find you attractive anymore.
haha
[ + ] Rowdybme
[ - ] Rowdybme 1 point 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 08:21:29 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey
[ - ] TheOriginal1Icemonkey 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 22:44:15 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] Crackinjokes
[ - ] Crackinjokes 0 points 10 monthsJul 13, 2023 19:38:57 ago (+0/-0)
Someone mentioned she was a coal burner and was married to a black man? Is that true? I sure hope not.