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I write love letters to my wife.

submitted by Portmanure to Dads 10 monthsJul 10, 2023 23:30:15 ago (+20/-1)     (Dads)

I never give them to her. I just work hard and make sure she has no wants and is safe. If she saw how much I actually love her she would see me as weak. Woman are that stupid. Yet, I love her, I’ll continue to write the letters and work hard. We can’t live with them, can’t live without them.


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[ - ] Outlaw_Aryan 8 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:26:45 ago (+8/-0)

Dude, I congratulate you for being man enough to admit how much you love your wife. I agree, the world would be a shallow and sad place for me without my wife of a lot of years and I can tell you it only gets better! But don't feel she'll see you as weak for letting her know how much you love her. I'm not saying be a girl about it, that would obviously defeat the purpose but letting her know she's the reason you wake up in the morning is absolutely acceptable and will make her bond to you stronger. Imo

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 4 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:30:58 ago (+5/-1)

She knows she has got me forever. I was just trying to put into words how I feel about her. But dudes never ever let a woman know you feel that way. Its important, I’ve never ever met a person crazier than a woman.

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 2 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 01:25:31 ago (+2/-0)

She knows, I don’t have to tell her. I just didn’t want to say it. Because I say it all the time when I fix the house, repair anything that is wrong. I realized a long time ago that this house is her everything. Our boys were born here, raised here and call it home. I cannot take that from her. So I strut around and fix everything. Make her know I’m her man. Silly, but fun.

[ - ] GloryBeckons 0 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 11:27:41 ago (+0/-0)

No, OP is right. Women have a need to feel like they're the ones that are lucky to have you. They have a biological imperative to trade up.

If you shower her with too much affection, or keep saying outright that you're lucky to have her, at first she'll be really happy. But, after a while, she'll start getting a nagging feeling in her gut that she's trading down. Which plants the thought that she could do better. You start looking like a bad investment. Like a wasted opportunity. Before you know it, she's looking at you with disgust. She may not even understand why.

You have to give them just enough to feel secure, and only as long as they keep working for it a bit. Not understanding this is where a lot of young guys fuck up, and then end up wondering what is wrong with women. There's nothing wrong. It's just how they're wired.

[ - ] Cantaloupe 6 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 02:12:51 ago (+6/-0)

Just check the missing persons stories for women about you age that disappeared about the time you met her.

Next you can tell her you used to know that woman, and you can hand her the love letters.

That she'll know how much you love her, and she'll think you're are serial killer. Women love serial killers.

...okay maybe they're crazy..

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 0 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 02:16:56 ago (+0/-0)

How about I just love her and keep the secret between you and me. Nothing will change. Ill, just keep,her safe like I always have. I may give you stern looks sometimes

[ - ] gaperglory 4 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:22:44 ago (+4/-0)

She would only see you as weak if you gave them to her in an attempt to elicit emotion. If she FOUND them, accidentally, they may have the exact desired effect you want them to.
Women are soft. Even if they pretend to be hard. Usually...
There are some sick hardcore cunts out there though...

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 2 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:27:12 ago (+2/-0)

I still write her those letters. She is sweet and soft and everything I love. And she smells so nice.

[ - ] gaperglory 3 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:37:45 ago (+3/-0)

Well don't be a faggot. Show her the letters. A man is not defined by his lack of emotion. That's just 80s action movie bullshit. Real men cry every now and then. Real men aren't afraid of someone thinking they're not a Real man, because they know they are. Walk up cock strong and give her one. Don't be a pussy. Withheld love isnt love at all. It's just scribble. Flatter a bitch, gnome sayn?

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 4 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:42:44 ago (+6/-2)

That’s were you are wrong. Women initiate 90% of all divorces. Women have no idea what they want. The last person you should ever take dating advice from is a woman. I’m not happy is the stupidest excuse to ever end a marriage. Yet women do it all the time. And the law allows it. They will rape a man of all he owns because she was not happy.

[ - ] gaperglory 0 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:48:55 ago (+0/-0)

You're right. Find a Christian that thinks she'll go to hell if she divorces you. Lifehack. You're welcome.
Btw its.only been that way the last 40 years or do. Thanks feminism.
THANKS JEWS

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 1 point 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:57:02 ago (+1/-0)

Let me take you on another journey. My wife got this nutty notion in her head that I was her life partner and her best friend. I told her no, that’s not how it works. I’m here, I’m your guy, I’m going to do everything in my power to keep you safe. You don’t own me. I’m not your friend. I’m the power that keeps the darkness away. I’m not your life buddy. I’m the guy who loves you and will protect you. Woman hate that. So what? That’s the deal. Men can survive alone in the forest. Women cannot.

[ - ] Prairie 2 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 01:53:18 ago (+2/-0)

True appreciation and regard manifests in all actions towards the person, not just wordy exprsisons it. The actions are more genuine than words could ever be.

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 3 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 01:54:48 ago (+3/-0)

Yeah, but my wife has a nice ass. I can’t not kiss it.

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 1 point 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 02:09:21 ago (+1/-0)

I just want to clarify something, she is the safest woman on the planet. I will never ever let any harm to come to her. I would rather die to protect her. Most likely dieing would be a dumb idea. So I will do the smart thing. Whatever that is. She is a cutie.

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 1 point 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 02:12:52 ago (+1/-0)

I would also never her let you date her. I’m not an idiot. And she’s just a girl.

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 2 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:23:20 ago (+3/-1)

I posted this because you assholes don’t know how women really work. If they know they got you, you are fucked. Always be ready to leave. There is no such thing as a soulmate. There are good girls and bad girls. You can love a good girl with all your heart. But let her know you are ready to leave. Not as a threat but as a reality. You’re just telling her don’t fuck with me. A lot of girls will fuck with you? If they do, Just leave. Life is not over. You’re a man and can start over at any time. They cannot and will do anything to destroy you.

[ - ] gaperglory 5 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:27:09 ago (+5/-0)

Lol. Man... tell me have a fucked up mother without telling me you have a fucked up mother. Or maybe it was a girl that tore your insides out in high school...

Women.werent always this way you're describing. This has been a slow slide to total feminist brainwashing.
There exist women out there that don't live to destroy men. Some people actually say I DO, and mean it. No matter what. I'm surrounded by several of them all the time.

[ - ] Outlaw_Aryan 2 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:27:57 ago (+2/-0)

There are for sure soulmates.

[ - ] gaperglory 3 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:32:15 ago (+3/-0)

There are. I seriously see them constantly. As old as 80 and as young as 20s. And this might be the thing that pisses some of you off, but you know what they all have in common? Christianity.

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 1 point 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:37:21 ago (+2/-1)

No, there are no such things as soulmates. Dating apps will lie about this all the time. Sure, there are people you really connect with, but they are not your soulmate. Why? Because there is no such thIng. Your journey on earth is to expand your knowledge. Your soulmates are hovering around you all the time watching your hijinks.

[ - ] gaperglory 3 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:38:39 ago (+3/-0)

You're parents are divorced and you're still.fucked in the head from it.
Let it go man...
Stop waiting for her to.give you the boot like it's an inevitability.
As soon as you give you're whole being to her, assuming you've chosen the right one, she will be yours forever.

[ - ] Portmanure [op] 2 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:44:39 ago (+2/-0)

That’s the problem, they never divorced. They stayed together and collectively hated the bastard child.

[ - ] gaperglory 1 point 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 00:47:56 ago (+2/-1)

Well... I dunno man. I guess it's good to hold.back some. But if you hold.back too.much it'll backfire.

[ - ] BoozyB 0 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 09:15:29 ago (+0/-0)*

The modern concept of love and soulmates was created by Hallmark and deBeers. For profit.
I'm good with the woman I have, but I could find any number of prospects who would be willing to be my soulmate, because I am in good condition and I have money and property.
When I got together with my partner I told her straight up that I wasn't going to get married again, but she could stick around as long as she wants to.
The subject has never come up again in 15 years.

[ - ] Doglegwarrior 0 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 13:37:41 ago (+0/-0)

Wish I had followed your advice instead I fueled a covert narricist until as you pointed out it some how makes them feel the oppisite.

I should have never said anything and just kept crushing it making her life better but never let her know.

Smart wise man here lads listen to him.

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[ - ] WhiteGoat 0 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 06:01:12 ago (+0/-0)

I show my wife by repeatedly reproducing with her

[ - ] UncleDoug 0 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 05:24:47 ago (+0/-0)

I hope you didn't send those messages with apple spellcheck.

[ - ] letsgetit 0 points 10 monthsJul 11, 2023 04:18:50 ago (+0/-0)

You could do something like let her open a letter on her birthday or Christmas that you wrote in the past. A gift that she'll appreciate and doesn't cost lots of $