I always had my suspicions that there was something nefarious about the sudden promotion in generally white and right online spaces and subcultures of the idealisation of virgin women and the idea that once a woman has had more than a handful of sexual partners she is 'damaged goods' and should be passed up. And now I'm seeing more and more shit like this I'm thinking I may have been right in my suspicions.
In before someone posts "lol this faggot is just trying to cope with the fact his birds a roastie" my wife has had all of 2 or 3 or 4 sexual partners (all white) before me, I think it's 4 boyfriend's but she only slept with 3 of them - and no she hasn't 'lied about her count' she just comes from a small super catholic community where everyone knows everyone. Ironically despite having something coveted by others, I really don't give a shit.
When I was growing up, sex and the city had just started and while women were still slut shaming each other - no one really cares how many people the women they were shagging or going out with had slept with, provided the last dude was at least 1 period away, and of course if it was with anyone you knew that was a full write off.
Fast forward to today and we have the ((media)) pushing full on 'slay kween' disposable sex culture (the 'slut' overton window window has shifted) meanwhile the value assigned to virgin women has been been hugely over inflated but only in very specific circles.
Personally I don't understand the obsession with virgins, I've taken 3 confirmed virginities and 1 more beyond that I'm pretty sure was a virgin also. There's nothing special going on there - pussy quality is determined by genes and kegals.
But we now have young white men who are obsessing over this, to the point where it's causing them mental struggle which is no doubt having a negative impact on their relationships.
I really don't buy into the psudo science about 'pair bonding' either, I've dated sluts in the past and if anything they were more invested than the unslutty ones.
I don't really know where I'm going with this post, just feels really odd the way people are fucking up their home-life based on anon posts and trends
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[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 1 point 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 16:51:41 ago (+1/-0)
Those interest cheques must be getting sent to my old address then
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[ - ] PostWallHelena 7 points 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 14:56:39 ago (+7/-0)*
Lets look at the reasons why virginal women are valued over non virgins by many men.
Potentially a non-virge could be preggers with another dude’s kid. That is bad for a husband who gets tricked into raising another man’s son. But if you can rule that out when you marry her, that can eliminate one of the reasons. This is probably the worst risk.
If she’s slept with other guys, it could be a predictor of future behavior. If she’s slept with alot of other guys she might have an unusually slutty or promiscuous disposition. But if she is in the bottom 10th percentile in terms of body counts she’s probably not that likely to screw around .
She might have a disease, which means you will probably get it. But these things can be screened for. They can have an impact on long term health, increasing risk of cancer and neurodegenrative disease down the road.
The other reason is that, if enough males refuse to marry anyone but a virgin, women will be afraid to lose their virginity. This is a taboo that makes alot of sense and its probably worth bringing back but not if we go extinct in the process. I also think its probably not going to work if men dont agree to stay virgins as well because women started sleeping around in the first place because “what’s good for the goose....” , which makes sense.
I think lots of conservatives will be able to get over a mate with a low body count but we should get back to valuing virginity (in women and men) as the ideal.
I also think some guys that are angry and socially awkward are using the virginity issue as an excuse to not look for decent wives.
I wouldnt be surprised if some posts like this one (the 4chan one) are actually psyops from kikes.
Edit: you did mention a “bonding” issue. I feel that might also be a potentially valid argument.
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[ - ] s23erdctfvyg 4 points 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 16:43:09 ago (+4/-0)
In general, the "they have to be a virgin or you might as well just kill yourself" and, "all women are sluts so you're just going to have to settle for a divorce raping whore" are both psy-ops. Shoot for a virgin, if you can't find one settle with a woman who has had one or two steady boyfriends in the past.
Above all else, men who are not virgins, and have slept with multiple woman have 0 right to demand woman they want to date should be anything but what they are.
If you live your life like a nigger, you will have to settle with someone who lives their life like a nigger.
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[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 3 points 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 16:34:56 ago (+3/-0)
I think people have the capacity to change. I also wonder if some of these women end up with high body counts because they get duped by scuzzy guys displaying shadow / hollow desirable traits, get fucked over, then decide to "take ownership" of the situation and regain a sense of agency by slitting around - then rinse and repeat. Then one day they come into close contact with someone genuine and worth holding on to and it hits them like a tonne of bricks.
I remember one girl I was dating, who had a dubious past, fell really hard in Love. Was a moment when we were trying to leave her mum's house and she started to get a bit stroppy so in a non-cunty way especially told her no, and we were going to do X, so she had to do y now...
She was like, fine...I turn around and her mum was staring at me with her mouth agape,
"Wow, I've never seen anyone talk to her like that and get away with it, I can't even talk to her like that...I've seen others try and it just resulted in a big argument"
She was an absolute super vixen to boot. Sometimes still wonder if breaking up with her was the right thing to do.
I think the person has to have a moment of genuine self reflection and actualisation though, because everytime the get duped then slut cycle runs I think the chances of escaping it reduces, till you get to a self destructive level of jadedness.
But even then...no sinner is beyond redemption
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[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 21:19:46 ago (+1/-0)
I feel like a lot of girls who are very promiscuous when they are young are really emotionally vulnerable and really looking for someone to save them .
Many guys on this forum dont want to believe that there are absolutely predators and some of them are white. 16, 17, 18 year old girls are not equiped to deal with the mind games of some of these dudes.
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[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 21:00:00 ago (+1/-0)
Agree. And not just on the virginity issue. Some men are aspiring to an ideal that never existed in history. And they declare that if they cant have that perfect women, they wont have anyone at all. This is just a mirror opposite of what many unreasonable women are demanding.
This period of ultra degeneracy will pass. And most women are not ultra degenrate or interested in being ultra degenrate. We need to look past the immediate conditions toward the future. We need to reproduce to reach that time.
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We'll need to get cracking before the temps soar into the 70s
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[ - ] SecretHitler 4 points 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 17:20:07 ago (+4/-0)
But when taken to the extreme you describe and that we witness from some retards here it just promotes demoralization, blackpilling, and feelings of loserdom and hopelessness which hurts us. As such it's both an effective weapon as well as a disfunctional way to deal with frustrations around success with women.
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[ - ] s23erdctfvyg 1 point 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 16:45:29 ago (+1/-0)
Troons.
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"This food is awful. Dig in!"
Not the most compelling marketing I've seen.
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[ + ] WanderingToast
[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 0 points 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 14:14:06 ago (+1/-1)
What's the body count of the woman who has bourne you children?
Or failing that sleeps in your bed?
Or failing that you've ever had a long term relationship with?
Or failing that even fucked?
I'm guessing your salty cos you can only attract fatty mudsharks
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[ + ] WanderingToast
[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 1 point 2.0 yearsJun 28, 2023 16:46:49 ago (+1/-0)
I've lost count of the number of married women I've shagged - and it's always the ones with the husband's who are obsessed with 'purity' that are the easiest ones 😉
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Next question please.