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My loneliness is crushing me.

submitted by germ22 to TellUpgoat 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 11:33:17 ago (+40/-0)     (TellUpgoat)

It's definitely one disadvantage to run my own business. I hardly get to interact with other humans. The only time i seem to interact with others is when i pick up material or deliver parts, and then it's usually pretty brief business.
Even when i make an effort to go among the people, i struggle to make any meaningful connections. Always go home alone and feel even lonelier than before.
I've never been very outgoing or extroverted, but now i don't even get into situations to make friends.


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[ - ] NeonGreen 0 points 10 monthsJun 21, 2023 03:51:52 ago (+0/-0)

Why not try a nice prostitute.

[ - ] BadBoyBubby 1 point 10 monthsJun 21, 2023 02:39:27 ago (+1/-0)

Family>friends

If you have nether you have to figure out a way to socialize. Aloneness is not for you.

[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 10 monthsJun 21, 2023 00:34:26 ago (+1/-0)

Get married. Have kids.

[ - ] Nozyedys 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 22:53:32 ago (+1/-0)

I'm in the same boat pretty much. Might go backpack across Europe or the USA for a bit.

[ - ] Clubberlang 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 21:10:41 ago (+1/-0)

This sounds like a job for r/ redditshrinks

[ - ] Joe_McCarthy 0 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 20:59:55 ago (+1/-1)

β€˜Tis not that a wise man may not live everywhere content, and be alone in the very crowd of a palace; but if it be left to his own choice, the schoolman will tell you that he should fly the very sight of the crowd: he will endure it if need be; but if it be referred to him, he will choose to be alone. He cannot think himself sufficiently rid of vice, if he must yet contend with it in other men. Charondas punished those as evil men who were convicted of keeping ill company. There is nothing so unsociable and sociable as man, the one by his vice, the other by his nature. And Antisthenes, in my opinion, did not give him a satisfactory answer, who reproached him with frequenting ill company, by saying that the physicians lived well enough amongst the sick, for if they contribute to the health of the sick, no doubt but by the contagion, continual sight of, and familiarity with diseases, they must of necessity impair their own.” β€” Michel de Montaigne, Of Solitude

[ - ] MartinTimothy -2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 20:22:28 ago (+0/-2)*

In astrology loneliness is caused by hard aspects from planet Pluto, while whether you will have friends or not is described in the 11th House of the natal horoscope, thus good planets well aspected in good star signs brings good friends.

Rejection occurs when planets are in signs inimical to their true nature, which similarly breeds Asperger's Syndrome which is often characterized by natives "trying to make friends."

Whereas if any planet is in the sign of its detriment or fall, a la Mercury in Sagittarius, Venus in Aries, Mars in Libra, Jupiter in Gemini, or Saturn in the star sign Cancer and so on where they are not welcome tenants..

You won't be welcome in the affairs of the house where it turns up, however if it is yr "Planetary Ruler" the rejection goes right across the board. Relations with the opposite sex are described in the relationship between Mars and Venus similarly in the natal chart, while for love affairs per se the same principles apply to the 5th House ..

[ - ] SirNiggsalot 4 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 20:18:50 ago (+4/-0)

You aren't missing out on anything. People suck and are shitty for the most part.

[ - ] stz77 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 18:45:09 ago (+2/-0)

You need people in your life. Work on it. You can do it over time. Look at videos, read tutorials.

Get a gf even if she's shit. Help some poor white Appalachian kids. Take them to throw rocks at the inner city niglets--just good old fashioned bonding kind of things. Lol.

Seriously though, you need people in your life. You can do it.

[ - ] texasblood -1 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 18:24:54 ago (+0/-1)

Wow!
The victim card.
Spend time researching your previous generations.
When you get to the one with masculinity then stop.
You'll find your issue is a female shoved a mop handle in the bike spokes one day.
Generations later here you are

[ - ] DanielR 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 18:14:31 ago (+1/-0)

only you can change that

[ - ] Hermes 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 17:52:11 ago (+2/-0)

Gotta find hobbies or groups with common interests and just do it.

It is hard to make friends as an adult as we gain more responsibilities and our free time is left recharging from those obligations that we may or may not enjoy. In which case, it takes extra effort to step out of your comfort zone and find like-minded individuals.

Sports clubs, Running clubs, Martial Arts, Book Clubs, Game meetups, live music venues like jazz clubs, comedy clubs, gun clubs. Whatever you are interested in, find a group of people nearby. Could even be a religious group/meditation/church group if that is your thing.

[ - ] deleted -2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:44:25 ago (+0/-2)*

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[ - ] FacelessOne 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:53:56 ago (+2/-0)

^Kikest take in thread

[ - ] deleted -1 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:56:21 ago (+0/-1)*

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[ - ] PhantomXLII 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:27:11 ago (+1/-0)

I'm basically where you're at, but I'll be running my own business here pretty soon. Probably around a year from now.

Honestly man, if you're in a small town like me, you really just gotta find ways to forget. Me? I'm either busy working, working out, doing chores, or playing vidya.

Keeps shit from entering your head, and keeps others out of it. You know? Always be focused on something, and you'll learn to forget everything. Just immerse yourself in whatever you do.

Yeah, it's lonely as fuck, and yes, it will hit you some days. Hell, I woke up yesterday feeling something between pissed off and "depressed" because of some stupid fucking dream about having a girlfriend.

Your head is going to fuck with you. Just how it works. It is possible to get used to it though, it's just accepting it's your head doing what is natural and we live in unnatural times and x can't happen because of y and z.

Acceptance, basically.

And lots of people have trouble getting to that point.

As for potential solutions, if able, you should definitely follow others' advice here and go join some sports club or shooting club or even fucking golf for all I care. You wanna socialize? Clubs and church. I'd stay out of bars as the types that associate at those places as they are now are not exactly what I would expect good National Socialist Christian men to be doing with their free time. Buuuuuut if you can find a decent bar with non-degenerates working and hanging out there then by all means go enjoy yourself.

But some of those things are very dependent on where you live. Small town like me? Lolno. Bars and churches, and the bars have filth while the churches are filled with hypocrites.

Do what you can with what you have.

[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens -1 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:22:23 ago (+0/-1)

I DONT NEED FRIENDS MY DICK MY FRIEND FEEL ME

[ - ] Trumpman1488 -1 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 15:40:28 ago (+0/-1)

JUST DO WHAT I DO! DRINK AWAY THE LONELINESS! LOL!

[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 15:32:40 ago (+1/-0)

Fuck people, get a dog or cat.

[ - ] ItsOk2bArian 4 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:38:17 ago (+4/-0)

Get a lazy dog like an old Bassett hound. He can hangout in the truck or the office with you

[ - ] Sal_180 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:37:55 ago (+1/-0)

Take on less work if you can afford to. Life is pointless accumulating money is you're not happy

[ - ] germ22 [op] 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:57:46 ago (+2/-0)

I work very little compared to being a wage slave. I enjoy life quite a bit, but most things i do alone.

[ - ] Sal_180 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:11:58 ago (+2/-0)

Ok, right. That's at least you have time and money. Team sports is great, even supporting local teams. If you really want, volunteer to help and they'll love you.

[ - ] Cpt_Dirt 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:06:18 ago (+2/-0)

Go do something. Outdoors.

There's billions of groups for any activity you can think of.

[ - ] Wolfspider 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:04:59 ago (+2/-0)

Get a couple of pet rats.

[ - ] germ22 [op] 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:30:03 ago (+2/-0)

My cat would eat the rats.

[ - ] Doglegwarrior 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:48:42 ago (+2/-0)

I have a decent suggestion.

Look for charity and fund raiser events. People are literaly there to socialize.

Try to pick ones that you are actually interested in if non to find then go to anytbing as long as it's not some bullshit fundraiser for something you hate

If that's the only option maybe find a girl there to hate fuck lol

[ - ] WanderingToast 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:29:29 ago (+2/-0)

Hire an assistant

[ - ] GodDoesNotExist 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:28:02 ago (+2/-0)

I WISH I could work by myself :)

Just find people that enjoy the same things you do.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus 5 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:21:11 ago (+5/-0)

Listen to podcasts, they're basically friend simulators.

[ - ] NaturalSelectionistWorker 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:19:53 ago (+2/-0)

I've found a couple based social groups with members in my area, so I hang out with them most weekends. Maybe see if your favorite white activist group has people in your area.

[ - ] SecretHitler 4 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:11:17 ago (+4/-0)*

Group/team sports is probably your best bet. This problem really is as simple as "sign up for this program and see improvements within a couple weeks"

Team sports will work in multiple ways:

- exercise makes you feel better (you'll perform better at work too)
- team sport dynamics (specifically winning as a team) is one of the most reliable ways to boost testosterone which gives men a number of benefits and will make you feel better
- easy to find groups that have a reliable schedule you can fit into your life and that helps you be consistent
- facilitates natural friendship connections with other participants, although from your tone I'd suggest not thinking about this part too much. It's an instinctual process more than a rational one and you sound like a very rational guy if that makes sense. Just don't put up blockers is probably the important part.
- Also being an athlete gives you an "aura" for lack of a better word. It's a good energy that sticks with you and that other people enjoy being around.

The next part is just in case you've never played sports and you're not sure where to start as an adult.

To get started, you should think about what sports people in your area play that you could also see yourself playing. This can feel a little intimidating but do it anyway. When you narrow that down you'll want a place you can practice. A class or trainer is great if you can find that. YouTube videos help.

Next step is to look for opportunities to practice/ play with one other person. This can be day 1, and it's OK to say you're brand new and want to learn.

Once you have one or two people who you can play with regularly you'll probably find more opportunities to play with other guys and you'll have a better sense of comfort in this environment.

Hope this helps! Remember a single decision in a single day can solve this problem for you if it's the right one and you stick with it. Feel free DM me if you like this idea and have specific questions.

[ - ] s23erdctfvyg 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:08:59 ago (+1/-0)

Join some clubs you're interested in.

[ - ] BushChuck 5 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:52:55 ago (+5/-0)

People are highly overrated, bro.

[ - ] Sector7 5 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:48:20 ago (+5/-0)

I hardly get to interact with other humans.

Consider yourself lucky. I still end up having to be around people once a week or so, while obtaining food.

[ - ] PhantomXLII 3 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:16:50 ago (+3/-0)

When you go into McDonald's and say "I require sustenance, mortal," you know you've been away from folks too long.

Fortunately none of us have done that. Yet. That I know of.

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[ - ] pussycowposhposh 12 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:39:47 ago (+12/-0)

Your not alone buddy. We're here for you.

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the issue is modern life is shit. Its designed to create artificial barriers. Trick is to attend non-dating events to meet, network & develop new skills;

:- Martial arts clubs (MMA, Karate, Jeet Kune do, Ju Jitsu etc)

:- Gun clubs (register with a gun club and take part in shooting tournaments)

:- Local sports clubs ( jogging running meet ups etc)

The issue with this is finding the time when not working. Loneliness is a state of mind. See past this, and make the change to a better lifestyle.

[ - ] Darwintroll 4 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:22:45 ago (+4/-0)

There are also convalescent homes that often need visitors and volunteers. You can find some very interesting people in those places. Lonely, quasi-abandoned elderly people who experienced life very differently from modern day; people that just want someone to talk to. Important note. Make your conversations all about their lives. Ask them questions about their experiences. You don't want to regale them your history; if you're lonely it can be depressing. Ask them to talk about themselves. It's an audio book you've never heard. And you could be surprised what you learn from it.

[ - ] PhantomXLII 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:13:28 ago (+2/-0)

Your

YOU'RE, NIGGER.

πŸ™ƒ

Anyway, problem with your suggestions is that if the dude is in a smaller town like me then all that club or class stuff just ain't gonna be happening. Where I'm at, it's either bars or churches. For some people: Both. In the same day...

Or high school ball games.

So, if he's in my situation, he's kinda fucked.

[ - ] SecretHitler 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 19:30:10 ago (+2/-0)

Not fucked. That's when you go to bars or churches. Or move.

You shouldn't live somewhere that makes you unhappy.

[ - ] PhantomXLII 0 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 19:46:29 ago (+1/-1)

It's not that where I live makes me unhappy, I like it here. It's home.

But as far as social events go, or making friends or especially meeting girls my age that aren't literally right out of high school...

Yeah... Fucked. Oh well. Just how it goes. On the bright side, I'm gonna have a market area locked down all to myself for my job. I'll be the only guy around that does what I'm training to do. Really glad I listened to my parents and am remembered as "a good kid". It's gonna help me out a lot.

But yeah, can't have it all man. I've got God, and I have+will have a comfy home, with a job to make sure I can keep it and work from home apart from some driving whenever I please so long as deadlines are met. Is it worth sacrificing "love" or friends for? No. But my friends got to doing shit I wasn't going to be associated with years ago and I never had any luck catching a good girl back when it was viable either. That's life I suppose. You can't have it all.

[ - ] germ22 [op] 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 20:52:28 ago (+1/-0)

There is a tiny car club i associate a bit. A bunch of very old farts that cannot relate to the younger generation at all. Any other clubs would be at least an hour drive away.

[ - ] Zyklonbeekeeper 18 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:38:43 ago (+18/-0)

Loneliness is a virtue...believe me, humans are over-rated, there's no greater disappointment than that of a former friendship.

[ - ] BushChuck 8 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:03:32 ago (+8/-0)

Enough of those former friendships, and you become men like us.

[ - ] con77 6 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:08:36 ago (+6/-0)

Nailed it

[ - ] Belfuro 4 points 10 monthsJun 21, 2023 01:08:54 ago (+4/-0)

First thing such a fellow said to me was.

I'm alone not lonely.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 14:31:09 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] bossman131 0 points 10 monthsJun 21, 2023 13:09:29 ago (+0/-0)

ain't that the truth@!

[ - ] usedoilanalysis 5 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:38:43 ago (+5/-0)

Better than the alternative, being a source of energy for others to feed on until there's nothing left of you.

[ - ] bobdole9 5 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:30:07 ago (+5/-0)

Recreation in nature can help, although not necessarily social.

If time allows, may be worth looking into some fitness club / gym. Physical activity can help with depression and people tend to go in regimented patterns...may have luck finding acquaintances to shoot the shit with.

[ - ] deleted 6 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:28:46 ago (+6/-0)

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[ - ] Artificial_Intelligentile 8 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:21:17 ago (+8/-0)

https://cytu.be/r/moviegoats

come on over. only rules are no fighting and no porn.

[ - ] germ22 [op] 7 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:35:33 ago (+7/-0)

I have been going there since almost the beginning. Not very often lately, weather is to nice in this very short Canadian summer to spend indoors.

[ - ] cyclops1771 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:55:19 ago (+2/-0)

We have a game night or jitsi call most weekend evenings. Camera is optional. No names allowed. Great, great group of guys and a few gals.

It has really made my hatred of humanity go down quite a bit, and I never have to hold my tongue with them.

A lot of the older guys are still there, some have moved on.

[ - ] Artificial_Intelligentile 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 21:37:40 ago (+1/-0)

woah, nice, ihave relatives in canada.

greetings from Germany, youre not alone fren

[ - ] germ22 [op] 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 22:18:59 ago (+1/-0)

I left Germany now almost 18 years ago. Don't miss it. I do miss what Germany used to be tho.

[ - ] Artificial_Intelligentile 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 23:10:20 ago (+1/-0)

i am just on the edge between the big city and the rural landscape. the difference is astounding. but even here, you cant move a mile without encountering a shitskin. you wouldnt recognize germany nowadays.

but it still has to get worse before it gets better. weimar 2.0 leads to Hitler 2.0 , but this time, we will exterminate them for real, worldwide.

stay strong brother.

[ - ] Love240 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 22:45:32 ago (+1/-0)

Drop by https://meet.jit.si/niggerfaggots, someone's on there quite often. Same thing cy said, camera is optional. Couldn't find a better group of assholes to yell at/with. You'll often find GrayDragon, FacelessOne, big_fat_dangus, MuricaPersonified, DukeofRaul, GaperGlory and others on there.

[ - ] HonkyMcNiggerSpic 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:19:17 ago (+2/-0)

guise, you need to convert to islam and stick your fingers in your butt while you room whack and send all your gold and shekels to me.

[ - ] deleted 13 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:17:53 ago (+13/-0)

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[ - ] Rotteuxx 7 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 15:35:31 ago (+7/-0)

Anytime I start talking with normies in the hopes of regaining some respect for the average Joe, all I hear is ''DRAMA, DRAMA, DRAMA!''

[ - ] germ22 [op] 4 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 20:55:26 ago (+4/-0)

It's been ages since i spoke to someone who wanted to talk about ideas, most just want to talk about other people. Like you said, just drama.

[ - ] Rotteuxx 3 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 21:21:42 ago (+3/-0)

What's really sad is that even people I can talk with about a few things are too centered around work & family exclusively, zero time dedicated to anything else like god forbid, civics.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:56:44 ago (+2/-0)*

perfectly normal

strangegov

Dohohohohohoho.

[ - ] deleted 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 17:09:07 ago (+2/-0)

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[ - ] PostWallHelena 7 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:16:47 ago (+7/-0)

Im so sorry. Kike world is filled with aggressive gregarious tan people and I tend to withdraw into my shell as well. Meet with and befriend other white conservatives.

Seems Im not alone in bein’ alone....

Okay Im quoting sheesy lyrics now. But its true. There’s millions of us, desperate and isolated. Besieged. Find someone like you and reach out to them and lessen their loneliness. When you focus on them you are not neurotically obsessing on your own weirdness.

[ - ] PhantomXLII -2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:15:00 ago (+0/-2)

befriend other white conservatives.

Why would anyone befriend those who would gladly kill us to save their chosenitesteins or their daughter's buck?

[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 19:18:43 ago (+1/-0)

Yeah all white conservatives would not kill me. They are just like I was a few years ago and just waiting to be woken up.

[ - ] PhantomXLII -1 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 19:49:01 ago (+0/-1)

Yeah all white conservatives would not kill me.

So you're not a "racist", anti-faggot&co., anti-kike, or a National Socialist.

Got it.

and just waiting to be woken up

Sure. Lol

If they cared they would've had ther delusions ripped from them by now.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 19:59:15 ago (+1/-0)

So you're not a "racist", anti-faggot&co., anti-kike, or a National Socialist. Got it.

Of course I am. And I tell people I am. Stop intentionally mischarterizing my comment.

Sure. Lol. If they cared they would've had ther delusions ripped from them by now.

You have an incorrect understanding of how people work. Life is not a movie. I mean , by now? How long has clown world been going on? 3 years? 7 years? You think thats long?

[ - ] dosvydanya_freedomz 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:09:37 ago (+2/-0)

[ - ] germ22 [op] 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:37:11 ago (+1/-0)

So... i need someone to hit me?

[ - ] dosvydanya_freedomz 3 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:47:24 ago (+3/-0)

just one more time.... just kidding trying to humor you here πŸ˜‚

[ - ] germ22 [op] 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:19:01 ago (+2/-0)

I've wined about loneliness before on old voat, i posted the same Brittney video, also this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QV8cOmsTdI

[ - ] AugustineOfHippo2 6 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 11:55:11 ago (+7/-1)

Single life is very lonely. Others have made the good suggestion of getting a hobby. I would recommend a group/team hobby. Sports like baseball, pickle ball, etc.
Or you could volunteer to mentor some white kid.

[ - ] con77 14 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 11:41:51 ago (+15/-1)

first of all. butch up.

I used to work a trade. I worked by myself 50 hours a week. only speaking to the home owner for 10 minutes on mon and fri.

friday Id stop for happy hour on the way home. the bartender would come up to me and start talking and Id stare at her at a loss for words. I hadnt spoken to anyone all week.

[ - ] Indoctrinated_USA 12 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:51:27 ago (+12/-0)

Butch up?
Are you a fucking lesbian?

[ - ] con77 5 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 19:34:43 ago (+5/-0)

Yes. Got over here and suck my mangina

[ - ] bobdole9 4 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:26:48 ago (+4/-0)

Did you talk to yourself, listen to anything, or just enjoyed the silence?

[ - ] con77 4 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:49:19 ago (+4/-0)

I refinished wood floors so it was noisy as hell. On a 5 minute break I'd listen to the radio.

[ - ] bobdole9 3 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:27:59 ago (+3/-0)

Roaring silence it is! I can get the same enjoyment running the lawnmower or snowblower.

[ - ] Clubberlang 3 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 21:13:08 ago (+3/-0)

Same.

On the road or interstate half the year.

Randomly talk to warehouse managers and engineers.

The bar after work on Thursday night was my social hour.

Fly home on Friday night.

Had Saturday off. Fly back out on Sunday.

OP pull out your fucking tampon and change it bitch.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 15:33:06 ago (+1/-0)

Basically me, kek

[ - ] Bonlio99 2 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 11:41:50 ago (+2/-0)

Be outgoing and fun with everyone you meet. People will find you

[ - ] TheViciousMrPim 14 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 11:39:11 ago (+14/-0)

Be alone, not lonely.

[ - ] germ22 [op] 12 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:38:11 ago (+12/-0)

I can be around people and still feel lonely. Especially when surrounded by NPC's

[ - ] Aze 7 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 15:22:40 ago (+7/-0)

Many of us here feel the same. Having one smart and aware friend to unload to can make all the difference in the world.

Just know you are not alone.

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[ - ] Seymore_potatohead 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 18:33:44 ago (+1/-0)

Music has always helped me. Both your comment and MrPim's comment instantly reminded me of the song Baby Blue Sedan by Modest Mouse.

[ - ] UncleDoug 6 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 11:34:52 ago (+6/-0)

Find a new hobby to occupy your time. Fishing, Archery, or something of the sort might help.

[ - ] con77 3 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 11:42:43 ago (+4/-1)

not fishing

[ - ] mannerbund 3 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 11:58:55 ago (+3/-0)

What's wrong with fishing? It seems like an opportunity to prioritize socialization over focused activity.

Or are you the OP.

[ - ] PostWallHelena 7 points 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:04:38 ago (+7/-0)

Its solitary. He needs more socialization.

[ - ] con77 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 13:07:43 ago (+1/-0)

You have to be quiet when fishing

[ - ] Steelerfish 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 16:59:33 ago (+1/-0)

[ - ] fritz_maurentod 1 point 10 monthsJun 20, 2023 12:30:33 ago (+1/-0)

Join the Basket Weaving channel in Discord. Find based people near you. Go for a drink or to the range together. It isn't that difficult.