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‘Do not contact me again’: The sudden death of a friendship

submitted by paul_neri to SocialMedia 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 07:43:59 ago (+11/-0)     (archive.is)

https://archive.is/dlAk3



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[ - ] Sector7 5 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 09:39:52 ago (+5/-0)

my partner and I

He's either a flaming homosexual, or is in some kind of fake 'relationship'. Yeah, imagine being online friends with someone, then seeing them post that they're some kind of sex weirdo.

[ - ] NeedleStack 3 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 14:01:44 ago (+3/-0)

The author appears to be Australian. They use "partner" to denote their hetero companions.

[ - ] paul_neri [op] 1 point 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 21:17:37 ago (+1/-0)

Correct. My missus of over 40 years is my partner. We never married and "live in sin" according to the Church.

[ - ] Sector7 0 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 05:33:04 ago (+0/-0)

The phrase "bugger me" is a slang term used for a situation that has yielded an unexpected or undesirable result. Common usage includes "bugger me dead" and "bugger me blind".[13] Wikipedia

Hey NeedleStack! I'm aware of their language challenges, even if I'm not familiar with the root of the problem. IMO, there's a fairly significant difference between cultures that say "fuck me" or "bugger me" that goes beyond positional.

A "partner" could be a companion, but not a legitimate male/female relationship, That's just not how the word 'partner' works. There's a lot of weird sex stuff down there. I'll just mention one more. They call motorcycle gang members 'Bikies', as if they wear pink skirts and prance around in high heeled boots.

[ - ] KyleIsThisTall 0 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 09:12:30 ago (+0/-0)

that's gay

[ - ] dassar 2 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 03:08:08 ago (+2/-0)

Fck off neri.

I've told you never to contact or comment to me ever again, and we were never friends in the first place !!.

[ - ] paul_neri [op] 0 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 03:25:39 ago (+0/-0)

Jesus man! Can't we just talk about it? If I've offended you it...it was unintentional! Too err is to be human, to forgive divine. Wouldn't you like to be divine for once in your miserable little life?

[ - ] dassar 0 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 05:38:32 ago (+0/-0)

Fck up faggot.

[ - ] paul_neri [op] 0 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 05:45:14 ago (+0/-0)

dassar you're a very hostile and belligerent young man.

[ - ] dassar 0 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 19:51:28 ago (+0/-0)

Truth is neither belligerent nor hostile thin skinned faggot.

[ - ] Gowithit 3 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 11:24:06 ago (+3/-0)

A friend of mine sent me a draft of the " do not contact me again" she was sending to another woman( a complete shit show of a woman) and it hurt me to read it.

I told her if there ever comes a day if she feels the need to send me one of these please just " ghost me" instead.

She actually sent it to her. Ouch. No remorse. I love her. It's been interesting to watch her grow over the past 20 years. She used to let people walk over her. Not a confrontational bone in her body. Unless she was pregnant. pregnant her was hilarious. She would even let a cuss word slip out once in awhile which she would then apologize for and blame the hormones hahaha. Nowadays she fights back.

Maybe it was the vaxxine? Shame that's what it took. I even asked her does she feel less empathy towards people since she had them and she said she doesn't feel that way....

I hate them for making her feel she had to take it.


[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 0 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 19:58:46 ago (+0/-0)

Maybe it was the vaxxine? Shame that's what it took.

Facing your own death can change a person. It tends to free one up from the usual concerns of societal life.

[ - ] Sector7 0 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 04:28:24 ago (+0/-0)

Indeed, although I was already pretty done with society when I died and woke up in the hospital. (didn't fully die)

[ - ] paul_neri [op] 0 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 21:21:28 ago (+0/-0)

"She used to let people walk over her". The hallmark of the human animal is its natural propensity to exploit others. Must be part of the survival mechanism.

[ - ] RobertJHarsh 2 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 13:15:13 ago (+2/-0)

Fuck people. I figured out people were a liability when I was in high school. Most people NEVER learn that and get burned over and over. The few times that I thought I was hanging around with people that were my friends reality hit like a fucking brick.

[ - ] TankTinker -1 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 19:43:11 ago (+0/-1)*

For friends look to the 11th House of the Natal Horoscope and juxtapose that against the sign on the cusp of the 11th and planets tenanting that house .. thus if yr "ruler" which is usually the planet ruling the sign on the cusp of the 1st House, is in a sign inimical to its true disposition and the mores of that particular sign and or house there will be problems .. this goes right across the board, if yr ruler is in either the signs of its "detriment or fall" anywhere in the 'scope, you will be treated as an unwelcome guest insofar as the affairs of the house it tenants are concerned all of yr life .. I use this stuff to justify my own existence every day.

[ - ] RobertJHarsh 0 points 12 monthsMay 21, 2023 11:59:59 ago (+0/-0)

I don't have to justify my existence. I know I am in the right. The reason the "group" is right and the shunned individual is wrong is herd mentality.

[ - ] RMGoetbbels 2 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 09:32:59 ago (+2/-0)

The guy had moved mountains in his life to accommodate his friend only to be stepped on.

Unreliable people are a luxury that you can afford until you can't.

[ - ] paul_neri [op] 0 points 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 21:23:43 ago (+0/-0)

Yes but people change and that's part of life. Someone said its the nature of friendships that they wax and wane.

[ - ] Anus_Expander 1 point 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 15:33:29 ago (+1/-0)

the OP sounds like a total faggot

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[ - ] deleted 1 point 12 monthsMay 20, 2023 11:55:40 ago (+2/-1)

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