If you're a man maybe, because the women you will find beautiful will be mostly unattainable. For a woman to announce that is just disgusting because she's always one text away from getting filled with cum.
[ - ] Had 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:11:22 ago (+3/-0)
Enjoying a look and having a crush are different imo. If my wife told me she had a crush on someone we would be having a serious discussion with potential divorce in the works. Maybe I just take to word differently than others, but that is well beyond looking.
really? you and all the other commenters are acting like the crush thing isn't enough and there has to be more. sounds like you're all a bunch of cucks. saying she wants another man is kind of enough i should think, there doesn't need to be further motivation.
When do American men WAKE THE FUCK UP and realize nearly every American woman is a PROSTITUTE ACTRESS???
PROTIP: Pay attention to how and where you found "your" woman pay attention to the body count and the body count of her circle of friends.
If you actually PAY ATTENTION you will realize you are simply terrified of being alone and unloved and are settling to lease a prostitute actress to pretend to give a flying fuck about you in exchange for payment.
Watch how quick that whore shows her true colors when you come home and say honey I lost my job and we are broke.
PROTIP: ninety percent of married men are simply cowards that are not too bright. They deceive themselves out of fear and then act surprised when their prostitute acts just like a prostitute.
But, and I'm sorry I have to be the one to tell you this, men and women are different.
One of the biggest things men value in a women is purity and loyalty. Maybe you can figure out why, though I doubt it. The info is out there for ya if you can figure out the internet.
In this case, all it took for the skank to be unfaithful to her husband was an attractive male's existence. Helena is a midwit who thinks in extremes, while discarding the nuance.
This sounds like excusing male whoring. She’s pointing out your failure to grsp the math.
men have more feelies on this issue!
Its just as dysgenic for men to sleep around. The more some men are allowed sleep around the greater the wealth and reproductive disparity happens to men. Nobody get screwed over more than men in polygyny. Increased murder and war too. Hat is where we are headed because men have become permissive about sleeping around with multiple women. But here you are insinuating that maybe its not so bad.
BTW slutty men are gross. You think high quality white women want sluts? Do you think they want disloyal males? Do you hear yourself?
women dont really care about men being loyal or whether they are whores.
Quality women want men with experience who will know what they are doing no matter the life circumstance.
Men having high body count shows they can take care of themselves physically, mentally and financially enough to attract and provide for one or multiple women.
Women having high body count shows they have no self-respect, because even the lowest value men will line up to fuck the ugliest woman.
See how this works? Things that are easy to obtain lowers your value if you indulge in it. Things that are hard to obtain increases your value if you accumulate them.
It is and it has always been a status of ill repute
Quality women want men with experience who will know what they are doing no matter the life circumstance.
We dont. We never have.
Men having high body count shows they can take care of themselves physically, mentally and financially enough to attract and provide for one or multiple women.
Its called a muslim
Youre bad a math. You cant have a society full of slutty men who you honor as an asset—whose behavior you praise— who create slutty women by the nature of their existence.
If slutty women are bad for society, then the slutty men that create them are also bad for society. How are slutty men virtuous if their aftermath is women of “no self-respect”? That makes no sense? It’s the logic of muslims.
provide for one or multiple women.
The economics of this don’t work out. Cold climates favor monogamy which favors high productivity and high IQ. Polygynous regimes never favor IQ and productivity over time. Thats why the middle east is a shithole and countries with the highest and longest history of monogamy are the nicest countries.
No woman would voluntarily choose to be one of two wives of a male that is 2x as productive as the least productive healthy male when they could be the sole wife of that less productive male. No homogeneous population will give rise to a significant number of males that are more than twice as productive as the least productive. So in a patrilineal homgeneous population (i.e., one where fathers support their children and mates) all women will choose monogamy.
The only way females will choose to marry a man with many wives is when they have 10x the wealth of the average male. And that cannot occur through productivity, at least not within the same ethnic group. The only way a male can acquire more wives is through theft, war, usury, slavery, fraud— this is the only way for males to accumulate enough wealth to steal women from other men.
Polygyny started with pastoralists that tended to steal livestock and women from each other. They developed military skills and then conquered and enslaved monogamists that tended to be farmers. More productive farmers get better women, not more women. Pastoralist warlords conquer farmers and make themselves nobles, royalty and support their harems with slave labor of the males whose women they stole. Other rent seeking behaviors like usury, religion, selling drugs, —jewish tactics— are the other ways to get multiple wives.
Polygynous societies always promote rent seeking behavior, exploitation by tyrants through slavery, government, religion to acquire vast wealth to support polygyny. High productivity by one man can never support a harem. The worst males’ (i.e., the ones with high aggression toward other males ) genes are selected for. Not the genes of productive, honest ones. This genetic drift toward high libido, deception and aggression can be seen in all polygynous countries.
You only have to look at polygamous animal species to confirm all this. The most promiscuous male populations are the ones that spend more time killing each other and less time taking care of offspring. Polygyny never leads to better providers.
Maybe some of you faggots should study evolution instead of making me explain it until Im blue in the face. Polygyny is dysgenic.
Look at the fucking mormons. Blond blue eyed kiddie fuckers. That is what will happen every time with polygyny.
When do American men WAKE THE FUCK UP and realize nearly every American woman is a PROSTITUTE ACTRESS???
Youre fucking crazy. You live in a fantasy world. Mens’ body counts are as bad as womens’. You deserve someone with a similar body count to your own. The person who made this post is an acknowleged whore but that doesnt bother you for some reason. You dont recognize male behavior as part of the problem.
Youre a whore and a whore maker. You would have found excuses for treating women badly in every time period and culture on earth.
Youre capable of intelligent debate. And yet I can honestly say Ive never seen you engage in it. Its all about trying to humiliate all people who arent Dangus.
I try to stay out of this particular argument but this part is simple math.
100 girls + 100 guys. 20 of those guys bang all 100 girls.
Now all girls have a body count of 20 while most guys have a body count of 0.
I don't blame any of the guys or girls for this though, it's just nature. The only thing that changes the equation is civilized rules like marriage and social pressure that we used to have and kikes eroded.
Reading comments like this and well almost every fucking single post or comment about women well no fucking wonder we ain't making babies. This is no different then subversion kikery about abortion, be a tax payer, on and on. All this hate is no better than what jews are doing.
Ignore the facts and kvetch about people responding appropriately to those facts as if they are the bad guy...
Context, judenschwein. We didn't make hoeflation, Jewish feminists and the state did... I realize you haven't been paying attention so this must be news to you.
That doesn't change the fact that all American women are prostitute actresses for hire.
That is a fantasy narrative you are using to excuse yourself from engaging with women. Sour grapes!
You were hoping for a disney princess with a heart of gold who would love you for the special snowflake that you are, and she never showed up. You were horrified to discover that women are real people who are flawed and selfish, just like men. There are none that exist just to please you.
Welcome to the fucking club. You think guys are the only ones to get their hopes dashed? I have my sad story too but I dont whine like a cunt all day that all men are evil misogynist bastards. You had a childish expectation and now that its dashed you are throwing a childish tantrum and telling a childish story.
All american women are not prostitute actresses. I would have noticed if I was one by now. Men are at least half the problem. You are personally at least half the problem of why you are not happily married. Lots of other goats around here are married to nice women who are not by their accounts prostitute acctresses. You just want to pull a Cartman and blame anybody but yourself for why you are unhappy, no matter how outlandish your claims.
And frankly youre giving off a kind of prostitute-actressy vibe right now. Drama.
Smooth brain has been detected. Reality hates you.
In the real world, fuckstain, it's quite obvious what I said is one hundred percent true. You are that special kind of self delusional idiot that doesn't pay attention and doesn't pick up on things. You are the fucking moron that pays for your honey to go have a great time with just the girls while you go do some dumb boomer shit.
It's never going to enter your mind that you are a complete fool for the simple reason you are a complete fool.
It's not sour grapes these whores regularly ask me to marry them when they see a paycheck and can't be bothered when they don't think I'm a meal ticket. You are a dumb domesticated meal ticket beast of the field lowing in your stable.
It's not sour grapes these whores regularly ask me to marry them when they see a paycheck and can't be bothered when they don't think I'm a meal ticket.
But you date fat chicks and ugly chicks because all you care about is if they are a nice person?
Everybody is in it for what the other person can bring to the table. Men are no different. Stay away from the really mercenary ones and accept that money is usually a factor in women’s choices just like looks are in mens’. Nobody loves you for purely selfless reasons. Men dont do that either, so why are you giving men a pass?
But you date fat chicks and ugly chicks because all you care about is if they are a nice person?
I don't date fat chicks because they are morons who made extremely bad life decisions, they smell and can't wipe their ass and it's costs three to four times as much to feed them. Not to mention the hospital bills and the broken furniture. I'd date an ugly chick if she was smart but I've yet to meet one that wasn't already married. That said I'd never date a fat ugly chick unless I somehow, in the future, got into furniture repair.
they are morons who made extremely bad life decisions,
Why wouldnt women say the same thing about guys with a skinny wallet? Youre just kicking the can down the road.
For myself, I certainly never considered earning as an important factor. I preferred smart guys but I went out with one or two dumb ones because I just liked them. I wasnt fat or ugly but in retrospect I wasnt aggressive enough. I was a bit of a wall flower, so now I get to spend my evening accused of being exactly the kind of woman I wasnt, which is exactly the kind that you fickle bitches always fall for. Fickle.
Why bother explaining to a prostitute what a prostitute is? Look at your life. Your values are garbage and your desires are material. What this means is several employed men can fill the slot you have available, a slot that is worthless by it's very nature. Shit can't see that it is shit...it is always confused because it assumes it is not shit but it is shit. Shit in a candywrapper, the American woman. And for the record, men did not pull this shit, American women did so own it, whore. Tell your whore friends they are whores and some of the more truthful ones will ask you what your point is. You are delusional and you can't possibly understand that until you leave this country and learn what the alternative to your shitbag worldview is.
Your values are garbage and your desires are material.
My values are excellent and my desires are not material.
a slot that is worthless by it's very nature.
Youve just explained that a woman cant have any value beyond brood mare. And yet a moment ago you were whining that sluts were mercenary about playing you like a walking wallet. Arent you the mercenary one? Kinda seems like your values are the problem
Shit can't see that it is shit..
Ain’t that the truth.
And for the record, men did not pull this shit,
Isnt this exactly the shit that men have pulled for centuries? Isn’t it so that, because some women have followed mens’ bad example to be promiscuous since the invention of birth control, you are angry that women are acting like.... men? Dont worry though, men are still more promiscuous. Cant erase a billion years of biology that fast. Why do a third of african american men have a european Y chromosome haplotype? Cmon. I bet you can guess.
They only send their worst prostitutes who are completely unmarryable. We don't see the best of other countries coming to USA we see all the discards.
The good ones stay home.
That is why... You must go there...and then be there several years so you can tell the difference between green card hoes and a traditional foreign wife. If she refuses to leave the country at first that might be a good sign. If she talks endlessly about how she can't wait to come to America with you... You should probably cut it loose. It helps to have a local friend that knows the local hoes tricks and sees throuh them.
Dangus, why is your color scheme pink, why is your reddit avatar an anime girl, and what the fuck are you doing with the reddit cancer app on your phone? Also turn off all those fucking app notifications! No wonder your phone is in silent mode, It probably sounds like a slot machine with the sound on.
Many of the group here seem to support the man. I get it, but there's not a lot of people here dissecting the word "crush."
My first thought when she mentioned "crush" was that she was really young and this was a first-time, seen-him kind of thing. Given that they're both nearly 30, his reaction adds a lot more context to the situation. She's married, and has been married for a while. Saying that she has a "crush," from my perspective at least, seems to indicate more that she's still in the romantic phase and generally acts younger than her age. Crush has some different meanings. For some people, a crush is someone who kind of slipped out of our fingers in our younger years, and becomes that sort of idea of the person that we really never really got to know in the capacity that we wanted to know them. For others, it could be someone that we were immediately attracted to but never really knew long enough to realize some determining factor that would have crossed them out as potential partners going forwards. However you want to think about it, "crush" implies nostalgia.
In the way that it's presented here, I do really agree with his reaction, but there's not a lot of ways that someone, even if the gender roles were reversed, could back down the idea that having a crush on someone outside of the marriage was okay. Really, it means that you've spent a lot of time looking at other people, regardless of how much direct interaction you've had with them. That's not exactly a great comfort to longevity in marriage, but more than that, it's kind of like admitting that you're looking for something else.
People change over time, that's one thing that you have to look forwards to in marriage. To deny that everything is not working out is just inflicting pain. The guy in this post probably thought that she was admitting that she's more interested in other men. While she probably could have handled the situation better, she didn't go directly to mentioning that she was attracted to another guy, but instead used the word "crush." She kind of set up a minefield for herself here; there's not really an easy way out when she used that kind of language to describe someone else that she barely seems to have known. It could be that her husband really did love her, but he knew her enough to know that if she was having these kinds of feelings now, it would probably just get worse later on.
While I do think that it is kind of overreacting to end a marriage over a conversation vs. a direct action, it's nonetheless up to really the couple themselves whether or not they choose to remain together. I don't think that if she stayed quiet, the situation would have changed at all. There's a lot of times where people we know seem to pivot fast on some minor things that they're dealing with. This definitely was not one of them. It's obvious that she does care a lot about her husband, but she's probably not aware that she's wandering too far away mentally. If I were her, I'd pray and then leave this to God's hands. I don't think that she needs to punish herself with staying silent, but she might want to review whether or not she was going too far when it comes to describing others that she doesn't know.
Physical beauty is interlinked to psychological beauty.
What does this mean? Lots of attractive people are horrible
You should hate yourself if you cultivate secret crushes.
But it wasnt a secret. She shared it with her husband.
If the shoe was on the other foot you guys would all be whining that the wife was being hysterical and couldn’t handle the honesty her husband was giving to her.
If the shoe was on the other foot you guys would all be whining that the wife was bing hysterical and couldnt handle the honesty her husband was giving to her.
They’re so emotional. They cannot logically accept that everyone has attractions they don’t choose and they can’t appreciate that the wife is just being honest about it.
Can’t they see that this will just force wives to be secretive about their feelings when they dont want to be? Its as if they don’t understand future consequences. They should use their brains!
[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 17:22:15 ago (+1/-0)
They don’t have children. Children are the glue that keeps the marriage together. Also, if they had children, this vapid bitch would be too busy to have hots for other men.
The argument that will never end once it gets started.
If the post is a real one the woman I would guess wanted attention. She could have phrased it a bit more playfully and instead the guy took it and ran. I agree with the thought of he was already wanting out. An affair is such a stupid thing to throw a marriage away over. Even worse its an imaginary affair. This whole post is equivalent to getting mad over your partner cheating on you in a dream.
This guy (if this is a real thing) being this sensitive would never survive the end of the world and she should count the divorce as a blessing.
Divorce over just that one incident is probably overkill,
This post is probably a manufactured MGTOW product. But let’s say it’s genuine. He is fragile as fuck. People in long term relationships often share these things with each other because they prefer honesty and attraction to other people outside the relationship is normal.
When its acknowleged, it becomes a little joke and it usually improves trust— if you are thinking about cheating you usually dont say how cute the guy is that you are considering cheating with to your husband, because you don’t want to arouse suspicion. Most couples do not hide this sort of thing after theyve been together for awhile.
that's not a cute and funny thing to say to your husband to see how he'll react. It's disrespectful.
Thats higly subjective and in fact lots of people think it is cute and funny if theyre not extremely insecure about their relationship.
I don't think you're being honest with yourself in your assessment.
You can probably think of some shit guys pretend is funny that feels disrespectful when it happens to you or any woman.
This is one of those things for guys. It's a catch-22, you don't want to come off like an insecure little bitch, but it's very close to what women do when they really are a hoe and are testing boundaries.
Guys handle this differently when it happens and one way is to laugh it off but I promise only cucked or immature/inexperienced guys honestly think to themselves that it's cute funny or good relationship honesty.
It's bad behavior that's unfortunately been normalized.
But guys do this too, whether you wish to acknowlege it or deny it.
It's bad behavior that's unfortunately been normalized.
Nonsense. Almost everyone who’s been in a long term relationship finds themselves occassionally attracted to other people. Im not saying you have to deal with it by telling your spouse about it. But many people prefer to be open about these situations. If you know your spouse than you know if they are capable of cheating or that its a passing fancy. I dont think its disrespectful but I wouldnt tell a partner thats very jealous or insecure because they could take it very badly.
only cucked or immature/inexperienced guys honestly think to themselves that it's cute funny or good relationship honesty.
Quite the opposite. More experienced older couples are much more likely to find it funny, unless their marriage is in bad shape. That’s because older couples have a more realistic expectation of each other as people to be imperfect and have attractions to other women/men
I'm not talking about if guys do bad behavior too.
If you know your spouse than you know if they are capable of cheating...
If you know your spouse, you'll also know if they would appreciate this kind of humor. No man is "wrong" or "insecure" for not finding this funny. If your man doesn't like this kind of joke, then it's disrespectful to make it. If you don't know your man well enough to guess if he'd like it, then he probably doesn't know you well enough to know if this is a joke or a red flag.
I consider it bad behavior. If I'm with a woman I'd respond by telling her I don't like that kind of joke. If she keeps it up then she obviously doesn't care how I feel and is probably not relationship material.
I'm with a woman right now who thought I didn't appreciate a certain topic (nothing spicy just an everyday light topic) and she won't even joke lightly about it now because she's a good woman. I had to let her know she misunderstood and it's ok to joke about, but this is how a mature and well functioning couple treats each other.
[ + ] observation1
[ - ] observation1 35 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 13:40:19 ago (+35/-0)
[ + ] MasterSuppressionTechnique
[ - ] MasterSuppressionTechnique 10 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 16:00:49 ago (+10/-0)
He was smart and waited for the right moment.
Almost certainly had a backup plan already on the works.
Your girls all have crushes on Chris Hemsworth and I'll bet you aren't packing their bags for them.
Any decent man or woman is perfectly capable of acknowledging attraction to others without ever acting on it.
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[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 6 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 16:32:55 ago (+6/-0)
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[ - ] Had 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:11:22 ago (+3/-0)
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[ - ] Clubberlang 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:36:23 ago (+1/-0)
Because when she stops "crying" she'll be out for money.
And this will cause a conflict of interest for the lawyers.
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[ - ] 1nward 10 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 13:25:34 ago (+11/-1)
PROTIP: Pay attention to how and where you found "your" woman pay attention to the body count and the body count of her circle of friends.
If you actually PAY ATTENTION you will realize you are simply terrified of being alone and unloved and are settling to lease a prostitute actress to pretend to give a flying fuck about you in exchange for payment.
Watch how quick that whore shows her true colors when you come home and say honey I lost my job and we are broke.
PROTIP: ninety percent of married men are simply cowards that are not too bright. They deceive themselves out of fear and then act surprised when their prostitute acts just like a prostitute.
[ + ] dulcima
[ - ] dulcima 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:40:13 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] PotatoWhisperer2
[ - ] PotatoWhisperer2 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 20:55:33 ago (+2/-0)
But, and I'm sorry I have to be the one to tell you this, men and women are different.
One of the biggest things men value in a women is purity and loyalty. Maybe you can figure out why, though I doubt it. The info is out there for ya if you can figure out the internet.
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 21:10:00 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 1 yearMay 11, 2023 01:43:15 ago (+2/-1)
Its just as dysgenic for men to sleep around. The more some men are allowed sleep around the greater the wealth and reproductive disparity happens to men. Nobody get screwed over more than men in polygyny. Increased murder and war too. Hat is where we are headed because men have become permissive about sleeping around with multiple women. But here you are insinuating that maybe its not so bad.
BTW slutty men are gross. You think high quality white women want sluts? Do you think they want disloyal males? Do you hear yourself?
Thats what Im hearin
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[ + ] voatisajewishheaven
[ - ] voatisajewishheaven 0 points 1 yearMay 11, 2023 09:32:56 ago (+0/-0)
That's not a thing.
Still not a thing. It simply can't be.
Quality women want men with experience who will know what they are doing no matter the life circumstance.
Men having high body count shows they can take care of themselves physically, mentally and financially enough to attract and provide for one or multiple women.
Women having high body count shows they have no self-respect, because even the lowest value men will line up to fuck the ugliest woman.
See how this works? Things that are easy to obtain lowers your value if you indulge in it. Things that are hard to obtain increases your value if you accumulate them.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 1 yearMay 11, 2023 12:53:59 ago (+2/-0)*
It is and it has always been a status of ill repute
We dont. We never have.
Its called a muslim
Youre bad a math. You cant have a society full of slutty men who you honor as an asset—whose behavior you praise— who create slutty women by the nature of their existence.
If slutty women are bad for society, then the slutty men that create them are also bad for society. How are slutty men virtuous if their aftermath is women of “no self-respect”? That makes no sense? It’s the logic of muslims.
The economics of this don’t work out. Cold climates favor monogamy which favors high productivity and high IQ. Polygynous regimes never favor IQ and productivity over time. Thats why the middle east is a shithole and countries with the highest and longest history of monogamy are the nicest countries.
No woman would voluntarily choose to be one of two wives of a male that is 2x as productive as the least productive healthy male when they could be the sole wife of that less productive male. No homogeneous population will give rise to a significant number of males that are more than twice as productive as the least productive. So in a patrilineal homgeneous population (i.e., one where fathers support their children and mates) all women will choose monogamy.
The only way females will choose to marry a man with many wives is when they have 10x the wealth of the average male. And that cannot occur through productivity, at least not within the same ethnic group. The only way a male can acquire more wives is through theft, war, usury, slavery, fraud— this is the only way for males to accumulate enough wealth to steal women from other men.
Polygyny started with pastoralists that tended to steal livestock and women from each other. They developed military skills and then conquered and enslaved monogamists that tended to be farmers. More productive farmers get better women, not more women. Pastoralist warlords conquer farmers and make themselves nobles, royalty and support their harems with slave labor of the males whose women they stole. Other rent seeking behaviors like usury, religion, selling drugs, —jewish tactics— are the other ways to get multiple wives.
Polygynous societies always promote rent seeking behavior, exploitation by tyrants through slavery, government, religion to acquire vast wealth to support polygyny. High productivity by one man can never support a harem. The worst males’ (i.e., the ones with high aggression toward other males ) genes are selected for. Not the genes of productive, honest ones. This genetic drift toward high libido, deception and aggression can be seen in all polygynous countries.
You only have to look at polygamous animal species to confirm all this. The most promiscuous male populations are the ones that spend more time killing each other and less time taking care of offspring. Polygyny never leads to better providers.
Maybe some of you faggots should study evolution instead of making me explain it until Im blue in the face. Polygyny is dysgenic.
Look at the fucking mormons. Blond blue eyed kiddie fuckers. That is what will happen every time with polygyny.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 20:39:01 ago (+1/-0)
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[ - ] Monica -1 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:26:16 ago (+0/-1)
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[ - ] dulcima 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:44:57 ago (+2/-0)
When I made my comment that thought did not even enter my head because I was thinking of men.
Says a lot about where your mind dwells though.
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[ - ] Name 2 points 1 yearMay 11, 2023 01:07:27 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:10:15 ago (+1/-0)
Youre fucking crazy. You live in a fantasy world. Mens’ body counts are as bad as womens’. You deserve someone with a similar body count to your own. The person who made this post is an acknowleged whore but that doesnt bother you for some reason. You dont recognize male behavior as part of the problem.
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[ - ] Belfuro 4 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 15:34:04 ago (+4/-0)
Everyone loves boobs
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[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 17:25:04 ago (+0/-0)
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[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:58:25 ago (+3/-0)
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[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:14:00 ago (+3/-1)
Youre a whore and a whore maker. You would have found excuses for treating women badly in every time period and culture on earth.
Youre capable of intelligent debate. And yet I can honestly say Ive never seen you engage in it. Its all about trying to humiliate all people who arent Dangus.
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:16:59 ago (+0/-0)
Wahmen moment.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:35:39 ago (+0/-0)
The desperation
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 20:05:06 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] dulcima
[ - ] dulcima 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:38:54 ago (+3/-2)
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 8 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 20:50:56 ago (+8/-0)
100 girls + 100 guys. 20 of those guys bang all 100 girls.
Now all girls have a body count of 20 while most guys have a body count of 0.
I don't blame any of the guys or girls for this though, it's just nature. The only thing that changes the equation is civilized rules like marriage and social pressure that we used to have and kikes eroded.
[ + ] 1nward
[ - ] 1nward 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 13:40:28 ago (+1/-1)
But deep down I know that two percent are just better at hiding it.
[ + ] deleted
[ - ] deleted 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 15:41:16 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:21:51 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] 1nward
[ - ] 1nward 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 15:48:43 ago (+1/-0)
See rule 30.
https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/rules-of-the-internet/
[ + ] Ragnar
[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 17:24:31 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] White_Pride_Cis
[ - ] White_Pride_Cis 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 17:44:13 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Ragnar
[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:14:18 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] White_Pride_Cis
[ - ] White_Pride_Cis 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:39:38 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 1 yearMay 11, 2023 09:03:09 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Ragnar
[ - ] Ragnar 0 points 1 yearMay 11, 2023 10:58:43 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 20:42:28 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] fritz_maurentod
[ - ] fritz_maurentod 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 14:15:12 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:14:44 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] kammmmak
[ - ] kammmmak 5 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 15:00:59 ago (+6/-1)
This is no different then subversion kikery about abortion, be a tax payer, on and on. All this hate is no better than what jews are doing.
[ + ] 1nward
[ - ] 1nward -1 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 15:50:29 ago (+2/-3)
Ignore the facts and kvetch about people responding appropriately to those facts as if they are the bad guy...
Context, judenschwein. We didn't make hoeflation, Jewish feminists and the state did... I realize you haven't been paying attention so this must be news to you.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:11:55 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] 1nward
[ - ] 1nward 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:54:22 ago (+2/-0)
That doesn't change the fact that all American women are prostitute actresses for hire.
Maybe juuuuust maybe you can realize you don't engage a fucking whore like she's a lady.
Obviously you have to go to some other country for a few years to find a proper wife.
America is fucking DONE.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:32:15 ago (+2/-0)*
That is a fantasy narrative you are using to excuse yourself from engaging with women. Sour grapes!
You were hoping for a disney princess with a heart of gold who would love you for the special snowflake that you are, and she never showed up. You were horrified to discover that women are real people who are flawed and selfish, just like men. There are none that exist just to please you.
Welcome to the fucking club. You think guys are the only ones to get their hopes dashed? I have my sad story too but I dont whine like a cunt all day that all men are evil misogynist bastards. You had a childish expectation and now that its dashed you are throwing a childish tantrum and telling a childish story.
All american women are not prostitute actresses. I would have noticed if I was one by now. Men are at least half the problem. You are personally at least half the problem of why you are not happily married. Lots of other goats around here are married to nice women who are not by their accounts prostitute acctresses. You just want to pull a Cartman and blame anybody but yourself for why you are unhappy, no matter how outlandish your claims.
And frankly youre giving off a kind of prostitute-actressy vibe right now. Drama.
[ + ] 1nward
[ - ] 1nward 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 20:47:01 ago (+3/-0)
Reality hates you.
In the real world, fuckstain, it's quite obvious what I said is one hundred percent true. You are that special kind of self delusional idiot that doesn't pay attention and doesn't pick up on things. You are the fucking moron that pays for your honey to go have a great time with just the girls while you go do some dumb boomer shit.
It's never going to enter your mind that you are a complete fool for the simple reason you are a complete fool.
It's not sour grapes these whores regularly ask me to marry them when they see a paycheck and can't be bothered when they don't think I'm a meal ticket. You are a dumb domesticated meal ticket beast of the field lowing in your stable.
https://yewtu.be/watch?v=xY1YMxKDKDg
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 21:03:25 ago (+1/-0)
But you date fat chicks and ugly chicks because all you care about is if they are a nice person?
Everybody is in it for what the other person can bring to the table. Men are no different. Stay away from the really mercenary ones and accept that money is usually a factor in women’s choices just like looks are in mens’. Nobody loves you for purely selfless reasons. Men dont do that either, so why are you giving men a pass?
[ + ] Monica
[ - ] Monica 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:43:48 ago (+3/-0)
I don't date fat chicks because they are morons who made extremely bad life decisions, they smell and can't wipe their ass and it's costs three to four times as much to feed them. Not to mention the hospital bills and the broken furniture. I'd date an ugly chick if she was smart but I've yet to meet one that wasn't already married. That said I'd never date a fat ugly chick unless I somehow, in the future, got into furniture repair.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena -1 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 23:10:58 ago (+1/-2)
Why wouldnt women say the same thing about guys with a skinny wallet? Youre just kicking the can down the road.
For myself, I certainly never considered earning as an important factor. I preferred smart guys but I went out with one or two dumb ones because I just liked them. I wasnt fat or ugly but in retrospect I wasnt aggressive enough. I was a bit of a wall flower, so now I get to spend my evening accused of being exactly the kind of woman I wasnt, which is exactly the kind that you fickle bitches always fall for. Fickle.
[ + ] deleted
[ - ] deleted 0 points 1 yearMay 11, 2023 09:00:19 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] 1nward
[ - ] 1nward 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 21:16:22 ago (+2/-0)
Shit can't see that it is shit...it is always confused because it assumes it is not shit but it is shit.
Shit in a candywrapper, the American woman. And for the record, men did not pull this shit, American women did so own it, whore. Tell your whore friends they are whores and some of the more truthful ones will ask you what your point is. You are delusional and you can't possibly understand that until you leave this country and learn what the alternative to your shitbag worldview is.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 21:36:31 ago (+1/-0)
My values are excellent and my desires are not material.
Youve just explained that a woman cant have any value beyond brood mare. And yet a moment ago you were whining that sluts were mercenary about playing you like a walking wallet. Arent you the mercenary one? Kinda seems like your values are the problem
Ain’t that the truth.
Isnt this exactly the shit that men have pulled for centuries? Isn’t it so that, because some women have followed mens’ bad example to be promiscuous since the invention of birth control, you are angry that women are acting like.... men? Dont worry though, men are still more promiscuous. Cant erase a billion years of biology that fast. Why do a third of african american men have a european Y chromosome haplotype? Cmon. I bet you can guess.
[ + ] 1nward
[ - ] 1nward 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:13:49 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:17:26 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] 1nward
[ - ] 1nward 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 20:51:40 ago (+0/-0)
The good ones stay home.
That is why... You must go there...and then be there several years so you can tell the difference between green card hoes and a traditional foreign wife. If she refuses to leave the country at first that might be a good sign. If she talks endlessly about how she can't wait to come to America with you... You should probably cut it loose. It helps to have a local friend that knows the local hoes tricks and sees throuh them.
[ + ] TheBigGuyFromQueens
[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:18:39 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] oyveyo
[ - ] oyveyo 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 16:34:55 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] PhimoticEmbrace
[ - ] PhimoticEmbrace 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 14:45:51 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] lmaoayy
[ - ] lmaoayy 2 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:38:14 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] voatisajewishheaven
[ - ] voatisajewishheaven 1 point 1 yearMay 11, 2023 09:25:18 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] AlexanderMorose13
[ - ] AlexanderMorose13 1 point 1 yearMay 11, 2023 13:00:02 ago (+1/-0)
Many of the group here seem to support the man. I get it, but there's not a lot of people here dissecting the word "crush."
My first thought when she mentioned "crush" was that she was really young and this was a first-time, seen-him kind of thing. Given that they're both nearly 30, his reaction adds a lot more context to the situation. She's married, and has been married for a while. Saying that she has a "crush," from my perspective at least, seems to indicate more that she's still in the romantic phase and generally acts younger than her age. Crush has some different meanings. For some people, a crush is someone who kind of slipped out of our fingers in our younger years, and becomes that sort of idea of the person that we really never really got to know in the capacity that we wanted to know them. For others, it could be someone that we were immediately attracted to but never really knew long enough to realize some determining factor that would have crossed them out as potential partners going forwards. However you want to think about it, "crush" implies nostalgia.
In the way that it's presented here, I do really agree with his reaction, but there's not a lot of ways that someone, even if the gender roles were reversed, could back down the idea that having a crush on someone outside of the marriage was okay. Really, it means that you've spent a lot of time looking at other people, regardless of how much direct interaction you've had with them. That's not exactly a great comfort to longevity in marriage, but more than that, it's kind of like admitting that you're looking for something else.
People change over time, that's one thing that you have to look forwards to in marriage. To deny that everything is not working out is just inflicting pain. The guy in this post probably thought that she was admitting that she's more interested in other men. While she probably could have handled the situation better, she didn't go directly to mentioning that she was attracted to another guy, but instead used the word "crush." She kind of set up a minefield for herself here; there's not really an easy way out when she used that kind of language to describe someone else that she barely seems to have known. It could be that her husband really did love her, but he knew her enough to know that if she was having these kinds of feelings now, it would probably just get worse later on.
While I do think that it is kind of overreacting to end a marriage over a conversation vs. a direct action, it's nonetheless up to really the couple themselves whether or not they choose to remain together. I don't think that if she stayed quiet, the situation would have changed at all. There's a lot of times where people we know seem to pivot fast on some minor things that they're dealing with. This definitely was not one of them. It's obvious that she does care a lot about her husband, but she's probably not aware that she's wandering too far away mentally. If I were her, I'd pray and then leave this to God's hands. I don't think that she needs to punish herself with staying silent, but she might want to review whether or not she was going too far when it comes to describing others that she doesn't know.
[ + ] TheBigGuyFromQueens
[ - ] TheBigGuyFromQueens 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:23:26 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ]deleted
[ - ] deleted 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 17:28:11 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 21:25:13 ago (+1/-0)*
But it wasnt a secret. She shared it with her husband.
If the shoe was on the other foot you guys would all be whining that the wife was being hysterical and couldn’t handle the honesty her husband was giving to her.
[ + ] dulcima
[ - ] dulcima 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:46:01 ago (+3/-0)
That is so true it's hysterical really.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:53:24 ago (+1/-1)
Can’t they see that this will just force wives to be secretive about their feelings when they dont want to be? Its as if they don’t understand future consequences. They should use their brains!
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 23:16:37 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] Had
[ - ] Had 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:12:44 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:27:00 ago (+0/-0)
HadIt_LostIt
HadAStrangeDischarge
HadNooneEver
HadLittleSense
HadNoChanceOfDefeatingHelena
[ + ] Ragnar
[ - ] Ragnar 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 17:22:15 ago (+1/-0)
Also, if they had children, this vapid bitch would be too busy to have hots for other men.
[ + ] TheSimulacra
[ - ] TheSimulacra 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 16:56:25 ago (+1/-0)
[ + ] iThinkiShitYourself
[ - ] iThinkiShitYourself 1 point 1 yearMay 10, 2023 16:36:40 ago (+1/-0)
He has no choice. You caused and are the source of the insecurity... Do people even understand the meaning of this phrase?
Answer: they don't
[ + ] Gowithit
[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 23:42:30 ago (+0/-0)
If the post is a real one the woman I would guess wanted attention. She could have phrased it a bit more playfully and instead the guy took it and ran. I agree with the thought of he was already wanting out. An affair is such a stupid thing to throw a marriage away over. Even worse its an imaginary affair. This whole post is equivalent to getting mad over your partner cheating on you in a dream.
This guy (if this is a real thing) being this sensitive would never survive the end of the world and she should count the divorce as a blessing.
[ + ] Clubberlang
[ - ] Clubberlang 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 19:34:34 ago (+0/-0)
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:02:03 ago (+0/-0)
Yeah this is an own.
[ + ] big_fat_dangus
[ - ] big_fat_dangus [op] 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 18:20:21 ago (+3/-0)
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 3 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 21:07:18 ago (+3/-0)
Divorce over just that one incident is probably overkill, but she wasn't treating her marriage with care when she chose to say that to him.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 21:21:38 ago (+0/-0)
This post is probably a manufactured MGTOW product. But let’s say it’s genuine. He is fragile as fuck. People in long term relationships often share these things with each other because they prefer honesty and attraction to other people outside the relationship is normal.
When its acknowleged, it becomes a little joke and it usually improves trust— if you are thinking about cheating you usually dont say how cute the guy is that you are considering cheating with to your husband, because you don’t want to arouse suspicion. Most couples do not hide this sort of thing after theyve been together for awhile.
Thats higly subjective and in fact lots of people think it is cute and funny if theyre not extremely insecure about their relationship.
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 21:58:27 ago (+0/-0)
You can probably think of some shit guys pretend is funny that feels disrespectful when it happens to you or any woman.
This is one of those things for guys. It's a catch-22, you don't want to come off like an insecure little bitch, but it's very close to what women do when they really are a hoe and are testing boundaries.
Guys handle this differently when it happens and one way is to laugh it off but I promise only cucked or immature/inexperienced guys honestly think to themselves that it's cute funny or good relationship honesty.
It's bad behavior that's unfortunately been normalized.
[ + ] PostWallHelena
[ - ] PostWallHelena 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 22:39:58 ago (+0/-0)
Nonsense. Almost everyone who’s been in a long term relationship finds themselves occassionally attracted to other people. Im not saying you have to deal with it by telling your spouse about it. But many people prefer to be open about these situations. If you know your spouse than you know if they are capable of cheating or that its a passing fancy. I dont think its disrespectful but I wouldnt tell a partner thats very jealous or insecure because they could take it very badly.
Quite the opposite. More experienced older couples are much more likely to find it funny, unless their marriage is in bad shape. That’s because older couples have a more realistic expectation of each other as people to be imperfect and have attractions to other women/men
[ + ] SecretHitler
[ - ] SecretHitler 0 points 1 yearMay 10, 2023 23:01:11 ago (+0/-0)*
If you know your spouse, you'll also know if they would appreciate this kind of humor. No man is "wrong" or "insecure" for not finding this funny. If your man doesn't like this kind of joke, then it's disrespectful to make it. If you don't know your man well enough to guess if he'd like it, then he probably doesn't know you well enough to know if this is a joke or a red flag.
I consider it bad behavior. If I'm with a woman I'd respond by telling her I don't like that kind of joke. If she keeps it up then she obviously doesn't care how I feel and is probably not relationship material.
I'm with a woman right now who thought I didn't appreciate a certain topic (nothing spicy just an everyday light topic) and she won't even joke lightly about it now because she's a good woman. I had to let her know she misunderstood and it's ok to joke about, but this is how a mature and well functioning couple treats each other.