What they want is for you to listen. If you'd just listen, then you would know that they did nothing wrong.
If you give them a solution, then you didn't listen. Because by giving them a way to fix the problem, you're implying that the problem is their fault, or fixing the problem is their responsibility.
But they shouldn't have to fix the problem, because they did nothing wrong. And you'd know that if you just listened.
That's the correct way. Listen and empathize. Odds are that's all that's wanted. It's not just women though. Unsolicited advice is almost never welcome.
Wrong. The correct way is to make them take responsibility for their actions, and to stop blaming others. The happiest and most confident females are the ones who hold themselves accountable for their actions. And who put time and effort into making their own lives better.
Odds are that's all that's wanted.
True. They want to blame others, and be an angry bitter person who blames everyone else for their problems. They expect the world to revolve around them. That's the problem.
It's not just women though.
Very true. There are a lot of feminised men today.
Unsolicited advice is almost never welcome.
Very wrong. If a task I'm doing, or my life in general, can be made easier - I want to hear it. I don't want to go through life struggling. Especially if there are quick and easy solutions that I can implement myself. There's no better feeling than after you fixed a problem.
It's wild if you offer support and comfort they complain about the problem not being fixed
If you offer solutions they say I just wanted emotional support.
Similar to retarded cats meows at the door for 30 minutes you get up and go open the door it looks at you with disgust then goes and sits on the couch.
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If you'd just listen, then you would know that they did nothing wrong.
If you give them a solution, then you didn't listen.
Because by giving them a way to fix the problem, you're implying that the problem is their fault, or fixing the problem is their responsibility.
But they shouldn't have to fix the problem, because they did nothing wrong.
And you'd know that if you just listened.
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[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 2 points 2.2 yearsMar 6, 2023 15:47:13 ago (+2/-0)
[ + ] Not_C
[ - ] Not_C 2 points 2.2 yearsMar 6, 2023 16:14:43 ago (+2/-0)
Wrong.
The correct way is to make them take responsibility for their actions, and to stop blaming others.
The happiest and most confident females are the ones who hold themselves accountable for their actions. And who put time and effort into making their own lives better.
True.
They want to blame others, and be an angry bitter person who blames everyone else for their problems. They expect the world to revolve around them.
That's the problem.
Very true.
There are a lot of feminised men today.
Very wrong.
If a task I'm doing, or my life in general, can be made easier - I want to hear it.
I don't want to go through life struggling. Especially if there are quick and easy solutions that I can implement myself.
There's no better feeling than after you fixed a problem.
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All OP needs is a waifu pillow!
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It's wild if you offer support and comfort they complain about the problem not being fixed
If you offer solutions they say I just wanted emotional support.
Similar to retarded cats meows at the door for 30 minutes you get up and go open the door it looks at you with disgust then goes and sits on the couch.
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