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Some people can't talk about it. He's probably going through his own shit, but he can't bring himself to express it so he lashed out. Everyone I know is fighting for their life one way or another, some people just aren't capable of talking about it. I've dealt with terrible depression on and off my whole life. It's hard to talk about it with people that feel like they've had it worse. Everyone thinks they've had it worse. It doesn't sound like you were mining sympathy. Everyone is going through it right now, and it's going to get worse before it gets better.

Idunno. I suppose it is normal to not want to do anything occasionally and to just give zero fucks about anything and lack all enthusiasm. Even then, one must still get one's shit together and at least go through the motions of doing one's job. I find in times like these, the job usually forces me to actually do real work by throwing some awful emergency at me making me snap out of faking it mode to get into real problem solving and creative thinking mode... but that's just me.

I suppose it is also normal to resent or be upset at someone who has openly embraced their weakness rather than fighting it, because that weakness just strikes men as pathetic and contemptible, whether that is right or wrong, it is just a natural reaction I think.

But that is just all like my opinion, man. I only took a few psychology classes; I didn't get a doctorate in that.

Because you sound like a whiner,complaining all the fucking time.

Because he's tired of hearing the same shit from every boy who got messed around by universal public schooling, and won't put the blame where it belongs?

Starting 1990, teachers were told that girls didn't demand enough attention, and they were supposed to reverse that by manipulating the class according to what sex they were. Girls got better attention for needing attention, the boys got the opposite. That's why women under 30 are the most insecure group of attention seekers of any generation.

Over 80% of the drug deaths are male, and their suicide rate is three times higher.

Depressed and having anxiety issues sounds like pure bs....if you refuse, with all the others, to recognize an external source.

Because depression is contagious. He might not be consciously aware of why you upset him, but at some point we have to shut out negative talk from others or we will succumb to it.

Also I think that talking about your ailments or hardships may be a passive plea for sympathy or some other ask. Manipulative people are often complainers (like jews) because it is an effective way to get something out of someone else—like attentiveness from that person or a “pass” on the rules in some context. So its possible that you may be asking for special treatment without realizing it.

Or perhaps you aren’t doing that at all, but he is so sensitized to that sort of plea that he immediately feels as if you are trying to impose on him. Ive had my issues with depression. I used to want to talk about it all the time but people are weird about it often.

There is a sort of egocentric indulgence to it and therapists tend to encourage the behavior of “unburdening” yourself as cathartic. I dont really think it is anymore. It can cause you to become a bit of a sad sac navel gazer if you know what I mean. Whites tend to value more stoic suffering whereas jews tend to cash in on their emotional angst— so I try to do less of it nowadays.

We all really need encouragement and validation to help us through our struggles. Some of us melancholy types might look for it a bit more than others. Its not always bad. But others don’t always know what we need. They think —
Many cannot relate or empathize at all. I tried to get family members to understand me. They never will. Many people will never understand. Others are so overwhelmed with their own negativity they just can’t cope with yours.

Try to have some understanding for your friend who clearly has limitations in the compassion area. We are all struggling and stress these days.

it is all because the things that annoy you in others actually are the things that annoy you about yourself and seeing them do it only reminds you that you do that too and you know it is annoying

Most of the time, when you're depressed, you eat shit and don't do shit. The result is you feel like shit. You pair your environment with your depression. After a few months you Pavlovian conditioned yourself to be a sad sack of shit.

With buddies like that...

This is called Cognitive dissonance. The guy claims he never had time to feel sorry or get depressed but his attitude towards depression says otherwise. Depression isn't limited to first world countries. Plenty of suicidal, depressed people in 3rd world shitholes.

You're friend was telling you the hard truth you needed to hear. Stop being a little bitch.

Nobody wants to be brought down with depressing topics. Talk about Khazar milkers instead.

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Because when pedophiles and psychopaths run everything they make sure to program everyone to attack victims of abuse, people that hate the madhouse they live in and anyone that speaks the truth!

Your buddy is a fucking NPC and can't be trusted.

Empathy is taboo in a world run by psychopaths. This brainwashed ass has lost his humanity in trying to fit into the sick world he lives in.

Being well adjusted to an insane and evil world is no measure of sanity. He isn't honest enough with himself to be depressed. That's the truth.

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Cause it's bullshit lazy people pull to guilt others into carrying them.

Man the fuck up and stop consuming garbage that makes you feel like shit.

Clinical depression is fake and gay and the idea itself exists as some kind of "official" excuse to be a fucking pussy.

Fucking be sad when sad shit happens but do your fucking duties anyway.

No one wants to listen to you talk about your emotional problems.