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How many of you love your significant other?

submitted by Paradoxical003 to whatever 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 22:55:53 ago (+4/-3)     (whatever)

Your wife or husband, boyfriend or girlfriend, or just crush, I guess we'd count them as significant in this sense as well.


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[ - ] Fascinus 6 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:19:15 ago (+6/-0)

With my whole heart.

Sharing my life with the woman I'm meant to be with has been one of the greatest blessings I have ever known.

I am thankful for her every day.

[ - ] Bufordxl 5 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:56:56 ago (+5/-0)

My wife of 50 years is my life.

[ - ] throwawayaccount 2 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:06:59 ago (+2/-0)

I think you'll find more people here are single than with someone. Most of us are wishing we had trad wives lmao

[ - ] knightwarrior41 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:37:27 ago (+0/-0)

Most of us are wishing we had trad wives lmao

aint that the truth. i'm single and forever alone but its okay because others have it worse

perspective, perspective

[ - ] throwawayaccount 4 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:43:13 ago (+4/-0)

24yr old virgin here. First GF would've been amazing trad wife. Dated her from ages 13-16. She moved away and I never saw her again.
Next GF admitted to using me for money and not caring about me. Actively cheated on me. Told me to my face.
3rd GF was sending nude photos to other dudes the entire time we dated.

Gave up on women entirely. Fuck them. Unfaithful bitches.

[ - ] knightwarrior41 2 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:49:09 ago (+2/-0)

you are still young and have time to find a hidden gem somewhere. dont lose hope, man 👍

[ - ] throwawayaccount 2 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:56:36 ago (+2/-0)

As much as I'd love to stay on the positive side of things like you it's just not reasonable. Find a 20 year old virgin for me. Hell, an 18 year old. They don't exist.
At the same time I'm 24 and only ever had dead end jobs because it took until now for me to figure out I had been given very shit advice that got me nothing but useless shit pay jobs. By the time I get my life together I'll be 30 and my prospects will be 0.

The best I can do is warn younger people of the pitfalls I fell into.

[ - ] SecretHitler 1 point 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 01:35:56 ago (+1/-0)

If you don't know women well enough to get what you want, what makes you think you're right about any of this? (You're way off)

Your prospects will be better at 30 than any time in your life for starters. They're also not as bad as you think right now.

If you actually didn't give a shit about women you'd be trying things with them because you wouldn't care what they thought of you. You actually care a lot.

Also there are definitely low partner count women the same age as you. Even in degenerate leftist cities.

If you want someone to talk to or advice a few guys on here offered and I'm offering too. Women or job stuff.

[ - ] throwawayaccount 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 01:40:49 ago (+0/-0)

I have zero interest in women with a body count greater than 0. I have no interest in talking to them, no interest in dating them, no interest in starting a family with them, anything.

I do not care about women so much as I care about not being able to start a family. It is not the same thing. Women mean nothing to me. Not having a family is a bit demoralizing but is not stopping me.

This site actually helped me come up with the resolve I needed to save money, quit my bullshit wage slave job, and sign up for the electrical program at a local trade school. Hopefully in 12-15 months I will have that finished, and in 3-4 years I will have my journeyman's electrician license. Provided that inflation does not eat up my funds faster than a part time job can replenish them.

Right now the greatest prospect I can see in my life is being a cautionary tale to young men in their teens and early 20s who are lost as I once was.

[ - ] SecretHitler 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 01:57:06 ago (+0/-0)

You're setting near impossible standards so you don't have to try because you're demoralized. You're not the only one and I'm not saying this to attack you but it's fairly obvious. And it makes sense because you've been through it, I totally understand that. But you should also understand it's your duty to not give up on being a man, to put it bluntly. What you're describing is not manly.

Aside from that good job with the electrician stuff, it's a solid trade. One of my few friends who I've ever heard name the jew irl is an electrician and an awesome guy. He's doing well for himself and his family.

[ - ] throwawayaccount 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 02:06:52 ago (+0/-0)

I think you're completely wrong. It took me this long to stop being demoralized and go out of my way to get my life on track and improve my standards of living.
I could've gone on being a miserable wage slave instead.
Telling me that I believe I "Don't have to try" is fucking bullshit when I just admitted to trying to fix the mess I got myself into.
I'm not setting near impossible standards, I'm just accepting the reality of modern day society. Or perhaps you mean that being interested in a woman with 0 sexual partners is an impossible standard? In which case, I absolutely agree. But I still hold this value and you will not change my mind on it. Because I should not have to settle for any less because modern women have decided to become whores.

[ - ] SecretHitler 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 02:18:20 ago (+0/-0)

That first paragraph was only about the women part. I think you're doing just fine career wise and better than lots of guys. You should have seen some of the shit jobs I did when I was 22/23 and I'm doing awesome now. Stay motivated but you're by no means a cautionary tale.

[ - ] knightwarrior41 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:02:17 ago (+0/-0)

ok i see your point but remember you are not alone in this

[ - ] throwawayaccount 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:25:07 ago (+0/-0)

Once I got through the rampant hormones of teenage/early 20s and beyond the embarrassment/emasculation part of it, it was very easy to accept my situation and it no longer bothers me. I'd rather be a tale of warning to the people 5-6 years younger than me in the same situation I was previously in. Mostly about not taking bad advice and just jumping into a decent career field without thinking about it and adjusting rather than being overly cautious about the costs.

We all know our birth rates are rapidly declining. Feminism is destroying dating/marriage prospects more than lost causes like myself are.
I don't need to be reminded I'm not alone because I nonstop hear from coworkers how awful their relationships are going. Hell, my supervisor at the job I just quit fell into mega depression because his wife of 9 years divorced him and he lost everything he had.

[ - ] Gowithit 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:36:41 ago (+0/-0)

Damn I guess I jumped the gun. I sent you a private message while I guess you were giving a q&a . Let me start reading.

[ - ] deleted 2 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:04:24 ago (+2/-0)*

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[ - ] throwawayaccount 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:29:15 ago (+0/-0)

I don't use social media because I see it as a cancer and a woman who is heavily involved in social media (basically all of them) are a huge red flag because that's the #1 way they window shop while spending their time with you.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 01:36:57 ago (+0/-0)*

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[ - ] throwawayaccount 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 01:42:14 ago (+0/-0)

Women with shitty family relationships usually have issues.
I wish I could've told my horny 17 year old self that before I got involved with girls I shouldn't have. Good thing I never committed or stuck my dick in crazy. Too may red flags.
At the same time, probably why I got cheated on. Whores can't wait.

[ - ] 1Icemonkey 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:20:22 ago (+0/-0)

Find a church group.

[ - ] throwawayaccount 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:28:13 ago (+0/-0)

I don't fit well with church groups because I'm atheist and I can't stand people who will swear up and down every single event in the world is the result of some invisible force that refuses to make himself known.
Even more annoying is people who will discredit everything you/they do as the work of God. What I mean by this is people who will go out of their way to absolutely bust their ass to make ends meet only to go "thank God I was able to accomplish X" despite the fact all the work was on their own back.

This explanation might be a little shit and I'm willing to discuss further but I'm drunk as fuck.

Just know that if a God decides to come to Earth and announce himself I'm good to say that's legit but until that happens I'm firmly under the thought process that I cannot believe in abstract, absurdist claims with 0 proof to back it up.

If you want a further conversation on the topic, just ask and I'll enjoy discussing it with you.

[ - ] Tsar 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:50:31 ago (+1/-1)

I'll take you up on your offer of discussion.

He already came to Earth and showed himself. His name is Jesus. But being an atheist, how do you believe all of this was created?

[ - ] throwawayaccount 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 01:05:23 ago (+0/-0)

Jesus is, at best, a man who exposed the Jewish lie and got crucified for it.
As for how I believe this was created, I believe it was genuinely, a cosmic accident. A beautiful, perfect scenario in which life was able to blossom into what it is today over billions of years.

Not necessarily big bang theory, but something that took a very long time of constant growth and evolution.

Even if there is a God/Creator, I do not believe he created our universe and life as we know it. At most I believe you could reasonably argue that a creator put the components necessary for our creation together but did not necessarily create life/the universe directly. More like we were an adverse/unplanned result/reaction.

Once again, if a God comes down to this planet and starts doing undeniable miracles/deity tier things, I will not deny its existence.
I can just say for certain, based on the world in its current state and my own (as well as modern documentation's) experiences, there is zero evidence for the existence of any sort of God/creator. In fact, more so the opposite.

Logic dictates that extreme claims require evidence, not the other way round. Burden of proof is on creationists/religions, not on atheists.

Compounding this with the idea that you have to be very firm in your belief that your specific God is the correct one. Over human history, hundreds if not thousands of Gods have been named. Many of whom's followings dictate the worship of others to be wrong/evil/sinful. You have to extreme conviction and balls to be able to tell billions of people from around the world that "no, you're wrong, and I am right." for this to be the case.

Even with that all said, do not mistake me for agnostic. From my experiences of this world, I cannot believe any God exists that created it. At least not one that gives any shits about us or has any knowledge of us. Because to believe a creator would put us here and allow our circumstances to be as awful as they are seems incredibly cruel.

[ - ] Tsar 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 01:41:59 ago (+0/-0)

Thanks for a thorough response.
Jesus was prophesied hundreds of years before he came. All but one of his disciples were martyred. Do you think that they would die a horrible death over a lie? Not one denied him after they had received the Holy Spirit.

You say that the burden of proof is on the creationists, yet atheists falsely claim that science and evolution prove their claims. When else has something been created from nothing? When else has life come from non-life? Evolution, when put under the microscope, fails. Look at the human body. There is no way that can happen by accident.

As for your last part. GOD's ways are not our ways and HIS thoughts are not ours. I am unable to understand why GOD has done it this way. But, I must trust since HE is perfect, that this is the best way.

[ - ] throwawayaccount 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 02:03:48 ago (+0/-0)

The fundamental rationale of atheism is that you do not know/cannot prove. It's similar to agnosticism but not the same.

Anybody can come up with a story of a mysterious stranger who will save everyone hundreds of years before they arrive. It's done all the time. The stories of heroes and larger that life men capable of impossible feats is as old as man itself.

Science and evolution are not false proof of claims. They are the best proof we have. There is zero proof of God. The only proof we have are books that are thousands of years old that claim he is real and claim people have seen him yet only in very small pockets of the world to very few people. Science and evolution are based off real-world observations anyone in the world can make at any time.

I think it's super convenient that God and angels were very active in visiting people in ancient times before cameras/microphones were invented. For someone who took such an active role for the first 4,000 years (I think the bible chronologically dictates the world only existed around 6,000 years total?) has been totally absent the last 2,000.

The burden of proof lies on creationists because extraordinary claims require evidence. Atheists make no claims other than "God is not real because there is no evidence beyond books that say he is real and in themselves justify their truths as because god said so"
This is a logical fallacy that dates back to the era of Aristotle. Hundreds of years before Christ came to be.

Once again, you'd be hard pressed to find an atheist that would deny the existence of God if an angel came down before them and said "God is real, here is a display of his power" but that never happens.

Your claim that God is perfect is problematic to me. The reason why is because if he is perfect, why are so many of his creations imperfect? Are vestigial traits part of some sort of planned obsolescence? What about things like the laryngeal nerve? Did he just fuck up and decide "oops, well, too late to fix it now?" What about carbon dating and other sciences that prove the Earth is way older than the bible claims it is?
Stories like Noah's arc which are literally impossible?
The fact that all humans descended from 2 humans which makes us all inbred despite the fact we know inbreeding leads to inevitable destruction?

Even if you say the bible is all false there is too much you cannot account for.

When else has life come from non-life
To our knowledge, it only occurs on our planet. Of what we can observe. What we can observe is very tiny in comparison to the rest of the universe. To say life does not exist elsewhere is foolish as elsewhere is too large to even comprehend. What if we discover life and it does not believe in your God?
When else has something been created from nothing
Atheists do not generally believe this, and if they do, tell them they are very stupid atheists. Generally, we believe that by matter of sheer cosmic accident, all the right conditions were met for life to begin. Atoms came together to form molecules which came together in just the right way for bacteria to form which over billions of years evolved through many forms of natural selection to become a massive variety of species. Evidence for this is as obvious as looking at why their are whites and why there are niggers. Melanin protects from the sun's harmful radiation. Niggers have high melanin. Niggers come from areas that are exposed to more sun.

Look at the human body. There is no way that can happen by accident.
Because it didn't. It happened through many billions of years of natural selection. In which the best traits of survival led to creatures breeding genes more suited to survival.
What happened by accident were single celled organisms which live, consume, and die by the billions (maybe even trillions) on a daily basis. They have no complex functions. In the case of humans, single celled organisms formed groups, then systems, then organs, over billions of generations to become what a human is today. Much the same way humans went from hunter gatherers to industrial nations in thousands of years. Microscopic vs macroscopic.

Returning again to the claim "When has something been created from nothing."
Given the cyclical nature of life/death, I'd say it's reasonable to believe most atheists believe everything was always here and always will be here. Cycling between states of life and death. But also, this logic can be applied backwards to your God. What created him? Did he create himself? Is there a God God? If so, what created it? Is there a God God God? How far does it go?

Belief in religion is just that, belief. It requires you accept stories you are told and believe them.

I know that nothing I say will likely convince you of my view point or convert you. People who are set in their ways are set in their ways.
But I'd just like to offer/share the view point of most atheists. Atheism is more of a belief on skepticism due to lack of proof.

I'd like to end on a final note that I've noticed some Theists don't seem to understand. Atheists do not read evolutionary/scientific/atheist texts and believe in them as if they are flawless masterworks like bibles/religious texts. We regularly disagree with each other and have constant debates. I found this was one really difficult boundary to break with my own family who genuinely believed I followed atheist texts the same way they follow the bible.

[ - ] 1Icemonkey 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 12:00:55 ago (+0/-0)

Ok, how about volunteering at a conservative based charity? You’ll meet good wholesome people in a place like that.

[ - ] Her0n 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:48:01 ago (+0/-0)

Didn't find my wife until I hit 28, she is 6 years my junior.

[ - ] Sleazy 1 point 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:15:52 ago (+1/-0)

I love all of them

[ - ] SecretHitler 1 point 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 01:38:12 ago (+1/-0)

So sleazy

[ - ] Thatguy 1 point 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:48:27 ago (+1/-0)

I do.

[ - ] PeckerwoodPerry 1 point 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:22:24 ago (+1/-0)

My wife is my best friend and I love her completely.

[ - ] germ22 1 point 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:04:08 ago (+1/-0)

I would... if i HAD ONE.

[ - ] gimpyoldman 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 09:33:07 ago (+0/-0)

Married 30 years, still feels like I won the lottery.

[ - ] PearofAnguishJuniorManager 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 07:19:47 ago (+0/-0)

I’ve been married for 21 years, we’ve never had an argument.

[ - ] Her0n 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:49:22 ago (+0/-0)

She's the first and only person with whom I could carry a conversation.

She's one of the most intelligent women I've met, glad she's my partner.

[ - ] paul_neri 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 02:02:59 ago (+0/-0)*

She sounds kinda wasted on you - no offense.

[ - ] Her0n 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 06:31:06 ago (+0/-0)

Saying "no offence" doesn't make your offensive statement neutral.

I bring her everything she's ever wanted and treat her with respect, and she does the same for me.

Try not to be too envious, you green-blooded shekel grubber

[ - ] Tsar 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 3, 2022 00:31:27 ago (+0/-0)

I am blessed to have my wife. She is truly a gift from GOD and we treat each other as such.
Proverbs 18:22

[ - ] DukeofRaul 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:37:55 ago (+1/-1)

I fucked your gf paradoxical003

[ - ] SecretHitler 0 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:26:58 ago (+0/-0)

Last time a woman said she loved me I blocked her lol

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 2.9 yearsAug 2, 2022 23:25:51 ago (+0/-1)

Me albeit she is eccentric to the point of it being a mental illness. Still...but for her I'd be a bum in the gutter.