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What do I do?

submitted by Rowdybme to whatever 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:28:49 ago (+10/-4)     (whatever)

I am 42 years old. I am married and have 7 kids. I like to think I have raised them right. I am a very average looking male. Most of my marriage I was the sole bread winner. I come from a very wealthy family. However, lately I decided to swap roles and give my wife a chance to work and I would stay at home and raise kids. I have all the money i will ever need from a trust fund. Here is the problem, my wife is smoking ass hot and when she went to work I thought she would fail and come home with her tail tucked between her legs. Instead within months she was general manager and now she is district manager and making more money than I did as an IT professional with a degree. Now she is being lippy and bossy. Tonight we literally got into an argument because sheets weren't washed. I was like wtf is going on here. The only reason she has any job is because I guided her and wrote her resume and also gave her interview advice. Anyway it's not all bad. Like i said she is a smokeshow. She gives me sex and blowjobs whenever I want. However I ain't having some bitch fight with me over washed sheets. What should i do? Just be a good little cuck and let my wife run the show or man up and fuckin stop this shit? It's out of control. I thought she would work for like 2 months and wanna be pampered again. Now she is making great money and I can't even tell her not to spend it on stupid shit like women always do.


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[ - ] enormousatom 7 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 08:43:38 ago (+8/-1)

If you're that well off, just pay someone to clean the fucking house. Not some beaner though. Find you a not-so-attractive white lady to clean the house, pay them a good wage, and get out of the house with the kids while she does it. Then no one has to fight over fucking sheets. If the fighting continues after this, then it was never about the sheets.

[ - ] Hermes 3 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 11:54:48 ago (+3/-0)

nah, I would say get some hot bitch to make her self-conscious and get her to leave her job and get back in the house.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 22:44:34 ago (+0/-0)

Step 1. Find a hot bitch.

[ - ] Thatguy 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 17, 2022 06:43:36 ago (+1/-0)

This is a red flag, check yourself.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 18:44:40 ago (+0/-0)

I was just a Lil drunk last night. What really happened was we were watching a movie and eating some take out on the bed. She spilled ranch on the sheets. When she went to grab a new sheet there weren't any clean ones. So she started bitching. When I started yelling it's her fault for spilling the shit. She got mad and told me to leave. My drunk brain was livid. As far as chores. I make the kids do pretty much everything except for yard work. I pick up trash and shit but yeah drunk me at 4am was just being dramatic.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:34:43 ago (+0/-0)

We have 2 houses and one of the houses we do have a maid. They dont do laundry though. The argument was more about me bitching at her for spilling ranch. But the fact she even started bitching about not having a clean sheet set my dumb drunk brain off.

[ - ] gimpyoldman 5 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 11:43:08 ago (+5/-0)

You fucked up. Now she's a big boss at work having everybody jump when she says Boo! and is coming home with the same mindset and treating you like an employee. You have to set your boundaries on her attitude toward you or things will progressively get worse. Women want a man they respect, she no longer sees you as an IT professional and bread winner, but her unemployed house-husband.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 18:46:23 ago (+0/-0)

You are 100 percent correct. That's exactly it. Fortunately I have been the boss for the vast majority of our 20 plus year marriage. So she still has some respect down in there.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus 4 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 09:05:36 ago (+5/-1)

Oh shit, now you fucked up. There is quite literally no winning move here.

[ - ] hammerstrabe 4 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:56:38 ago (+4/-0)

Get a maid

[ - ] paul_neri 4 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:57:05 ago (+5/-1)

If I were you I'd pipe down and hope she doesn't dump you.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] -1 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:09:04 ago (+0/-1)

Hahaha haha. Yeah I get that advice from rl friends

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 4 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:48:25 ago (+4/-0)

Step one: Retrieve your testicles from her purse...

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:59:09 ago (+0/-0)

Laugh all you want. This is a real pickle.

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:07:33 ago (+2/-1)

Step two: Get a real job, not some IT faggot bullshit.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:09:39 ago (+0/-0)

I have a real job. I cook and clean and hold her purse.

[ - ] Thatguy 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 02:37:02 ago (+1/-0)

You have to do admit to yourself you are stupid. Dumbass.

[ - ] Hermes 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 11:46:36 ago (+2/-0)

Well first, I hope your dumbass got a prenuptial agreement, otherwise, she will take your ass to court and game the shit out of you and the system for years until she bleeds you dry and is getting fucked by her lawyer at the same time. So, that may have been your first mistake.

Second, you prioritized smokeshow over a decent human being. You would not have these problems if that was the case and she may have golddug your ass for a passive dude with a trust fund. It sounds like her behavior may be triggered by her newfound authority and losers in the work place simping over her.

You should be commanding of her, in a passive, I have a trust fund and can replace you with some 20 year old slut attitude. She is testing you, consciously or not, to see if she can change you out for a more financially or more attractive mate as she has found that she can manipulate the workforce she has entered.

Also, you mentioned IT, filled with soy boy, workout losers that simp like no tomorrow. So big mistake there, putting your wife into that profession instead of something more related to homestead, family care, animal care etc.

My advice, would be to ignore her commands and do what you want. If the trust is big, you have "go fuck yourself money" and should not be dazed about sheets. Be like, well guess I will hire some maid to clean the house while you are gone. Get some hot young latina to come clean the house while she is there or not. You need to express, without verbalizing it like some bitch, that you have money and don't give a fuck if she leaves or not. You are the prize, not some IT working female that is getting simped over by nerds.

So, be a calm passive male with a huge trust fund that can get some 20 year old to suck him off while he pays for her lifestyle and a nanny that can take care of his kids and a maid that can try to fuck him and does his laundry for him while giving limited alimony to some working bitch mother of your children. That will make her chase you like no other, my man. Btiches only work if they need to. In this case she is working for power/desire.

So there you go, that is my advice. You got money, that bitch got looks that will be fading in the next decade and her eggs will soon be dried up. You got sperm and can hopefully impregnate and start a new family for the next 20-30 years.

Peace and remember to start working out now, dieting and hitting the gym. Start reading, meditating and taking care of yourself. That will make you more physically attractive and emotionally secure. Build your life up again, she is only there to compliment it.

How it should always be, until both individuals love, care and respect each other.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:04:38 ago (+0/-0)

I was overreacting. But it is true this dynamic is very bad for your masculinity. Thought I was gonna teach her a lesson about working. It backfired. Not much I can say.

[ - ] mongre 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 09:23:38 ago (+2/-0)

Not to sound cliché but


Do you even lift, bro?

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 18:47:59 ago (+0/-0)

Nope. I tried for a while. But I hate working out. I'm not fat and my wife claims she hates muscular dudes.

[ - ] enormousatom 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 08:46:53 ago (+2/-0)

Also... Why are you so offended by the people that aren't attracted to your wife? That's a weird ass stance to take in this case. Why would you give a shit if they are or not?

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 18:47:02 ago (+0/-0)*

Someone insults your wife. Yeah no.man has ever been offended by that. Especially when I know she is hotter than anything any of you fools have ever pulled.

[ - ] enormousatom 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 11:46:37 ago (+0/-0)

Someone saying they aren't attracted to your wife is not an insult unless you're checking her out, dude. You might want to cut back on the drinking. Sounds like more of the problem than anything else.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 17, 2022 21:07:12 ago (+0/-0)*

Yeah it's an insult. If you aren't attracted to.someones wife u zip ur lip like a normal person. If you decide to make some snotty comment. Then expect one back. I'm not attracted to flat chested muscular women like most of you guys who don't like big tits and makeup. But do I call you homos? No I keep my mouth shut and let you like ur women who look like little boys.

[ - ] enormousatom 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 18, 2022 17:49:59 ago (+0/-0)

For all that money, you have caused yourself a tough life.

[ - ] FreeinTX 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:08:18 ago (+3/-1)

You couldn't stop it if you tried, fool.

You're the bitch now.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:10:48 ago (+0/-0)

Yeah. I fucked up man. At least she still likes sex.

[ - ] deleted 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:44:15 ago (+2/-0)

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[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:50:24 ago (+0/-0)

Yeah. I'm just venting. It's just insane how the world works now. She isn't and never would be vaccinated but ever other jew ploy to corrupt a woman she is hook line and sinker

[ - ] RecycledElectrons 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:32:55 ago (+2/-0)

The mother of your 7 kids is smoking hot?

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:37:40 ago (+0/-0)

Yup. Sounds crazy. But she is. No stretch marks. Nothing. Smoking hot.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:55:23 ago (+0/-0)

https://files.catbox.moe/oe1u8u.jpg this is her at age 38 after 7 kids

[ - ] UncleDoug 6 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 09:42:00 ago (+7/-1)

You married a beaner with a face like cher and gave her plastic bolt-ons, lol bro.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 18:49:52 ago (+0/-0)

A beaner? She's fucking Irish English ancestry.

[ - ] UncleDoug 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 03:09:43 ago (+1/-0)

Bro, thats not Irish, she is pulling a fast one on you.

Seriously what a wanker, bragging about your old wife to anonymous 20-year-olds online.

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 15:26:02 ago (+1/-0)

This faggot has no self respect. Or he wouldn’t be posting pictures of his wife online. Regardless of her looks. He deserves nothing but scorn. I hope she leaves him for a real chad.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 15:37:00 ago (+0/-0)

U ain't a Chad. That's for sure. You probably a an obese slob who has never got his dick wet once. Zit faced Virgin loser boy.

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 19:42:12 ago (+0/-0)

Uhuh. At least I don't type like a 13 year old girl on tumbler. Your insults are also pretty weak.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 17, 2022 03:15:36 ago (+0/-0)

Inly your faggot ass knows what a 13 year old girl on tumbler sounds like gay wad

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 18, 2022 02:07:40 ago (+0/-0)

you blind and/or stupid. No wonder you like that fat hog beast who won't talk to you. You can't see you're too fat and ugly to get laid

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 18:59:50 ago (+0/-0)

Yeah a beaner and looks like Cher. What u got a giant fat hog beast? 39 and 7 kids later she looks like this. https://files.catbox.moe/9y90gk.jpg

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:47:29 ago (+0/-0)

Lol you are a an active member on thot patrol. That just means you an old salty dog who can't get any pussy or ur gay. So you hate on women who do feminine things like wear makeup.

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 15:21:42 ago (+0/-0)

Looks like a disgusting whore. With fake tittes.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 15:35:26 ago (+0/-0)

Pfft. You ain't had pussy since pussy had you faggot.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 17, 2022 03:19:52 ago (+0/-0)

Looks like a woman with a vagina. Nothing u will ever have lover. Hahahhaha

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 5 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:09:12 ago (+6/-1)

Gross

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:12:32 ago (+0/-0)

Lemme guess u either never had pussy or you one of them dudes who prefers muscular women

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:14:53 ago (+2/-1)

Says the guy whos only post on here is asking for help with his marriage. Pathetic and unmanly.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:19:58 ago (+0/-0)

Let me guess. You are a 60 year old man whose wife left him 25 years ago for a jew. Now he is bitter. Wtf is this place for? To listen to fools like u complain about 2020 election fraud and complain about how women have tattoos now? I been drinking and was a little upset. I got some funny advice from others. You just an old salty dog

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:30:22 ago (+2/-0)

You can make whatever assumptions you want about me. I'm not the little bitch putting his personal business online.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:34:09 ago (+0/-0)

Like I give a flying fuck. I ain't t ever gonna meet or see any of you ever. But I accomplished my goal. I vented and got a couple laughs. You probably sitting there all paranoid thinking glowniggers give 2 shits about you and ur pathetic life.

[ - ] Thyhorrorcosmic103 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:37:57 ago (+1/-0)

Ok degenerate.

[ - ] deleted -1 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:43:30 ago (+0/-1)

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[ - ] Hermes 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 11:57:32 ago (+2/-0)

hate to break it to you buddy, but she is wearing a pound of makeup there and looks like she is one menopause away from ballooning. The fat cheeks don't lie.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:03:04 ago (+0/-0)

Here she took this picture for u with 0 makeup and hair not done. Only faggots don't like women wearing makeup. https://files.catbox.moe/jfi64q.jpg

[ - ] paul_neri 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:58:29 ago (+1/-0)

big boobs too!

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:59:55 ago (+1/-0)

Yeah I paid a lot for those

[ - ] Gowithit 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 15:28:39 ago (+1/-0)

Sucks.my kid made me buy that Shane dawson crap too.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:23:04 ago (+0/-0)

Hahaha. Yeah my wife and kids like him. Shit makes me cringe

[ - ] paul_neri -1 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:02:33 ago (+0/-1)

damn! Fakes!

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:05:28 ago (+0/-0)

Well I tell you what. They did under the muscle and the doctor left no stitch marks. Hard to even tell. Plus it was literally 15 years ago

[ - ] Ozark 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:00:15 ago (+1/-0)

Not a smoke show but she would do to cum in.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:01:00 ago (+1/-0)

That was the best modest picture I could find on my camera roll.

[ - ] lord_nougat 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 12:59:31 ago (+0/-0)

Share the immodest ones!

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:36:33 ago (+1/-0)

Maybe after a few drinks tonight. I don't know u fools. I'm sure it will never come back to bite me in the ass ever.

[ - ] lord_nougat 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:42:50 ago (+0/-0)

Indeed!

You can trust us. We have trustworthy faces!

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 23:31:57 ago (+0/-0)

If this gets 5 up votes I will throw down a lingerie pic. Because Satan told.me to.

[ - ] lord_nougat 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 00:22:39 ago (+0/-0)

Bro. We don't actually want to see you in lingerie.

But thanks anyway, I guess.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 00:38:27 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 06:04:17 ago (+0/-0)

Also that's unedited. Every Instagram model you see is photo shopped. That's just an old ass lady after 7 kids.

[ - ] bobdole9 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 16:23:19 ago (+1/-0)

Similar position, usually the bitching over something miniscule has nothing to do with the reason for the bitching.

Start lifting. Consider it a backup plan if shit goes south.

Make her list shit out. No bitching allowed if its not on the list.

If all that doesn't work, if she says something literally retarded, I leave her alone for a few days. Let her think how she fucked up.

[ - ] MrDarkWater 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 14:29:39 ago (+1/-0)

you tried to go against nature. Now you are feeling the friction. The only fix is to get back to your natural dynamic.

Figure out how to do that.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:45:57 ago (+0/-0)

We have 2 houses next to each other. One 3000 Sq ft and one 5000 square ft. So I'm plenty busy around here doing upkeep. Keeping all our electronics pools jot tubs yards cars is almost a full time job by itself. Not to mention I'm better at raising these kids into good white people than her. But yeah it's a bad dynamic. I threw the dice and lost. Luckily the vast majority of our 20 plus history was me making the bread. Ima have to start a business. Anyone got any good ideas who need financial backing? I have a lot of ideas but it's hard to motivate yourself when you don't need anything

[ - ] MrDarkWater 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 02:29:42 ago (+0/-0)

Construction in Texas. Otherwise idk

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 17, 2022 21:12:00 ago (+0/-0)

Well that's where I live.

[ - ] albatrosv15 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 13:43:06 ago (+1/-0)

7 kids? That's already enough to make them work. Sweet child labor.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:13:08 ago (+0/-0)

My 3 oldest daughters work with her. My 3 sons work for me at the house. Kinda weird but it works as long as u like ur normally submissive wife getting bossy now

[ - ] PotatoWhisperer 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 13:36:42 ago (+1/-0)

She will now be on the lookout for men who make more money and are higher in the "hierarchy" than you. Letting her get a job, in a job market designed around giving women do-nothing high-wage jobs, was a huge mistake.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 21:39:17 ago (+0/-0)

I keep my bitch in check even if she is the one getting the check

[ - ] deleted 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 13:12:21 ago (+1/-0)

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[ - ] albatrosv15 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 13:44:37 ago (+0/-0)

Yep. Pretty sure if op won't fix this, she will be banging other men.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 22:41:44 ago (+0/-0)

Like I tell her. You wanna fuck someone else. Just let me know. The bad part is getting cheated on and lied to and not knowing

[ - ] lord_nougat 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 12:58:07 ago (+1/-0)

DO A FLIP!

[ - ] WanderingToast 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 11:15:04 ago (+1/-0)

Yea that can happen.

Realign the power dynamic so she understands that despite bringing in shekles, you are still in charge

[ - ] NeonGreen 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 09:44:33 ago (+1/-0)

Root that bitches phone. Keep a log of all her activity. Aquire a private lawyer and private bank accounts.

Best to prepare for war and then enjoy peace then get fucking blind sided by her stepping out.


If you're really an IT person getting a paid for rootkit on her device should be cake. Monitor it all.

Enjoy the sex and it try not to be a cock to her. @Rowdybme she might really love you, you dumb shit.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:10:20 ago (+0/-0)

Two of my daughters work for her too. If she cheating on me with any of the fans at her work she must be doing really good at hiding it.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 19:32:03 ago (+0/-0)

We been together since we were 17 and have 7 kids. I'm pretty sure she loves me. As far as fucking someone else. It's possible but she claims she would never. We have had our ups and downs and the marriage hasn't been perfect. But I was mostly just drunk batching and reddit and poal both have me banned. So I decided to talk to you fools

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 16, 2022 01:46:47 ago (+0/-0)

BTW how do I root her phone? I am in IT but I have never done that. I am pretty sure you have to know her password and be in her phone. We did the u gotta know each others password shit 10 years ago. Not now. She stays out of mine and I stay out of hers

[ - ] NeonGreen 0 points 1.8 yearsJul 17, 2022 06:40:43 ago (+0/-0)

Well figure it out man. Yes that would be ideal to not alert the subject.

[ - ] grogoo 1 point 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:46:33 ago (+2/-1)

Just be the jew you are and cuck her out to some niggers.

[ - ] Rowdybme [op] 2 points 1.8 yearsJul 15, 2022 05:47:59 ago (+2/-0)

I normally don't take bad advice from virgins. But go on....