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I'm becoming a stay at home dad and I'm not sure I like it

submitted by WanderingToast to whatever 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 05:34:33 ago (+22/-1)     (whatever)

Be me
Reformed womaniser - good looking (apparently)
Meet some chick
She's a student doing her masters after a 12 year break from education
She attends an art uni
Masters is in something I'm still not entirely convinced is an actual thing
She's got some sjw leanings - but not a lost cause yet
I'm gonna red pill her while dicking her down
2 of my favourite things.
Her dad's a communist - it just gets better - kek

The red pills take, times are good.
Despite communist dad - family is also hard core Catholic (Jesuit no less)
Her body count could be counted on a mine victims hand - all relationships too.

She finishes her Masters in bullshit and I suggest she just move in with me.
I am da provider - as it should be -
Living the trad life dream. She's more of a mum to my other kids than their bio mum to boot!
Fast forward and we get married cos she wants to squeeze out a baby
1 more blue eyed baby added to the ranks (baby ahead of every curve - good genes win)

Then wife gets headhunted.
We both decide stranger should not watch baby - she wants to be a mum
I drop some days at work so she can do this little side gig

But now that's snowballed. Offers left and right.
And now she's only accepting work that fits around her schedule (which is also my work schedule) and at the going market rate.

My face when this bitch earns in a day what I make in a week
All while working to her own timetable and schedule from where she wants.

I still pay for roof and taxes etc.
But it can't be escaped that everyday I go to work, I'm costing the family money.

I don't want to be feckless - she knows this, but at same time, paying to go to work is somewhat retarded.

What do?


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[ - ] SulemanSeinfeld 17 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 06:07:59 ago (+18/-1)

I won't bore you with the details but I was able to "retire" & start working for myself, from home when I was in my mid 30's after a brutal divorce. My son was young. Skip ahead 15-20 years and now he's an engineer.

You staying home is better than her staying home.

[ - ] deleted 14 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 05:55:56 ago (+14/-0)

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[ - ] Mopsink 10 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 06:52:46 ago (+11/-1)

Reading through the comments I can see that in your own words you "Know the true nature of women".

So I will not rehash that, instead I'll just leave a word of caution. If you decide to proceed with leaving your position as the primary bread winner of the family that puts you in a point of subservience to her. When that occurs you'll need to very quickly make it clear that while yes she is making the money you can still provide her necessary needs of provision and protection. I suggest this by obtaining hobbies to continue to make yourself interesting along with continuing to keep yourself in shape and good health.

[ - ] Broc_Liath 3 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 09:15:42 ago (+3/-0)

When that occurs you'll need to very quickly make it clear that while yes she is making the money you can still provide her necessary needs of provision and protection. I suggest this by obtaining hobbies to continue to make yourself interesting along with continuing to keep yourself in shape and good health.

Wise words

[ - ] deleted 6 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 06:07:06 ago (+6/-0)

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[ - ] The_odd_couple 3 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 07:57:06 ago (+3/-0)

Yeah I'm fucking jealous. No job means writing a book or programming a video game.

[ - ] GoyimNose_1948 5 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 08:42:14 ago (+5/-0)

Your wife's Onlyfans is really paying off.

[ - ] SparklingWiggle 3 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 09:17:35 ago (+3/-0)

Is the money worth the change in lifestyle? Will it make you better people? Happier people? The money she makes may not be a good thing.

[ - ] Broc_Liath 2 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 09:14:27 ago (+2/-0)

What do?

What's her take on all this? If you do decide to stay home to support her work it's going to mean she won't see as much of the kids as a normal mother. Is she prepared for that?

If so and you're ok with it I'd say go for it. Save money and homeschool the kids. Teach them everything you wish you'd known when you were younger.

[ - ] yesiknow 2 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 08:52:21 ago (+2/-0)

The recession in 1980 meant all the funding for feminist programming disappeared. People hd more mortgage than house values and women were being laid off more than men an working for shitty low wages. Keep your skills up.

[ - ] fightknightHERO 2 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 07:28:18 ago (+2/-0)

Actually a swell idea
Stay with the kids and work from home
No need to deal with masked Bolsheviks or other stupid kikery
Even if you feel less manly that your wife makes more shekels than you do

Remember that pride is a sin and its better to be humble and poor
Than rich and arrogant

I hope that wife of yours can be trusted, communist dad sounds jewish ancestry to me...

[ - ] Psychicrussiaspy 2 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 07:19:48 ago (+2/-0)

Stay home .I raised my son alone and it was the most rewarding thing I ever did . His mother was a narcissist so I threw her out

[ - ] scoopadoop 1 point 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 10:58:21 ago (+1/-0)

Be the stay at home dad. no brainer. but you don't have to be a pussy. you will be responsible for teaching the kids and making them strong. You will have the freedom to pursue side projects and other jobs that make you happy instead of money. lots of time for hobbies. fortify your childrens minds against the gayness this world is trying to force on them.

Redefine what it means to be a stay at home dad. you have a huge opportunity before you.

My mom made more than my dad but both worked full time. you can have an even better set up than my parents had.

[ - ] beece 1 point 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 09:06:33 ago (+1/-0)

I had made enough money and had a side gig buying fixing and flipping houses. I asked my wife who was making decent $cratch and she said, as long as you pay your half of the bills I'm good with it. So I took off two years when my kids were little (like 3 and 5/6). It was the best 2 years ever....ever. I did miss that feeling of work, of success. But the kids make up for that. When they went to school I went back at it.

[ - ] Cunt 1 point 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 08:19:25 ago (+2/-1)

Stay at home mum is pretty awesome. Stefan Molyneaux loves being a stay at home dad.

What is her career or job or industry?

My side hussles aren't doing terrible well for me at the moment and I'm looking for ways to make more shekels.

[ - ] Broc_Liath 2 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 09:17:34 ago (+2/-0)

Stefan Molyneaux loves being a stay at home dad.

I think I'd love it. Men used to work closer to the home/in the home and kids had more daily contact with them. The idea of commuting every day and only seeing your family in the evenings is a new one, and not a good one.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 19:09:52 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] enormousatom 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 15:43:44 ago (+0/-0)

Manage her business for her. Make it your (our) business and the family business. Get involved in that so she doesn't get "muh docked" by some nigger client.

[ - ] Unreasonable 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 14:55:23 ago (+0/-0)

Been a STAHD for 3 years ama.

[ - ] FalseRealityCheck 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 14:46:29 ago (+0/-0)

She will eventually lose all respect for you and you will for yourself. My words will hit home the day you find yourself cleaning up her bedroom after she spent all weekend having an orgy with niggers.

I know several couples in your situation and in every one of them the man is subservient to the woman — and resentful of his situation. Only one manned up and divorced his bitch, but the rest remain simpped because they need to "maintain their successful lifestyle".

On the other hand, based on the description of the lifestyle you've led this may be good for you.

[ - ] pickingrinninspittin 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 14:13:55 ago (+0/-0)

The criteria should be what's best for the kid.

I tried the stay-at-home dad thing for a year. It was not for me and I don't think I was doing the kids any favors either.

In short Dads aren't mothers. I mean if the chick fucks off and you have to step up then you do what you have to do. But if it's a choice then, well, it's not a slam dunk IMO.

[ - ] thebearfromstartrack4 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 13:27:22 ago (+0/-0)

Your OBVIOUSLY a stupid fag. So kill yourself. I think that's the best course, take your liberal insurgents with you. Clean up your own mess. RESPONSBILITY. Comes WITH authority.

[ - ] Cantaloupe 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 12:38:52 ago (+0/-0)

You still should create an income; however not necessarily from the same sources as before.

Both your incomes provide bargaining power. So consider what is the least you can do to create the most money.

If she knows she can quit working at anytime and still cover cost of basic needs, that takes a lot of pressure off, and allows one to take risks for even more money.

Everyone has the risk of a long term disability, making them unable to work.

While watching kids is very time consuming, spend some time thinking of new income sources.

Try to get your own business running so you have direct access to customers money. It should not include you doing something for customers.





[ - ] lord_nougat 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 12:27:58 ago (+0/-0)

Have you tried turning to drugs, alcohol, and degeneracy? I hear that's fun and cool from some movies I saw.

[ - ] 1Icemonkey 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 11:16:11 ago (+0/-0)

Roll with it.

[ - ] Artificial_Intelligentile 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 11:03:42 ago (+0/-0)

does her job make her happy?

does your job make you happy?

are you able to raise your kids to be good people?

if i were a stay at home dad, i would find ways to make my life worthwile, like writing a book and growing my own food.

yes, money is overrated, but if she works because she knows this enables you to build something marvellous, then you will still be the "man of the house" because you build the dream (a selfsustaining homestead) while she merelly adds the necessary shekels...

maybe this would work

[ - ] ForgottenMemes 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 10:43:43 ago (+0/-0)

Women will never respect you if you swap roles. It's hard wired in them to despise a man who doesn't provide.

Use this as an opportunity to advance your career. Stay at home dad while trying to find a better job is something they can deal with for a few years. And if the relationship crumbles, you'll keep the better job.

[ - ] gimpyoldman 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 10:27:17 ago (+0/-0)

If cave for the money eventually she will lose respect for you. She'll be working around other men with $$ that are paying for her work, and you know they will be hitting on her and asking why she is being loyal to an low-paid or unemployed loser. Or you can be a good little cuck.

[ - ] deleted 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 10:03:47 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] deleted 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 09:37:37 ago (+0/-0)

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[ - ] big_fat_dangus -3 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 05:45:27 ago (+2/-5)

Her body count could be counted on a mine victims hand - all relationships too.

lmao please tell me you don't actually believe this

[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 6 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 05:49:06 ago (+6/-0)

I see you are a stranger to small isolated community Catholic Guilt.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus 1 point 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 05:53:12 ago (+4/-3)

I see you are a stranger to the true nature of women.

[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 8 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 06:02:54 ago (+8/-0)

Anyone else would've gotten a "not every woman is your mother" reply, but I got time for you dangus.

I KNOW the true nature of women, the number of happily married women I've fucked during my womaniser days is testament to that.

Sluts generally require the ability to operate anon. That's why they love the city.

In a place where everyone knows everyone and that kind of thing is frowned upon, and degeneracy is not promoted in the culture but rightfully shamed, it's a little different.

The nature of women is that they are easier to influence than men.

So if degeneracy is promoted it will take. Same goes the other way.

If you think every woman is a slut or a slut waiting to happen I genuinely suggest you go visit some communities that don't stand for that shit.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus -1 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 06:08:06 ago (+2/-3)

That is a cope. You have deluded yourself. Ask your wife for her phone and access to all her apps to check and make sure. Tell me what her reaction is.

[ - ] WanderingToast [op] 8 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 06:16:02 ago (+8/-0)

LoL - I can go through her phone whenever I want. Sometimes if she gets a message while in the other room I will unlock her phone with my fingerprint and read it out to her.

I can access all of her accounts via the family computer on the browser only she uses.

Sounds like you've become a little jaded man. Stay away from that mgtow bullshit, it's fake and gay and pure beta kikery

The natural order is to pair bond - then fuck.

Not everyone has had that subverted.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus -1 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 06:18:38 ago (+2/-3)

Every bitch has ways of keeping her secrets- have fun finding out the hard way.

[ - ] SparklingWiggle 2 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 09:25:36 ago (+2/-0)

You're beyond jaded and your cranky to think anyone could have it another way. There are plenty of women who still have their ability to bond with a man. Whores are those women that ruined themselves and try to replace that which they've lost by getting 'dicked down.' A woman who bonds and is able to feel intimacy will not feel the desire to stray. My wife has no secrets. Thrash about telling me how foolish I am, it has no effect. I'm three decades strong in marriage. Cry more. Try to demoralize more.

[ - ] big_fat_dangus -2 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 10:05:05 ago (+0/-2)

Yes I'm sure you've found a unicorn. Just like every other married schmuck.

[ - ] SparklingWiggle 0 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 16:22:36 ago (+0/-0)

Whoops, you forgot your training and used yiddish.

[ - ] deleted 3 points 2.4 yearsJan 4, 2022 06:14:17 ago (+3/-0)

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