Your dad has figured out the secret to life; he's going to die like everyone else at some point.
You have one option that preserves your ability to live with yourself after he dies, and that's to honour your father as he is. That just means respect him in spite of his assholery. Respect or honor doesn't mean to kiss his ass or buy him pizza.
It's only about how gracious you can be, not how healthy he can be.
Buy him some Vitamin C and leave it at that. Don't fuck up up your memories with your own expectations.
I've read a lot about this one. Its supposed to be an open secrent amongst veterinarians. Search it with cancer as a secondary term aand you'll come up with a lot of reading.
So sorry to hear about your troubles. Maybe you want to share what kind of cancer she has? Ivermectin does have some serious applications for cancer but it would depend on what type. Same with fenbendazole. You would have to research exactly how they are using it for your mom’s type of cancer.
Why don’t you first focus on finding supplements that are recommended for her cancer. Stuff that boosts immune function for example.
Your dad needs love and understanding too. Tell him you need his help by staying in shape and taking care of himself.
“Get your shit together” may not be the best strategy. Get him to promise to walk a mile every day (or even a half mile). Make a contract with him to do this while your mom is dealing with cancer. Ive gotten my dad to do this and I remind him gently to do it 3 or 4 times a week. I also remind him to take his pills alot, including a bunch of supplements I bought for him. Sometimes he whines. Its just something I have to do. Its our job to help them.
I am a believer of supplements/ nutriceuticals etc. I pestered my dad in to taking a few more pills than he would actually like to take but now he says, “you were right, you’re so smart, you’re my favorite daughter”. Well maybe not the last bit.
Good supplements for diabetes are
Berberine cinnamon Chromium Omega 3 fatty acids (ALA, but especially DHA and EPA) Magnesium (oxide sucks, glycinate is good) Vanadium Resveretrol Thiamine Vit D
Maybe it seems like a hassle to take 3 or 4 extra pills a day and spend $30 a month on this shit but it will save you $$ in medical bills and funeral services. Really. Just try one or two of those. I bet theyll make a difference. They may greatly reduce the need for those drugs. Go slow with adding them and check for drug interactions.
Maybe you could add some vitamin A (retinol) to that list for eye health and maybe NAC for its kidney protecting activity. Red wine is better than beer. Green tea is better than coffee.
I also have the old man on one weekly dose of ivermectin (18 mg) for covid prevention and a probiotic yogurt daily because I think it kills off good gut bacteria a bit.
I might give you some recommends for breast cancer supplements and maybe do a little research on ivermectin and fenbendizole on breast cancer. They have definitely used ivermectin with success on breast cancer. Ive researched ivermectin pretty thoroughly for safety and covid, but not really breast cancer. Its a pretty safe drug. It might be helpful to know what type of breast cancer she has if she knows.
Beatus? Try red panex Ginseng extract It cuts blood sugar by 33% (tested on my mother) As for blood pressure, there are a ton of supplements that help with that
As for cancer... If the parasitepilled PDF is correct then a strong anti-viral anti-parasite wormwood extract should get the job done
I remember "the cancer conspiracy" video linked up on old voat. 4 different methods of treating "terminal" cancer. 2 herbal concoctions, 1 diet based, and the last 1 was by an Italian oncologist who used a sodium bicarb and saline mix to treat tumors.
It was on hooktube but the youtube vid got shoah'd.
With that in consideration, in conjunction with that parasite pill pdf, I believe that they both point to the same root cause. Just with varied treatment options.
Keep your care on your mom. Your dad is depressed and cant handle it so he’s killing himself, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give him moral support and let him know you care. But I would not spend time hassling him about his diabetes .
Cancer is a cash cow for hospitals. They will assign 5 or more doctors, each with a different specialty, each prescribing medication to treat a side effect of each other's medication.
My dad had cancer and was an alcoholic. They gave him chemo that destroyed his liver and he spent the remainder of his days on dialysis. Once the liver was destroyed they put him on a different chemo because that other one is known for causing liver damage. Oopsie poopsie, guess they just didn't know alcoholics have weak livers.
Ask a lot of questions about side effects as soon as they say what they plan to use. Remember that at the end of the day YOU decide what treatment you get. The doctors prescriptions and treatment plan are suggestions.
Consider going to the cancer treatment centers, or at least research the oncology results of the hospital you are going to. They all claim to be great cancer treatment hospitals, they are not.
I thought a biopsy only takes a small amount of tissue or whatever to diagnose possible cancers.
Anyway, my relatively worthless advice is to keep reaching out to your dad on occasion and definitely keep trying to help your mom, but do NOT overwhelm yourself. Basically, it is a balance. You still have your life to live.
And while doctors are morons and compromised, don't trust medical advice from other morons on the Internet. Maybe if they have first-hand experience with something being cured by some "miracle bullshit method," but I would be wary of even that.
Tough love ? Sometimes I wonder if there is such a thing. However I also wonder about unconditional love. I think ultimately love is not tough.by definition it is love. So then if you love something do you care for and nurture it or do you just put it outside when it becomes bothersome? I don’t have the answer like I said I just wonder.
I would look into Indole-3-Carbinol, it's from cabbage or broccoli or something. It's known that cruciferous vegetables help fight cancer and this is apparently the part that does it.
You can get caps off amazon and they're cheap, can't hurt. Try this
[ - ] MasterAce 1 point 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 01:09:23 ago (+1/-0)
My advice is learn from their mistakes. If you’re going to advise them try and not say things like “you should do this” and instead say “what I would do is this”. Or “can I help you do this”. Wish I could offer you a cure.
[ - ] oldblo 1 point 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 00:40:26 ago (+1/-0)
I really cant say since so many like to sell false hope. Supposedly various fruits and vegetables are good for cancer. Such as fruit known as graviola, also known as soursop fruit, guanabana, or guyabano. Do things like mulberries really help? Who knows?
Your dad's given up on himself. Remind him to learn to relax and stop eating sweets. Encourage healthy snacks and to exercise regularly. Try to be good company.
As for your mom,Ivermectin has been rumored to have anti-cancer properties and should be safe to use. But in the end,the hardest part of all of this is you have to accept there's somethings you can't change. But always keep an eye out for what you can.
Just relax. Tell them what you think, and how you feel. Then let the cards fall where they lay. They're your parents and their purpose on earth is to show you how to live and coax you into procreating. If you haven't done the latter the former may be an example of how not to live.
[ - ] Cunt 0 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 09:52:40 ago (+0/-0)
I’m sorry I’ve nothing useful to say about your dad.
As for your mother, slice and dice doctors are the best kind, so it’s promising she got some cut out.
Try and get her to not do chemo or radiation, as they kill way more people than cancer does, and faster and more miserably.
I have heard vitamin D is very good for cancer, obviously get as much of the free kind as possible and supplement with an organic, food based vitamin D supplement also.
Get her to eat foods rich in antioxidants. And as clean, organic and raw diet as possible.
Vitamin C is good for every type of ailment in my opinion, and there seems to be no overdose level. Keeping hydrated is also very important for general health and a RO filter would be an excellent addition to her heath plan.
Others have mentioned fasting and apricot seeds which I think are worth looking in to too.
[ - ] Cunt 0 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 18:10:05 ago (+0/-0)
She's very focused on the hair thing, actually.
You can buy special cool caps (like a swimming cap but cooling or just use an ice pack) and the cold on the head has been shown to reduce hair loss a lot but I wouldn’t mention it unless you can’t convince her not to do chemo as knowing that might push her toward it.
Lol
I hope it all goes well, sounds like you really like your parents. Focus on what you can change.
[ - ] Had 0 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 09:01:15 ago (+0/-0)
Parasite medication. Black walnut, wormwood, clove. Ivermectin.
Vitamin b17. Chemo is an attempt to do what b17 does naturally. Eat 2 apricot seeds 5x daily for a few months. It will not harm you. I've been taking smaller doses for weeks with no side effects as a prophylaxis. Anecdotal evidence is how our ancestors figured shit out. People are too interested in the "why" of everything these days, and sometimes just knowing it works should be enough. There no money in a cheap cure, so there's no studies in the shit that actually works.
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[ - ] yesiknow 9 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 00:48:58 ago (+9/-0)
You have one option that preserves your ability to live with yourself after he dies, and that's to honour your father as he is. That just means respect him in spite of his assholery. Respect or honor doesn't mean to kiss his ass or buy him pizza.
It's only about how gracious you can be, not how healthy he can be.
Buy him some Vitamin C and leave it at that. Don't fuck up up your memories with your own expectations.
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Heres a summary. Dont expect to understand all of it. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/labs/pmc/articles/PMC7505114/pdf/main.pdf
Why don’t you first focus on finding supplements that are recommended for her cancer. Stuff that boosts immune function for example.
Your dad needs love and understanding too. Tell him you need his help by staying in shape and taking care of himself.
“Get your shit together” may not be the best strategy. Get him to promise to walk a mile every day (or even a half mile). Make a contract with him to do this while your mom is dealing with cancer. Ive gotten my dad to do this and I remind him gently to do it 3 or 4 times a week. I also remind him to take his pills alot, including a bunch of supplements I bought for him. Sometimes he whines. Its just something I have to do. Its our job to help them.
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You are morphing in to a limey whats going on?
I am a believer of supplements/ nutriceuticals etc. I pestered my dad in to taking a few more pills than he would actually like to take but now he says, “you were right, you’re so smart, you’re my favorite daughter”. Well maybe not the last bit.
Good supplements for diabetes are
Berberine
cinnamon
Chromium
Omega 3 fatty acids (ALA, but especially DHA and EPA)
Magnesium (oxide sucks, glycinate is good)
Vanadium
Resveretrol
Thiamine
Vit D
Here are some suggestions
https://www.amazon.com/Whitakers-Berberine-Supplement-Cholesterol-Concentrated/ (berberine, chromium, cinnamon)
https://www.amazon.com/Source-Naturals-Vanadium-180-Tablets/ (chromioum, vanadium)
https://www.amazon.com/Dr-Whitakers-Triveratrol-Healthy-capsules/ (revasterol, green tea phenols)
https://www.amazon.com/Innate-vitality-Magnesium-Glycinate-500mg/
https://www.amazon.com/Thorne-Research-Concentrated-Supplement-Certified/ (omega 3s)
https://www.amazon.com/NutriFlair-Premium-Berberine-Ceylon-Cinnamon/
https://www.amazon.com/NutriFlair-Cinnamon-Organic-Serving-Capsules/ (cinnamon, chomium, berberine blend)
Maybe it seems like a hassle to take 3 or 4 extra pills a day and spend $30 a month on this shit but it will save you $$ in medical bills and funeral services. Really. Just try one or two of those. I bet theyll make a difference. They may greatly reduce the need for those drugs. Go slow with adding them and check for drug interactions.
Maybe you could add some vitamin A (retinol) to that list for eye health and maybe NAC for its kidney protecting activity. Red wine is better than beer. Green tea is better than coffee.
I also have the old man on one weekly dose of ivermectin (18 mg) for covid prevention and a probiotic yogurt daily because I think it kills off good gut bacteria a bit.
I might give you some recommends for breast cancer supplements and maybe do a little research on ivermectin and fenbendizole on breast cancer. They have definitely used ivermectin with success on breast cancer. Ive researched ivermectin pretty thoroughly for safety and covid, but not really breast cancer. Its a pretty safe drug. It might be helpful to know what type of breast cancer she has if she knows.
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[ - ] fightknightHERO 3 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 01:59:32 ago (+3/-0)
It cuts blood sugar by 33% (tested on my mother)
As for blood pressure, there are a ton of supplements that help with that
As for cancer... If the parasitepilled PDF is correct then a strong anti-viral anti-parasite wormwood extract should get the job done
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It was on hooktube but the youtube vid got shoah'd.
With that in consideration, in conjunction with that parasite pill pdf, I believe that they both point to the same root cause. Just with varied treatment options.
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Sorry to hear OP, I just lost a friend this morning from cancer, who spent the last month in palliative care.
Laser therapy, chemo, just look at all the options.
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about his diabetes
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My dad had cancer and was an alcoholic. They gave him chemo that destroyed his liver and he spent the remainder of his days on dialysis. Once the liver was destroyed they put him on a different chemo because that other one is known for causing liver damage. Oopsie poopsie, guess they just didn't know alcoholics have weak livers.
Ask a lot of questions about side effects as soon as they say what they plan to use. Remember that at the end of the day YOU decide what treatment you get. The doctors prescriptions and treatment plan are suggestions.
Consider going to the cancer treatment centers, or at least research the oncology results of the hospital you are going to. They all claim to be great cancer treatment hospitals, they are not.
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[ - ] GrayDragon 2 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 01:39:11 ago (+2/-0)
Anyway, my relatively worthless advice is to keep reaching out to your dad on occasion and definitely keep trying to help your mom, but do NOT overwhelm yourself. Basically, it is a balance. You still have your life to live.
And while doctors are morons and compromised, don't trust medical advice from other morons on the Internet. Maybe if they have first-hand experience with something being cured by some "miracle bullshit method," but I would be wary of even that.
Godspeed.
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[ - ] MasterAce 3 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 01:16:38 ago (+3/-0)
However I also wonder about unconditional love.
I think ultimately love is not tough.by definition it is love.
So then if you love something do you care for and nurture it or do you just put it outside when it becomes bothersome?
I don’t have the answer like I said I just wonder.
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[ - ] PostWallHelena 2 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 01:32:42 ago (+2/-0)
There isn’t. Its what family members tell themselves when they can’t afford to give a shit anymore.
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I’d maybe put afford/care to.
Ultimately I’d say I agree.
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You can get caps off amazon and they're cheap, can't hurt.
Try this
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If you’re going to advise them try and not say things like “you should do this” and instead say “what I would do is this”.
Or “can I help you do this”.
Wish I could offer you a cure.
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[ - ] oldblo 1 point 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 00:40:26 ago (+1/-0)
Such as fruit known as graviola, also known as soursop fruit, guanabana, or guyabano.
Do things like mulberries really help? Who knows?
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As for your mom,Ivermectin has been rumored to have anti-cancer properties and should be safe to use. But in the end,the hardest part of all of this is you have to accept there's somethings you can't change. But always keep an eye out for what you can.
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[ - ] Cunt 0 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 09:52:40 ago (+0/-0)
As for your mother, slice and dice doctors are the best kind, so it’s promising she got some cut out.
Try and get her to not do chemo or radiation, as they kill way more people than cancer does, and faster and more miserably.
I have heard vitamin D is very good for cancer, obviously get as much of the free kind as possible and supplement with an organic, food based vitamin D supplement also.
Get her to eat foods rich in antioxidants. And as clean, organic and raw diet as possible.
Vitamin C is good for every type of ailment in my opinion, and there seems to be no overdose level.
Keeping hydrated is also very important for general health and a RO filter would be an excellent addition to her heath plan.
Others have mentioned fasting and apricot seeds which I think are worth looking in to too.
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[ - ] Cunt 0 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 18:10:05 ago (+0/-0)
You can buy special cool caps (like a swimming cap but cooling or just use an ice pack) and the cold on the head has been shown to reduce hair loss a lot but I wouldn’t mention it unless you can’t convince her not to do chemo as knowing that might push her toward it.
Lol
I hope it all goes well, sounds like you really like your parents. Focus on what you can change.
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[ - ] Had 0 points 3.7 yearsOct 14, 2021 09:01:15 ago (+0/-0)
Vitamin b17.
Chemo is an attempt to do what b17 does naturally. Eat 2 apricot seeds 5x daily for a few months. It will not harm you. I've been taking smaller doses for weeks with no side effects as a prophylaxis. Anecdotal evidence is how our ancestors figured shit out. People are too interested in the "why" of everything these days, and sometimes just knowing it works should be enough. There no money in a cheap cure, so there's no studies in the shit that actually works.
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